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Heroclitus:
Then I'd have to urge/plead with her to starting using

In all honesty, I wouldn't consider marrying a lady who wouldn't use

Heroclitus:
I can't date a lady that doesn't use nail Polish especially on her toes

Millenniumlady:
Can't date a broke guy

LedRock:
She made a decision she should not blame anyone as long as she was not forced then she was not used, she was just stupid.

ufotty2001:
If I see people like you saying that money is not everything, it make me to laugh and keep on laughing!!!!... Am sorry to say this, people like you are part of those that say " Wealth is vanity upon Vanity".. before I proceed do you know that 75% of broken home we have today can be resolved assuming the husband has money or he is wealthy...
In today's world alot of Nigeria girls (you are not excluded) have lose their value because of money.
I laugh in my native laugh when u said that money doesn't make up a good family!!! People like u are decievers....

ufotty2001:
You failed to answer the question correctly and again your answer was filled of biasness and selective dishonesty among men. Firstly, alot of girls are used as a sex machine mostly because of there love for money.. I have seen alot of girls stay with a man because what they benefit from the guy...
As a guy if you are a free giver sex will never become a problem to you.. you can keep a woman in your house for years as far as you meet up with her demand...

IamSoProlific:
A very very big mistake, I wholly admit and accept I messed up.....TBT I need a carful means to eject her, ridding off bad blood.

dingbang:
Cut off water supply, electricity and food..

Thank me later.

Adesamogun:
You will pay for this advise ooo... Meet a Soldier or Police Officer. Plan for them to come and arrest you. Let them get you both to the barracks or Station. Let them detain you. You can from there go and stay with you friend. Let them lie that you are a thief or arm robber and if she doesn't go back to her place kind of they will shoot her with you... you give the police/Soldier some money to give her but let it look like na them give her for her to disappear so they don't kill her. Let them ensure she goes home to pack her belonging and let them lock the door. Stay away for like 1 week and let them help you monitor am so that she get to asaba or her location. Then you can come back to your house. Sort yourself out with your simply and others if you don't want her call you.. well if this work... You can change your apartment as well

IamSoProlific:
Hello beloveths, please I will be very brief and straight to the point on this one.

There's this girl I started dating around August 30th last year, it was a distance relationship, we got along so well on phone, she appeared different, smart, brilliant, industrious and what have you when it comes to what a virtuous woman and one that knows what she wants at that. I totally thought she was the one for me, little did I know she's just the regular average girl hovering around pretentiously looking for whom to leech on.

Fast forward July this year, she relocated to my place with the hope of staying with me, I did it on purpose so I can watch her closely and we can plan on settling down because I planned on concluding the marital necessities with her by December.


When she came to stay with me, I noticed she was just the opposite of all she claimed to be while we spoke on phone, she played me, she gets Violently angered at every provocation and ready to fight, she just sleeps, eat, watch Tv and spend all her life on social media (Instagram,Facebook and WhatsApp), she has absolutely nothing to offer- not in any way to my life. I've already called the marriage quit in my head. She has anger issues, always feel attacked and ready for a fight....I have tried to change her, even took her to a therapist, but all to no avail, settling down with her would definitely end in doom.

Long story short, inasmuch as not to waste each other' s time, please house, how do I make her leave my house, I'm currently staying in Lagos, she came from Asaba to come live with me and this is her first time in Lagos, and she's not ready to leave, to her she's already my wife and not ready to go anywhere, I've tried to talk about her leaving, but she literally refused saying she can't just go back and that she gave up a lot to come stay with me( I really wonder what she gave up) I've stopped touching her long ago.

Moreso, the girl in question is dangerous, revengeful and very tricky (claiming to be smart), she once told me she's trying to figure out how to hurt her ex because he double dated, which made her to leave.

The case now made me understand sense needs to be applied so well while dealing with her. She always say she can never allow me to leave her, not while she's alive...

House please help me in the best strategy to make her leave my house without any violence or bad energy before the end of next month, I just can't contain her any more....

LedRock:
How can men use women for sex when they are both contributing their sexual organ?

ufotty2001:
really
Look up ppl who've won big money even they say money makes U happy at first but it doesn't really change anything in your life to make U happier other than material wise n after the initial happiness everything else still feels the same.
Not all women would choose money or use men. Yeah there are women who are decietful, conniving, scheming n will use men to achieve things but there's men like that too yeah. Those who use women.
Those kind usually use women for sex n those women use men for money or other things they want.
But there's good women out here n alot of guys on here dnt seem to believe that. Surely their mothers were good women n their sisters are good women? Or is it just their relatives that are decent women lol. Their logic is confusing

Theslumflower:
I've seen ladies:

1. Borrow money to give their hustling boyfriend because of love
2. Sleep with richer men to make sure their boyfriend get that one strong deal that will change his life because of love
3. Go against their parents rules just to be with a guy because of love
4. Take oaths with a guy just to prove love
5. Leave a wealthy suitor just to be with their broke boyfriend in the name of love. Etc.


You will never see women brag about these things. But guys will always play the victim and the "no money no love" card on women. Y'all should use this time you waste on wailing and actually pray for a good woman.

lexy2014:
If death is d objective, y would a person who is committing suicide be bothered about dignity in death? Is committing suicide dignifying? If d person wanted dignity, y commit suicide? Don't u no it is an abomination in some cultures? So taking his clothes or not doesn't determine dignity or otherwise in death. To commit suicide is already a crazy act. Taking clothes off isn't more crazy than that.

Earlier u said:

"Well if I planned to commit suicide I wouldn't wear a mask cos I don't see the point in needing it n I'd rather die more comfortable without a mask on."

No one said u are suicidal. Ur comment above is u speaking for yourself in a suicidal position which isn't universal except u are saying that u suicidal. To even be speaking of "comfort" in suicide is ludicrous. What has comfort got to do with suicide? I have seen a woman throw herself from a high rise building to her death. Where is d comfort in that?

Is corona virus suicide? Can it kill as fast as suicide does? Is there any research which shows that wearing a face mask during corona virus isn't consistent with suicide?

Since u say u are being curious, then I believe that my comments & questions should further arouse ur curiosity

WoundedLamb:
Haha... the bro was feeling rugged that day.

ufotty2001:
Why will I follow you. What value will you add to me. Anyway, it was mistakenly clicked on not intentionally.. I wish I know how to unfollow you...
Look at someone that said that she is new to nairaland knows all the clicks and every angle of every pages.. as far as am concern, you have an old account and this new account was created to mislead people.. keep on Deceiving yourself!!!

lexy2014:
Does suicide make sense?

lexy2014:
First of all, u are speaking for yourself except u are telling me that u are suicidal. Second, u are assuming to no what was in d guys mind when u had already acknowledged that u cant get into d head of a person that commits suicide to find a justification for y they take their own lives. Third, u could have as well said since putting on a mask is inconsistent with committing suicide, putting on clothes is also inconsistent with committing suicide

ufotty2001:
Why will I follow you. What value will you add to me. Anyway, it was mistakenly clicked on not intentionally.. I wish I know how to unfollow you...
Look at someone that said that she is new to nairaland knows all the clicks and every angle of every pages.. as far as am concern, you have an old account and this new account was created to mislead people.. keep on Deceiving yourself!!!

emkz:
I was in a relationship and work required that we had to be apart for three months. I like sex, but I chose not to indulge my likeness. But madam was collecting every week and fighting me on top. I didn't feel played, I saw her for her worth and she irritates me till this day. I could not even keep her as a sex friend. Everyone can do without sex. Any one that tells you he can't is a liar. Like you said, its a matter of priorities and respect for oneself and your partner.

One truth we must all confront is that after death, there is no more sex. What is our excuse? Cheating has nothing to do with sex, it is just the belief that one can do it and get away with it. Prove to them that they can't by dumping them.

lexy2014:
It still doesn't explain how nose covering indicates an unwillingness to commit suicide. Does committing suicide make sense in d first place?

lexy2014:
Can u actually get into d head of a person that commits suicide to find a justification for y they take their own lives?

MrBrownJay1:
It's the Nigerian hypocrisy again.... Parents would allow their son to go abroad fukc some other woman, but as soon as 9ja wife stand for her marriage (or God forbids, cheats), they will quickly look down on wifey. Lol!

See all of them claiming arrant nonsense on this thread.





Some people can go without sex and others CANT. that's the hard reality of life...just like some can go without money while others CANT. The minute anyone believes that EVERYONE can/should go without sex, that's when you have lost the plot on this issue.
The woman in this issue CANNOT go years without sex, and that's the reality, don't blame men for fukcing that sexually miserable woman, blame the foolish husband who abandoned her.

ufotty2001:
Keep on acting like a saint and be decieving people. No wonder you register a new moniker in nairaland here to clean up your past life... I have met people like you before...!!! I bet you! what you are saying is fake and misleading.. just to lieu the innocent guys in... If you are genuine, reply me with your old account.. nairaland.

fabulous85:
definitely, after the one night stands, numerous sex partners, people like you will then realise you want to abstain and then an unlucky guy will feel he has found gold.

ufotty2001:
I don't blame people like you.. I blame guys that make people like you look valuable.. running your mouth like a bug of pig that was thrown inside the ocean..

larryking540:
really ,I hardly get Influenced ,I don't kw if I have been in this life before ,so I don't get freaked by sociality material

lexy2014:
How does putting on a nose cover indicate an unwillingness to commit suicide? Is corona suicide? How long does corona take to kill and how long does it take to commit suicide?

lexy2014:
How does putting on a nose cover indicate an unwillingness to commit suicide? Is corona suicide? How long does corona take to kill and how long does it take to commit suicide?

Ginomel:
Let's just say you are doing it for yourself and your belief.

But simply know that your partner might have his own belief and coded actions too. Simple truth.

ufotty2001:
I don't blame people like you.. I blame guys that make people like you look valuable.. running your mouth like a bug of pig that was thrown inside the ocean..

Peacefullove:
Sure. i know
Just that u women love attention, which can be a weakness, one Guy shower u with attention during those periods.... and anything can happen.