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[quote author=Atheist:-D]Yeah but you could say that about most races.

Maybe fake bible thumpers are their key trait here.[/quote]So your original post where you said African men are better than other men in all areas is fake as well?

If it apply to one...it should apply to all. So the bottom line is there is no nationality of men better than the next. However...Black men are on the bottom of the totem pole unfortunately.

[quote author=Atheist:-D]Have you actually experienced it? I think they do however.[/quote]No....I have never married a white man but my friends/associates have and they are happy.

kokoye: Never trust a big butt and a smile

juicy butt!!

queensmith: lol- it makes sense. Even with plain thinking, ever since I heard Oprah discovered she was from a royal family in Nigeria I was suspicious. No1, did they test all the remaining families in Nigeria and just happen to stumble across the one that just happens to be related to Oprah Winfrey? Smelly Fish,

no2, there is no 'black gene' talkless of 'african gene' talkless of 'nigerian gene' or 'yoruba gene' so I've been wondering how on earth they come up with their conclusions, what areas are they mapping? are they just doing random comparisons? will that not make everybody related to everybody?

That to one side, lets even imagine they have a database of every single family and tribe in africa + there is confirmed existence of a 'black' or 'nigerian' or even 'yoruba gene'. African Americans have been there African Americans have existed for over 400 years now. It's safe to assume cultural ties have probably been broken for a 3rd of it and there has been interbreeding with both the whites and between people from different parts of subsaharan africa. How can a descendant of this now come out 100% yoruba? It's bloody senseless!!

It was said that she was of Liberian descent.

queensmith: Has anybody studied genetics can they explain how this thing works to me? I hate to be such a skeptic but it sounds too much like a scam, how is someone going to know where they are from through dna? Especially since its highly unlikey the generations before that person didn't breed with people of like origin.

I agree with that...DNA testing without the source is a bit suspect to me but hey! I have no interest in purchasing any testing of any kind to affirm anything.

It won't change the rate of HIV/AIDS nor it won't change the price of garri! My husband been complaining for the last couple of weeks with the pricing because he orders it directly from Africa.

[quote author=tpia@]your mama[/quote]

I had to laughed on this one.

kokoye: Low Pro Ho

....cut like an Afro.....

Only you would know the game well.

I hope your boyfriend doesn't turn out like a dead beat Negro.

Good luck.

dayokanu: Do you consider those who kneel to propose as fools also?

Yup!

I am 100 percent against useless traditions.

r231: True

You stood me up.

Metalgoong: @Poster

Are you not the same woman who wants her friend to divorce her husband because her husband insisted to send their child to Nigeria? Based on what you wrote on that thread, I can remember the evil role you were playing in that family's marital problem . . . Are you not the same woman who wrote on the same thread how American men/husbands are better and more flexible than Nigerian men? . . Well, my advice for you is to go kiss a high voltage transformer, or better still hang on to your American husband.

Evil woman!

[size=44pt]Another statement of the century![/size]

What the Bleep does the nationality of the man have to do with filth and demonic If we are going to stereotype someone let say that she picked the lesser of two evils.....but I am not going to go there because it would surely set some shit off!

She would have been much better being alone if she had to two between bullshit one and bullshit two.

gentlegg: Well you guys are entitled to your opinion, but as far as am concerned, NO MARRIAGE IS IRREPARABLE. Believe it or not, Divorce is not a solution to any marital problem.

[size=33pt]The fucking statement of the century![/size]!

I guess it is easy for a woman to trust a motherfucca that gave her the deadly disease and live happily ever after! Wow! I feel sorry for ANY CHICK that settle for a mentality like that!

Omo Alata: But he IS an African. All black people originated from Africa

White and Asian people too.

[quote author=Flygerian.]All countries got the aforementioned above.[/quote]Duh! But he was talking about African men.

From what I have heard from around here and there....White men makes the best husbands/boyfriends in relationships.

kokoye: Low Pro Ho

If I am that then you are a broke love-vendor.

Well Muslims are used to kneeling so it is not difficult for them.

r231: in what way

The cake part or the world part?

This video looks like it stank! I bet that living room smell like pure D funk. But these kids were twerking....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=endscreen&NR=1&v=6P_JEx2TrUw

r231: how about WOMEN

you think its only MEN abi

Women as well...but men take the cake.

After all this is the man's world right?

pslm23: Thank you all for your kind words and encouragement. This is indeed a road i never thought i'd walk! When i said "I Do" to him, i fully intended to stay married forever. What this has taught me though is that we as humans might have our own pre-conceived ideas on how we want our lives to turn out but in the long run,God has the ultimate say so!

I will not entirely lay the blame on him because yes, this IVF thing really took its toll on me but that does not warrant what he did, how he did it, putting me, my health and everything i have ever worked for at such great risk. Not knowing if i was going to be told i had contracted some horrible disease that will kill me and to cap it all, he was unapologetic. The ultimate betrayal is telling your wife, that you intentionally took that male birth control measure because you never really wanted any more children cos you have grown children from your first marriage! All these years of IUI, IVF and trying to be a mommy, and it took catching him with a street walker for the truth to come out! I thought i had a happy fulfilled marriage that was only lacking one thing, a child!
This is why i asked, how do i learn to breathe again in a normal way? how can i remove this heaviness from my heart? How will i ever trust anybody again, man or woman!
I am still in therapy, i have travelled to be with my sister and her kids, but the pain is still there. I loved that man with all my heart! I really did! One day, i will stand strong again but i doubt if i ever will love again like i did!
God bless you all for your responses!

I wish I knew your thread at the beginning because I would have been able to assist in with the medical aspect of conceiving a child. It is unfortunate and the love was one sided. You can't help who you fall in love with but you can choose who will have the pleasant of knowing you.

Continue to pray and allow time to heal you.

sigmundfreud: Well...i am against divorce but i av seen instances, such as this case, where i cannot take a hard stand.
There is no point in a marriage based on deceit of this magnitude!

Exactly! She didn't divorce him because he gained five pounds or he farted in the car. She is at health risk because of his fucking inability to use a condom!

This goes to all these cheaters that think it is okay to bring home a disease simply because you are lazy to think about the partner whom you will infect. When people say that partners shouldn't deny their spouses intimacy and when they are obedient they are infected with diseases that will haunt them for the rest of their lives....there are reasons why people should listen to logic before trying to appease the community by being a good wife/husband.

PROTECT YOURSELF AT ALL COSTS because HIV/AIDS and STDS are real!!!!

freecocoa: OP its a pity that you have to go through so much pain but stay strong, you will be alright again.

Damn why are some men so mean?its really frightening, where are all the good men? I'm so heartbroken right now.

It is sad huh...even my mean ads can't even take this lightly. This is sad.

This is the iVF link....

https://www.nairaland.com/773873/anyone-trying-ivf-iui-icsi

pslm23: Thank you all for your kind words and encouragement. This is indeed a road i never thought i'd walk! When i said "I Do" to him, i fully intended to stay married forever. What this has taught me though is that we as humans might have our own pre-conceived ideas on how we want our lives to turn out but in the long run,God has the ultimate say so!

I will not entirely lay the blame on him because yes, this IVF thing really took its toll on me but that does not warrant what he did, how he did it, putting me, my health and everything i have ever worked for at such great risk. Not knowing if i was going to be told i had contracted some horrible disease that will kill me and to cap it all, he was unapologetic. The ultimate betrayal is telling your wife, that you intentionally took that male birth control measure because you never really wanted any more children cos you have grown children from your first marriage! All these years of IUI, IVF and trying to be a mommy, and it took catching him with a street walker for the truth to come out! I thought i had a happy fulfilled marriage that was only lacking one thing, a child!
This is why i asked, how do i learn to breathe again in a normal way? how can i remove this heaviness from my heart? How will i ever trust anybody again, man or woman!
I am still in therapy, i have travelled to be with my sister and her kids, but the pain is still there. I loved that man with all my heart! I really did! One day, i will stand strong again but i doubt if i ever will love again like i did!
God bless you all for your responses!

You are indeed a strong woman. You didn't deserve what you received and i wouldn't even wish that on my enemies (intentionally).

gentlegg: Sorry dear, it's unfortunate you've already missed the best advice i have for you; DO NOT DIVORCE.

People think that divorce is solution to marital problems, but i swear, Divorce is a greater problem itself than your marital problem. If you can't endure your 1st love, honestly I doubt if you can endure your 2nd love.

Are you fucking serious?!!! Why the Bleep do you think people divorce in the first place When have you known two completely happy couple divorcing each other!!!

Staying in a troubled marriage is not going to change what has already been damaged! Even if she didn't divorce him then what? The issue STILL REMAIN and how can you expect someone to stay in a relationship where they have to get tested every six months because their partner can't keep their legs closed or dick in the pants

Let keep it real...either would you stay in such relationship.