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kokoye: but you said no!

It wasn't me!

AmBeautiful: WHITE MEN ARE ROMANTIC /AFRICAN MAN NA SOLIDER, NO ATOM OF ROMANCE IN THEM

WHITE MEN ARE HUMBLE AND FLEXIBLE / AFRICAN MAN ARE EGOISTIC AND FILLED WITH PRIDE

WHITE MEN ARE GIVERS (MOST) / AFRICAN MEN ARE SUPER GLUE, ALWAYS MOANING AND GROANING ABOUT SPENDING

WHITE MEN DO PARTNERSHIPS IN MARRIAGES,THE PARENTS KIDS AND ALL, WORK TOGETHER, THEY ARE SO FLEXIBLE ABOUT MARRIAGE , AFRICAN MAN (IN SOME CASES)' I AM THE HEAD', NO PARTNERSHIPS, SOMETIMES AFRICAN MARRIAGES ARE LIKE TWO SETS TENANTS

Richfella: Lol, This is the funniest over-generalization I've ever seen on NL. Hilarious though.

Some people are good at being in denial.

kokoye: Never trust a big juicy butt who can make pretty babies!

#babymamachildsupport

A wife can't be a baby momma and take care of your children there won't be any child support.

AmBeautiful: Ma'am it is very important to answer calls by the second ring.
If you miss somebody's call, its also important to return the call.

it speaks alot about the kind of person you are

And if you dont want people calling you, then keep your number to 'yaself'

xcitedjay: Usually Ladies ignore their phones when they're in bed with someone else.

I ignored it and I was on the toilet.

neliaperez01: "Firewoodish" ?

He is saying why do you suck in bed?

vislabraye: Shrink Chima. Tell us ya experience nah.

You want to know my experience with my husband or Naija men?

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Why were you so "firewoodish" on bed?
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Hey suga. Represent Naija boy!

sunshine70: Mrs..Chima Im a quite well educated nurse in Sweden.Maybe not spelling everything comepletly right...But I can say that Im not fat,ugly or old.Have goodlooking friends that are married to Naija men.What I cant understand is why you think we are stupid,old or ugly.

Sunshine...you need to read my post again. I think you drunk too much Nyquil and grabbed whatever name you saw on the thread.


Let me help you....[quote author=Mrs..Chima]Good luck. Let us know when you catch a White woman and gets married. I like a happy ending. [/quote]You want to edit your comment?

vicoloni: The placenta of all my children were handed over to me after their births and I keep wondering why. I personally consider it a waste product which should be disposed off by the hospital but I guess there is a superstition surrounding placenta. Kindly share your thoughts.

Because they wanted you to eat it.

On the serious...there is no reason. Maybe you were closest to hand off because they were trying to take care of the mother and baby. Usually when the father or coach is in the birthing room...they are "the assistant" so therefore you were handed the placenta to discharge unless you needed it for your upcoming science project.

No big deal.

[quote author=T_Bademosi]Ofcourse its meant to be that of partnership. But u wud agree with me that a man is always the head of his own home. Well, I was only distinguishing, what are your own differences between an African man & a white man in rrelationships?.[/quote]Even in all partnered businesses...there are always a "head". Partnership she is speaking of regards to the husband and the wife working together to ensure that both are given equal responsibilities and their opinions/voics are heard. A head of a family is the same way of business that they represent the group of which they are head of. It is not wise for the "head" to make decisions that can affect the family without at least hearing the voices of the family especially the wife.

The wife is the neck/supporter of the family and to ensure she is not abandoned in thoughts and feelings...a decent/good head will include the wife's in the decisions and work out an answer that is suitable for the family. That is how the head gain respect and admiration from those he/she heads.

If the man is unable to head the family...then he can't be the head of the household....the head of household has to en active leader and representation of the group which he/she leads. A comatose or injured head can't fulfill the duties of the head therefore the next person....the spouse have assume the roll. That's the prime example of rotating partnership. When one is down the other steps up.

Many successful marriages I have personal knowledge of...are in mutual partnerships. A man can't do everything neither can a woman when it come to marriage. A woman will soon feel burned out being the "supporter" and want to stap outside of the home to engage in action and the husband will soon feel like he is the "bank" and constantly have to pull harder to achieve a higher status which would definitely send him to his grave.

The adage...married men dies faster than single men is true, but the correct adage should be...untrained married men dies faster than single men. If they do not understand the sanctions of marriage their house is divided. A divided house never stand firm for an unwavering partnership is the key.

The only different between an African man and White man in relationship is the melanin and environment.

vivian chinaza: Babe you met the wrong Nigerian man! Take a flight to Nigeria and ur life will never remain the life!

There is no such thing as a "wrong" Nigerian man. She met a man that wasn't compatible to her or wasn't willing to learn her pleasures with insecurities.

She can meet another Nigerian man and encounter a different issue. If she can find a perfect Nigerian man then I will personally suck every male toe in Nigeria.

neliaperez01: I resently started a relationship with a Nigerian who seemed to be very confident at first, but once the relationship got intimate i started noticing such insecurities in him. i reasure him sometimes but i dont want to play Dr Ruth in this relationship. I see so many of them brag on this forum about how good they are in bed and quite frankly i think they need to know that women prefer to make love not have sex. So to me Nigerian men need some lessons in Bed.

Child...any man that brags about how "well" he is in bed....you need to skip town. A Nigerian male chatter said that is one of the trait of Nigerian men that they must brag to feel important...but I have stated why not brag about something important as finding cure to AIDS or developing a water purification system that would reduce the amount of typhoid in the water.

Being a performer of sex is not an achievement. But hey!

It is up to you to teach your man how to please you. What most men failed to realize is that what worked for the last chick may or may not work for you. Some men need to learn how to customize their performance base on the chick and not experience.

It is not surprising that you said he is insecure though.

MsDarkSkin: im definitely going to fav. that one and subscribe to that brother.

the part where he talked about Islam and the drugg trade...man this shyt is DEEP!

Your arse gon get enough subscribing to folks! He is gon be at your door talking about drop it like it hot.

MsDarkSkin: you didnt watch the video.

clearly.

Let me watch the video and not read the title. GIve me a minute.

I watched it...and he is basically saying what I am saying. But....i hear him.

LMAO@Black Empire.

Look at the Blacks killing each other over some Air Jordans.
Look at the Blacks killing each other over who "pure" and who is not.
Look at the Blacks blowing each other up in Africa because they don't like the religion one practices.
Look at the Black men in USA/UK sitting in jail because they are..............
Look at the Black men scamming innocent White/Asian/Black because they want spinners on their rims and the newest Blackberry.

Yeah...Black Empire is coming to the nearest pitfall near you.

Watch the men gon use the video for their masturbation purposes...they already complaining Nigerian women ain't got no arse!

MsDarkSkin: lol chima i see what you mean!

the chick in the gray pants killed it...too much azz lol but she did.

the one in the yellow...well at least she is proud of her pot belly.

She was trying to twerk it so I gave her D- for effort.

IVF is a tricky thing and my hat goes off to those would can endure such hardship. I do hope that you all receive positive results however strongly encourage those to give adoption a chance. There are millions of babies/children in the world without mothers/fathers that would appreciate a love from someone that is caring and stable.

I know adoption is taboo with Africans but some of us are made to have children and some of us are made to receive children. Just because a person has a baby doesn't mean that the baby is right for them.

Just thought to share that because adoption is always the last resort for most families.

TerryCarr: in some parts of America they say you look Haitian if your dark

Exactly. They say my husband don't look African simply because he doesn't have tribal marks.

What did they expect him to swing from the trees shouting gorilla chants

Blyss: LOL, ok you girls are a trip. Why even attempt to deny the obvious?

you

You are a fool and dense as hell. What is a typical "African" look? I am being serious because you can't be this fucking dense to say that you can tell someone is African by simply looking at them.

Africa is a continent that has over 30 countries and five regions. You can say that the person look like this tribe and that tribe simply by many factors not looks alone.

When you say "African"...I am like wtf are you talking about? That's just like someone saying Michelle Cho looks American and she is from Korea.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Anyone who takes Mrs Chima seriously is on a very long thing[/quote]Take me serious Simply because I said some of my friends/associates are in happy marriages with White men

Sound like jealousy to me.

Ghanaians I know do not speak negatively about Nigerians in fact they are peaceful and they are more focused on providing and protecting their families than worrying about what Nigerians are doing.

Few of them have family members who are Ghanaian and Nigerian.

I didn't know Africans had a specific look.

A nose look like a nose.
A foot look like a foot.
A teeth look like a teeth.
A dick look like a dick.
A finger look like a finger.

I have heard Africans and non-Africans say some of the most ignorant shit.

Gabby do not look Igbo in comparison to full Igbo people I have seen.


Why do some people want to label everybody black as Yoruba or Igbo There are hundreds of tribes in the world!

MsDarkSkin: yeah lol this whole time she spent BUKU money and time in south africa,
convinced that was her homeland. I heard she was disappointed when her results read "Liberia".

LMAO. Nothing against Liberia but she have raved about South Africa and how she felt a connection to Nelson Mandela. I think she did a special several years ago about the prison he spent many years in and actually visited it.

I don't know what her fascination with South Africa but she sure do love her some South Africa though!

MsDarkSkin: oh sharrap there and take the blasted test!

or you aint invited to my tree house!!

Uh Sis...you know u can't do a DNA test on a weave right? And no I don't want a glass of water! You think you slick!

kokoye: Never trust a big juicy butt!!

Who can make pretty babies.