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[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=564329.msg7309478#msg7309478 date=1291994509]Tpia,

I have learned in my stay in Nairaland, if a person DOESN'T LIKE YOU then any thread you post regardless if it positive or negative, THEY WILL SPEND THEIR FREE TIME letting you know that they do not like you instead of having an intellectual debate which some lack the skills, they do what they can to derail the thread,

Which sad when the person is old enough to be your great grand father or mother acting younger than you! [/quote]Kamni read this thread and you will understand why 190 and the likes of him do what they do,

Basildon1:
This seems like speaking untruths just to score brownie points with the females. Fat guys,fat chicks have more difficulties in the dating game (FACT). Inner beauty aside, you are more likely to hold on tighter to a hot looking partner.

It is not a crime to be fat but let's accept the truth,your choices are limited. Nothing good comes easy, we would all love to stuff our faces 24/7 but we dont and if you do there's a price to pay.

Not saying being slim helps but at least you get to pick your poison. U have admit Halle Berry did have an excellent choice in 'poisons'.

You know damn well you lying because I SEE FAT WHITE CHICKS WITH men that look like you! What you talking about? Fat chicks have a harder time getting dates? Are you serious? I must be blind because I know damn well I see them big precious looking chicks with skinny NIGERIAN MEN.

You prolly one of them with yo lying arse! You know damn well you got one of them fat white chick sitting on your lap right now!

jay bee:
I love me some meat on the bone.
Something along the line of lamd shank will do it for me. hehehehehhehehe

190:
[color=DEEPPINK]^^

DEATH,

PLEASE TELL HER

SPREAD THE WORD

SHES OUT TO DESTROY HOMES!! [/color]

I see the hitman didn't catch the furries! I am going to call the Better Business Bureau! This shit got to stop!

No, I wouldn't.  I values my freedom too much and I like being able to dictate with a vagina.  

kanmi22:
For the first time in history, i actually read d whole thred, LOL

Okay, what else can i say? i think i kinda agree with mrsEVE  overrall but unfortunately i am not that of a strong woman yet (i wish i was)! i think we all choose to be in what relationship or mariage we are cuz my parents always tell me "its not by force".

I am one of the woman out there that believes a man is more superior than a woman regardless of his status (rich, poor, tall, short, whit, black) i care less of those features. My man is one of the typical AFRICAN man that regardless of the situation, he is the man and deserves more d respect.

i would have love to join MrsEVE but if i wanna keep my man, joor i cant cuz i know i am out the next day, the problem is not that i cant live life w/o him but i have chosen to be with the right man (which he is).

Overrall, i am jealous of mzdarkskin and mseve contribution and strong stand and i wish i could join the line, but hey i cant.

Omotodun try too but hahahah the ladies rule that poo! Niggas sowwy! joor o!

And by d way my fiance is not tall and i still c him as d MAN. Short niggas are good, maybe u should try one, lol

Hey Kanmi!

Glad you actually read the entire thread! I be guilty of that too! I just don't read random gibberish for I don't even listen to random gibberish. Sometimes a thread be meaty and I will actually read the entire thread but so far it been a few. Sad.

I understand that you can't live without your man most women can't which is sad because women will put up with anything just to say they have a man. But, don't get it twisted because if you have a good man and he is treating you like a Queen why would you leave? The letter was better letting women who are running behind a nigga that don't want them or respect them. Women who sleeping with husbands that are not theirs and thinking they are "better" than the wife. To me in hindsight thinking like a man, ALL PUSSY IS THE SAME only the different is the stench.

I am married to an African man and he is the typical African man, but he also respect me as a woman and I respect him as a man. We do not have issues because we know our boundaries and stances. If you do not have respect or understanding NO MARRIAGES or RELATIONSHIPS will survive.

There is nothing wrong with be strong and married or dating! It about knowing your worth and knowing that you deserve. Nothing less!

MRbrownJAY:
do you think so?! its actually a great point to show that the poster blamed the misery of these two rather large ladies on their weight while it "probably" has absolutely nothing to do with it. . . . . . . .  who is to say that their boyfriends wasnt as "heavy" as they were, to begin with?

some men out there love heavy women because thats what they are attracted to (no other reason), therefore the same way that skinny people will be dumped, is what heavier people should expect.

thinking that fat women are single because of their weight is a big fat lie that would have them waste their life savings on diet products etc while the problem is elsewhere!

as for Halle berry and her track record, i rest my case!

Well, since you so eloquently illustrated that particular point I will respectfully digress!  

don't get use to it

I just thought it was a bit harsh whoever created the image and wording but it is the truth! So I can't get mad at that, I rather for a person to be real than to be sugarcoating the truth,

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Its uncommon yes. I like giving him gifts. I'm not much for 'celebrated' days. I prefer to give on normal days
Even if it's my birthday. . .i tend to just let him have something for himself instead[/color]

You nassy Iice!

That was cruel Mr. Jaybrown!

Poster,

There is a thread (Gifts and Relationships) similar to what you saying, just know MEN ON THIS site doesn't like it when women ask for gifts they can't afford! A man will not return a gift if it was given to him regardless of the season unless he doesn't like the gift!

tpia1:
^^ he didnt need to say that, moreso the thread isnt even a male bashing thread hence my surprise at the level of animosity.

confrontation isnt always avoidable but certain things are flashpoints and didnt need to be brought up in this particular context.

if he posted the comment on one of the numerous AA vs CA threads where everyone is cursing each other out, that's different.

slavery wasnt limited to the western world anyway- quite a lot of africans are also descended from slaves who werent shipped overseas.

Tpia,

I have learned in my stay in Nairaland, if a person DOESN'T LIKE YOU then any thread you post regardless if it positive or negative, THEY WILL SPEND THEIR FREE TIME letting you know that they do not like you instead of having an intellectual debate which some lack the skills, they do what they can to derail the thread,

Which sad when the person is old enough to be your great grand father or mother acting younger than you!

MzDarkSkin:
@tpia the posts that were deleted were the most postive and I am very digusted by it.
Its not so much the woman bashing that upset me you know. He insulted myself and Ms. Eve for being descendants of slaves. But who ever "cleaned up" this thread for what ever reason or agenda still taught me a lesson, if it can be avoided, then stay away from confrontation.

Hey Mz Dark!

I wasn't offended by the nigga calling me a descendent of slaves for I am proud to be a FREE BLACK WOMAN who can chooses her own destiny, is not bound to mysognistic laws other countries placed on women treating them like second class citizen.  I am a FREE BLACK WOMAN WHO HAVE NOT ONE ONE, NOT TWO, BUT THREE DEGREES all in higher education institution.  I am not ashamed of being a FREE BLACK WOMAN who can vote, own properties, and complain without getting stone in the COUNTRY I WAS BORN IN. 

Let them call you a descendent of a slave because THEY WANT WHAT YOU HAVE, FREEDOM without corruption and if there are corruption, YOU CAN GET A FAIRER trial and justice.  Even those that calls you descendent of a slave is telling you GOT IT MADE AND EASIER,

One thing I can say for certainty, the VERY SAME SLAVES that were traded worked and fought so that people that look like you and me can have the freedom to be black and prosperous we once were. You know we had a thriving black nation before the cave vultures crusaded against us and divided us by infiltrating, THE OLDEST MILITIA TRICK in the book, DIVIDE AND CONQUER,

So again, don't be offended and flaunt being a FREE BLACK WOMAN,

jay bee:
I cleaned the thread and i apologise if i mistakenly deleted posts embedded with rich reasoning and counter arguments.

It okay, you don't like me noways,

Oh my!  Yall musta been brawling for the moderators to clean up the threads!  

Well, Tpia, I didn't see why the letter caused the boys to cry wolf and the letter basically telling women to wise up or ship out,

But sadly comprehension skills can't be bought!  Sighs!

I guess the slave thingie got too PERSONAL, maybe?  

tpia1:
http://www.gazette.net/stories/12082010/silvnew203916_32554.php

you'll soon know what's up.

That a nice article Tpia! Nice read!

He lying girl!

Why do I have a feeling that Koyoke talking about a particular Nairalander? Hmm, whatever!

Men are such liars,

(exercising vocal cords) I need A and B selection choir! (hits a High A and glasses shattering) Hmm, make that wedding in the summer!

The same person who let Furry Azes in here,

kokoye:
So . . Halle Berry aint fat but how has been been treated by men . . like a queen

No, Halle Berry is not fat nor unattractive. She is voted one of the most beautiful people in the world, but can't seems to keep a man or having men issues. I tell chicks all the time, just cos you pretty don't mean you will get a decent man all the time.

Trust me what Dsense?

MzDarkSkin:
o: @DarkCunt

Hmmmmm. That's funny, tu madre no esta aqui pendejo  

o: It is not a requirement that you write in immaculate English;

OH goody! 

o: however, you must be able to communicate your thoughts and opinions. Unfortunately, as seen from your inane and insensible comments, you lack the capability to do this.


Really? i AM pretty sure I did, it seems everyone else agrees. I find it funny though not surprising you don't. But you know how the short bus riders are.

o: I understand that Mrs.Eve is a slave, hence, she neither cannot speak proper English nor write it. I am guessing that you are not a slave, that your ancestors were born free, and that you have access to a quality education. If yes, why are you this unimaginably and irrevocably dumb?

Ok Ms. Eve doesn't have chains, she's not speaking an African dialect or referring to some white man as "massa", and I don't see any "niggers for sale" signs around her neck. Nope! No slave to me! No I am not a slave but I am proud to be a descendant of some, their sacrifices gave way to my and Ms. Eve's access to education. With our edu. combined with normal brain development which you lack we are proudly here and owe it to them. Dumb? Says the person who was so "owned" he had to come up with a paragraph of insults because he lacked a decent response to the issue at hand. We won, you failed.

o: If no, then no further comments.

You didn't say anything to begin with so be on your way!

Mz Dark,

You have to understand not everyone given the same equal education as the "white" folks or whatever thta mean so to feel superior for the lower caste a few commas and periods are thrown to feel adequately competent.

The requirements in ANY ACCREDITED universities or colleges are ADVANCED ENGLISH and Comprehension capabilities is a must. If you can not form a proper sentence in an academic setting you will not pass the associate level of course you know that.

However, this boy assumed because he borrowed his adopted brother's books and read a few chapters that he is "doing" something. A person with such educational accomplishments will not need to seek nor advertise "intellectual potential" it will however illustrated visually and without cues.

It important to not feed into those with shaking self esteems and pliable cognitive ability for you will be wasting your time.

Now back to the thread at hand,

How are you sisters doing? Feeling good? Having a great day? I hope so!

190:
[size=20pt][color=deeppink]THEN MS.EVE IS THE WOMAN FOR YOU!![/color][/size]

I see the hitman didn't find you! Damn! You Nigerians all look the same! Hey! What kind of scars or wounds do you have Furry Az? (grabbing pen and paper)

:-x

livedit:
Wow! So according to the "worlds" theory, if you are over weight, no man wants you and big women will always be cheated/mistreated.  Wow! There are models who get used and dump. Big or small. It's all about how you feel about yourself.  It's true, boys ( I can't say men because men don't behave like this) are gifted at sifting through certain "types" of women and if they are that shady of a person will use/mistreat them.  Most men are able to determine right off the back how much self esteem a woman has about herself.  Then once those "boys" pick up on their low self esteem/self worth, they move in for the kill.  Sadly, this happens to all body types and races.  This world is so corrupt and base everybody worth on a certain look as to why this planet is going to "haites".  Everyone choose to like what they like. But don't go using people. That's straight up wrong! You don't like big people, then don't try and hook up with them. Because as I've said before in a few of my posts, you mistreat a person because of how they look or how YOU think they should look. Why o why do you expect positive results in all aspects of your life.  You wondering why you struggling financially, mentally and emotionally. Why you can't find a job? Why your boy slept with your girl? Why you got sick? Why you got a disease? Why you getting used by the people who suppose to care about you? Why you don't have no real friends? Why you didn't get that promotion? Why you got robbed/beat up? Why your significant other took all your money and left you with nothing? Why you got cut off on the road? Why you wonder sometimes why nothing goes right in your life no matter how hard you try to improve things.

I just feel, you treat people is a reflection on how you really feel about yourself.  You don't have to like big women if you don't want to. It's YOUR choice. But don't treat them like they are some alien and dirt. Being overweight isn't healthy. I'm sure they are aware of that. But that don't give anybody no right to dog them or call them out their name or use them.  Who are you? As long as you are on this imperfect earth, you will always encounter "healthy" and "unhealthy" people.  That is why the bible says: love thy neighbor. It's in the 10 commandments. Instead of harping about how they look, why not try to speak something "positive" in their lives instead of negative insults. If they still choose to not change that's their choice and have to live with it, not you. You love them and pray for them and move on with your life.

Girl, they just mad because fat chicks reminds them HOW SMALL THEIR DICKS ARE, You do know the theory, the bigger the woman, the smaller the dick, (Nairaland circa 2010)

sunch:
bro, if u think u have as much as $2000. I wld suggest u fly down to lagos, u wld be like in paradise wit dem money for 3nites, i promise u.
Cos we d lasgidi crooner knws how 2catch aw trips big wit spendin less

Did you wake up the next day wondering who nyansh that was? I bet you was like what that smell and oooh this bitch ugly!

(driving through singing "The tale of the broken alcoholics")

How so Koyoke

kokoye:
^^^

 

livedit, you see why I call her crazy now?? livedit thinks we not cool

is your husband not your man 

In USA, a man is usually a man who is not married to the woman but in relationship with the woman. Yeah we cool!

Ms Dark! I am boring and square!

Yes, some females are evil.

kokoye:
^^

still not disappointed actually.

How many have you seen . . is that what your man has been telling you . ._{wait a min, how did he know}??

Actually the sisters been telling me how disappointed they are in the lack of endowment.  However, I do believe there are a few out there that are endowed.  My husband is more concern about the handling of his uhmmm friend.  Why are you calling my husband, "my man"?

Gucci shoes are ugly! 

Liveit,

IF you can laugh with your husband and everything is not a battle, THAT LOVE, love does not hurt and laughing is good.

As you can see I am a comedienne and people I MEAN PEOPLE literally asking me to perform for them and I even had agents begging to sign me on. However, some things right now are more important than being in hollywood. The money to me is not a big deal and it not important in my life. Nothing more important than my husband and our future children.

It will be a time where you will make a decision that MAY AFFECT you and your husband. Remember to put him with you at all times and you won't go wrong. Laughing is a good sign keep it up for marriage isn't always peaches and cream.