₦airaland Forum

DapoBear:
Ms Eve, I have lived in America almost all my life. I'm 25 now and have lived here since I was 4. You and I BOTH know that Nigerian men treat their women MUCH better than African American dudes. Scammers? Do Nigerian men scam their women more then AA women do? Regarding money, how many Nigerians are deadbeat? We all work hard like dogs.
And you have to be joking if you are really saying we are more physically abusive than AAs. That is a flat out lie. How many times is your Nigerian BF going to come back home at 4am drunk and high from a strip club, and then going to beat you for not putting out?

Let's keep it real here. Nigerian dudes will treat you WAYYY better than AAs will.

I forgot that you Nigerian. You misunderstood my last sentence. I said that BLACK WOMEN in the black community will TELL OTHER BLACK WOMEN not to date Nigerian men. I was giving you an example what they tell the black women in the black community that all. Of course, not all Nigerian men are scammers and THEY DO WORK HARD.

Yes, I agree MOST AFRICAN MEN tends to their children but MOST MARRIED THE MOTHER OF THEIR CHILDREN though opposed to the AA men. I love my BLACK BROTHERS, but I also LOVE MY AFRICAN BROTHERS, sometimes yall make me wanna wrap my toes around yall neck and break it in half but OTHER THAN THAT I LOVE YALL.

Now I have dated AA men and I never been mistreated by them so it really depend on who you dating and what type of man you dealing with. Now I did had one that was questionable but it wasn't nothing serious so I didnt trip. However, I also dated African men and in comparison they are more IDEAL HUSBANDS then the AA BROTHERS (no offense AA brothers)

MzDarkSkin:
*please reread my post lol i had to make changes!

Mz Dark girl!  You aint lying when we get stranded that FEMINAZI ISH IS OUT THE DOOR!  I THANKED GOD FOR MY HUSBAND when I was in Africa!  Lawd knows I was thankful!  My husband was the man all the way and I SHUTTED THE HELL UP.  I aint said nuffin let him do what a man supposed to.  I sat my arse down and made fufu like a woman I was.  

You right when we get caught up in that jungle mode, WE BE GLAD FOR THE MEN!  I was a soldier when I was in AFrica, all that damn walking and sweating!  Ooooh lawd!  Good thing I had my own damn hair in my head!  My friend had on a wig girl she sweated that wig OFF HER HEAD!  

TOO HOT TO BE WEARING A WIG IN AFRICA or too hot to be trying to be cute too!

DapoBear:
No ma'am, I have no reason to scam anyone. All I seek is love and to be loved back. I earn my own money, not looking to sponge off anyone
White women are probably less combative yes. But who says they are easier to scam? Black men certainly won't say that. Maybe black women might think it, but I dunno any black dudes who think the same way. It depends on who you ask.
I dunno, I'm not one of the black dudes complaining about that type of stuff. If a woman has a nasty attitude, I'm going to detect that quickly and stop dating her. I date all types of women (I don't care much about race, ethnicity, skin color) and the black ones I date have nice attitudes.

Yeah if you say so!  

Tink_sk,

In the white community in USA, BLACK MEN ARENT VIEWED IN A POSITIVE LIGHT and It is widely noted that black men are on the BOTTOM of the totem pole when it come to RACE CLASSIFICATION.  It is sad but that what is viewed, stated, and applied.   As I stated many times, there are crooks in every RACE, CREED, AND REGIONS.  Some people view certain race easier to scam, use, or manipulate.  

and going to back to Dagobear,

There are PLENTY OF BLACK WOMEN who will tell each other GIRL YOU BETTER LEAVE THEM NIGERIAN MEN ALONEY THEY SCAMMERS AND THEY WILL TAKE YOUR MONEY AND BEAT YA,

Jaybee,

I want to be a full time housewife! But, I can't! I have too much education and experience to be sitting at home all day! But, I will take time off though to nurse my babies until they are old enough to attend head start. Then back to hustling I go! See, I am a bonafide HUSTLER!

Liveit,

Be glad he aint planning your pregnancies and thangs. My husband did that BEFORE we got married and was calling me HIS WIFE BEFORE we got married. I was looking at that NEGRO like I don't remember us walking down no aisles and thangs. But, ANYWAY, girl I couldn't do nothing about that it seems he had it all planned out the moment I said yes I will marry you,

He even had the kids name THOUGHT OUT and I ain't had them yet! I am like who is Anna Maria Carla Jessica Doe? See that the limit right there! Putting the cart before the horse!

livedit:
Once again, my husband is cool when it come to protectiveness and he is protective. He once fought a dog for chasing me.


You know, I'm currently engaged to a Nigerian man.  And my fiancee is just like that too.  He already planning all the trips we are going to take in the future and family life together. I'm like what the? Slow down, can we get married first? Lol Anyway's, I wonder too if it's just our man or just his culture.  Either way I'm fine with it. But I do have to say sometimes, "honey, slow your roll". Lol

Hey Sister! Yes girl, he was fighting that poor dog but that dog was BIG AND TALL THOUGH, it wasn't no little dog it was one of them Saint Bernard type dogs with tall legs. Girl, I flipped them sandals off and was gone! My husband caught up with the dog and they were wrestling a bit then the dog was like this Negro crazy and pretty much left us alone. I was trying not to laugh because my husband was pissed off and it was hard trying to keep tears from rolling down my face! Oooh, I wanted to laugh sooo bad!

DapoBear:
Black women are just as easy if not easier to scam than white women. At least white women are somewhat suspicious at first. Black women are less wary.

How many black women do you see carrying around babies without the dad around, while not seeing any child support money? You see many, many relationships where the black woman is the only one earning money and the dude is just lazy and doing nothing. White women don't put up with either of these two things.

In any case, guys shouldn't take advantage or scam anyone, imo. It is unethical. But to pretend that white women get scammed more easily is just ridiculous.

Apparently you must be guilty because NO ONE SAID WHITE WOMEN GET SCAMMED ON THE MOST, see that that guilt ISH got you bugging. I said that WHITE WOMEN ARE KNOWN IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY to be less combative and easier to scam. I aint said ISH ABOUT NO BLACK WOMEN CAN'T OR NOT BEING SCAMMED. WE ARE TALKING ABOUT WHITE CHICKS, now if you want to talk about black chicks, we can go there,

First of all, IF BLACK CHICKS ARE LESS WARY AS YOU STATED, then why the flying doggy shit is black men complaining about black women being too COMBATIVE, WEARING THE MEN'S PANTS, HAVE NASSY ATTITUDE, AND THEY ARE THE REASON WHY BLACK MEN dating white chicks? THAT DON'T SOUND LIKE A PERSON THAT IS NOT WARY,

I don't even think you know what that means,

ANYBODY IN ANY RACE CAN GET SCAMMED, PLAYED, KILLED, USED, AND WHATEVER, WE ARE TALKING ABOUT WHAT WHITE CHICKS ARE PRECEIVED IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY JUST LIKE BLACK MEN ARE PRECEIVED IN WHITE COMMUNITY TO BE THUGGISH AND DEADBEATS,

[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=563594.msg7291904#msg7291904 date=1291765255]Did we meet? Did we stroll down Hollywood BLVD and had some dranks? If we did then CARRY ON, it we didn't you got me mixed up with somebody else boo![/quote]Oh, I see you like them fat white chicks huh? Get your fat on boo! I ain't hatin! Make sure you wrap up cos that stuff is REAL,

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=563594.msg7291882#msg7291882 date=1291764849]Sweetie!
But you are fat and you don't smell . . . . [/quote]Did we meet? Did we stroll down Hollywood BLVD and had some dranks? If we did then CARRY ON, it we didn't you got me mixed up with somebody else boo!

I wouldn't wish being scammed ON MY WORSE enemies, that just wrong, I rather for a person to keep it real and if they still get what they want being real I WILL ACTUALLY RESPECT THEM sad but at least they warned you and informed you. If you continue then IT ON YOU,

racheal84:
good movie

It sad to say this but WHITE WOMEN IS KNOWN TO BE EASY AND A PUSHOVER, I am not saying THAT I AGREE WITH IT but I am keeping it real in the BLACK COMMUNITY, WHITE WOMEN are viewed as less combative and easy to scam.  There are black men who are boasting about having or getting white chicks saying that "it was like a breeze" and many white chicks I know have said yes I got me a black man and I don't know what them black girls are doing but whatever they are not doing we can do better not knowing that THE BLACK MEN are talking about them like a dog.

Carolece:
A fat person smell even in the shower, I'd hate to get in a shower after a fat person. . . the stench that they leave behind is very awfu.

Well, I don't know about them being the only ones that smell however you are entitled to your opinion but I just want to insert that there are PLENTY OF NIGERIAN MEN with fat white chicks, so your theory about men in general do not like FAT CHICKS, look around you and you will see A BLACK MAN and a FAT WHITE chick, (MAJORITY)

I seriously doubt that these Black men is with the FAT WHITE CHICK cos they smell bad,

buzugee:
you might wanna check the sanity of your husband. he is fighting dogs now ?  

You just had to be there, it was one of them moments, my family laughed at me when I said my husband fought a dog for chasing me, IT ONE OF THE MOMENTS, He is perfectly sane, (hmm)

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=564083.msg7290762#msg7290762 date=1291751570]@Eve dear!
Serious i can also say to myself i'm too protective . .Yeah ''my girl does proclaim that''  . . But that doesn't mean i should be too worried ,not giving her enough freedom to breath and feel herself . . .But also i get skeptic whenever her phone is unreachable! ''I trust her'' . . .But of course i don't disturb her with calls all the time except when it's very urgent . . , Cause she might be busy too![/quote]You like my husband, he be worrying when I aint answering my phone calls but he trust me. He just don't like not knowing if I am okay or not. I can understand maybe that the cultural yall African men have which is cool with me. He is protective and I don't mind but there are some women that will take it the wrong way and think he is possessive which to me possessive is when HE TAKE YOU ABSOLUTELY FROM THE PUBLIC EYE and you can't breathe without his permission that a bit past protective.

Once again, my husband is cool when it come to protectiveness and he is protective. He once fought a dog for chasing me.

proudly9ja:
I think its called cutting your coat according to your size. Maybe he isn't ready for a kid yet and knows that you wouldn't mind one so he is doing the monitoring himself.

How long have you been married if I may ask?

Actually it the OTHER WAY AROUND, he want CHILDREN AND I AM trying was TO WAIT, we freshly married,

kokoye:
tough as hell. dem bad kids always know when to disturb  

wat u doing daddy??

You just brought back memories!  I remembered one time I was little and my momma was doing something in the bedroom and I heard so much noise I thought she was jumping or something.  So I walked into the room and saw some legs in the air and sheets just popping up and down. I guess they didn't hear me because they kept going and I remember hearing some noise similar to constipating noise you know that sound you make when you trying to shit?  That noise but it was high pitch and irregular but anyway as I made my way to the foot of the bed I screamed WHAT YOU DOING TO MY MOMMA?!!!  

I think I blacked out then, (I think I was snatched and thrown out the room)  But I have no proof!

What is a full housewife Jaybee? I am curious!

buzugee:
come back here in 10 years time and lets see if that still applies  

If we have a VILLAGE OF CHILDREN, we wouldn't be spending that much time in ONE YEAR what you talking about WILLIS?    Children demand ALL OF YOUR ATTENTION and we would be scheduling SEX SESSIONS in between naps and breast feeding sessions!

No, I will not marry a fat woman.

Carolence, that is DISGUSTING! Where did you find that photo at? Where ever you find it I want to sue them for destroying my visions!

Heeeey Yall!  (sounding like I just had some)

I just returned back from my lunch date with my husband!  Now, I can't never get enough or limit how much time I spend with my husband!  I love every minute of it! Now, I be like telling my husband to dial down on the phone callings when he call during breaks and lunch but HEY I am so used to it I don't think I would survive if he stop cos WHEN A MAN STOP CALLING YOU LADIES THAT WHEN YOU WORRY, SO FAR, I ain't worrying!  

My husband talks about family planning alot, IS THAT NORMAL AMONGST AFRICAN MEN?  (asking the brothers on this one)  Why is he monitoring my cycles? How can you fool a brother who knows your cycle BETTER THAN YOU? I think that should be a limit on that one!  

What yall think?

So basically he scammed out of 70,000 nairas?

Phate07:

Children should be limited. Two max!

If you don't get them sperm thingie in order you won't just have TWO KIDS MAX!

iice:
[color=#9900ff]The calling thing is me
Please don't bombard me with calls.  Most people just talk for talking sake. . .i don't want to hear, i don't care.  Limit it to the salient points and keep it brief.  If i want to know more, i will ask you. [/color]

Yes! I agree! I hate it when my friends call me rambling I am like chile tell me what you want me to know that is IMPORTANT, that girl I was at the store and I saw so and so he was this and that, I DON'T CARE BITCH!

Don't you hate that?

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=564083.msg7289440#msg7289440 date=1291739411]op.
I don't really have limit in my relationship . . .Though i don't like my half calling or disturbing me with telephone calls all the time . .I get pissed off quickly and might respond roughly!
As for intercouse . . .No limit . . .  .No limit!!![/quote]Why aren't I surprised!    Hey suga!  

Yes, I don't mind my husband calling me and things but when my husband calls me he don't just call and leave a message he will call and call until I answer the phone because he think something is wrong with me!  When I do call back he always say I was on my way over to the job because I was worry!  Did I mention my husband is a worrier?  He is so protective well most African men are anyways.

jay bee:
Phone calls for me.
I just feel i'm being monitored for nothing cos i'm always home 

Awww!  A home body!  Well, my husband is like that Jaybee, he go out when he needs to but he rather be in bed under me watching a movie or two (well eventually the movies end up watching us)

Carolece:
right! thats the kind every kind or man come to the US and get. They use them to get green cards. poor stoopid fat girls believe when a man say "i love you" they do everything to keep them and when they get what they want they are gone for slim beautiful, or almost beautiful women. Shame!

No man wants a fat girl. They either are happy with what they are getting or staying in for the long haul because they (the men) are worthless and like living on people's expense.

Why do I hear a stampede of fat chick lovers coming rushing to the thread all at once?! Scammers do not care if you are fat or skinny if they want something they will use anybody they can use they don't care what race you are or what you look like. I know a white chick who looks like heidi klum a little bit and she was dumped by her husband who is African when he got his green card. He was gone! He left behind sorrow, mistreatments, and a foul scent. (He doesn't wear deodorant) However, not all African are scammers but a quite few of them are and she was bitten bad by one. He left her hung and dry. He took all her money and she staying with family members until she can get back on her foot.

Hello Peeps!

This may come off wrong and misunderstood but I have noticed that SOME people complained when their spouses or mates call them too much during work or when they are out and about.  A friend of mine was complaining that her husband never send her love texts or love notes when she hear other women shared that she always let us know that her husband doesn't do it for her. 

A male friend of mine was complaining that his girlfriend want sex all the time and she want to be cuddle afterward.  Another male friend of mine complained the opposite that he doesn't get enough sex from his girlfriend and thinks she cheating on him. 

So basically, what is the limits in your relationship?  Do you appreciate your husband or wife calling you excessively at work or when you out about?  Do you think there should be a limit on how often have intimacy during the week, month, day, or year?  If your mate or spouse were to flourish you with the things that they used to do would you be concern and wonder why they stopped? 

What is THE LIMITS in your relationship, or you don't have a limit?

[quote author=Mr¬Cork link=topic=564010.msg7289118#msg7289118 date=1291736976]Mrs eve. madam why dont we just kisss & make up. [b]I bet u loook masuline without make up actualy, But i dont care. I like u [/b][/quote]You want to feel my third leg hit you in the mouth

[quote author=Mr¬Cork link=topic=564010.msg7289055#msg7289055 date=1291736577]if a Mrs Eve waz our house girl, Oh boy, i wuld have marry her long time [/quote]If I was your house girl, YOU WOULDN'T have lived to see my first salary payment

Digriz:
regardless of keeping d under clean,fat people smells a lot mostly in hot zones like ours to compare wt less fat ones,those mass of flesh everywhere must react to d heat of d weather and u knw d nxt.
We hv neat fat ones bt majority of them stinks when d weather is hot.

It seems though you are attracting them, THEY SAY ALL OF THE SAME PEOPLE FLOCK TOGETHER AND MAGNETIZE TOGETHER,

HMMMMMMMMMM

silvaspecs:
Were are always trying to give hope to the hopeless thats why we go for the fat ones sometimes,  because there is a higher Supply but a limited Demand. Though they are kull(from my experience so far)

If that the actual case, THEN I FEEL SORRY FOR THE SKINNY CHICKS!