₦airaland Forum

deor03:
This is one of the reasons I don't believe in the HOUSEHELP slave trade charade.

These girls are sexually, and emotionally abused by a substantial percentage of their bosses.

All these is happening to them because they are children of the poor

You know what Deor, I am glad you said that because when I went to Africa the few times ago, I have noticed pretty much SOME men had HOUSE MAIDS but no wives, I was like maybe that the thing with wealthy African guys that they are too busy to have wives or to clean their own homes.  Then I realized that these house maids are girls in their teens. I am like first of all why is these girls are not in school or college?  One of my friend in Africa told me that they recruit poor girls from the village and hire them to be nannies and house maids in exchange for room and board.  But the thing is that these girls become attached to these men and these men are having sex with them.  I was invited to one of my friend house while I was in Africa and I noticed the girl were wearing something very revealing and she acts if she were the wife however the guy were treating her as if she was a slave and when he was flirting with my friend and I the girl looked as if we killed her parents.  Of course, my husband wasn't around then because he would have knock the guy upside his mouth and told the girl to put on some clothes.  She were dressed if she was going prostituting,

She is being paid to be NICE AND HELPFUL, stop paying her nairas and see how nice and helpful she WILL BE  

If we are going to talk about FUNKY BODIES, There are FUNKY PEOPLE IN BOTH SIZES, I don't know why yall think FUNKY DISCRIMINATE? If you don't wash your nassy arse then you going to be funky REGARDLESS WHAT SIZE YOU ARE,

Now come to think of it, IT APPEARS THAT SOME OF YALL MEN BEEN ATTRACTING FUNKY FAT CHICKS, hmmmm WHAT DOES THAT SAY ABOUT YOU?

lipuka:
He can coose any woman he wants and any size, but he should not insult a woman either in public or in private. Suppose it were you, Mrs Eve?

Suppose it was me?  Do you see these NIGGAS ON Nairaland calling me fat chicks and oompa loompas? Mind you they never saw a picture of me but DO I REALLY CARE, no, I don't.  If I am not stressing WHEN THE NIGGAS ON NAIRALAND call me fat, why would I stress if the President call me fat?  

Suga, it not what PEOPLE CALL YOU, IT WHAT YOU ANSWER TO, remember that.

What wrong with the man not wanting a fat wife? We all have our preferences. I do not want a fat husband, but that MY PREFERENCE.

If he thinks fat women are ugly then that HIS OPINION that don't mean it true. Let that man have what he want and suffer whatever consequence he receive.

If the fat women that were in the audience didn't say anything then that ON THEM, they better speak up or forever hold their peace which they did apparently.

Mr cock,

There are a few chicks that like, lust, and love you, WHY DON'T YOU SPEND TIME STALKING THEM?

red100:
Do you know him in person or just met him online? If you never met how can you be so sure that you want to spend your life with him? Why don't you go on holidays in Nigeria first to see how it is, get to know the culture and the people a bit better and then make any plans, visa arrangement, workwise, housing etc. Also be aware of some scams if yu met him online, I don't want to sound cynical but it's nothing wrong on being cautious and protecting yourself.

Red, there is nothing wrong with what you said. I am sure her family is saying the same thing that you are saying. It good to be cautious when you meeting people online because NOT EVERYBODY IS HONEST AND HAVE GOOD INTENTIONS, we do not know the guy so we are not judging him, well I am not but be careful and ACTUALLY SPEND PHYSICAL time with him and his family as well. Do not just spend time with HIM, especially if you are marrying him. See how he treat the women in his family that will determine whether you should marry him or not. You do not want to marry someone that will give you a black eye if you add sugar to the fufu right? No, you wouldn't.

In the nutshell, get to know him OUTSIDE OF CYBER SPACE before you make your decision.

holliecat:
Can an American woman fall in love with a Nigerian man? I would like to move to africa and be with this man. but is it right? Can we really make a life with each other?We talk via internet. I want to marry him, have kids with him. He wants me to move there. I am white. Can anyone tell me what to do?

Well, I appears you new! Welcome to Nairaland! Did you actually MEET this guy that you FELL in love with? I am not saying that you don't love him or he doesn't love you but alot of time people do fall in LUST with the idea of being with that person. Did you actually spend time with him after the introduction of Internet Dating?

Each case is different but most of the time people who NEVER meet each other seems to get more than what they asked for. The question still remains, did you ACTUALLY visit Nigeria? If you haven't then you will need to visit Nigeria so that YOU WILL KNOW if YOU CAN HANDLE NIGERIA. It a different culture and a whole ANOTHER uhmmmm "situation". Nigeria is agriculturally beautiful and it LIVELY FOR SURE, but if I was to MOVE TO NIGERIA, I wouldn't.

Now since your guy is Nigerian, he can move to Ghana which is similar to Nigeria less people, the laws favor women more, and it is more peaceful. That only if he can't come to USA or you can't move to Nigeria. Ghana favors America alot so you wouldn't have an issue going to Ghana being American.

Thank you for letting us know that you white it has nothing to do with us. Just do what YOU FEEL AND Good luck!

I can say this, I don't give a fly hell who dating who and who marrying who. If these Seal looking niggas want to marry them some ugly white girls, LET THEM. It is their bodies and does not affect anyone but themselves. So why do WE EVEN CARE?

I have my OWN IN-HOUSE penis and I am content with WHO I GOT, I DON'T HAVE TIME TO BE LOOKING OUT THE WINDOW SAYING oooh he got him an ugly white girl! I have noticed when people worrying about other folks and what other people doing they ARE SUBCONCIOUSLY wishing it were them.

It cool,

tpia1:
i'd suggest you ignore what nigerian men are telling you about nigerian women, because you really dont want to get entangled in some things.

just saying.

dont let people vex for you oh.

Nigerian men aint tell me ish about Nigerian women, I said it in the sense that it goes both ways, a brother can't tell a sister who she should date and a sister can't tell a brother who he should date. Period. This for anybody don't ask of others that you are not willing to do yourself.

ismaeel86:
Some girls do silly things for love, my ex took her parents to court because they dont want her to marry me.

The only way a child could take her parents to court if she was a minor, she should have waited until she was an adult to make a decision that may affect her life forever.

Excuse me High Chief,

You do know that a white woman's measurement of large or endowed penis is 5 or 6 inches, PLEASE MAKE SURE EACH INDIVIDUAL HAVE THE SAME DEFINITION then again another white woman's measurement of endowed penis could be 1 or 3 inches,

What big to you may be small to me

(driving through playing "It raining men" and driving off)

;d

You said it!

If I was to compare Heidi and Kim, Kim would take the cake.

Seal is UHMMMM (silence)

Hmm mmm (curling lips upward)

Seal is NIGERIAN? I thought he was Ghanian. Anyway, Heidi is not all that beautiful but she is skinny. She looks mannish now I would say Kim Kardashian would be considered a pretty white girl.

[quote author=cou-gar link=topic=563392.msg7284231#msg7284231 date=1291673639]but u would suck a man's willy back to the stone age if the price is right. [/quote]Now I see what you mean Koyoke!  

Cougar, I see that you don't know sarcasm when you read it but let me apologize because I assumed you could decipher it effortlessly that what I get for thinking everyone is on the same cognitive level.  Please accept it for I humbly apologize.  

My point is I made it!