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ronkebp: yeah, actually it doesn't, and i do not think it will change my thought-line. Jenny i don't believe this story...and i know myself, if don't believe something, it is 99.999% true, the remaining .1 is irrelevant.
- the way i see it, for a typical naija man
- it is either he is a weaklin and the wife overrides him
- he has not wedded her the appropriate way, just because she lives with him because she has a child for him is not the same as being legally married, so she does not care about what or how he feels
- he is insinuating that those guys she talks to are her ex, because of the way she talks on the phone. And maybe he truely does not want her talking to any guy at all, because i really do not know the GUTS a woman will have to be talking to her ex-boyfriends infront of her husband. With all my craziness at-times, dem no born me well to receive such a call infront of my husband.

Calls are coming in from 3 different numbers probably and different names,its not her dad,brothers,cousins or her inlaws and she is sounding funny on phone what do u expect the husband's thoughts to be based on.if they are truly not her ex then they are her boy friends.The truth is most women take advantage of a man's calm nature.There are calm Naija men whether married legally or not

Why is everyone blaming him for the age thing.she is probably taking the husband's love and calm nature for granted.my husband is 9yrs older than me,so the OP must not marry a 28-30 yr old girl to make his marriage work.when i got married their were some things i was doing my husband didnt like,he was always giving me a kiss telling me he knows i would change,but when the change wasnt forth coming,he rained hell on me that day,i was so suprised.The message got to me and since then i stopped.

Having unprotected sex with some random ladies.Cant ever forgive such if i find out.

Scarpon: they saying=>
"Wow that baby is ugly. What the hell
happened. Both parents are attractive.
Just don't get it."
"THIS BABY IS NOT CUTE. MAYBE LATER
HE WILL GROW INTO CUTENESS. IT GOES
TO SHOW EVEN THOUGH ONE OF YOUR
PARENTS ARE CUTE YOU CAN STILL HAVE
A UGLY BABY."
Have you ever had to deal with someone
saying your kid isn't cute? How do you
deal?

Most people especially my friends,keep saying ur baby is not cute as you.what happened.who does she look like?her dad?or ur sisters or.I just got tired and now i reply them with "are u cute".i think it got to them,because most of them saying this are no where close to been pretty so all they say now is Cute baby"I love my baby girl.so pls just ignore whatever people say.

My late father was close to the likes of Levi but my mum still attended his burial although he didnt have any kids apart from us.Well no matter how wicked the man was to her thats not enough to skip his burial.dats the Last reapect u pay to the dead.my mum actually cried in his burial not because she was going to miss him(she was already living like one witout a husband) but because of the kind of life he lived.

kulyie: May God give his siblings d fortitude to bear d loss,but wait o,its very unusual for women not to go for dia late husbands burial,4 her not to go it means he must have really treated her bad,maybe dats a lesson to some men sha.with all d money,girlfriends and fame,he still went 6feets under,lesson one- respect and love ur wife so dat afta ur demise she will regard and still love u,lesson 2-ur kids will not get to find out dat uve been wicked to their mom and resent u.lesson 3-life is vain,afta all ur flenge flenge all d gals u were datin will nt giv a sh*t bout u wen ure gone,lesson 4- ur home (wife n kids) is d most important place to invest in,no matter how popular u r in d society,if u dont invest in ur home d things dat happened to d property,home and lives of abiola,fela etc will happen to u (both kids frm side forks and kids from wedlock) men learn! Dis world is a passing phase

Will men ever listen?

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jennykadry: You are an eediot and may your insecurities kill you. Look at her justifying child abuse, you are such a low life scUM B@g, you are a disgrace to all mothers and if I had my way, you are not fit to be a mother .

Even agiboma saw reasons with nlders when she wanted to get a small girl as help and changed her way of reasoning immediately but you are still here talking about 15k, you are a cow, instead of paying 15k to a doctor to tie your womb or use the money to buy cartons of condoms to act as contraceptives so you can stop having kids, you are here looking to pay a 10-12 yr old.

You and your husband(if he agrees to this) are bastards.

You just keep ccontracdicting urself.whats the relationship between "stop having kids" and Domestic help.i know you had a rough childhood but please stop taking it on anyone.

charliemamen: You have not called us to know the background of this nannies, so you cannot conclude that they cannot communicate with your child. wouldn't you rather have a matured,experienced person who can communicate handle your kids?

feel free to test us out.

Remember you are the employer here, no obligations if you are not satisfied with our service.

I understand you was just trying to clear some things

chaircover: Mrs Manson there have already been several in-depth discussions on NL about child labour before you came along and commented. It is wrong and it is not fair on the child. Childhood is precious and should not be stolen from these kids even if they are poor.

If anything, you drifted away from the topic first. The OP made no mention of child house-helps (he/she was advertising nannys) . . . you were the one who brought children into the discussion.

If she goes to school will it still be child Labour or probably stealing her childhood?Funny enough some of these children dont even go to school in their parents house.have seen so many cases like that.like my neighbour actually got one from the western part of Nigeria.she said she stopped school so many years and would love to go to school.her pay is 15k monthly,and then she was told if u start school their is no problem but will definately not pay upto that 15k again,which is normal.when the girl's mum heard it,she refused.well i didnt mean any harm.Enough said

Luxythere: Kids of those ages have gone to school or should be schooling.......Please let them go to school.

Thank you
From
Do you pray your 10 yr old is nannying from house to house ?

FYI,i wouldnt even allow someone who is not schooling and probably cant speak well handle my growing baby.how will they communicate when she eventually starts talking.so enough of the wicked woman drama i didnt mean child Labour

Luxythere: Kids of those ages have gone to school or should be schooling.......Please let them go to school.

Thank you
From
Do you pray your 10 yr old is nannying from house to house ?

And who said domestic/house help dont go to school?

My neighbour just got me one now(6:50)so pls stop stressing.

jennykadry: Be quiet. Why won't we comment on your post? Do you think we encourage child labor here? Stoopid woman

She has always been the fool i knew,still is

Siena: Regardless of how you address this issue, employing a 12-year-old to care for your kids is Child labour. Would you honestly, hand on heart, be happy to send your 10-year-old as a nanny to someone's baby? A 12-year-old can certainly wash dishes, but that's not what she should be paid to do. She should be doing the sort of things kids her age are doing - studying, and interracting with her peers.

If you want someone to grow with your baby, then get pregnant immediately, and have another baby. Rather than rob a kid of the chance of a normal childhood.

Why are nairalanders like this?u guys have been reading this post without comments,immediately i made my comments then the Bulging eyes.its ok.lets not drift away from the posters purpose.

charliemamen: In as much as you have had issues with the matured ones,experience and research as shown that younger live in maids are just not experienced to handle your wards, sometimes they cannot even tell if your kid is ill or happy unless you tell them.

To tackle the challenges that come with getting a maid, we have scrutinised these women and they have been tested in terms of hardwork, integrity and the major concerns of employing a maid.

I will still suggest that you have one of these women. Where you are unsatisfied, you are under no obligation to keep them.


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[quote author=Mynd_44]ma'am, you seem educated enough what I donta get is why you want to engage in child labour. Can't you just take care of your own darned home or better still, get a mind who is of the legal working age[/quote]What is child labour when she is probably not going to fetch water or engage in Laundries or the dishes.so a 12yr old cant clean and wash some pots?i just needed someone younger to grow with my baby,Dats all.All these matured women if u say pls do this stuff this way because thats how i like it,the next thing they say is you are not even older or better than my daughter/grand daughter.hope u got it

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Thanks

I would need a small girl aged btw 10-12 cos i ve had issues with all this matured pple

Abmarshalo: Madam we must thank God that he even got that amount. But he needs nt to invest all the money in business now. I will introduce him to FOREVER LIVING PRODUCTS where I bet u the amount of money he wl make in 4months wll be more than his monthly salary while in the bank. For training, call me on 08037775820.

That so called forever has indebted my sis and mum.alot of their prodcts they bought are all over the house with nobody to buy them.U keep buying products upon products

cotton101: these are the type of stories i want to be reading - may u and ur family remain blessed

Amen

safeLove: Kinky bedmatics indeed..
Babe,nice one. Be very respectful to your husband. Men appreciate respect more than anything else. Show him you are capable of being his "help meet".
Never take his kindness for granted. Put him FIRST after God. Never listen to gossip as no one is perfect. Be always cheerful around him and if anything ever bothers you,seek his opinion before anything else.
He's your friend and by his action towards you,you know he means well for you.
They say a wise woman buils her home and a foolish one does whaaaat?...

So true

[quote author=Efemena_xy]Awww...this is so sweet!

I'm really happy for you Mrs Mansson. Wish we had more stories like this here.

Well, my suggestion to you, is to show your hubby how much you really care for him. Ever heard the saying "actions speak louder than words"? So simple things like sending him a couple of texts during the day, to let him know how much he is really loved, making sure he comes home to a clean home, clean and happy kids, a well cooked hot meal awaiting him.

Be as wildly romantic as you can be with him, induldge in both your fantasies, scented candles, romantic music, run a warm bath for him in the evenings, join him in there, scrub his back, give him a thorough massage in bed with baby oil to loosen up those tense muscles, and lots & lots of kinky bedmatics....

Phew! I'm out of breath here! Basically, just keep on doing what it is your doing to make you both happy. But above all, always ensure you have a good, open communication channel with your hubby.

Good on you girl! [/quote]Noted and thanks alot

debrief08: I am so happy to read this, I have been drained from all the negative posts about marriage. I am so happy and relieved to read this. God bless and keep your home, May He shower His Love and Blessings and your good kind, generous husband, as he has loved you may Christ shower the same love on him.
Please dont let conceited women and advisers lead you astray to ever take his love for granted, as he has loved you i urge you to submit as Christ commanded

Amen and Thanks alot

Happy sunday to my NL family.I really dont know how to start but i want to talk about my husband's true love to me and my 8months old daughter.While growing up i never imagined that one could still find a nice guy out there and God really blessed me with one.I met my husband on my way to get some fruits for my mum and i thank God i actually went out that night.am not perfect,i tell some lies,quick to anger but he has been so patient with me,encouraging me that change is a gradual process.some of my friends were wondering then why i accepted his proposal because he is not the handsome and swagg guy dey expected to see me with because i was the most beautiful girl in our class,but Tank God i neva listened to them,now they wish for my kind of husband.Cant begin to say all because my story will be too long.My point now is,How do i repay him.Last night i asked how i could show him a sign of appreciation,he said he doesnt need any gift from me that all he needs is my honesty and my ability to manage our family resources/his company when he is not around.so incase he dies anyday cos nobody lives forever he will be rest assured i would be able to take care of myself and our kids.pls is there still any thing i can probably do,because am so grateful honestly.Thanks