jeffizy: I will prefer my wife to stay natural. I will just stick to my ruff ryd.r and calculate her safe periods.
It's not to be trusted but dont want complications for my olori.

Lol my hubby and I are kool on that too

Always start your home work on time.did u say few weeks?

I got a fake human hair from taafoo.most of their stuffs are inferior.wonder if people still shop their

So you didn't get enough answers when u watched AY show abi.

Na wa oh for people who said they are mothers

Location pls

So nursing mothers don't shed weight?not only shedding weight my dear your tummy also.please throw all those excuses away and start something asap.As for a job I can teach you ways of getting a job.you have to be serious tho.

My fellow Ladies when will some of us ever have self esteem and self respect.why force love and friendship.how long were you thinking it would last.Did you say 70% finance from you?.na wa oh.am tired of things like this.oya be ready for the life of a single mum.

greenoak: Pls is QEI+ better than MAKARI?

Far better

joynoy: Got it from Casabella , shop rite in surulere.it was no fake.

So what happened dearie.well different skin types.

joynoy: Don't TRY this cream, u will be very disappointed.

Y?maybe you got the fake.check ikeja shopping mail.one of the cosmetics shop.its 5600 for the cream and 4000 for the serum.to get better results buy both

Truth be told she might not change.have you not seen adults behave same way.how do u think it started.not everyone is friendly with outsiders.I was exactly like your daughter when I was a baby.very pretty but I don't smile with strangers,even when I was enrolled in a creche I was still unfriendly.and am sorry to say that I am still a little bit that way,tho maturity changed some very little parts.with the thousands of people I have met,only very few caught my attention.Everyone is different

My own problem is rare.I get over stuffs easily no matter how cute they looked at the time of purchase.my marriage is barely 2years and I have changed mine twice,for now I don't put on my ring.I have never really seen any ring I would love for so long.

Is it right if your elder sister lives with you?

dahmie2013: I really like dis thread! I need help seriously on dis cos, I have d tendency of being fat cos of my parents after giving birth which I don't want, not just cos of my husband but 4 my health&still want 2 be able 2 wear wat I like! Thanks @OP!

What size are you now.am a size 10 before and after childbirth.tummy still as flat as the word Flat.it all depends on discipline.try to fight away all forms of laziness(that is postponing your daily exercise).I did it not because of my hubby but for myself.I want my clothes to fit perfectly.I want to feel good within myself.I think the only problem I have now is the way men stare at me and when am walking is worse.some pple even said am not the mother of my baby lol.Abeg let's try.

chaircover:

God bless you ma!

For registry you only need cabin biscuit and coke and 2 witnesses. Not expensive or stressful at all, so I dont know why under the circumstances you haven't been able to get him agree to just that, unless you have given him a "all or nothing" condition on how your wedding must be, how many cows, how large your bridal train must be etc . . in which case, you may be waiting for a long time because you no longer hold the joker card.

For me, the major concern is why you are having so many arguments and why he is verbally abusive towards you. Now that to me is more important than getting him to marry you. Its the relationship that is sick and not the "I am not marrying you right now" and that is the priority. What is the point of getting married in january if God forbid you are going to go your separate ways in december?

Not every Nigerian guy agrees for a court wedding.why they run away from it I still don't understand.Even if the guy agrees the family of the guy might be against it.they feel it favours a woman more in divorce or death of the husband

Home wrecker?Lord jesus.

oluplus: [quote author=aadetoyin. Yes, am lucky. The point here is whether classmate or whoever, if the Op is comfortable wt her and if she's a wife material and Op is comfortable and feels he can spend the rest of his life wt her, I still suggest he gives it a push. And as per the salary, why would any man even expect his wife to hand over all her salary to him? I have discouraged this, but she would not stop. So, no one should be disappointed if this does not happen and it does not make the lady disrespectful.

Discourage it more with a very hard warning and see if she won't stop it.what is your wife trying to proove.

jeffizy: ^^Indicipline might be the cause. But where will you put the fact that married couple usually work twice harder than most singles in trying to get the family going. Where is the time?

Hmmmn oga hope you have not started making excuses for your self and your pretty wife.I understand the time in running a home,am a mother too but you do know that if one really sees sometime very very impt,one can create time for it.some couples actually engage in 45mins s_x yet they complain of not having enough time to clean the house,no time for this and that.the s_x is so impt to them that's why they created a time for it abi.

jeffizy: I quite agree with the part -"use of contraceptive". It is a major factor for the women.

Contraceptive or not,Indiscipline plays a major role in weight gain.this applies to the man and woman.so just because you gave birth is that why you can't have a flat tummy again.How many wives still engage in Tummy trimming exercise?Flimsy excuse is the order of the day.

baby_123: Boyfriend does not equal fiancee. Just saying . Has he oficially proposed to you? . You got a ring? A wedding date

Lol that is the new talk now for single girls.Bf automatically becomes fiancee.funny enough I actually met a girl who talks about 5 different fiancee.one in amsterdam,S A,Lagos...@ poster if you are not ready to be a single mum in this our harsh economy go for a proper D&C.next time use cd's and don't force anyone into commitments.have some self worth.

I really don't trust anyone oh.no child is too small to be protective over or vigilant.my daughter is 15months old,I can't just drop her for any male be it grand dad,great grand,uncle or whatever.

If you are still having such problem,make use of a pressure pot,within the next 15mins is as soft as indomine when cooked.that's what I use for anything hard.it saves time too

Abeg when am upset with him and he apologised in a shabby way I turn him down.with my angry face sef,he won't even come close or I might be in my baby's room.

freecocoa: Aswear most of the comments on this thread just tie my tongue, like really?

I'm not even going with the "we are Africans" quote but how y'all can say there's nothing wrong with exposing ones bweasts beats me, let's all go back to walking the streets nakid like our fore fathers na, what's the essence of clothes then?

And the talk about being hypocrites is just plain annoying, so because most people do bad things means bad things should be encouraged? I don't even understand y'all, ngwanu let's all sit, fold our arms and let the bad things keep happening.

If Genny who wore the dress wasn't comfortable in it and had to change, then there really was something wrong with it.

So even you still think genevieve changed because she wasn't comfy.so you have not noticed when watching other foreign awards tha dresses used in walking the red carpet are not used in giving out awards?Na wa oh

akinbabson: Karen is not a good dresser anyway. But for genevieve, she later realised that what the her expert put on her was not good enough and she changed it. I think there are levelz I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ the entertainment industry and Karen is nt among the leveliers. So many Bigbrother housemates were involved but she was never. The intrinsic xters are not I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ her

Don't be in a hurry to conclude when you are not too sure.Genny didn't change because of ur reasons.Normally dresses used on the Red carpet are not supposed to be used in giving out awards.Hope you got that.Watch more of E tv

kelz88: Hope it ain't true cos I don't plan to do traditional or court wedding. Btw, didn't know you get certificate for traditional wedding. Who issues it?

You get a certificate for traditional marriage from my place.I have one,signed by my hubby and I.it is issued by one of the council men in the village.

Hmmn thank God for you jenny,just like when armed robbers threw me out of my car at a high speed.Thank God their was no incoming vehicle,and I didn't land with my head.some scratches tho,all the same,our God is merciful.

Hmmmn I knew he was going to propose anyway because he started using the "our "word.he was so genuine.i was in my finals in sch.I was gradually falling in love with him but wasn't so much into him.was scared of settling down.I was so into my friends and the carefree lives we lived.I pleaded with him,let's date a little more.the man didn't hear that one oh.ok I stopped taking his calls all the time.always giving an excuse for not picking up.one good staurday,I and my friends were preparing for a party,he called,and said am in front of your hostel.ha just like that.he came all the way from Lag without even telling me.the following monday was public hols,he had everything planned out.that was how he spoilt show for my party oh.the next thing I was in his hotel room.he kept sensing I was uncomfortable,because I respected him ,I couldn't just talk about my earlier programme.he was like why don't you go to hostel and get your stuffs,I will be leaving on tuesday morning.ha that was how I landed in his hotel room,lying on his chest.he popped the question,I was so scared when I saw the ring.Besides am the last,and none of my sis were married then,I still wanted to be much single.I told him I can't pls.he was like what are you scared of?don't worry nothing is going to change,u still have to party with your friends,I won't get u pregnant even in the next 2-3yrs.so many promises.did he actually keep the not getting pregnant stuff?so I accepted the some few months later even when my friends where against it.we got married and I got pregnant immediately come and see trouble for him.I was so furious,upset.long story abeg...Thank God I accepted I wouldn't have known marriage could be less stressful.he is sweet.

Happy mothers day to my mum.Despite all you went through u made sure you provided for us.ur heart desires will be met this year.Amen
Thanks jide and HMD to you too.your girls are a blessing already

coogar:

you have sent 2 suitors away already? errrrrrrm, we should be expecting your royal wedding soon then. keep resenting them, your prince charming is not too far away.



i know you would get your groove on but with who and to what end? would you just be keeping relationships purely for the sex or keeping them with the hope to marry again?

If I were to be,I wouldn't just rush into marriage again.I will keep a relationship for sex,but I wouldn't make it obvious that is jst for sex.while I was single in the uni I dated a guy just for sex but he thought we were so committed ...

Their is still hope.I remember when my hubby was still working he was offered a job in the uk from Nigeria.he was to work as a senior subsea engineer.he was offered 550 pounds daily.he later turned it tho.