When will this ever stop.why would some mothers be living with their married son or daughter.am sick abeg

Hmmn roki pls repent oh

Why bobo,what happened to those small pack ribenna.

Roki are you sure you are open.I mean totally open.my hubby might even be worse than ur hubby.he said I was too secretive.the things I didn't discuss with him,I thought it didn't matter,but he said everything matters(with a loud voice oh)so now their is absolutely nothing I don't share with him.whether relevant or not.

obowunmi:

I don't want to derail this thread... so I will choose to ignore.

Pls don't ignore.waiting patiently.pls

visionbiafra: Hahahaha...Lol. This is hillarious. Naija nd nigerians don suffer. She hasn't given us the real reason why she came in the first place. The Darey stuff was used as a cover up. Imagine ordinary reality tv star rubbing faeces in our faces, I wonder what the likes of Madonna, Mariah Carey and Angelina Jolie will do when they touch down here.

So if kim k is ordinary what are you?na wa oh

Am for real oh.but sorry op am in lagos not port harcourt.what kind of risk are you talking about .the op's gf is just trying to feel hot with her self.only her?

She be goddess?only her every one wants to have s3x with her.pls put up a better story.ok send her to me so she works for my hubby.am serious oh.

agiboma:

Naw, Im not alone I got all my family here with me. Baby due in a few weeks will spend some more time here then return to PH together.

Wish u safe delivery.

agiboma: @jk my son was born in Canada and currently attending daycare there also.
@op like some other posters communted ask her who "matt" is if he's her age then np, if he a grown man then you need to investigate,

Have you gone back to canada.thought you were in ph.hope you are not their alone.just asking.

Op pls hw did it happen.Did your bro impregnate her at gun piont or was he raped?poor dude.funny family too.A grown man not blind,carried his d_ck and dropped loads of ppmc on the girl,and your family said is scheming.the girl try for una sef to keep the pregnancy.

akoraye: Thanks for the enlightenment! God less you!

Bless me not less me oh

biolabee: i understand yoruba customs wella and i still dont understand what u are saying

OK Let me put it to you in plain english

Forbid your wife from discussing anything with her inlawa
If she or they have anything to say to each other, it should go through you

if she comes for house cooking, once she is assigned her tasks (aso ebi, shell egusi or pund yam etc) she should do it with minimal fuss and move on
If you are upstate or out of town, use hotels

The matter simple
except they live with you

If na that one, move the younger sis back to the fathers house or help with an apartment
If you dont have peacem, how wll u deliver in the workplace

Very simple.when one of my hubby's cuz was doing her trad,to avoid too much picking on me and crossing each other's path I had to stay in a hotel,the day of the trad I woke so early went to the family house where they were cooking,did my own part.some of them raised eyebrow why I didn't stay in the fam house since its a 9 bedroom duplex.I jst had to lie I was at a friend's that not too feeling well.case closed.

akoraye: Thanks for the piece of advise God will surely bless you but one thing that gives me concern is that there is no how the will not see eachother, you know what I mean our yoruba culture<, go for this occasion or the other. about staying with my sister no! but during all these family gathering! But I will still do more of what you advised God bless you!

What do you mean by their is no way they won't see each other.do they just meet and start quarelling.when your wife attends your family function she should create her own space,greet them with a smile whether they reciprocate back or not.my hubby's younger is very troublesome,she even insulted me on my wedding day and almost wanted to fight with me.since then I caught her off totally from my life like she doesn't exist.she is so scared of visiting because we have nothing to discuss.I can't remember the last time I called her sef.to me this is not an issue oh.let your wife mind her biz completely this is not enemity.

Joel.:
you are stupid. Dont you know nairaland has auto boot that change write up.

Poster there is a saying, who house nor kill otherside nor they fit kill am.

If your mama kill you, you are prone and expose to out siders, if you are spiritually wise you will know what is mother or what i am talking about.

Still cannot comprehend "you will know what is mother" .wish you luck

Joel.:
Poster, your mum is just like my dad, i tell you there are some parent who have that believe or mentality that their grown up children should take care of all their needs. Once they know you have started working or earning money then you should be taking care of them, that mentality is wrong to belive after training children then the children most start sending them money anytime they need one naira, this type of parent are commonly found in edo start hoping for their children in oversea, once you are always remiting you will received all the praises and prayer and the head of the family nothing will be done without your conciept, once you are not remiting you are a bad and useless child, is like wasteing their time to train you. but unfortunately there is nothing you can do dear. I will rather advise you started given her money you cannot get another mum. This parant can cause hindrance and infliction to effect your marraige life, they get angery and jealous when their child who is helping them getting marraige, they can spoil their children marrage life. My adise is since you are femaile not male you should start giving your mum money, you are not man what are you doing with much money

Who be this oh.you should have used pigin nah.is 30k the much money you are talking about?na wa

@ op are you saying exactly what the dad said?my mom actually did some investigations too oh.when my hubby was speaking too much grammar my mum didn't understand .he kept on talking of million dollars,always talking to white men,client here and their.my mum had to send my uncle, a police officer in Lagos to monitor what my hubby does whether legitimate or not.wedding was suppose to be in december it was delayed till the nxt year may.so it not just all about whether your friend is rich or not.

Are you not barbie that opened a thread abt abortion and ran away

Why all this so much pretence on NL about independence. my ex sch mate is dating a medical officer,she is not working yet,but has done series of interview and hoping to get soon.this guy doesn't even assit her with a dime.her responsibility is now on me.I give her some of my used wears.get some things for her,even transport fare for interviews.shebi dat one na independence.someone is stingy and you guys are faking.

I am familiar with abefe the writer.she is fond of making excuses for every wrong she has done in the past.blame her ex husband for her marriage that didn't work.always looking for one to put the blame on.

Its possible,the op who posted a thread about adoption on the 10th and this are same.the day they registered on NL that's the same day they are talking of adoption.and funny enough Lsts was viewing her thread with me around 2am on a particular day while pple were worried why she never came back.probably she didn't get what she was looking for.Let's all be careful

Yomieluv: 13. Make money.
14. Make more money.
15. Make some more money.

Infact,money is the backbone of a happy marriage. Dangote's wives can never be sad or angry, no matter what he does to them. Making money is the main thing.

Hmmn,yomi money is good but can't make a happy marriage neither am I saying a home living in poverty is the happiest.my family friend got married to this very wealthy man,politician.Guess what she wants now?she wants my bro to have s3x with her.see begging and crying and also trying to destroy my brothers relationship with his gf.

debrief08: Vickin, That we don't wear Brazzilian doesn't make us uns3xy.
I don't even wear flats at all. I don't own wrappers, just gowns, pants and skirts.
I am s3xy on my own, don't need brazzilain to convince me of my sexiness

A cambodia lace wig won't be bad on you sexy pants and heels.Trust me

just like i said earlier everyone on NL is the son/daughter of dangotte.they change their cars everyweek.they have been driving bmw x6 since 1960 .their house is so big that they feel like moving to a smaller one .they are so independent and didnt demand a dime while courting,they never had s3x while courting yet abortion rate is on the increase.people drive aeroplanes in their surroundings .wonderful place

everyone on NL is the son/daughter of Dangote ,but on facebook their parents are teachers .thanks to seun

I don't get it..ur wife drains you spiritually each time after intimacy and you same wife refuses sex until you have to beg and beg.you moved out of your house and still considering spending weekends at her's.so why did u move out @ all.I really don't know why ur wife is so sad in her marriage according to ur story.and pls help reduce ur financial stress and let her take care of some light bills don't pretend u can do all when its really pinching you somewhere.I wish your wife could come on NL so we hear her own side of the story.

agiboma: I give my son a few snacks as he gets a hot lunch at daycare, hers what he gets:


Yogert
Kool aid Jammers juice drink
various fruits, strawberries, apples, oranges, i cut them up and make a fruit salad
cookies or rice crispies squares
Bottle of milk while we drive to daycare

Thats pretty much what he gets

Cool

He was working oh his single with tu face and sound sultan like late last year.things might not be so bad oh