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Kenzico:


Always dressing like a seductress

Never liked her sef

betatalknaija:
Finally take control of your destiny by deleting the negative habits that have been dragging you down

Many of you will resolve to start a new positive habit in 2018. Adding good habits can be fun, but unfortunately (most of the time), they don’t work. Approximately 38 percent of Nigerians will make resolutions, and only 8 percent will succeed.

Instead of adding a new diet or workout regime, let’s remove the negative habits that have been holding you back.





Source: https://www.inc.com/chris-dessi/17-bad-habits-you-need-to-kill-in-2017-to-be-more-successful.html

Good one

espn:
Irritating guy..

Disgusting, weird, etc...

BiafraBushBoy:
There are several mindsets that hurt your success in life, and you should think of dropping it in this year. You can also drop yours if you have some to write using the comment section.

Running this race called life is a full-time job on its own, and without guidance, we might just implode and fail. There are some mindsets that we all had growing up, and once things don’t go like we assume, we go to a state of depression. This post is aimed at eradicating such mindsets.

If you are ready, let’s take a look at the mindsets that hurt your success in life and its solutions.

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Saving is Pawn, Investing is Queen, and acquiring assets is King

That might be a long title, but it simply means that saving money can never make you rich. Diversifying, investing, acquiring assets should be the only thing behind your mind in the New Year.

Believing that making plans is the key to success

This should be dropped ASAP. In as much as plans are very vital; without the required action, nothing is ever going to happen. A proverb said, “The grave is the richest place on earth because so many ideas have been buried there”. If you have a plan and keep waiting for the right time to execute it, I am sorry it might never just come.

You help people so that they help you in return

This is one of the mindsets that hurt you and sends you to depression faster than imagined. If you decide to help anyone, you should erase the thought of getting appreciation from them or them helping you when the need arises.

Expecting much from people

Whether at work, a friend, wife, girlfriend, or your boss, never expect much from anyone. One good rule of thumb is to assume that they will disappoint you; when they finally disappoint, you don’t get to feel depressed much. If they don’t, you take it as a bonus offer. We are all human, and we are always prone to disappoint. Therefore, never expect much.

Thinking that Prayer is all you need

To all my religious pals, this is for you. Have you ever wondered why it seems that most successful ones are mostly atheist? It is because they have eradicated the thought of any spiritual help, and have channelled maximum energy towards achieving their goals. These type of mindsets will hurt your chances of success in life.

I have learnt to pray like I can’t help myself, and work hard and smart like there is no God.

Copying others because it worked for them

The only thing that sells right now in the world is uniqueness. Imagine if Neymar of PSG decided to force himself to be Left-footed because he wanted to be like Messi. Probably Justin Bieber forcing himself to sing like Michael Jackson because he was successful. All you need is to find your strengths and work on it. You would probably end up as the next big thing if you are unique.

Killing an Idea because it doesn’t seem realistic

Nobody knew that we would have a metal that would ever flow on water (Ship). No one saw it coming. No idea is useless; it can only be optimized to become achievable faster. I once sold an idea to someone, and today he earns thousands from the same idea I sold to him. I guess I learnt the hard way. If you can’t execute it, talk to people your support group. They would surely find ways to help you.

Doing things the same way and expecting a different result

A mindset like this was defined as insanity by Einstein. If something isn’t working, all you need do is to go back to the drawing board and find the problem.

“Optimization creates efficiency” – Mike Umunna.

Whether you are a job seeker, a businessman/woman, and student, if you have tried something more than once and it doesn’t work, just go back to the drawing board and fix it.

“Which other way can I do this” should be the question going through your head.

Quitting after few failures

No matter how much you’ve failed, there is still hope ahead. Stand up, Pick up what is left and fire on.

Trusting people too much

This is one of the mindsets that hurt you emotionally. My MD once told me that he doesn’t even trust himself, talk less about trusting me. We laughed about it but I picked up that point and made it a key point in my everyday life. Just in case you read this, just know I don’t trust you – just kidding, I still don’t trust you

Not learning to forgive

There is no permanent enemy in life. Your enemy might have the key to your success tomorrow. Would you let pride lock down your chances? I have learnt to forgive people in advance because I know you would hurt me along the line. As you read this, I don’t trust you but I forgive you – smiles…

There are several other mindsets that hurt your success in life, but space won’t permit me to write them all. All you have to know is that life is a long journey. The right mindsets and wisdom are the principal things.


I wish you all the best. Remember to subscribe by visiting the blog and get these articles directly to your mailbox every morning.

Source: http://topwritersden.com/mindsets-that-hurt-your-success-in-life/

Just seeing this but THANK YOU. Motivated!

Kobicove:
The guy is looking for attention...very immature post

Very...later they will post that people should respect their privacy

cassidy1996:
it's irritating

Very...

JayCynic:
What is so spectacular about that agbada?? I'd rather spend money buying him educating books than a bullshit agbada.

Correct talk..

They do..

Ugly..

MRSANITY:
Nothing good about a broken home.
See how they are trying to out do themselves with Christmas photo. I pity the innocent child.

My thoughts exactly...

Omooba77:
Christmas remains the best season of the year all over the world!
Christains celebrate it because it marks the birth of Jesus Christ the Saviour of the World.
Even unbelievers observe the period of yultide as a time of holidays, rest and travelling.
Also most developed countries see it as a season for sales in most of their shops.
Majorly it is a period of celebrations.
Merry Christmas and may we all find fulfillment in Jesus Christ the reason for the season!

You said it all...I just so love the season..

Achillesdam500:
Love the duo

My two favourite music stars in Naija!

mrkunlex:
Source: https://www.gotquestions.org/why-celebrate-Christmas.html

Good one..

atheist5:
this 2017 squad us far better though, only zidane,casillas and Raul will get on this side

Figo, Ronaldo, Helguera....

kevoh:
That's good for you guys, next time you will have sense not to waste your money on Nollywood films. I watched the part 1 of the film and deleted the crap movie like a virus out of my computer. It was too fake and terrible for my liking , there was no way I will even consider watching the part 2, let alone spending money at the cinema to see the movie.

Maybe I am the only one yet to even watch that part one....

RedArrow:
Why do you want to know the exact day Christ was given birth to?

If we adopt a day generally acceptable to majority of Christians on Earth to celebrate him, how does that translate to paganism?

If you chose any other to celebrate him, many/few would still have reservations about it.

Christ was given birth to more than 2000 years ago and you are so particular about the exact day and month, do you even know the exact date your ground father was given birth to not to talk of your great ground father and beyond.

Christ is the Reason for the Season, if he hasn't asked us to celebrate it it has he told us not to?

Thank you...

LuvU2:
So much like Genny ❤

Truely...I like the woman and her acting alot

pxjosh:
He's looking like a poor and malnourished Santa.

True..

Cute...just watched her for the first time this evening in that Sons of Caliphate series on Ebony tv

Kizyte:
Abdulsalam Abubakar is the most intelligent criminal in the history of Nigeria. He ruled as Head of State for just 9 months, looted enough money (Trillions of Naira). And in a bid to avoid being probed, he acted a good man by being the first Military ruler to peacefully step down for a civilian government.

Very correct..

Smellymouth:
So na because of Igwe Henry simi expose her breazt?

Lmao...

FortifiedCity:
Whoever made this baby up is an idiot, and the parent who initiated it is mentally deranged

Not a good look. All shades of wrong me think

DOUBLEWAHALA:
frank pls hit the gym as soon as possible you look like an expired corpse

He has grown fatter..

kaycee125:
Beautiful ladies

Beauty and brains indeed.....attractive

thesicilian:
Your long story is more about how you were called to bar (congratulations, by the way ) than about the deceased. You still didn't tell us what led to his being stabbed to death, or by whom.

Damn...thought it was only me who was patiently reading to get to the part of how he was stabbed...whew! RIP Meigemu

goldbim:
Christmas allowance alert loading!!

Hahahaha....

Oh she a gunner ...Happy Birthday girl. Maradona's a hit jam!

Girls...always wanting somebody who will come and "understand them and put up with their drama"....this is line is so played out jor.

sholatech:
I guess that is why Lilian left him...

Think so tok...the kids are almost the same age. He was doing Lilian and the other woman the same time..

Thanks. the first point especially

I like the white chick..

KreativGenius:
you can tell she loves him dearly, look at how she's looking at him

Noticed that too..