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They looked cute together already there was no need for all that display of boobs by her....

But why she call the dude "short man"...

sonnie10:
The problem with girls. They keep comparing their ex with their husband, that is why they don't stay in marriage.

They use trivial things to measure them. The husband would pay house rent, fuel cars and generator, provide money for daily house upkeep and feed them.
Yet, one iPhone and maybe a few Victoria secrets undies that the ex bought is regarded more than the husband sacrifice.

Spot on..

Congratulations people....ya made ur choices

Queen Diva...well done girl

Interesting15:
by Sunday Akanni Moshood

This is such an interesting issue that is of great interest to our yet-to-get-married ladies, but I will try expressing certain things with the little space at my disposal.

First of all, it's quite funny how various meanings are being attached to the term "God-fearing man". To some ladies, a God-fearing man is simply a man that believes in the existence of God and perhaps attend church services every Sunday. You know, someone actually said a God-fearing man is a man that doesn't wear jean trousers (I can't stop laughing at this)

But, who is a "real God-fearing man"? A "real God-fearing man" is that man who has accepted Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, and who is living every aspect of his life in accordance with the will of God. He is a spiritual man, filled with the Spirit of God, who is always pushing towards pleasing God and obeying God's commandments. He doesn't fornicate, he doesn't steal, he keeps running from lies and falsehoods, he doesn't keep bad companies, he doesn't indulge in alcoholism, but he serves God in spirit and in truth.

You will agree with me then that these 'real God-fearing men' are rare, and it's not a surprise why many ladies are interested in having them as husbands. Before telling you how you can get one for yourself as a husband, let me highlight some reasons why ladies should aim at marrying God-fearing husbands.

1. He Won't Cheat On You: Today, it's getting so bad that it is becoming a standard for men to be deemed sexually irresponsible. You hear things like "men are polygamous in nature", "all men cheats", etc. This is absurd, as there are few God-fearing guys who have chosen to honour God with their bodies and are very disciplined.

No reasonable woman want to share her husband with someone else, and so, a woman desire a husband that will stick faithfully to her alone. Many yet-to-get-married ladies are trying to avoid the mistakes which many already-married women made when choosing a husband. Do you know that today, many already-married women are avoiding sexual intercourse with their promiscuous husbands? Why? Simply because, they have seen cases where a sexually irresponsible husband passed to his wife deadly sexual viruses like AIDS, which ended the poor woman's life prematurely. Such women are not enjoying their marriages!

But this is one of the things a woman enjoys when she marries a man that fears the LORD. He obeys the commandments of God that a man should be contented with his wife's body alone (Proverbs 5:19), and should avoid adultery (Exodus 20:14, Romans 13:9)

2. He Is A Responsible Man That Will Give You A Happy Marriage And Life: Of course, marrying a God-fearing man does not automatically guarantee a happy marriage. However, a difference between a God-fearing man and other kinds of men is that, a God-fearing man is a "broken man". That is to say, the Holy Spirit has worked on him, and he will always be quick to make you happy to please God

While various women today are unfortunately suffering domestic violence in their marriages, a real God-fearing man won't dare raise his hands on you so as he won't displease God (1 Peter 3:7, Ephesians 5:25)

He is a responsible man with a good reputation in the society (Proverbs 31:23). He is a hardworking man (2 Thessalonians 3:14) that will indulge in legitimate works (Ephesians 4:28) to provide for his home. Since he won't keep bad companies nor have a concubine somewhere, he is able to give his wife healthy attention so she won't be lonely in her marriage. And since he doesn't waste money clubbing, partying, etc, he will have enough money to channel towards various profitable investments that will transcend into a comfortable future for his wife and children.

3. A God-fearing Man Is The "Real Romantic Lover": Here is how things are. JESUS CHRIST is the Perfect Lover. A God-fearing man is a bride of Jesus. The man learns from Jesus how to be a perfect romantic husband, and he exhibits them towards his wife. So, a God-fearing man is a real romantic man that will 'spoil' you with 'real' and 'pure' love.

You know, I laugh when I hear some ladies saying things like "Christian brothers are boring and unromantic". What you don't know is that, these brothers are only taming themselves now (to avoid falling into sin). Once they get married, they will unleash themselves in marriage!

HOW THEN CAN YOU ATTRACT A GOD-FEARING MAN?

As you should know already, these types of men are rare. Therefore, real God-fearing men are rare diamonds that God gives to some 'selected sisters' as gifts. These 'selected sisters' are God's own daughters which He recognises. These God-fearing guys are His own recognised sons, and He won't allow them marry just any kind of woman (so they won't make them deviate from His will)

Now, how can you as a lady become part of this 'selected sisters' (daughters of God) so you can earn for yourself a God-fearing man as a husband. It is simple. YOU ONLY NEED TO ACCEPT JESUS CHRIST AS LORD AND SAVIOR OF YOUR LIFE, FORSAKE SIN ENTIRELY AND LIVE A LIFESTYLE OF HOLINESS.

If you call yourself a Christian sister and you still indulge in certain unholy activities, you are not part of this "selected recognised daughters of His". You must serve God in Spirit and in Truth.

Additionally, to get a God-fearing guy easily, then you should constantly be around where they can easily notice you. Imagine a lady saying she wants a God-fearing man, but is always clubbing (such can never work). Get closer to God, be busy with God's works, attend church services, dress responsible, etc.

I pray for every sister reading this, you won't miss it in marriage in Jesus Name Amen!


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Valid points. God bless

BlackPantherxXx:
Lilian Bach is super gorgeous.

Wow...she is ageless! Been my crush since the early 2000s. I used to cheekily call her Lilian BASHIRU

She is prettier than the bride...sadly

We had same crush then....Always liked back then. Juliet Ibrahim reminds me of her somehow

Frankyboy1:
Reading through the comments section, I now see why stupidity is on the increase, our youths lacks content and character, what is there to be celebrated in this show of shame called a wife and a mother,

Exactly my thoughts too..

nzeobi:
so babymama and girlfriends are now accolades and achievements that should be paraded on social media for people to celebrate.

Terribly embarasing to say the least...and some people are taking it on their heads like he has done something special...shame!

Justinlean02:
Goal ball Lucas Tor

A really good signing...fantastic

amaniro:
Nigeria Government should set up an organization to eradicate such scenario because its getting consistent now.

So true...

Authoreety:
Humans are gradually evolving into beasts



Lord we need ur intervention, we pray thee

I tell you...

gisthabit:
Source

Good points. So true

IamD18:
A reasonable, respectful and intelligent wife will never say publicly that she can't allow her husband bath their daughter.

That was a very foolish statement and a big insult to her husband.

People should learn how to answer nothing to some questions than to end up spilling rubbish that'll backfire.

Your first paragraph said it all...that was the main mistake by her...

What in da ugly hell....

anjilgreat:
Perfumes or body spray more than 100mls are not allowed.

I will never forget how I had to let go of a very expensive body spray of 200mls that I just bought because I was told that it was against their flight protocol. I had no other option than to give it as a gift to the airport workers.

Wow....noted

ChiefOloye:
This lady is a classical example of the saying "Nobody ugly" I I remember the first time I watched her on Wale Adenuga's Super Story years back... thank God for her new level and status...

Yeah...and she is getting thicker too.

BMZK:
The common ones are tooth pastes and perfumes

They are not allowed?

Good points made..kudos

Praise the Lord...

alBHAGDADI:
I came across a thread on Nairaland where people debated the case of hellfire. Many wondered why God will send a liar or a pencil thief to the same fiery furnace as a mass murderer like Osama Bin Laden. To them, this is unfair and doesn't show God to be a just God. They say earthly judges don't even do such because they give sentences according to the degree of offence. They say "how come a loving God can't do the same but lumps every sinner with the same punishment?".

What do we know as sin? Lying, stealing, formication, adultery, murder etc. But do you know that those sins are not what actually send people to hell fire? If they are what send people to hell fire, then all humanity will end up there. But you say "what about the Christians?". They will end up there as well because they also commit the same sins.


Romans 3:23 - For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;

Romans 3:10 - As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one:

Can anyone show me that Christian who hasn't committed sin in the past one week? You can never find such a person, only a liar who thinks he's perfect. Now, since we are all sinners and are deserving of hell fire, why do Christians say they won't end up there but will be in heaven? Aren't we all committing the same sins?

As Christians, we have been made righteous by one man, the man Jesus Christ. That man has saved us from our unrighteousness and has taken upon himself our sins.

2 Corinthians 5:21
For he hath made him to be sin for us, who knew no sin; that we might be made the righteousness of God in him.

The simple thing we did to receive this free gift of salvation unto eternal life was our believe in Jesus Christ who was given by God to save mankind from their sins

John 3:16
For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son, that whosever believeth in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.

Mathew 1:21
And she shall bring forth a son, and thou shalt call his name JESUS: for he shall save his people from their sins.

That single act of us believing in his word has kept us away from the condemnation of hell fire. We have eternal life because of Jesus Christ.

John 5:24
Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that heareth my word, and believeth on him that sent me, hath everlasting life, and shall not come into condemnation; but is passed from death unto life.

We became sons of God because we believed in his name. And as sons of God, our Father's home in heaven is our home.


John 1:12
But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:

Yes, we may sin from time to time because we are in the flesh which is weak, but our spirit is saved for all eternity. Those sins cannot make us condemned or sent to hell fire, because Jesus said nothing can ever make him cast out all those who have come to him.

John 6:37
All that the Father giveth me shall come to me; and him that cometh to me I will in no wise cast out.

Nothing can make us lose that salvation. Nothing we do can ever separate us from God. Even if we want to leave God, he will not allow us to go because he's a mighty saviour. He is not like earthly Banks were whatever is saved can still get stolen or missing. Even thieves can hack banks and still your money. With God, you are totally safe and nothing, not even sin can pluck you out of his hands.

John 10:27-30
27 My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me:
28 And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.
29 My Father, which gave them me, is greater than all; and no man is able to pluck them out of my Father's hand.
30 I and my Father are one.

Verse 29 says no man is able to pluck anyone Jesus saves out of his hand. This means you are forever saved and can't pluck yourself out no matter what you do. He's stronger than you.

You might say "does that mean I can go about sinning anyhow I like because heaven is guaranteed?" You can only go about sinning if you want to keep getting chastised and scourged by God. Remember he loves you because Jesus has given you the power to be his son.

Hebrews 12:6-11
6 For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth.
7 If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not?
8 But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons.
9 Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live?
10 For they verily for a few days chastened us after their own pleasure; but he for our profit, that we might be partakers of his holiness.
11 Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby.


No matter how much God chastise and scourges you on earth, your salvation forever remains secured. Heaven is certain for you because Jesus already saved you. Can we all see how easy it is to receive Jesus? Isn't this the Good News we haven't heard in a while, that no matter what, we will make heaven if only we believe in Jesus Christ? Believe in Jesus is as simple as drinking a glass of water. It is as simple as smiling and having fun. Why would anyone now think it is difficult to the point that he now embraces the torment of hell fire for all eternity? Don't you know that rejection of Jesus Christ means condemnation for all eternity in the fiery furnace?

John 3:18
18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
19 And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.
20 For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved.
21 But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.

Now, some people might want to play smart by saying they believe in Jesus. But do they know what believe in Jesus entails? They think believing in Jesus which gets you to heaven also entails their own personal works of righteousness. That's why they are led astray by the false gospel that says once you've accepted Jesus Christ, you have to keep going to church, stop smoking, avoid fornication and adultery etc. Don't get me wrong, these things are good but are not what get you to heaven. They don't even play an inch because Jesus Christ paid it all, he did it all on the across all by himself. Moreover, our works of righteousness are filthy rags before God.

Isaiah 64:6
But we are all as an unclean thing , and all our righteousnesses are as filthy rags

Don't tell me you are banking on filthy rags to get you to heaven, a holy and clean place where God lives. Relying on your works makes you no different from the people that built the Tower of Babel. They thought their handwork could get them to heaven, that's why they built the Tower in an attempt to reach heaven. You are also no different from Cain who relied on his work of tilling the soil to produce what he will sacrifice to God, unlike his brother Abel who relied on the blood of the lamb alone, which is a representation of Jesus Christ. Mixing your works of righteousness with believe in Jesus also makes you no different from a Muslim who will say he also believes on Jesus, yet he mixes it with Islam.

Jesus paid it all and to him we owe it all. He gave us the gift of eternal life in salvation. It is nothing we ever did but simple believe in him.

Ephesians 2:8-9
8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
9 Not of works, lest any man should boast.

Verse 9 says works doesn't save us. This means if you do all manner of good works without having faith in Jesus, you will still end up in hell fire. Otherwise, Rich men will be able to buy their way into heaven. All they just have to do is use their money for charity works like Bill Gates does. Your works don't get you into heaven, Jesus does. Not that works are not good, but works without faith in Jesus is dead works. If you have faith in Jesus and do good works, you will be rewarded here on Earth and also in heaven.

If you don't do works at all, you will still make heaven as long as you hold faith in Jesus Christ which is in itself righteousness.

Romans 4:5
But to him that worketh not, but believeth on him that justifieth the ungodly, his faith is counted for righteousness.

Friends, the horror of hell fire is real. Don't let anyone deceive you. I was deceived by Jehovah's Witnesses that hell fire doesn't exist. I held that false believe for years until I got saved and my eyes became open to the truth. If hell fire is not real, then what is Jesus saving you from? As seen above, it is easy to accept Jesus and live with him. Please do that now to secure your eternity. May God touch your heart. Amen.

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Thank you. The Lord bless you.

garetz:
Bestie for mouth, people like this are always jealous of their friend's success

Ini is kinda right

Congratulations Super Falcons! i just like that Ordega girl...

So sad....RIP young one

seunmsg:
A. A. Sule is the next governor of Nasarawa state.

I think so too...

soberdrunk:
Feminists will not like this! I still dont know how any 'straight', complete man will allow such a hot wife go, i'd be upset if i had such a hot wife and she has a 'good character'......

She a hottie...

Lilian's cute..

Dearlord:
Irritated

Highly irritated indeed...

Evil people everywhere.....perilious times indeed!

Khd95:
madness everywhere,i hope his hommies will be there too anytime he fails to rise to call of duty in za ozzza room

Atoh.....nothing special about this stuff they did

bluecircle470:
Let the truth be told, Jose mourinho made el-Classico more interesting. Ever since José left, el-Classico didn’t bring more glamour it has been having.

True that. Even though I don't like Mourinho; I can't deny that he helped made el-classico more passionate and a box office hit!

iyatrustee:
36 kini?

I remember watching him play as a young woman as far back as 2002

Me come dey old so tey I don senior him while him own age dey reduce ni?

Lmao me too....he probably should be 46/48. This one is football age