₦airaland Forum

subsidywise18:
Maybe.

But it does not make it right

Taking the comment to the extreme, we can safely say it was iraq and Afghanistan's fault that Bush and the US bombed them.

Yes, Russia has a right to safe borders. Not at the expense of Ukrainian lives and property

Flier:
You need to see how much the world tried to stop this invasion,meeting upon meetings,call upon calls,I think Putin will never listen till he has enough in Ukraine

oldienavie:
So I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 months and she is perfect, actually she is a virgin, well behaved and very respectful. The relationship is going very fine but I am starting to really think deeply and I may just break up.
Why ? I have lived abroad for a while and do have a very serious phobia for travelling on Nigerian roads, her parents are a journey of 4 hours from where I am and I understand the area is rife with kidnapping and robbery of all sorts.

Abobi your problem is bigger than you and you don't need to involved the innocent girl in it.
In just 3 months you have beginning to consider yourself better or more important than the girl. I think you are yet to open up on the real reason you want to break up with the girl. Anyway whatever it is make it fast before she gets too involved in your phobia palaver

I find myself obsessing over having to make that trip to her parents place and also have my family embark on that journey and I always shudder at the thought of it.

I am seriously considering breaking up with her and looking for a lady whoose parents are here in the same city I reside, cos one of the things that gives me serious head ache is travelling on Nigerian roads.

Since I got back to Nigeria I have not travelled outside of the city that I am and it is because of how serious that phobia is.

But how do I tell her I am breaking up with her for this reason, it sounds very trivial but its a serious issue for me.

OluwoR:
Sir, before I'd open a thread about this, you should know I must have tried all possible best
Sir, anything that has to do with sex, she just doesn't want to hear it
she had blocked me on SM on several occasions cos I tried to bring up sexual related matters

abobote:
20k is really very poor. But if its not far from your place, you can manage it.
Then continue your search for a better place with the one day off
Good luck

ojesymsym:
This is one irony of life that I don't often understand. Many women die from child delivery in even very good hospitals in Nigeria yet you get to hear someone delivered inside keke, bus and in this case in captivity where there is little or no medical support around.
Why then do some women die in hospitals during child bearing

Legendforte:
Hope people understand his role and responsibilities clearly. Why the blame is mostly on him baffles me. Why not Buhari, min of educ, min of fin, AGF, econ et al.