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Foreign AffairsRe: Zimbabwe quadruples electricity prices amid blackouts by mudiana(m): 6:58am On Oct 10, 2019
If Bedc gives 6 hrs of power in 24 hours isn't that 18 hrs of blackouthuh
FamilyRe: Suspecting My Husband Is Gay by mudiana(m): 1:16pm On Oct 05, 2019
May God help me one day so I don't kill somebody, cos the way a guy at work puts his hands on my shoulder, press my shoulder Nd grabs my hand, I know I will kill someone soon enough. I will sit and he will come sit closer then he will grab my thigh and press it, haaa! I see it now... This boy na gay, I will break his head the next tym he tries putting his filthy hands on me.
CelebritiesRe: Alexreports & Wife, Esther Benson Welcome Baby Boy. Olakunle Churchill Reacts by mudiana(m): 6:31pm On Oct 04, 2019
Donald95:
Your type full my Church Assemblies of God. Una job is not to listen to preaching or concentrate in praising God but, you people are good with pressing calculator to know the total amount of offering given. Checking for errors in Pastors preaching or looking for something to gossip about.

Instead of being happy for the good thing that happened, you are busy calculating pregnancy days.Nna nawa o
AG pple.... Hahahaha. My childhood church. The best family church I know.
CelebritiesRe: Rachel Bakam Marks Independence With A Date At Refuse Dump by mudiana(m): 9:56am On Oct 02, 2019
NOC1:
They are more than okay, this is the present day Nigeria where the elites (political leaders) wine and dine in the midst of rot.
Where they see it’s citizen in pain and abandoned them.
In one of the pictures they should have been tip-toeing to make there way to the refuse dump site.
I love your explanation. Kudos!!! I want to copy part of it pls.
RomanceRe: Muslim And Christian Lesbian Partners Wed, Spark Outrage On Twitter (Photos) by mudiana(m): 1:52pm On Oct 01, 2019
Whatever pple decide to do with their lives is none of my business oh. My own is that I can't have friends that are gay. That shit irritates me, someone has to respect my own opinion.
SportsRe: Arsenal’s Best Line-up To Face Man Utd: No Xhaka Or Ozil by mudiana(m): 10:46am On Sep 30, 2019
cenaman:
man u 3 vs 0 arsenal, I will cut off my balls if man u fails to get a point in this match.
eya! Ur balls must go by ur own hands today cos the man United I have been supporting for years is turning into a joke.
CelebritiesRe: Zlatan Ibile ‘Tacha Body Odour' Song: Nigerians Slam Singer by mudiana(m): 9:52pm On Sep 29, 2019
Biglittlelois:
Honestly what he did was totally wrong.....
I agree with you totally. The show itself is a stupid show. Hope u agree with me?
RomanceRe: After Bbnaija My Girlfriend Will Get The Shock Of Her Life by mudiana(m): 4:50pm On Sep 27, 2019
Any gal that watches TV like ode! Can't be my gf. Thank God my babe get sense.
PoliticsRe: 3rd Term Agenda: President Buhari's Supporters Start Movement (Photos) by mudiana(m): 11:34am On Sep 22, 2019
leofab:
He deserves even beyond
no bi where money dey person dey go thief, the chief Thief is the governor himself so armed robbers don't have to compete.

PoliticsRe: "Buhari Is Planning A 3rd Term" - Deji Adeyanju by mudiana(m): 12:43pm On Sep 21, 2019
When osinbajo said buhari will lift millions out of poverty in 10 years, what did you guys think he was trying to say. He was passing a message. Third term is real my friend. Buhari is a criminal!!!
Nairaland GeneralHeavy Downpour In Benin City Sacks Occupants In GRA by mudiana(op): 6:27pm On Sep 18, 2019
Heavy downpour in Benin city today, 18/09/19 leaves occupants of g.r.a @opp. omorodion street off aideyan street without a place to call a home. I had to take pictures to let the governor of the state know his backyard needs help too. Urgent attention is really needed in this area.

TravelRe: Guy Insults Canada, Girl Defends With Posts That Got Over 1M Likes And Retweets by mudiana(m): 11:33am On Sep 18, 2019
solmusdesigns:
Some unpatrotic Nigerians would rather insult their country
abeg Siddon dere. Is this one a country. We have light now for over 3 hours, my heart dey fail me cos I know it's not suppose to pass two hours. The next thing they will do is to punish us for having light for over 3 hours. Is it our fault someone forgot to off the light after two hours. See how I am panicking cos the light hasn't gone off cos I know by weekend, they decide not to give us at all cos we hard it more than 3 hrs today. Tell me, is Nigeria a normal country like this?
CrimeRe: 3 Suspected Kidnappers Shot Dead In Kogi by mudiana(m): 7:44am On Sep 15, 2019
davillian:
Graphic pictures please!
If our security agents wants to work they work and if they don't want to work they don't work.
wat do u want to use it for pls?
EducationRe: Loss Of Accreditation: UNIBEN Optometry Students Protest, Block School Gate by mudiana(m): 5:30pm On Sep 02, 2019
Thank God that dull VC is leaving soon. Since he became VC, the school died.
PoliticsRe: APC'll Win Kogi, Bayelsa 2019 Governorship Election - Tinubu by mudiana(m): 9:05am On Sep 01, 2019
I wish I can see Tinubu ryt now, I will spit in his face. Another 4 years of suffering for kogi people. Wicked politicians.
CelebritiesRe: Tee-Y Mix And Ivie Ogbonmwan Wedding Pictures by mudiana(m): 11:00pm On Aug 24, 2019
Ty married my former school mate. The gal is fine sha. No jokes.
CrimeRe: Nigerien Man Who Climbed Plane About To Take Off, Deported By Nigerian Govt by mudiana(m): 8:51am On Aug 24, 2019
BrainSanitizer:
Please oh. Let me ask this question.
Do moderators read the content of posts before moving them to front page?
I don't seem to read any meaning in this post.
Maybe I'm the one not comprehending it?
Somebody please help me.
Hanging in Lagos. Plane headed to port Harcourt. Arrested and detailed. Taken to psychiatric hospital. Everything seems to be happening within Nigeria.
Then suddenly, immigration and deportation to his country came in.
Is he not a Nigerian?
Or is the Lagos they are talking about in another country?
Please I need help.
after I read your comment, I became more confused. My brain is doing roborobo ryt now.
HealthRe: Bushes And Snakes Take Over Uniben Medical Students Hostel (Pics) by mudiana(m): 7:45pm On Aug 20, 2019
The vice chancellor of that school is a slowpoke. I tell you first hand. The worst ever.
RomanceRe: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by mudiana(m): 7:54am On Aug 07, 2019
SingleGuy9999:
Good day guys, I'm not really too active here, but this is a 2nd account I created for this. I am 22 year old student in my final year. But I've never had a girlfriend, also I have never had sex, but that is not the major problem as I can easily get a hooker and pay. I feel I'm pretty good looking, at least average. This would be a little long, pls try to read through.

My problem is I can't seem to get a girlfriend, I have been rejected by girls like 7 times in a row or more...I don't meet that many girls but I do go out and meet sha and if I like a girl and I feel she's someone I can date I ask her out. If we aren't really vibing I just delete their numbers and forget about them. But I keep getting rejected by all the girls I've asked out, they either see me as a friend and tell me stuff like I'm a good friend or they not ready for a relationship or that they feel I have no feelings for them...like wtf

It's really frustrating so much that it's literally killed every confidence I have to ask girls out. Like the last 3 girls I wanted to ask out I ended up not bothering since I know it'll end same way...planned to ask one out today but I just couldn't stand to get rejected again...cos even tho I think what I'm getting might be green light I'm not sure about girls anymore...in fact now I'm no longer sure if the girls I think liked me before ever did (I wasn't interested in them so I didn't ask them out). Even the one who made me lose all hope was after spending so much time with a girl, I was asking her out for 4 months, I never tot I'd ever ask a girl out that long but I was blinded by love...and we spent so much time together, my friends kept wondering if we were dating but she never said yes even tho she said she liked me too but kept giving excuses...and I pretty much abandoned chasing other girls in for that while...but I still got a no at the end with story changed to she tot she liked me but was just trying to as she could see I was in love with her and didn't wanna break my heart...

That killed my confidence, and I'm not blaming her or anyone...now since then I've only asked 2 girls out, and I still got rejected...

I spend time with the girls, we hang out, flirt, chat etc but they would never date me... I've gotten so lonely as I want to date someone I truly care about and I have even questioned if it's possible for 2 people to fall in love with each other out of the billions of people on earth.

I've heard from someone that I play with girls too much so they won't take me seriously, another was that I'm nice (I don't think I'm that "nice guy" cos I won't go extra mile for any girl just cos I like her, but I'm understanding and I think I tend to make excuses for people when they disappoint). And I'm tired of girls seeing me as a friend, or being taken for granted. In fact my best female friend is one who I asked out before.

When I see people dating I wonder if they from another planet, I can't figure out what's wrong...is it that I have no luck with girls? I have gone online, read books etc. They all keep saying same thing...they talk about confidence but I had that...tho right now I just fake it cos all my confidence is gone with numerous rejections. Then I read about working on yourself, I have done that, I may not be anywhere near the freshest guy but at least I'm sure I'm okay. They talk about creating tension and stuff by making contact and I do that, I hold them around the waist etc....

So far I even read that I shouldn't blame myself or stop trying to figure out what went wrong when I face rejections, that's what I'm doing now...but nothing seems to be changing. I rarely spend time with girls again, except some good friends, and instead I've been focusing more on my hobbies cos I now see it as a waste of time when it only ends in rejection. I think of going out with a girl but I just rather sit at home or spend more time with my guys or even spend the money on them cos I'm fed up. The thought even crossed my mind to give up on girls since it never seems to work...I'm not used to multiple failure as even in other stuff I don't fail as much, but I just can't seem to get it to work with girls. Everything seems fine at first and going smoothly but it all ends with rejection.
I don't wanna give up on girls and I know there's nothing left of my confidence when it comes to girls, tho I fake it...and I will never result to insulting girls just cos of my rejection.

Pls I need real advice on what to do, I have exhausted all my options, and today I resolved to never ask any girl out till I'm 99% sure she'll say yes, but is that even possible? I know every guy gets rejected but it's not easy when u get rejected several times in a row by girls you have serious feelings for.

Should I just cut my losses and give up on girls? For months I spent time on other things and never really cared about any girl any longer but now that feeling is back with this new girl but I can't even ask her out cos I can't say for sure what her reply would be... maybe a no as I usually get...

Pls don't insult me or call me names I just need advice that would help
learn from a former virgin who spent years chasing one particular gal. Go develop urself bro, be a money magnet. Pursue ur dreams in life cos disturbing urself about gals would only make u slow in achieving what matters to you which is a successful life. When u re successful, gals will come and you will choose like you are buying a fine suit from a store. Go and be successful my G.
Foreign AffairsRe: Trump Reacts To Rapper ASAP Rocky’s Release From Jail . by mudiana(m): 6:19am On Aug 03, 2019
No matter what people say about Trump, dude puts his citizens first but here in Nigeria, Buhari the modafoka puts his cows first. Stupid old man.
PoliticsRe: Sowore's Arrest.... Eye Witness Report by mudiana(m): 6:14am On Aug 03, 2019
Buhari and his cohorts are mad. If they don't want a better Nigeria, then we must cancel that stupid amalgamation. Let us split and grow individually.
PoliticsRe: Obaseki Is An Ingrate, Ayiri Emami Blasts Chief Edwin Clark by mudiana(m): 9:59am On Aug 02, 2019
Ogun go kill Ayiri. Wetin concern am with Edo state. Criminals!!!
Christianity EtcRe: Video Of The 2-Year-Old Boy Who Killed A Snake Being Interviewed by mudiana(m): 5:37am On Aug 01, 2019
revenge001:
Op stop deceiving yourself, you and i know there's no God, stop trying to force US agree with you for what never happened.... Once again THERE'S NO GOD, I CHALLENGE HIM/HER TO A FIGHT
it's only a fool that says there is no God. U want a challenge bah? U LL get one by this weekend. Hope u learn fast.
PoliticsRe: Senator Abbo: Young People Learning From Me by mudiana(m): 2:02pm On Jul 31, 2019
All2Gists:
Learning What..?
how to slap women and get away with it even when the evidence is crystal clear for all to see.
PoliticsRe: President Buhari Directs Gov. Obaseki To Issue New Proclamation Of State Assembl by mudiana(m): 7:59am On Jul 29, 2019
Na wa. Make em leave obaseki for us na. Stupid APC pple.
PoliticsRe: Governor Obaseki Supported By Market Women, Labour Groups, Youths, Others by mudiana(m): 9:25pm On Jul 11, 2019
Oshiomole tried but Obaseki is doing better. I wonder why they are fighting him. His impact is seen everywhere.
CrimeRe: Man Who Raped 16-year-old Girl In Ogun, Arrested By Police (Photo) by mudiana(m): 12:31pm On Jul 01, 2019
You know some idiots really said, how will somebody wake up in the morning just to go and rape. Like rape only happens at noon time. This man went to this gals house and asked after her parents and when she said they have gone to church, he raped her. Fatoyinbo went to busola's house, knowing her folks were not at home and he did wat, coza her with a bottle of krest. Rape no get time frame for occurance.
CelebritiesRe: Ubi Franklin: I Made 10 Billion Naira In 7 Years by mudiana(m): 8:07am On Jun 26, 2019
Him better get nice tax payment record with FIRS. If not, him go pack comot Nigeria.
PoliticsRe: Ben Murray Bruce Agrees With Emir Sanusi That Subsidy Will Bankrupt Nigeria by mudiana(m): 7:20am On Jun 26, 2019
Abeg if dangote refinery starts working, shey there will still be subsidy?
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Is Planning To Commit Suicide Please Help Me "Screenshots" by mudiana(m): 11:24pm On Jun 25, 2019
Sorry oh! Somebody says they want to kill themselves. Why not allow em, after all you didn't send em the message. They should make it quick and allow ventilation for the ones alive. Atleast oxygen wey the person dey breathe go reach others share
CrimeRe: Chrisland School Supervisor Accused Of Defiling 2-year-old Pupil Sent To Prison by mudiana(m): 10:56pm On Jun 25, 2019
I don't believe this story. It looks like a frame up.

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