A young Nigerian man has made his father's birthday special by gifting him a brand new Mercedes Benz SUV.
The surprise took place in the presence of friends and family members.
The father of the young man couldn't contain his happiness after the surprise.
He was indeed overjoyed.
make una no dey come here come post nonsense like this. Abeg! Seun I use God beg u. If person post something like this, make them post the work wey d person dey do with evidence. Young boys are doing crazy things cos of peer pressure. let's be guided abeg! Abeg do the needful Bros Seun.
Alitair: The truth is a smoker will always give birth to a smoker
Use your head so you will not give your father High BP.
If I were you, I will stop casting around the house and environs where you are known. If you ain't in school yet then be patient and try to get admitted.
It will help to rebuild the trust between you and your father.
that is not true at all. smokers don't give birth to smokers. It's a habit that can be learnt.
adetula148: There is this lady I love so much, we work at the place, and we were good but she happens to be a Jehovah witness.
We have been dating for a year and half now but most times I have issues with her texting other guys and she kept saying they are just friends.
You can call me a fool but sometimes you love someone so much that you don't want to loose them.
Anytime I try to tell her about how I feel about her texting other guys giving them impression that she is single and always looking out for someone who happen to be a witness but always tell me it's me she loves and those guys are just her friends . Going out to see other guy's on a date and sometimes lie to me , she get mad and never for once say sorry . And when she says sorry, the same thing repeat itself.
Then I just let go and assume those guys are just her friends and I can't stop her from texting her friends but there is something within me that keeps telling me something is wrong. Like I love her so much but I still have this trust issues ,like I want to be convinced that I am wrong and try work on my trust issues.
Just yesterday I just login to her Facebook because she gave me her phone sometimes to help her format it and restore her apps back but she could not remember her password, so I had to reset it and get them working.
So I login to her Facebook then I realized she has been sneaking out to see another man who happens to be a witness because my place of work . We spend 2 months in and 2 weeks out , even her time off she plan on going to see him yet lied to me she wanted to go write exams and look out for other opportunities and she told me we would see when we out and spend time together .
Like we go on leave and off days same time ,for me we were so close and we even kissed and hugged that same week. Like she was already certain to end up with this guy yet she still call me and tell me she loves me . But one thing about me is I can't keep things to myself I got mad then I texted her .
She greeted me well then I suddenly asked her about the guy . She denied it totally and asked if I had a prove . Then I sent a screenshot then she said "did I not tell you that I can't marry someone who is not a witness then I was like Bleep". This same person we talk almost everyday , see everyday , kissed and do crazy stuffs even at work now say all these to me. Like I almost died yesterday. I told her all this then she said " I just love you as a friend and you are my best friend" .
Then I asked since when ? She just ignored me all through then line busy. I just blocked her and delete her number because she was not even sorry .
Here is my question, why are witness like this ?
This will be my first experience with them and I will say this really hurt me. Like I can't even think well. So a relationship of almost 2 years just a waste?
So all those I love I love you were just jokes? I just pray God heal me fast .
Like I really loved her. Now I don't know what to do. The job I am managing for now we both work there. How do I face her? Like am still looking out for another job but now I just have to leave this job and move on.
I just decided to share this with you all so you can learn from my foolishness and advice me on what to do.
Do have a nice day .
oga chop and clean mouth naim em dey use witness gals do my guy. Na their pple em dey marry. chop Wella, vandalize am... Waka ur way
when Davido just gave Chioma her assurance "Porsche Cayenne". three weeks later a guy drove a white Porsche cayenne to my complex building to load white cement in the back seat and trunk.. The guy load the car full and drove away. My guys I was shocked.
Princess80: Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.
Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.
If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies If u give us groceries, we have to give u food If u give a house, we give u a home Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.
In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.
When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does. U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night. Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share. Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi. Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.
Oya let the insults pour 123 go.
I almost married my ex because of this kind of talk. Thank God I didn't cos sapa for dey hold my throat by now. The woman I married now changed my life completely with wat she brought to the table. With our efforts we were able to get better living for us and our children. My guys no go marry okpetu cos of this write up oh! I use God beg una.
alcuin: Driving in Benin City at night is very dangerous now because street lights (except a section of Airport road) are no longer working.
No traffic light works in the city anymore.
All these under Obaseki.
oga shut up. u too dey lie. why are u pple here telling lies. when last did u pass tru ring road at nyt. Obaseki has since November last year started the lighting up process of Benin. Right road during Christmas when I went out for Guinness show was bright like day. Those street lights pole erected at akpakpava, sapele road, airport road and mission road by the past government without installing em with lights and electric cables started getting a facelift in December 2021. I saw them install cables and lights at akpakpava during d festive period. already sapele road from ring road to kada cinemas is already working. Airport road from ring road beyond the airport is already working.
Oga u are just a liar. It's unfortunate how u pple come here and lie blatantly.
she is not getting it anywhere else. she wants commitment. She will be fine if her parents know u re the guy dat would probably marry her. If u think u love her enough u can make that commitment but be ready oh!
something wey una discuss for December 23 Naim una push come here almost a month later. Something dey worry whoever push this thing come front page. madam abeg leave ur boyfriend alone mk e dey enjoy him fantasy. Na too much of porn dey worry am.
My lovely wife and I have been married for almost 2 years now. I know I am not a perfect person and she is not too but we have been managing.
Why I opened this thread is that I am very afraid of her new attitude of always carrying weapons anytime we have a misunderstanding.
It started when I found out she had an abortion without telling me and when I confronted her she flared up and started behaving like a tout jumping here and there.
On Friday last week we were discussing about how to go about the new business I want to set up for her and somehow we got into an argument and she ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife.
Again, this morning I simply asked her to waybill some foodstuffs to her father as I wouldn't be able to do that before heading to my place of business and she grabbed my clothes and started calling me names, next thing she picked up the belt hanging on the wardrobe and started threatening to teach me a lesson.
I have never been a woman beater and honestly don't know what has gotten into her. We have a pending issue we are yet to sort out but still I am keeping my calm why is she the one suddenly going violent??
Please what do I do? I don't want blood on my hands because if I touch her it will be very bad. My marriage is still young.
em carry knife for u and u still dey that marriage. U no know say women Sabi kill abi? dey dere dey endure impending death.
MrHenryFord: I've been out of NYSC for almost 6 years now and to be honest, I am still struggling to make ends meet. I work where the pay is nothing to write home about and I have a small apartment I'm managing. It hasn't been easy at all. One of the problems being my mother who I see as a selfish and greedy person. She's this person that I can't discuss financial constraints with let's say an uncle or even my father in her presence. She'll tell them not to assist me that they're spoiling me, that those who are surviving on 20k monthly with wives and children don't have 2 heads.
As in I no get, I brought a business plan to my father. He's on the verge of assisting me and she convinced him not to help me and the man listened (he's a kind of person that even takes decisions from the woman. Sometimes I believe she must have jazzed him or something because honestly, that man doesn't know what he's doing again.
Funniest thing is that if she's the one the man wants to assist with even a million naira, she will be smiling happy. She no go talk say dem dey spoil her o.
I remember when my uncle sent money from abroad through her, she only gave me a tiny percentage . The man sent #500k to her to give me . She only gave me 30k and lied to the man she has given me the whole #500k. It was when I called the man to thank him I got to know. I just played along like I've received the whole sum inorder not to cause another problem between him and her.
Secondly, she always wants to rip where she didn't sow. I can use a pin to count how many favor she has done for me and my younger ones in this life but yet, she wants to make it an obligation to be taking care of her with the little I'm earning despite the fact that she's working and even earning x8 of what I earn.
Fine I'll give you when I have but no she no dey hear that one. Even wen I was doing NYSC in 2016. She called my grandma on phone and was crying that I refused to send her money.. I was dumbfounded. Me wey dey struggle in the streets of Kano with 19k alawee while she is working in Lagos earning more than 100k yet she still wants me to be sending money to her . It's not even that she contributes her salary to the house. It's my father that does everything. Even ordinary filling of gas cylinder na the man dey drop money.. It was so bad she started reporting me to all my uncles. Most of them who understood what I'm going through tried to talk to her but she wasn't having any of it
Thirdly, as I said in the first point above about my father being her puppet. My mother has a car she bought around 2014 and I can tell you she has never spent a dime on that car. Ordinary to use her money buy fuel na war. It's the man that fuels the car for her. If the car is faulty , she can abandon it for months until the man fixes it with is own money. When it spoils again, she abandons it again and the cycle continues. Meanwhile like I said, she works and earn above 100k monthly o. Sometimes I just keep wandering what she uses her money for because there's really nothing tangible she does to the house. (I have 3 siblings behind).
Lastly, this woman has been disturbing me to marry even as far back as when I was serving in 2016. Even till date, I keep telling her I'll settle when I am financially comfortable but she's always never ready to have any of that. Always using people like teachers and fuel attendants who earn less that 20k monthly and have wife and kids. Fine them get wife and born children but their wives are the type you see fighting with their neighbors and tearing their wrappers everyday. Their kids are the type you see on the streets driving tire naked , blowing banger up and down the streets and moving with bad boys.
Bros ur mama na enemy of ur progress. no vex, some women re like dat.no b all mama sabi do mother duties. u re one of the unfortunate ones. I think u should disown her and disown ur father too for being a woman wrapper. Then move far away from em to start ur life proper. Go for deliverance too. mk e no b say ur mama use ur placenta drink pepper soup.
bigpicture001: My girlfriend whom I have planned to settle down with simply started acting cold and eventually stylishly slide out of our relationship because I sat her down and made a family financial support proposal to her in which she will be financially committed to running the proposed family we intend to raise...
These are the proposal...
1. She earns about 80k wile I earn about 300k.. I asked that we jointly contribute for all the children's Career funding starting from when we get married even before any of their birth.. I proposed 10k monthly from her and 40k from me to a trust account. From it we plan to fund all the children's Career from kiddagatten to varsity or which ever path they choose..
2. That sh choose between Nepa bill or DStv or gotv sub monthly..just one for her
3. I will be responsible for rents
4. We pay into another joint account for vacation once in two years..like sh puts in 20k I put in 50k monthly..
5. I provide all the heavy food stuffs required in the house in large quantities including gas ND change of electronics, but sh provide all the daily food supplements to mk mine complete.
6. She buys her clothes ND I buy mine but we can both surprise ourselfs with gift to the other..
7. I will buy the family car ND maintain it. If she buys no p.
8. I didn't rule out surprise gifts once a while and outting which I bankroll ND expect her to do same occasionally..
Plz oo nairalanders are these responsibilities to a wife too much for her, I mean one who works and earn over 50k...?
I like ur plan. nice one but na only women wey get sense go take am.
AmancalledGod: Good morning friend's, please i really need an urgent answer to this, thou for now I'm still staying with my people (parent's) pls is it proper for a friend to carry a woman to your parent's house to sleep over obviously to have sex with the girl, when your parent's is not around. He has be begging me to allow him come over with the girl.
I have agreed shaa, but I'm still thinking of it if i could have a change of mind.
ur friend is funny oh! ur friend just gat invite him babe and nack while u dey outside dey think which style em dey do. afterwards him go tell u say sorry no vex. what are friends for if not for inconveniences.
don't say dat. ur life is better now doesn't give u the right to say stuffs about oda pple travails. it can happen to anyone. I mean anyone. thank God for wat u have and pray for those with lots of tribulations. I come in peace.
Anonymous993775: This might sound weird but I'm turned on when I see dead women. I find them attractive. I've masturbated to many dead women in movies and graphic pictures on the internet of random dead women, even here on Nairaland. I need some help. Sex with living women is boring and I lose erection. To sustain erection I have to think of them dead.
seunmsg: Shizzy is just another jealous and sneaky brat. Since he was fully paid for whatever work he did with Teni and the contract was terminated mutually, what’s his point again?
Teni is now bigger than you Shizzy, accept the reality and quit hating.
e bi like say this one don mad ni. will u gerat from here.
if u stay house and money come finish, she go say u dey useless forgetting her useless behaviour made you become useless. I know some men go still fall for this trick.
JackDaAlienz: It started on Wednesday when I woke up around 3 am to make video call with my babe in Houston Texas after we had some argument on me cheating. While I was waiting for her to pick up the call,I could hear my neighbor kaboshing and speaking in tongues praying around that 3 am. No issue, so I still call my babe again. She no pick. I just lay back to bed, while my neighbor was still singing worship songs and praying fire fire.
I then woke up around 3:50 am my neighbor still kaboshing and i check my phone and saw my babe whatsap missed calls. I call her she pick up first thing she cone dey para for me say which girl i dey sleep with we I no wan pick her calls. I wan talk she still dey yarn rubbish till the point u come vex. Out of anger I come shout "What is wrong with you!!! Why are you disturbing my life this early morning. She replied that she know I'm with someone there. And I shout again You be Witchhhh, You dey Monitor me Thunder fire you there!!
I cut the call and didn't know my neighbor she heard me shouting and thought I was responding to her fire fire prayers. Next thing I hear is this my neighbor singing in praises saying God has identified my enemies. God has exposed them, holy ghost fire is tormenting him right now. Father expose all of them. I feel like she is referring to me shouting at my girl thinking I was shouting because of her prayers. Now my landlord on thursday evening told me that the woman is accusing me of being a ritualist that her prayers are affecting me at night. I explained everything to him but he still look at me one kind
My broda, how do I clear my name and save image from this kind of mess before she start spreading rumors around the street that I'm a Yahoo plus ritualist
my brother start ur own prayer by 3am, start shouting and singing. buy tambourine so the noise go loud. Then start praying against those calling u a ritualist to fall down Nd die in Jesus name. She go come beg u I swear.