₦airaland Forum

sundayabuo47:
Our billionaires will rather hire a yacht instead of helping the needy

You have no right to tell people how to spend their money. Moreover, it's not the responsibility of an individual to feed the poor. Go and face your elected and useless public office holders.

English Language.

larryeffizy1:
Which way God...

Is God the one ruling your country? Or was he the one that voted your leaders?

Being a military personnel in Nigeria is among the quickest and unfortunate ways to die.

karsey:
Oyibo lifestyle dey off me sometimes

GooI d risk takers

My brothers and sisters from Ughelli,Bayelsa or PH can try this out too

No, they won't. They have no clean water in those places.

virginprincess:
All for attention and fame,mtcheeeeeew.

Says a lady that has never even left the shores on Nigeria. Your background and environment has made you see everything as clout.

Righteousness2:


You say you be big boi or big girl,
You Get the fattest bank account,
You de travel round all the whole world,
You de move with the big toys,

But you don't Have JESUS Christ!
My Friend you don't anything!
You are Empty ! You worthless! You are Nothing!

Even your Jesus would want to sit with Portable.

That's none of my business but if you are an abuser, you will face the wrath of the law.

Keep your mind occupied with something else and also, avoid anything that might make you near alcohol.

Alternative way is to read and watch videos of people with health issues due to alcohol consumption. That will surely make you have a rethink.

Mimicle101:
But in some part of the world where people make babies, baby mama/papa and people don't even care about those things.

Can someone explain to me why please

That's because they don't do do test in the olden days but now, millions of people do it. Also, even in the olden days they used to have stillbirth and they tag it as marine spirit or whatever due to ignorance.

So if you see anyone that married without any test and have healthy kids, it's most probably his/her partner is of a compatible genotype.

Foolish lady. Cry me a river.

MrPRevailer:
So for the past 20 years all these hundreds of thousands of testimonies were PAID? That's what you claim?


This one is testimonies of just concluded crusade "The King has decided to Honor you".
These people are coming for the first time to Chosen. They were looking for solutions not money. They came on 19th and were testifying on 20th.
Stop deceiving yourself. Hellfire is real.

See a few wonderful testimonies in the recent Lagos crusade. Next one is in Osun state 26th and 27th


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VD-98DYodc0

Testimonies of "The King Has Decided To Honor You" Crusade.
November 19th and 20th


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gzeiET9mgqI


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uFOuUMVZe3U


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GwS7Bk6LWGA

Bullshit! You are all gullible, hence the reason you take everything at face value. Goodbye!

Raalsalghul:
God will provide and perhaps one of them might become rich and deliver the family from poverty so it's better she breeds more: the higher the number of kids, the higher the chances.

Bunch of dunces!

Exactly! Gambling with kids' future.

BigYash:
Whatever! Months to come op will understand what his mom is saying right now.. You must be a lady to be talking this way..

No, he won't regret being in that relationship if the him and the lady are considerate towards each other but yes, he might regret it if reverse is the case. So, no, you can't really say!

There are more than two genders in the world and I can be any.

victooman:
so is it when l ignore all relationship that is when l will make money? ,,guy l am 29yrs,, l feed myself pay my bills and dont depends on anyone for a dime,, l should put my life on hold because l want to solve family problems,, the girl in question is even doing well for herself an intelligent and a hard working woman that will push me to my best,, l don't know why my mum is misunderstanding this things,, even at 50yrs guy family problems wont finish

Man, even Dangote can't solve all his family's financial problem. Do your best and leave the rest. Poor people always have kids and see them as investments and later on, they put pressure on them. Don't let family problems or your mom make you ignore your own individual life as long as you're being prudent and focused. Thankfully, the lady is somewhat reasonable and considerate.

zed7:
Shut up. I don't want to be quoted by boys.

Zip your filthy big sewage mouth!

BigYash:
She is not.. The son probably loves the girl more. Meanwhile the babe is supposed to love op more.. And if this is the case,it will ruin him... That is what I think mama is seeing.. My advice is for op to calm down,while he check and balance the whole situation.. No girl loves a man.. She is just playing the normal game,they all play.. Op thinks its love..

Damn! How do y'all think?

Nowhere in the write-up shows who loves who more. Also, if he loves her more, it's nobody's business. So, talk something more reasonable.

The woman saw a picture of her adult son of almost 30-year-old with a woman and she was gaslighted all because he felt jealous, entitled and illogical. She thought the lady is a godldigger, albeit there's no even any gold to dig! A lady that splited the bill just to make sure they could afford the meal without it affecting the guy's pocket.

Yes, they are poor or low-class but that isn't enough reason to to against your adult son on having a relationship. He's doing his best in helping them financially and he's not obligated to! Why didn't the woman have kids she could cater for instead of breeding like rodents?

Karleb:
Having someone to love is a great feeling.

Put yourself first in this case, so long she's not a leach.

At 29, I'm sure your mother was married with at least a kid.

One kid? Most probably 2/3 kids!

zed7:
Your mum is not scolding you because you're too young but because she knows her son is immature.

You finished service last year and your priority is a woman? The money you think you're making now is nothing when a family comes. Consolidate and build yourself up properly.

Women love marriage and grandkids but your mum knows her son is far from mature enough to marry. Be wise son, listen to mum.

No, he's not immature. Your definition of immaturity is wrong and it shows you are shallow. There are more better ways to address an adult male, irrespective of the relationship (son/daughter/nieces etc) between you both.

Most of y'all were raised by parents that were/are bad at parenting!

BigYash:
Your mom is seeing what love has blinded your eyes from seeing in the said girl. That's how love works. Once the love clear your eyes now,you will receive sense.. You will see what mama saw that you never saw,while in love.. And you will forever be grateful to mom.. Help me tell your mom,that I said God will bless her. She will live long in good health and happiness. Na better mama you get op..

The woman is selfish! Her son is not obligated to feed the family!

victooman:
bro l know my mother very well,, even at 35yrs she still dont think l am ready for marriage untill l as the first son make money rescue the whole family out of poverty,, the other day l told her l will like to marry in my early thirties and she was telling me l have to build a house first and raise structures,, i understand her love and expectations but honestly she need to understand that as the first son, l can only support them and not neglect my own life carrying the whole family problems,,

I'm glad you're not living with her. Let her deal with her issues of entitlement. Don't bow to her pressure.

You have your life to live. As long as you are giving back home in your own capacity and also focused on your goals, stand your ground and ignore her!

advanceDNA:
The picture made her rush in conclusion that she's a wasteful geh just ur spending hard earned money anyhow....... . u know say some mothers na old school....those restaurant parole is waste of money to them...

Na u go chnage her mindset about ur girl... let her know how hardworking she is and that she's not a parasite....

No mother wants her son to marry and extravagant wife....she's just looking out for you..

No, she's not looking out for him. She's being selfish and highly entitled.

I wonder why some families do feel entitled to their kids' wealth or life.

This is among the reasons why I always say that people should stop breeding like rodents. At the end of the day, you put unnecessary pressure and demand on the kids, thereby making it difficult for them to focus on their own individual life.

Disgusting people!

Iamdbull:
Dbull on this one!!!


Happy birthday to my mentor.

So sad he's just a few years older me and I have accomplished next to nothing with my music even though we started around same time.

Nigerians and abuse of words. Do you even know what a mentor means?

He should use this moment to reflect on his inadequacies and focus more on improvement.

coputa:
Widespread poverty is not as a result of getting a woman pregnant,what of a scenario where someone doing well financially suddenly lost his job,and hardship sets in, who do you blame, yourself, your wife, your children or the environment you finds yourself.Its not someone that wake's up early that makes it in life, They're adults, they know what is good for them.

You still don't get it. There's difference between you having what to sustain you and/or family and also plan/ready on having a baby AND you having something to sustain you and a girlfriend but not ready or plan on having a baby!

Stop trying to justify irresponsible act. Even the rich folks don't litter the street with unplanned kids.

coputa:
Never hit hard on someone who's down already,he knew he did a mistake,if you can't assist him financially,at least,a word of encouragement could go a Long way.learn how to contribute positively to people's plights.

I'm not a hypocrite. I call a spade a spade. Goodbye!

Why would you have unprotected sex when you ain't ready to father a kid? Why didn't you set your priority right and focus on financial stability instead of fruitless relationship? Why wait for 9 months before seeking for support?

This is how poverty, hunger, insecurity, infant mortality, crime etc keep increasing.

You deserve all that comes your way. Irresponsible boy/man.

GreatVocalist:
Learn to ponder on something you don't understand before labelling it "incomplete and not understandable". If after thinking, you don't find an answer, then learn to ask for the meaning politely. You can't learn if you are too proud.

Zip your mouth. I've learnt more than you could ever dream of with my pride.

GreatVocalist:
If you could, how would you have saved him?

Answer the question I asked and stop avoiding it.

GreatVocalist:
And you think mocking and criticising the dead ones will help those whose lives are on the edge?

You don't know the meaning of mocking. I'm not obligated to change anybody's mind. It's none of my business.