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It's not even expensive, what if I told you that I have an original Balenciaga slide that I bought around $320?


You bought it $320... And so what? Did you grow a third leg?

How does that help anyone? Guy carry sense! People are dying like flies and hunger is upon us and you are talking trash.

Did I hear you say "eat cheese " ?

Dude, she blocked you.

Get over it. Why are you whining. You can block her too. Wtf.

You're actions clearly shows it is hurting you.

Get a life bro.

Yes of course.

Remember in secondary school, we have already known how most of us behaves. You know who is who. You can tell who are bad and good. Most of maintained our secondary school friends till data.

That's applicable to bf and gf stuff too. We have seen people who did not even data back in secondary school coming back to get married to their secondary school classmates. One thing with likiness is the fact that it never dies, rather it develops into love once you really know the other person. You will realize that most of us will never change once we graduated SS3. It's just who they are. Not today's marriage where you don't really know each other. You just jump to marriage because of money or fame.

Those secondary school marriages are the one that really lasts without fornication and abuse. Some people will argue there's no love. How can you say that when you haven't found one? There's love, true love. Most of us will never find it.

You are so right.


so unfortunate the SuperTV CEO was killed gruesomely. guys need to wake up and stop allowing this women use them. if you cant have her at her prime why stress yourself to move the world for her. For me any lady above 25yrs doesn't interest me. catch them young, fresh and enjoy nature. [/quote]

You are not being honest here. Deep inside you, you know there is more to this.

Let's do some analysis here:
1. You have been with him for 3 years, yet that's not enough for you to know if he's the one or not.

2. All of a sudden, you gave your life to Jesus. You didn't take him with you when you were giving your life to Jesus. You said you made a mistake by not praying about it at first. Are you referring to the time you have not given your life to Jesus or are you referring to now that you have given your life to Jesus? The time frame is not adding up because if you said you should have prayed about it at the beginning, was it the time you are still non-Christian because that means you shouldn't have prayed anyways or you don't know what prayer is at that time.

3. You are saying that catholics are not real Christians because you are now a non member. That's so childish.

4. Is your bf a chief priest? What made you think he is not the one just because he's a catholic. You think you are better than the guy. Such a shallow mind.

You are just looking for an excuse to try the new guy That's all over your Dm. This new guy is making you LOL. You lover his fancy, you just like that he's vibrant. His is bringing something new into your life. You think your bf is just not meeting up. We all love new stuff, but every thing gets old my dear.

Women sha. Good luck the new guy. Hopefully you won't change your mind on him too.

Why are you everywhere? I don't think you are a female. Get something more important doing. You just had a baby. Focus on the kid.

Slut shaming you should not be some new. Grow some thick skin. Unless you don't want to be on this forum. BTW why are we exposing guys on your DM? Even their privacy.

Of course! There's true love out there. Not everyone is lucky to find it. Just like every other thing in life. Not everyone is lucky to finding their talent/calling. Some of us who ended up find what we are good at are the ones we are celebrating today. Some of are on the wrong path, we barely can make a living out of whatever we are doing.

So we tell you There's nothing like true love. The simple reason is because they haven't find one yet. So they can't tell. Another reason maybe because some of us have experienced some heart break. Which means at some point they were able to find love.

Enjoy it while it lasts. Hopefully the girl loves you the way you loved her.

Of course! There's true love out there. Not everyone is lucky to find it. Just like every other thing in life. Not everyone is lucky to find their talent/calling. Some of us who ended up find what we are good at are the ones we are celebrating today. Some of are on the wrong path, we barely can make a living out of whatever we are doing.

So we tell you There's nothing like true love. The simple reason is because they haven't find one yet. So they can tell. Another reason maybe because some of us have experienced some heart break. Which means at some point they were able to find love.

Enjoy it while it lasts. Hopefully the girl loves you the way you loved her.

Enjoy yourself bro.

Nothing like original bush meat! It's so tasty!!!

If I could verify your story, I will balance off that money!
Your story is so touching. A lot of people are suffering out there. People are so greedy! Wicked, nobody wants to help. If they want to help, they will do so little that you barely can come up. You will still come up short.

You are very much right. I don't know why girls expect to get some thing that their dad couldn't afford for free. If your dad can afford it, it should have been free.

I feel for the simps!

na their way.

most of them want everything for nothing.

if you will sit down and analyze, you will discover that you have not gained shi-shi from this gal but everyday naso so billing from her.

I have been in your situation before although I no spend reach 600k , me sef the thing tire me i just move.


if you truely get 600k to spend on top woman trust me women go dy give you enough green light because their talent is to smell money.....no stress yourself top that girl.
you are the prize not her.


the only sad part is that she has used you to upgrade herself for her next potential maga.


hope you don learn your lesson and begin to learn how to spot selfish women from afar to avoid stress.[/quote]

You waited so long bro!

Then you are a Simp! When the Redpiller talk about taking the red pill, this is why they want you to take one!

How can you spend 600k with no pussy? To make matters worse, she not even a virgin. So what is she protecting? Guy you are real Simp! I get mad when I see guys fall for this shit. She us fucking one broke guy for free.

She does not offer anything else in that relationship. Let assume she's the one spending and sponsoring you and she said no sex, I can understand. I would like to know what she's contributing since you started dating her.

For the ladies who wants a free ride and looking for a guy to use, please offer sex if you have not else to offer.

Nothing is free! I hope you learned that in Biology about different types of relationships in the animal kingdom.

Why don't you go and do what he did? Why are you being a coward!



3139407298 firstbank
boss nothing is too little or too big
it doesn't matter how we make money
what matters is that we MAKE that money
no need for explanations
congrats bro[/quote]

I would suggest you take the money and travel to Europe or America. At least where you know you will get proper health care if things go wrong.

Leaving the country will also put you in a better position not to beg for money tomorrow. Even if you ran out of cash. Staying in Nigeria will suck up the money again. Then you go back broke. Buying a car, living a lavish life is a big mistake.

People judging you are fools. They are not in your shoes, so how can they judge you for helping yourself and helping others. You saved a life bro.

Enjoy yourself. Nobody is leaving here alive.

You are not a simp. Every thing is not about simp.

Some people who call others simp is either they have not found love or they are lying. Love and feelings can make you look stupid. Someone men on here have seen shitty stuff from women.

Bro why don't you focus on your studies. Finish school first. Women no dey finish. Your school is more important now.

She's seeing someone who is more important to her.

I've been a silent member of this forum for a while. I decided to post this because what I'm passing through right now is severely eating me up.
Before I start, I would like to say a few things about myself. I'm a young man in his mid twenties. I have not been in a lot of relationships/dating. In fact, the only relationship I have been into was the one I had about six years ago, shortly after leaving secondary school. Since I broke up with the girl, I have not been in any worthwhile relationship until about three years when I met this girl in the university. We are in the same department and the same class. I loved the girl and I'm sure she liked me but we didn't date because I wasn't ready for relationship. We were friends and we rolled very well.
At some point, I couldn't hold back the feelings I had for her. So, a few days ago, I asked her for a date which she rejected to my greatest surprise
In her response, she told me that that she sees me as a friend and cautioned me not to ruin the friendship. This response from her broke me down and I die each time I go back to read the chart.
I love her but I've decided to move on. However, the problem now is that I can't move on. I've been trying to get her off my mind for the past few days but can't. I can't even concentrate in the class again neither can I read and I have exams in less than two weeks.
All I need from you is some pieces of advice on how to come out of this mess. You may call me a simp or you may say she has put me in her friendzone but all that insults do not matter to me right now. Your mature response is all I need right now.
Thanks[/quote]

HE CLEARLY MADE A POINT!
What did you gain after writing all this?

America is one of the most developed countries in the world! Thanks to the white people and their vast knowledge and skills. Most of all the black successful people in the US is all white man money! But the true question is, would America be a Shithole If It Was A Black Man Country?

I guess you just wanted to get people talking. Of course if you give blacks chance to run U.S, it will just become a shithole in seconds. Look at south Africa. When white people are in power, south Africa was a very nice place. The moment black people gets involved in leadership, well look at what South looks like now.

Then look at other African countries! Very big mess. You also have to remember when Nigeria was under the British rule, Lagos was one of the best places to live. Very clean and very organized city. Then the white left, look at what we have today.

Go to America, drive around black neighborhoods... you will be so ashamed of yourself.

The fact is, black people can only do better when they are under white men. History has proven that. I can go on and on.

I love her. I'm not sure about marriage yet, but it could happen with her.

Dude, made up your mind. Why are you being so selfish?

You talked about not being someone else savior, etc. I would like to ask you. Have someone else ever helped you out? Haven't somebody saved out of a difficult situation? You see, people like you are the problems with humanity. When you moved to America, someone picked you up from the airport, you stayed in their house, you went to the DMV with someone else's car. I mean, you are now on your feet but you didn't mention how many people who helped you, those people were your savior. Even when you came here for studies.

Now you have been with this girl for 3 years, yet you think helping her get here on green card is a big deal. Let me tell you this, humans can't survive without each other. People like you are the reasons most people are struggling in this life, they hold off helping others. Something that's so simple!
Just green a cards! Again she's not a stranger to you. You have lost people in your life because of your selfishness. If you don't bring her to U.S, she might still come here, with or without you. Those people you lost in the past, they are still alive and doing well. I bet some of them are doing even better than you. You are one of those people that cover their answers in secondary school.

I am sure you are going to exercise same selfish behavior towards your kids. When you help others, you are also helping yourself. I promise you this, If you start helping others, NATURE is going to bless you more. God is blessing you despite your selfishness!

Nobody is leaving here alive!

I wonder what advice you are looking for. You went to the hotel, UnCloth, took a shower together. Then your husband walked in.

Here is my take, your husband is fool to have tried to set you up. Now it's looking as if he set you up, that's why you fall for it. I your mind, you would not have fall for it had it been it was not a set up. That's nonsense!

Then he also bleeped up again. Why would he come in while you guys are still on med? He should have waited for the guy to finish his business before coming in. The guy himself is a big fool to have agreed to play such a role.

For you, there's no going bad. I am sure there's more to this story if it's actually true. Why would your husband set you up? There's something going on here.

If you are thinking about going back to that marriage, you must be making a big mistake. Another man took a shower with you. Sucked your nipples, you lied to your husband about where you are going. Who knows how many more lies you are hiding. You have already cheated. I think he is already tired of you. Or maybe he's trying to find a way to get ride of you. Then your stupid self fall for it because you can't close your legs. I wonder what your body count is!

You are a joker!

So sad ... start looking for another husband asap ... cos if you back na hell be that .[/quote]

Very easy to say.

Kobicove:
Marriage is not a do or die affair.

If you feel you're not happy in this marriage I would advise that you quit now that it's still early

Try and get your husband's ex phone number from his phone. Call her and talk to her in a calm voice. Explain to her that what she's doing is not good and you're aware of everything that is going on between her and your husband. Listen carefully to whatever she's going to say.

Then watch your husband and see if he will still be calling her.
If nothing changes, go to her house and talk with her parents, but before you do that, make sure you have enough evidence against them.

Another thing I would like to ask you. Did you get pregnant to this guy before marriage? Maybe he was dating this girl before he got you pregnant, then he has no option than to marry you. Lot of marriages are in this category. Both parties are in misery!

Did you also by any chance dated married men when you were younger? We as humans always forget that whatever we do, must come back to us. It is just a matter of time. Then add that up with the challenges that nature brings.

Again, if everything else fails, talk to his family about it. You seems like a good wife.

Good luck.

Americaobea:
I'm so emotionally down, so i created a new account to speak out how i feel..
I have prayed and even fasted, now i feel i might do something bad... That's why i need your advice.
I have this strong feeling that my husband of 2years is still having something with his ex... I remember two weeks after our wedding he traveled to imo state to the girl's uncle's house for wiring, that was how i got to know about the ex... He stayed 4days yet he said nothing is going on between them, i was shocked when i realise he saved the girl's number with (electrician), and nothing is between them, and the girl in question calls him everyday yet he denials nothing is between them!
He even lied and told me he went to village one certain time and i called the brother he told me he didn't come.... All this and more i have seen..
I' m beautiful with brain, hardworking and even sexy/romantic to the core... I get alot of distractions o, but we all know those ones ...
I have told him if there's something I'm not doing right I'm ready to learn in all area, and he said I'm perfect for him the way i am.... He even told me he wouldn't have married the lady for anything... And that he will end whatever is going on (it's not the first time)
My problem now is that i don't trust him again, i don't feel what we do.. I'm losing it, I think I'm fed up and i don't know what to do. Please i need advice from mature mind pls.. [color=#000099][/color]

You are not making sense at all. What other evidence do you need?
For her to stay up this late to express her opinion says a lot about how the relationship is affecting her.

If you couldn't contribute, should have just read and slide.[/quote]

This is so sad! You didn't talk about insulting Biafrans.
I just don't know what to tell you.

Goodluck with your ban!

You are so right!

But saying no girl child doesn't make sense at all.

Openbusiness:
No sir, boys are not more dangerous than girls. I have studied both genders well. I grew up attending mixed schools from primary all the way to Uni. I never attended boarding school in my life. So I'm quite familiar with females. I remember when I was in JSS 2, one of my classmates got pregnant, she was like the oldest girl and oldest student in my class then, probably like 13 or so, while we were like 10 or 11. They expelled her from school. The thing is, as per puberty period, take for example, a 14 year old girl and a 14 year old boy, the girls will always be more exposed to negative sexual vices than boys, more than 95% of the time. But it's just that because they are covered with the cloak of weaker gender and look innocent, many people don't usually suspect them when they start to stray. Girls stray early, more earlier than boys. They want to explore their sexuality. But they do it codedly. The average female teenager is in her blossoming years, starting to develop her external sexual organs, starting to ooze off sexual pheromones that scents around her as she goes from place to place, and starting to attract males with her youthful glow, and most times, it is older males that catch and latch on to that scent. They start toasting her. Before you know it, she probably has 20 toasters, but she is INEXPERIENCED AND NAIVE, and if you know the quote that says CATCH THEM YOUNG, well it's a reality with females, they are easier to sway when young and because they are always trying to maintain that public "innocent perception", when all that sexual interactions are going on with the older males (who are more experienced in the wooing game), she keeps it to herself and hides it. Maybe a few of her friends will know, when they share their experiences to themselves in secret. The parent is busy chasing money, has little time to spare to monitor all her social activities, and then plus female children are quite cunning, they lie innocently and easily fool their parents who still think, My daughter is an innocent angel that knows nothing. Before you know it, out of 15 or 20 toasters, she will get sexually involved secretly with 3 or 4 or....7. And because the toasters are usually close by, or familiar faces, everything will be hidden. Her parents won't know. She will hide it. Drivers, teachers, guys in the neighborhood, family friends, senior students in school, uncles, relatives, friends in Church etc, that's the pool from where her first set of sexual exploration will come from. One day I was speaking to someone, a man around 47yrs, and a girl came to meet us, he told her to wait. This girl can't be more than 15 years old. I thought she was his daughter. Later they left. Then I heard the other guys around they were just laughing and talking about them. Out of curiosity, I inquired wassup, the person's daughter looks like him. They were like which daughter? In a very sarcastic way. They said she was his girlfriend. That anytime he comes around to Surulere, that's the girl that he rolls with. That he's taking her to hotel... There was a time i met a small girl in Lekki, she's 16, SS2 or so. Later we would chat on phone once in a while. One day, jokingly she asked me what's the craziest thing I ever done. I thought a bit and sha told her something. Then I asked her she should tell me her own. She said HEAD. I was like Head how? Cuz i didn't want to believe it was the head I was thinking she was thinking. She said head na, you know down there. Oh boy, I just dey shake my head. At 16 she's already getting head. She said her school mate gives her head in his father's car before going home. This na big man pikin oh, attending a very expensive school in Lekki. That was the day I cut her off, before someone will say i'm part of those that corrupted their child, my hands are clean and I prefer it that way. I cannot be explaining something I don't know about... Go to town and see what small small girls are doing, your heart go shake. Go to clubs etc. Teenagers oh, not even young ladies. When I say i don't want a daughter, I'm speaking about current reality in our society. Social media has even made it worse in terms of accessibility. Boys will always be boys, yes. I know how it was for me growing up, I was the stubborn headstrong type, I was 100% naughty, I was part of those they label "bad boys" in school etc and I know how strong hand and discipline from my 1st born and school principal set me straight. Boys just need discipline to keep them on the right path. Girls are complex. At the early stages, boys are actually more "innocent" than girls.

What is her number?

TheGenius001:
Good evening Guys.

I'm really confused at the moment. There is this girl I have known for quite a while now and I'm not ready to go into any relationship with her. She is 20yrs old and a student. She always sends me Videos of her being Stark naked in return for money. I have no problem with that and she doesn't too. She said she trusts me to keep it as a secret between us both and that I'm the only guy.......bla bla bla.

Just the other day I asked to sleep with her since there could be more to just sending me her naked body videos and asking for money, that maybe she needs SEX from me but she said she is a Virgin and that she doesn't see herself sleeping with me in her life except I later turn out to become her future Husband. Just imagine! I'm a very handsome guy, ladies flock around most of the time and I usually don't have their time.

Please how true is that
You always send me your Stark nude videos but you said you're a virgin. Mind you this girl tells me all her secrets. But in the aspect of being a Virgin is what I don't understand o.

Pls I need someone clarification, Thank you.

Also, why does she not feel I might use the videos against her wish someday in the future to eventually get the sex from her?

Modified: Pls I never forced or begged her to send me her Videos for money. She just sends and beg me to send her money. Honestly I have no problem with it cos I like what I use to see.

What is Colorado?

Causes of temptation must be removed.

A lot of people are telling him to report him to the authorities. Did all of you read between lines? He likes this guy, can't leave him, wants to be flowered on her wedding night etc. Rape is rape. But this was someone she's dating. The Op knows too well, that dating someone comes with consequences. Why date someone if you can't pay the price?

You did mention how much this dude have spend on you.

You can't marry him or your family will not allow you marry him. His financial stability is what is driving you towards him. If not, why would you be so close to him in a way he would have taken advantage of you?

If you know you don't love him that much, why date him?

You are just looking for sympathy here. Move on with your life, life is not perfect, it doesn't always work the way we planned it.

You made a mistake in the first place by putting yourself in such situation. He didn't kidnap you and rape you.

You can report him if that makes you happy and accuse him of rape. But I Know very well your conscience is killing you.

You lead him on, made him believe he's the right person for you. Now you are trying to do what women do best.

Some of here don't even know the whole story.

I will never support rape, but women think in a certain way.

If reporting him makes you feel better, go ahead!

But I know you will not. From your replies I can see you feel bad about the whole situation.

Those who are telling you that he's not your husband, how did they know?

Had it been they said otherwise, would have married him?

Stop listening to what people are saying.

It also looks like you are not yet mature enough.

You still don't want to settle down. You still want to play around.

This is my final take. If you like him, marry him. If you don't, then move on. Other guys here are saying get him arrested. They are not saints. 95% of women lost their virginity out of their onw will. Not rape, but similar to this type of situation. It feels sad sex afterwards. But don't let that ruin you. Like you said, you are just looking to reshape your mind set. Had it been this guy kidnapped you and all that. Then I will be on the side of you reporting him and going through with all the drama.

Don't date if you don't want sex, don't visit a guy in his house if you don't want sex, don't accept money and gifts from a guy if you don't want sex. Don't just be around any guys in an excluded area or place.

Nothing is free in this life. And nobody is perfect.

smileing:
Please I need responsible advice

Many were coming as suitors but I don't know why I let him come closer.

He forcefully took away my pride and I was hurt. He said he did that cos he doesn't want to lose me

I wanted to leave but I couldn't cos I love him.
I don't offer sex cos I'm religious and I believe it's a sin. Told him to wait till marriage but he wouldn't.
for almost a year we ve been courting I didn't allow him touch me.

Till this day he forcefully had sex with me .
He wants to come pay my dowry but I'm not sure that my people will let me marry him. I too went and prayed about him and they told me that he is not my husband (about 5 different people said it)

He is OK, financially, is educated and promising.
But not God-fearing as I wanted.

Now I'm pained for what he did to me .I'm grieved cos I wanted to lose my pride on my wedding night.
and I'm thinking of leaving him cos I'm hurting so much now.

I feel less of myself and sinful too


Please what should I do?


those that married non Virgin how did your spouse take it. I need to know cos it ll help reshaping my mindset

Causes of temptation must be removed.

A lot of people are telling him to report him to the authorities. Did all of you read between lines? He likes this guy, can't leave him, wants to be flowered on her wedding night etc. Rape is rape. But this was someone she's dating. The Op knows too well, that dating someone comes with consequences. Why date someone if you can't pay the price?

You did mention how much this dude have spend on you.

You can't marry him or your family will not allow you marry him. His financial stability is what is driving you towards him. If not, why would you be so close to him in a way he would have taken advantage of you?

If you know you don't love him that much, why date him?

You are just looking for sympathy here. Move on with your life, life is not perfect, it doesn't always work the way we planned it.

You made a mistake in the first place by putting yourself in such situation. He didn't kidnap you and rape you.

You can report him if that makes you happy and accuse him of rape. But I Know very well your conscience is killing you.

You lead him on, made him believe he's the right person for you. Now you are trying to do what women do best.

Some of here don't even know the whole story.

I will never support rape, but women think in a certain way.

If reporting him makes you feel better, go ahead!

But I know you will not. From your replies I can see you feel bad about the whole situation.

Richy4:
This sounds to me like a bad scripted movie...

The dude raped u..and u chose to keep it bottled up...

You said u can't leave because u love him... ok

If you don't want to marry him, and the thought of marrying him has not crossed your mind what in God's name where you doing with him for one year?

You can't have all the package at a go dear.. you said he was financially ok, educated, promising.. etc but not God fearing.. I guess you were thinking that you might change him....and he ended up changing u..
If u loved him as u claimed, accept him with all his faults.. don't let any one decide for you whom to be with..

If you don't want him, you should have ended it long time ago.end it.. don't marry him because you were no longer a virgin...that will be suicidal..
A lot of men would still want to be with you not because of your virginity...

Please next time don't go to a man's house when you know that you won't play ball even if he is an angel.. always meet at a public space.. even when you were hugging him, give some room for Jesus between the two of you..

You are right.

I strongly believe in getting a virgin as a wife only if you can and only if you deserve it. I know it doesn't guarantee if the marriage will last, etc.

But if you are a fuckboy, don't look for a virgin to wife. After fucking all these girls, you will be looking for a virgin to wife. God punish you there. If you are a fuckboy, God must reward you with a fuckgirl.

The fact is, women can never tell you how many dicks they have chopped. The sad thing is, most poor background girls are the worst. They will Bleep for anything.

It's so sad that my fellow man will wife that one someday. Still think he's maybe her second dick or something.

Women should stop giving guys pussy. Guys stop giving women money for pussy.

The amount of sex that goes around nowadays is so ridiculous! That's why if you can marry a virgin do it!

In my own opinion, I think being a virgin should be one of the requirements for getting married nowadays because of the high rate of immortality around us. This was done back in the days due the high rate of women sleeping around. I think those practices should be brought back to curtail this nonsense. Slay queens here and there.

Guys needs to wake up!

PIXSPEAKS:
chaii this life no just balance oo.
I hear some guys say that em babe had one relationship/boyfriend before am and in his mind,the body count is commendable.
My brothers,it doesn't matter oo.
Before now,I had a thought that if I don't get a virgin,I might settle for a girl with less body count but this my neighbor has changed my mind.
My neighbors girl came around March from univ, a girl of 22 at most before the lockdown.
From march till date, she has been around
(of course,thats not the problem).
the problem is from that date till now, a day hardly pass without a round of loud sex.
I live in a 2 room self con apartment and same with my neighbor in the compound(only us)
While trying to work with my system in the evening,babe go dey shout.(Oga has big #200 cucumber size gbola) Night,the same..

One thought keeps running through my mind, who will inherit this girl later?
they will say sheepishly'My babe had one ex, do u know how many time the pussy was bleeped recklessly'
A girl that will not say no to at least a day off, can she be trusted to stay while you travel?

So I would advice girls, keep your milage low for you future hubby..
Chaii each time I sees this babe,I feel like vomiting..its too much.

They have started for night shift now.. So annoying..