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Don't ever tell him anything! I repeat, don't tell him!.

Every marriage has it's own secret.

You don't even know your husband's secrets. The last thing is finding out and divorcing you. But don't use your hands due to fear and burst your bubbles.

Let it be! Pretend as if you don't know anything happened.

But what you did is what most Nigerian girls do. A lot of men are raising daughters and sons of other men. When we talk about cheaters, women cheats more than men.

There's this couple who was getting ready to migrate to the U.S. after DNA tests, out of the 4 kids, only 2 was his own.

Without trying to bring his family the U.S, until he dies, he will never know!

So just wait, he might never find out. Think about what will happen if you ever tell him.

The thing is this, call that stupid man that got you pregnant, tell him you wanted to see what his actions would have been, had it been he got you pregnant. Then you found out he wasn't man enough. That he should never contact you ever again. That you are married now and happy.

I am sure he's not sure if you are pregnant for him or not. He can only scatter your marriage if only he knew what you know.

This is really heartbreaking for my fellow man.

heendrix:
Dumbfounded really

There's nothing to create.

Where are you going to start? Are you going to start off on what white people have built?

You have to really look deeper than what you are seeing with your physical eyes.

Just think about NASA! Lol. We are not going anywhere!

Remember, naturally all things can never be equal.

ModestGal:
You speak my mine. One of the reasons I don't have physical friends is because people like you are so rare to find. I love you already. I'm more than happy to connect with you. Reading your post gives me so much smile, it gives me hope that this race can still be great, and that our coming generation will have a reason to smile. Let's create our black wall street, a strong one. Kindly chat me through my signature

What do you mean by individual smartness? Look we don't have what they have by nature.

White people set up everything we are using today. We might have come up with some ideas, but they have perfected whatever ideas we might have. Look around you, everything we have today is made by white men.

Black people will never perform better. We have same opportunity they have ever since! Do you know why white people enslaved us?

Do you know why they still control us?

Look at what is happening in all African countries. Not just Nigeria. Then look at all the places white people are occupying. This is 21st Century.

I am hoping things we definitely get better, but not to the point white men will stop leading us.

Sometimes I wonder what would have become of us Blacks without white people. Look at how many blacks who are dying everyday to reach Italy. No place like home, but home is where we get killed.

We hate ourselves so much! I am tired of the black race. Now this is not about being brainwashed, but it's about facts!

Not hospitals, not electricity, no roads, crimes, no jobs, we push our cash overseas, employ white men to do everything. Run away from Home, no system of government. I CAN GO ON AND ON.



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Hmmn, but how will you explain individual smartness, for instance, if you take someone from those races, side by side with a black man, given thesame oppourtunities, its possible they perform thesame way or the black man performs more. Tell me why[/quote]

This is coming from a woman. I really applaud you for this.

Now listen, there's something called natural limitations. People are limited to certain things by nature. It doesn't matter how hard you have tried, you can not go ahead of yourself.

Forget about all those saying that you can be whatever you want, everyone is created equal (depending on the context) what a man can do, a woman can do it better. Etc. Naturally nature has designed everything for us. No matter what we do, we can't get ahead of it. Don't get me on wrong on the woman part, of course there are exceptions in everything.

Remember the guy who invented the DNA test? He said he discovered that blacks are genetically inferior to other races.

Then looking at what you have listed, you could go on and list everything that's wrong with black people.

Look at Europe, the EU zone is free Visa to their fellow white people. In all the white nations, they made it easier for them to have free movement among themselves. Then come to Africa, you need visa to go to African countries. SA is in Africa, yet other African countries are dying to go there because white men live there. They have developed it, make it visa free to Europe especially the U.K

Black people are just animals, we don't produce anything. We can't maintain anything, we hate ourselves.

Come to Nigeria, a country with all the natural resources, yet we are one of the poorest countries in the world. Nigeria should have been like Dubai, Hawaii, etc.. we have nice weather, we have money, and places that could be a tourist destination.

Build a public toilet, someone would come and shit on the floor. Tell me why?

Build a public borehole, someone would come and destroy it. Public transformer are been vandalized by citizens. Our politicians are stashing money abroad, no roads, hospitals, no running water, we don't obey the law.

Look at what is happening in America, black people are getting killed every day because of our poor choices, because of how we have presented ourselves to other races. Slavery was committed in Africa because we do not like ourselves. No other continent experienced slavery like the African countries. You ask yourself why?

I could go on and on to list why we are of no good and we will never be. The holocaust was stopped because other white people came together. NATO was formed, do you know white people everywhere works together? Go to this oil companies. All you see are white men in charge and among those white men there you will find a German, American, British and other European men working together. Why? Because they all come together as one to control us.

My sister, so sorry I have to type all this nonsense be me self I am included in the problem.

So we as blacks are naturally inferior to other races. God made it so.

Exactly! Looks like her family is full of dramatic people! They just accepted her back. Her mom is also an irresponsible woman. She's in her husband house, yet she's accommodating another man's wife!

Shame!

Rtk5:
A reasonable family will bring her back to her husband's house & inquire what happened but why will they always believe whatever she tells them without hearing from me. I'm not suppose to call her or go there?

A reasonable family will ask her, did he send you out of the house no matter what she tells them

You are right, but remember you can't Force someone to be with you. When you go 70- 30, it shows someone is forcing the relationship.

That's a huge margin.

Chii59:
Even in making sacrifices, it's not always 50-50 at a time. Sometimes 70-30, 20-80. And so on. The only problem is where only one person is making the bulk of the sacrifices to keep the relationship afloat. Sometimes you go out of your way to do something that otherwise you won't do just for peace.

It looks like there's more to that story.

But for how long would she be running back and forth to their family and your home?

Let me tell you this bro. It's hard to get a husband! How old is your wife? Maybe she's still very young. If she's in her late 20s, I bet you, she won't be doing this.

When a woman is ready for marriage, she stays and work on it. You have mentioned you have been going to her family house each time she runs back home. Bro that's very disrespectful!

If she loves you, she won't be disrespecting you. Is she the one wearing the trouser in your marriage or are you the man of the house?

Mind you, your inlaws have already concluded that your are so incompetent that's why they just ignored you. No reasonable family would have ignored the ugly situation of their daughter coming back home with someone's else son. If you have paid her pride price, chill! That man will always be your son.

But if you haven't, maybe that's why they kept quiet. They want to keep the kid.

Your wife also doesn't care about you at all. Such a disrespectful woman.

Let them raise the kid if that's all they won't. You can't put a price on a peice of mind.

But if they call you to make peace, bro do it for the sake of your son. Growing up without a father figure is a disaster. Someone will never recover from it. Remember nobody can ever raise your kids like yourself.

But you need to man up. The reason why you should not go back there again is that you have been doing that for so long that they took advantage of it. They are now comfortable with your actions, telling her to chill. You will come as usual. That's a big drama. It's not good for the kid.

Think about everything and go with what your mind tells you.

Good luck bro. Life isn't perfect!

You should be more worried about STD than what she did.

Why don't you use Condoms? Do you have a spare life? Look at that Kenyan lady who confessed about infecting men deliberately with AIDS.

Actually, a lot of people do that. That is why Aids is still here today. If everyone who is living with Aids decided not to infect others deliberately, believe it or not, that sickness would have been long gone.

There has always been sex everywhere. The only thing that has changed is the fact that we have social media. You see it all the time.

We are animals too. Come to think of it, we only have two genders, male and female. So what do you expect? Plus the society has changed. No moral decency anymore.

How old are you? You should be able to see the hand writing on the wall. We are in a different era. More is yet to come if only we could live longer!

With a just a lick, you see porn. I meant different kinds of it. Smart phones everywhere!

Oh lord, what happened to the good old days! Wish things could go back to the time, we actually respect ourselves and value each other. Have fear of tomorrow, and live in a way that the future generations will learn from us.

It's so painful!

Durentt:
Sex everywhere, its become disgusting honestly

Op, I can understand where you are coming from.

We all go through life in different stages and we handle stuff differently. Someone might be stronger in your situation and another person might be weaker.

But listen to me. Killing yourself is not the best option. But if you have courage to do it, go ahead. But remember there are people who are looking up on you. You might think everything is going better for them. But bro, life is hard for everyone in different levels. You have seen rich people kill themselves. You wonder why? They have money etc. But life is very difficult for everyone living.

We all like to pretend as if it's all roses. Is your mother still alive? Is your dad there? What about your siblings? If you have any of the above mentioned family members, and you ar3 thinking about suicide.... bro you are so selfish.

Do you know how hard it's to loose someone? Father, mother, brothers and sisters. Haven't you lost someone close to you before? How does that feel? You will be hurting more people than you think. And if you don't care about other people's feelings, it means that's why you are depressed.

Once you start caring for others, you will see your life changed. People who kill themselves are the most selfish people ever lived. Do you know caring is contagious? You felt you are alone, left out etc. Start reaching out to people, and see what happens.

I don't really need to talk much, but start helping others, don't be wicked, give whatever you can and see what happens. It's a challenge! Depression is bad, but we can change it out for good.

Now if you need money contact me. Let's talk privately. I want to share something privately with you.

You might think you have seen it all, but bro! There are people that wished they could just be like you. You might think I am talking trash, but let's start with the simplest thing. You have a phone and a hand to type stuff up and post on here. That's a privilege not everyone have!




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I accept I'm a coward. Depression has eaten me to the brim. I pray you don't face a quarter of what I'm facing then you'll know what depression mean

Tonight is the end of all my sorrow. Suicide is the only way out

Goodbye bro[/quote]

Op you are 100% right!

Fat women are the easiest to Bleep. But guess what? All of them brag about getting laid more than the skinny girls. In their minds, they just think they guys are attracted to them. But the fact is that they are simply too cheap to get.

Some guys can Bleep anything just to get their cock wet. For some guys, that's all they need.

In the U.S , fat white girls are most likely to date a black man because White guys hates fat White women.

You need to see how all this African boys are banging them here and there.

Not just about sex though... look at the health risks that comes with being fat.

Another point is that fat girls stinks, they can't really clean themselves up. They are also very hard to manage on bed. You will find it difficult to change sex positions with them.

I concur with you! Don't date a fat woman!

For fat guys, they all have tiny dicks! Women knows that fat guys always come with a small package!

Skinny girls leads the way! They can take dicks, you can carry them up and down. Change positions any how you want. They can ride you without suffocating you!

Just my little piece!

Correct guy!
If someone is chopping her, that person should also take care of her. Another reason broke guys should not have erections! Some girls are very deceiving. How could you be her cash cow? Now if you give her that money, she would go back to her bf and be forming big girl. She might even buy a recharge card for him or something.

I have seen girls like that. NO MORE!!!

lefulefu:
if they tell u to go training for 6 months to achieve one thing u will say the person is wicked but see u toasting a girl for good two yrs cos u want to nack puna
some guys are funny

Bro e-mail me. Multiple4u@gmail.com

I really love what you said. I went through your previous posts, you are really a rational thinker. I would just like to have a chat with you.

Most people lack common sense.

DuBLINGreenb:
Won't happen but las las hush done chop money, flex life, lived lavish, flown choppers, flown private, had the most exotic cars, mingled with celebs obtained connections, became a known international brand.

No jail can take that away from him, if he comes out of prison he will be better than most poor Nigerians because he has a platform, he has connections, he has experience, he is known and so on. He won't be starting from square 1

He can write a bestseller book, be a TV host, sing music people will buy, sell his story to American media companies, work for security organisations abroad etc

Most Nigerians live in houses worst than American prisons me typing this have not seen electricity in 42 hours straight, I paid aboki 50 bucks to charge my phone, American prisons have 24/7 electricity, gym, free TV, free laundry services, free phone calls and free food that is why black Americans even the celebs see jail as an achievement as street cred status bringer

how many haven't been to jail? you tell me as we speak many US celebs are in jail including Steven Spielberg's daughter, R Kelly, Da baby etc
Even Robert Downey Jr, Lil Kim, tommy Lee, Mark Wahlberg have all been to U.S prison
Their prison is not like our own many come out of jail looking better than they did before they went in.

Those quoting me will chose 10 - 15 years in American prison and a lifetime of living lavish for themselves and their family without thinking twice over being a poor Nigerian from birth to death.

Ask yourself what odds hushpuppi had of being as rich as he was without doing what he did? We all know majority of Nigerians will be born into poverty and will die in poverty but we all want to delude ourselves by thinking "I will be the one to make it" niggger that's what the other 100,000,000 dead Nigerians before you thought, you think every poor Nigerian chose to be poor? or they don't know your God or another one is "if he didn't do crime he would be enjoying by now!" Nigguh enjoying what exactly

Simple question please how many Nigerian lawyers do you know richer than or even half as rich as Hushpuppi? Even the celebs how many of them where as rich as hush? Only the very top 1%

Another quick question? Ask them how many years and how much suffering, and how much connections etc it took them to get that degree and then that position and if the pay for those without connection is adequate, do the same for every other profession except clergy and politicians

And decide for yourself what chance the vast majority of Nigerians have of becoming millionaires or even hundred thousandnaires ?

I'm not encouraging crime please don't do crime but let us be realistic in our thoughts and speech,

I thought if you go to school you must be rich until I was in a slum and a woman told me she did her youth service in taraba, I was surprised I was like wtf excuse me, she said yes she served in.... She didn't know I was thinking shocked thinking to myself "how did you go to school for 17+ years only to end up in this slum in this poverty" I assumed everyone in slums where uneducated never do wells, miscreants etc.

Imagine if she, like most young girls were compelled to sleep with lecturers for grades, or sorted to pass and all that thinking riches were ahead of them upon graduation only to end up in a slum without husband and children hey this isn't fiction this lady was quarrelling with another non educated woman the other day I recorded what the women were using to insult her. Her lack of husband and children she kept saying she sacrificed all that for school and her future but you decide if this is a future worth losing sleep for, worth losing meaningful relationships for


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oGhHX6sSzCU

Don't worry out of respect and privacy I didn't show her face.

Extra fun fact did you know?? Nigeria made more money from Yahoo boys in 2019 than from Agriculture think about it.

You did the right thing then.

Sometimes what we fought for, it's not what we end up with. Nature has a way of directing our footsteps.

Move on with your life. Good luck!

Lifedonor:
Finally last night she called me and was still pleading so I went to her place.

The door was open and I walked in only to see her crying so badly.
I talked to her and avdised her this talk went on for almost 4hrs.

I finally forgave her and decided to take her in again. But on the condition that she leaves the church. Its a redeemed church and its just here i n our area. I told her to join me at my branch (same redeemed) or she should choose any other church and that I was going to follow her.

To my shock she agreed to change she promised nothing of such can happen again and that she still loves me but can't change her church. She still wants to remain there and work out her salvation... I told her if that is the case then the relationship can't continue and that I was going to leave And then block her from my WhatsApp. She agreed and I left then I blocked her

You are absolutely right! Black men don't think. It's in our DNA!

techmo:




Isnt it absolute stupidity for a state with so much unemployment, zero power supply, and absolutely no infrastructure, to ware house 75 billion in a cormercial bank like diamond bank.. while bankers wont even borrow the money out to Anambra indegene but to the likes of Dangote and Rabiu of Biu groups

75billion would construct a gas pipeline from Imo gas flaring fields, build a 1000 Megawatt Thermal/gas turbine power station and give Anambra 24/7 electricity with enough to sell to other state while their industries drastically develop

a Bank Boss Start hailing you, then they don chop you mugus, alex otti is just thanking you customer dada who would save money rather than develop and make more money

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That's why they never got married. Look at their marital status! GEN should have been an exception, yet na the same people. UK, same, Rita, oh na same story. That's a big problem there. The OP is damn right!

zoputa:
Mbaise women

Contact me, I will help you with admission to the Philippines for medical school.
In Philippines, you will definitely pass, if you put in same effort like you stated.

It might not be your fault that you failed.

I have a true life story to tell you.

During WAEC in 2004, a guy that knew very well was among those who are in charge of the exam sheets. Could you believe I was there when his toddler picked up one of the students exam sheets and tore it into half. I must tell you, some people are careless. I was so young to realize what had happened. Not until I grow up, I realize that was someone's future right there. Some people never got their results without knowing what happened. They will just give you F-9. Then you will become so confused because you thought Mathematics was your best subject.

From what you just said, I believe you are a very smart student. You were able to recognize what your parents are passing through. Don't be hard on yourself, this life get as e be. Nobody understands it. Maybe God is preparing something better for you. You must not be a Dr. To be rich.
Tell them, find a way to come up with something as a back up plan to help them cope with the sad news. You should think about something that will give them hope.
Good luck young man!

sagna112:
My name is Uche a 100Level supposed medicine and surgery student of a Nigerian University, I used to be very brilliant and that was what instigated me to apply for Medicine and Surgery after acquiring an aggregate score of 270 in both JAMB and POST-UTME Examinations, I was then admitted a years ago into a university.

I am the only child of my parents, they have spent so much on me just to make sure I become a doctor, dad had to sell one of his plots of land to pay for my registration fees, purchase a brand new laptop, a phone and clothes for me and all my needs, Mum who has no job since she was sacked by the state government will always try to send the little that will pass through her, when I think of the way she announced to her friends when I gained admission to study Medicine it brings tears from my eyes.

It will be an injustice on me to be blamed or for me to blame myself, I know the effort I have also made, I have always taken my studies serious, I never missed any lecture, I neither miss assignments nor tests, I sit at the front of the class, I don't keep bad gangs, I have never attended a party, sometimes I do RTDB (Read Till Day Break), what is then my offense? why me?

At the end of my 100 level Second semester my CGP was reading 4.2 without a single carryover, I was very happy because I thought I had scaled through the danger zone.

The unexpected occurred when I logged into the school portal at the end of my Second Semester Examination to check my result, I cleared all the courses with A's and B's but a course was reading Carryover, I nearly fainted when I saw the result, it was a biology course I offered in second semester to me the course was the simplest of all. I did not inform my parents because I din not want to dishearten them.

The school resumed, so I went to my HOD and complained, she took me to the Exam office who searched thoroughly for my script and from what I saw it was obvious I failed, I scored 32% and was asked to change department, my HOD advised that I go to Biological Sciences, my eyes were filled with tears.

How do I tell my parents this, it only mean I have brought shame to them. I have remained in school since then crying from one angle to another I don't know whether to go home to my parents to inform them of the truth or keep telling them lies.

I need your sincere advice.

How old is she?

How old is she?

olajonzin:
i like her but she is to young to date ....that why i want free my mind about what i really feel about her

You are right. Fat girls can't take big dicks. The slim ones will just open her legs so wide! They are so flexible. They can take any dick.
Just like men, the slim ones tends to have big dicks. I have heard girls talking about slim guys and their dick. Most fat women tend to date slim guys. Because e get why!

DoubleEngine007:
I won't say a word,but I will make a statement You see fat girls,its not that deep as you think,but most slim ladies are deep and wide. Las Las " There is a woman for every man"

You sounded like someone who is depressed! How could you define Eternal Life? Is your soul worth the so called Eternal life?

Stop being jealous of him. I know if you had same opportunity, you will definitely do same or even try to out do him.

Nobody in Nigeria is setting example of Eternal life like you mentioned.

Righteousness89:
Awesome Bro!

Great , Beautiful and costly stuffs you have there..

But Ensure your Soul is Worth Eternal Life..


That's what Matters After all Said and Done!...

Obama did absolutely nothing. He's a failure! I love how Trump is attacking him and dragging him down hill. It's a pay back for him.

foleskay:
This thread will make front page in the morning.

BTW, the racial profiling in the US will surely continue to d end of times. Police brutality against d blacks had been happening even before d times of Martin Luther King. I don't know maybe its due to d natural violent nature of the akatas that always warrant full force of d police when trying to arrest any black suspect. Obama had d opportunity to change status quo, and enforce reforms favouring the blacks, but hell no, he was busy promoting gay rights and asslicking the racists democrats. At times I wonder what major Positive impact the government of the first black America president Had on the over 40 million black populace, I really don't know one. There will forever be no love lost amongst the blacks and whites in the US no matter how we try to change the narrative.

What does that tell you? Black folks are Animals! Like someone posted earlier that he has been to so many places that white people live. Everything is working and organized. But come to Africa, nothing is working. Don't mention South Africa here because that country is a white country. They enslaved blacks there to make sure things works. Then as soon as blacks were given freedom, South Africa became a dangerous place. That country is what is it today because white people are occupying their lands.

Now what is happening in Nigeria is not in Nigeria alone. Go to Zimbabwe, Ivory coast, Cameroon, Gabon etc. Same problem.

You said the next people coming in will be worst? What do you expect? That's the other of the day. We compete who will out do who in making everyone suffer.

I feel so sad for black black people. Ronald Reagan said it.. "Blacks cannot rule themselves"

He is damn right. When the British were in Nigeria, everyone knows how Nice and coordinate Nigeria operates.

I wish they had never left! ����

dukeprince50:
And people are on Nairaland begging for N500 just to put something in their stomach before going to bed
I am overwhelmed by the stupidity of our leaders, the worst thing is that the next set of leaders will be worse than these ones

Lifedonor:
Pls refer to my thread about my girlfriend cheating on me even in the church

https://www.nairaland.com/5880851/girlfriend-just-confessed-she-fornicated

Finally last night she called me and was still pleading so I went to her place.

The door was open and I walked in only to see her crying so badly.
I talked to her and avdised her this talk went on for almost 4hrs.

I finally forgave her and decided to take her in again. But on the condition that she leaves the church. Its a redeemed church and its just here i n our area. I told her to join me at my branch (same redeemed) or she should choose any other church and that I was going to follow her.

To my shock she agreed to change she promised nothing of such can happen again and that she still loves me but can't change her church. She still wants to remain there and work out her salvation... I told her if that is the case then the relationship can't continue and that I was going to leave And then block her from my WhatsApp. She agreed and I left then I blocked her.

It Hurst still but I would remain like this

Modified*****

She finally came to my place this morning. Though I did the calling.
She has agreed to change the church and attend mine.
I must say that I wasn't regular with my attendance in church. She also pointed that I have to be steady with going to church too.

Conclusively we are back and better ..
Everyone should know that it takes God to have a peaceful and fulfilling relationship.
I may sound weak but hey! I know why I had to go through this to get her back.
I have equally cheated to the point she caught me pants down. and I really haven't been paying attention.

Guys the alpha male should a time to reflect too. Its saves a lot.

That's what I am talking about! Now you will be in complete control of her! She will be afraid to mess up again.

Now if you really love her, which I believe you are, wife her. But be careful, women are the most dangerous creatures. Not every man could forgive a cheating gf. She's not the only girl out there. This doesn't make you any weaker than some of us here. We all have that weak points and we hide it from others.

You can't eat your cake and have it.

You played him first. You are fucking two different guys at same time. What do you expect afterwards? The guy looks at you as a slut. You have no regard for yourself. I just feel so sad that someone will come and marry you someday. Somebody who have been used and dumped!

Again you don't really know what you wanted. You said he's your dream guy...why don't you leave your toxic relationships back then for him? If you have done that, he won't be playing with your emotions right now. But you lost him from the moment you decided to be sharing your pussy among them.

Women are so wonderful!

queenice7:
So when I met him, I was in a toxic relationship. I was entangled with my ex and was in love with this guy at same time. This guy tried to make me leave my abusive boyfriend for him, tried to prove to me he was gona be a better man, infact he was like my dream guy and we were fucking even when I was still with my ex, when it seemed like he had gotten me and we were now dating, i eventually went back to my ex and it kinda disappointed the guy. Now av moved on from my ex, I am now very single and lonely, although av been fucking this guy ever since.
It's more like the both of us are just using each other to quench konji, the show of affection he used to give me then, the attention, the calls, the care, is no longer there, he just calls me when he's Hot and I also notify him when am Hot coz he's the only one am fucking, like am very picky, but deep down within me, I wish he can ask me out again, so I'll say yes and the love and affection would come back. Nobody has shown me much love like this and I guess the fact that I went back to my ex scattered the whole thing. He knows av moved on, and I've since been giving him green light for us to start dating aside just fucking but it seem like he's ignoring it, and my ego won't allow me to ask him. I feel like blocking him or sth bcoz it hurts me when he doesn't reply my messages fast or ignores it, but becomes very active and desperate when he's Hot

This is so unbelievable! I can agree with you that cheating is very very bad.

So many men and women are still in their marriages after affairs and cheating. Some which well a national disgrace (on the news/t.v) yet they are still in their respective marriages. Love is blind so they say... but telling someone to cut off his balls and stop being a man because he is in love with his girlfriend is just a very bad advice.

Some of us are in toxic relationships, yet we are still trying to make it work because you love that person.

Remember Clinton, JAY-Z, Kevin Hart, etc. They didn't not leave. Their wives are not worthless! I am not supporting cheating nor will I accommodate someone who cheats, but everyone is different.

From this guys write up, I can sense he truly love this girl. He should talk to her, get someone involved, give her situations in which she might find it hard to cheat or at least do something different. If she refuses to work with him, then he should leave her alone. She might give him STD. I also don't believe a cheat is always a cheat. People do change, especially after an some encounter with their bad habits.

To the OP, you know your gf more anyone of us here. If she can't change or give you assurance. Then leave! Cheating is bad.

Ningen:
Another dimwit.

Only someone with a non-existent self-esteem and sense of self worth will tolerate a cheat.

You are not even ashamed to announced it's not her first time cheating... You must be worthless.

Just cut off your balls and feed it to the dogs.
If you don't know what to do, STOP being a man.

[Exaactly. Lolquote author=rainerboy1010 post=53202952]

the truth ehhhhhhhhh

some they dig am by themselves [/quote]