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Mariangeles:
Uwa mmebi!



Ya jikere.
O ga a kwurila ugwo o ji.

Lol...uwa o mebikwaranu ta..

Surely, you asked me if I believed in karma? Yes it is real..I made him see it clearly..I was disgusted at his action.

Mariangeles:
The guy a dihu serious. Nwaanyi gbuge ya ka mmii.
Even if he wanted to show off nwaanyi ya, oge ya ga a bia.
I don’t like it when people become too clingy.


I ga a wuni introverted ambivert.


Now is their time to enjoy each other before the grandkids start trooping in. O nahu a r’ahu o, before you know it, umu umu e ju ebe nile.



Aries ndi iwe oku!
E chekwe’m na the last wu Pisces.
Ndi Gemini a nahu e nwe nsogbu. They like being on their own, and they also have a different side you might never get to know.

As in eeh...Muna nwoke ibe m na akpa nkata ka guys, nwaanyi ana pikasi ya aka na ahu...

I felt a bit embarrassed with my guy.....if she is smart, she will decode..I no fit ghost my guy maka choice ya in a woman..Nke ahu wuzi ihe diri la ha abuo... ha tawa mkpu love.

He look up to me in a way, I know him knowing I am single gwuru ya ike... O ga adi ya ka o gara makuru nwaanyi mgbe oge ya na erubehu...But, I made him understand my way of choosing...I told him, my woman is one that will take me as a prayer answered. And I will take her as a heart desire and a back bone...

I asked him if he sees such in his woman, I am fully in support..O tu ahu ka mpa m na mma jiri mee ke ha.

Yea, you can say I am..Actually I am..
I am that person who can be in your lavish occasion may or may not test any thing but fulfilled...And I rarely stay to end.. I leave satisfied..
It was a problem with old family friends, but they have adjusted to that

My mom just informed me a close family friend , their only daughter who is my baby bro age mate, is getting married next month...I don schedule How I will attend..Already Come to church, leave after church..
To tell you how close we are, they are 4, we are...My mom ketere ihe eji bia i luru di girl sef.

Their first son is my age mate...
Second same with my immediate younger bro.
Third same with our third son.

Last same with ours..Mma m na mma ha ji adi ime within same time frame.. so attending is a must for everyone in my house.

Hahahaha na so naa..Grand kids everywhere...Remind me of when we are small...Anyi lota, ulo my grand mom ekpere oku..

Lol..yea..Last born anyi wee iwe eeh, mana almost everyone of us nwere iwe oku...but have learnt how to control very well..

Pisces wu onye m toro direct...Ndi ura..
Gemini is spot on...That my brother wupuru awupu ...You won't know he is one of us, I am the only one he confides in.
When he travelled to a state where my ex was in the good days with her, They met with him not saying anything ..My ex called and asked me if he is a sadist...LMAO...I laughed tire that day...
Anyi ka cha ya mma..One man from our place, normally see him with my parents..ha chere na he is their only child na o joro njo..

So when they started seeing us, they were shocked....


I huru na i mutala ihe zodiac ofuma..initially you felt like you were reading occultic stuff that year...

Twoclans:
LOL

Leg chain is something I wear occasionally and the last time I checked I dont think I can be considered the worst of human beings currently on earth.

The problem with Nigeria is that we are too religious yet very wicked at heart and to our fellow human beings .

Munzy dear dont worry I wont wear leg chain to your house I will only wear jigida.

Hehehehe...you know I am not the religious fanatics type...I no just like the beads and Chain thing...

My local government no get arousal at the sight of waist bead...
As for leg chain, it is the impression that i don't like..People see you as wayward...Even when you aren't.

Their is a crazy babe in every decent lady, just like we have decency in any crazy babe..

No be only jigida kuku wear those native doctors bell...And use chalk to paint one eye na

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Beautiful94:
It is all about the money for me? Whenever we seek for employment, we always look out for the ones that will benefit us the most. I am not an exception.
I only wish to work and earn a decent living to take care of myself and my would be dependents. What crime have i committed?
I do not care about who you are. As a matter of fact i do not wish to know you even if you will help me work there.

Arrogant female lawyers and pride...

kingsceemark:
do you read the topic that I'm commenting on? Or you're just following the picture that I attached to my comment? Go school no, go and learn work, that one na wahala too? Maybe you forgot to put on your eyes glasses, this is the thread that I'm commenting on here https://www.nairaland.com/7028797/justin-dean-korra-obidi-only/3#111029542

An ordinary illiterate with wisdom is better than a half-baked graduate..

You went to school, but couldn't defend an issue yiu have in your comment which I corrected the daft impressions you have centred your mindset on..

Na for nairaland, you go see anyhow person forming book worm but can't find his/her way around general discussions.

Work on your mindset, it will determine your life setting.

Beautiful94:
I am sure you do not know that an organisation like cbn will have a legal department. Life is all about choices, if i choose to work in a place like cbn it is my choice and not yours.

Must all lawyers be in the CBN?

Besides it is all about the money for you and not like you are going there to defend cbn

Graduates of nowadays don't want to pass through the normal process...it is all about money money highest bidder..

Yes it is your choice, but cab you get it? The answer is hanging...possibilitie rare..

You came here for help, do you know who is who Here? And you didn't waste time to show what most young female lawyers are known for...Arrogance/aggressive and I too know.

Go and enter CBN Enugu...mstchwwwwww

Supremedrizzy:
Someone gave me a simple job of making an existing static site template responsive within 24 hours and I blew it. A simple task that should take few hours, it looked all good on my localhost only to test it on netlify and it turned out to be a disaster. I'm just so ashamed of myself.

I've been learning web dev since mid last year though its been a case of one month on three months off, I've been grossly inconsistent due circumstances beyond my control. I haven't even coded this year because I come back from my menial hustles with battered bones and weak muscles. You can imagine trying to code after offloading a trailer load of cement all day. I even had to use bet shops around for the gig amidst the pangs of hunger I felt while working coupled with the noisy and distracting environment I was working in which contributed to my legendary blunder.

At the age of 30 and unemployed I've always seen programming as my way out of poverty but it seems I'm not good enough. I'm painfully watching that little flicker of hope fizzle out before my tearful eyes. Which other skill can I dabble into product design?? I suck at designs reason why my frontend skills is below average... should I try backend?? I'm just confused, frustrated and down casted not knowing the next step to take while time is no longer on my side.

Life currently has no meaning and direction to me, I just seem to be flowing aimlessly with the flow. My situation is giving me sleepless nights and I now rely on drugs to sleep for even three hours a day.

I really need someone to talk to, I'm really tired of trying to work out things on my own. I'm 30, broke, lonely and depressed, single has been a constant in my life's equation cos I don't even like myself for who I am presently so I don't expect someone's daughter to like me in this my miserable state.

Someone should please show me the way, this dark tunnel is fast turning to a maze that I can't navigate on my own.

Frustrations when the stars refuse to align....

But this shall pass if only you must choose one master...

Either the menial jobs or the programming...

When you have a task, first see it as your own...Then, bring your A game to it...Focus and deliver...The money must come only if you deliver..

Referrals will increae the bank account.

At 30, life just started...Just don't be a fool at 40.

You, have chosen the IT world, stay focused on IT...And keep striving to be the best part of yourself...This shall pass.

I remember in 2013, When I paid a firm to allow me do industrial training, the managers conspired and duped me without agreeing to terms..

It wasn't upto to time, I was asked to go...I left, called my Dad..He said I shouldn't worry, I should return home...I cried that day and left..And, I knew I made some promises to myself...No stopping..

Looking back, when I remember those days, laugh over it...
I mean if I pay people to work for me now, then no cause for alarm..

Dude focus on the IT work...Don't lose hope and confidence in yourself.

Mariangeles:
I felt disgusted reading this!

It is now a normal...

My guy his babe was getting married when we still dey school..after paying of her dowry, babe returned...And called my guy to come chop Any thing he will be needing from her..

I am sure they reached 12rounds within the 24hrs...

A bakashi charalam my friend ahu eeh...Sleeping with a lady onye ozo kwurula ugwo ishi ya..disgusting

He later removed himself from her life..mana karma ya na bia.

Beautiful94:
I am looking out for me, law firms pay very little and at the end of the day i will be struggling to feed and take care of my responsibilities and i do not want that. People fix themselves right from nysc and i hope i can do that as well.

If all lawyers move to CBN, who will now be soliciting at the court?

Maybe accountants and bank and finance graduates will start wearing wig to the law court..

Mariangeles:
There’s one who’s a nairalander.

She absorbed her brother, but not totally.

Lmao...comment ji akpa m ochi mgbe ufodu...

Which one is but not totally...

Partial absorption.

Candidlady:
Woah


So did the man later agree to accept the kid as his own?

This can never work in this part of the world.. Even if he met the lady intact and DNA test says otherwise dude is over with the relationship fvck Chimera or chidera

Although this is really fascinating


FtC dedicated to Freda

Chidera...

theForth:
Taaah!!

Who provides call the shot, see you.

Erase this mentality bro...

Tables can turn at anytime...your woman can be a major provider..Will you accept her shots?

A man leads regardless..Just pray you have a partner who understands you in and out.

Mariangeles:
Submission is not demanded, but earned.

No be by gragra!

Earned ke?

Any man that accepted to love you and make you his home manager, you must submit...Especially when he must have respected you and your parents by coming to pay your dowry.

Wife submit to your husband, husband submit to God...Very simple as ABC...

Even women wey dem no carry drink go see their papa dey submit.

Three things your man will need from you, aside the love/care thing are.

Loyalty
Respect
Submission.

With this three, you have your man in your palms without stress.

There is nothing he won't do for you if he can...This three things projects feminine...lack of it upholds feminist.

Even the things OP listed, he will do it and more with fun.

You should know how these things work well na...you are from a complete lovely home...Just dey learn from your mom and Dad, they are a model if you wish to marry and have your own home and enjoy the peace...Thats all.

Leave what is being taught online..Our parents are the pragmatic approach to the realities of the make beliefs we see online..

Parents are there for a reason, copy the good side and learn from their mistakes as well.

Bruise a man's ego, and create a monster.

Moeman:
on a normal day i can do all

With God who made you...

kingsceemark:
So white people dey fall mumu like this? I think say all of una smart, chaii this woman don wash her under, use the water prepare one sweet Egusi soup for this big mumu, fear who no fear Edo people

So helping your woman adjust her buckle is now a proof of getting jazzed with egusi soup? Smh

Guys who dey give una this wrong OT na?

If E-money do am, it is awwwwnnnnnn humble billionaire.

If a regular struggler do am, it is SImP... wahala..

My brother their is nothing bad in that.

FindX:
Them don cook better food give this mumu.

Come nack am better Bleep.

Na belusome them take cook the food abii?

youngest85:
It can never happen in mars where I stay

Or here in Jupiter..

bewov:
Please guys, I have something bothering me so much, I will really appreciate it if I can get a matured response.

These might be long, but please bare with me

There is this girl have been dating since March 2021. Although, we met in University days and we have been dating since 2017, but because I was graduating and she has 1 more year to spend in the school, I left her and travelled to Lagos to work, because I got a job in a company in Lagos, immediately I graduated. I needed to concentrate on my future so I told her I want to pause the relationship to focus, but I will definitely be back for her, I promised her this. She was a virgin then!

After working in the company for 2years, I also learnt some IT skills online while I was working in the company, and I was earning cool money from it, so I decided to quit the job and focus more on the online business.

My business have been doing well and I have about 2 other virtual assistant helping me out, anyway I was kind of comfortable, so I thought of fulfilling my promise to my girlfriend. I called her one morning, and she was shocked! We chatted a bit and I told her I want us to see urgently, we schedule a date for her to meet me in the hotel, because I was staying in Lekki and he stays around Surulere, I wanted an hotel close to her house, so she can return early.

We met at the hotel and I can see she missed me so much, around 3pm I told her I'm back and I want us to continue dating and I'm ready to settle down, she agreed and we have been dating, all this happened around March 2021. Around April, I travelled out for about 2months, but I was very communicating with her, and when I got back around June, I discovered she had sex with another guy in May. Now, I wouldn't say she did it because of money, because I pay her 20k every month for upkeep, sometimes I just pay her 30k! She is not a wayward girl though, and she is not a type that sleeps around with guys back then in school, but once i came back into her life, I see a different girl entirely, when I came back she wasn't a virgin anymore, it's not my problem anyway, because the truth is I never forgot her during all those years I left her behind.

I didn't tell her I knew she cheated on me, but all I do tell her was that she did something bad to me and I want her to open up to me about it, but my girl kept on denying it, she sworn with her life, that she didn't cheat on me, that night I was shocked. Then, I didn't talk about it again till September, I gave her those months to regret her actions and confess to me, but she never did, also I didn't stop helping her financially, I still pay her monthly for upkeep. I know you will be wondering why I give her money, right? This girl was with me and loyal to me when I had nothing, like nothing at all! She was raised by a single mother and she is struggling a lot, after graduating she decided to go for Hair Stylist training, that is where she is currently. So I just give her money monthly just to stay strong.

So around September I decided to tell her she cheated on me, although it was that once, she begged, cried and told me she was drunk and regretted it, she told me she doesn't want to tell me because she knows I will end the relationship, well to be candid I love her so much, so I decided to forgive her, but since that day, trusting her was very very difficult for me. Although, I do watch her and since then I have never seen anything of such from her.

January 2022, her mother stopped her from coming to my place, she wants me to come see her first before she can allow her daughter to come visit me again. So, I went to see her mom last month and I made my intentions known to her, I told her I will want to marry her daughter and she said she is okay with it, if her daughter is okay with me.

This girl is my type of girl but, she has some behaviours that sincerely I don't think I can deal with.

She has this mindset of "A woman should be equal to a man".

She doesn't respect me, she chats with random guys and if they invite her for outing, she goes with them, even if I tell her not to go! When she visits me, she says I must join her in doing the house chores, she will say "It's either you clean the house and I will wash the plates and cook, or she wash the plates and cook, while I clean the house". And sometimes if she wants to cook for me, she will want me to come to the kitchen with her and do some works, maybe Grind pepper with blender or slice onion, if I dont, she gets annoyed, saying will she be the one to be doing all?

She did something that annoyed me this morning, around 6am today I went to the filling station to get petrol, well she knows I eat early always, maybe 6am or 7am, I would have taken breakfast, but she has never dished me food at that time, I always do it myself whenever she is around. When I got back from the filling station, I still met my girlfriend on the bed pressing her phone, I told her I'm hungry and I will want to eat Spaghetti with tomato sauce, and she replied "Baby, please cook it yourself, you said I'm your queen, pamper me na" Really? What does that have to do with you cooking for your fiance?

Well, I was annoyed, I went to the kitchen and prepared the food myself, the truth is when the food was ready, I only dished my own and ate, she said "What about her? Won't she eat?" I didn't answer her!

Aside from this, sincerely sometimes she talks to me rudely, and one thing she and I knows is that she is very very stubborn and not ready to submit to any man. Sincerely, this attitude is making me scared of settling down with her, I want to propose her this year and do the marriage rights but with all this behaviours I'm thinking the marriage will be hell for me.

When she came over yesterday, I prepared food for her before her arrival, and I served her, all she could say was "What is this? The food taste bad! Is this food or poison?" She never gave a good compliments about the meal, yet she finished the food and went for second round.

Last night before we went to bed, I told her to warm the rice and the stew, she said it won't get spoilt that she will do it in the morning, I asked her if she is sure, she said Yes. And I went to the kitchen before preparing my Spaghetti, I saw the rice is already bad and can't be eaten, I showed it to her and she was like "haaa she doesn't know it will spoil"

Also, the chicken I bought yesterday to cook her the meal, I couldn't use all, I left some in the pot, and I forgot to warm it last night, my girl saw it while washing the plates this morning, and she was like "What is this?" I told her chicken and she said "And you didn't warm it" she left it there in the pot like that without doing anything to revive it. Before I went to the kitchen to do it myself!

She only washed the plates, bath and went to church this morning, she didn't arrange the bed, nor sweep the room littered with all we ate last night. I'm sure of the message she is passing to me... "Have washed the plates, you clean the house".

Please guys, I want to propose her around August and settle down with her in November, but this behaviours are the things turning me off.

Will she changed and act normal when we get married, or this will continue? The guys she chat with, which I told her I don't like it, she replied that "She will never and ever leave them". All these types of attitudes and not showing me respect, do you think she will change after we get married or she will continue?

Please guys, I'm very confused here

If you like, write a text book, I will quote you..

You are just sex starved...E go clear for your eye...As you left her in 2017, you didn't see other decent and nice ladies out there?

Anyway, we wait for the next thread...

Onye mgbuh!. By the way how much upkeep are you paying your mom?

FindX:
One round no dey do her.

How person pikin go dey fvck for 3 straight hours?

Lol...If she no do, you go still complain..

Lalami3232:
Dem plenty ooooo .
Immediately you tell a 9ja babe say get feelings for her, E be like say you dey owe her instantly.
Funny enough, 99.2% no get anything to offer aside that toto wey everybody don chop before you. Even the toto wey majority of dem dey offer isn't even tight.
Na we go still use our own money to buy enlargement pump and cream before we fit enjoy the wide canal wey many of dem dey carry. I doubt if this generation of girls go stay labour room pass 2mins sef. The pikin go swim out with ease


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "a single mother for Europe tight pass our average 9ja babe"

You dey craze...

czarr:
Small yansh

But e dey shake..

Dapson73:
I'm 100% sure PDP will never gives her presidential ticket to Gov Wike.
He's too controversial to be the president.

That will be an A putin in Africa...

Hardened people should lead a democratic country...

Finally Tinubu left 69years after 7years of being 69..

erico2k2:
so its ok to wear wrist band or cracelet on your hand but not on your leg right?

Going for an Interview, just dress for it...You can decide to wear whatever you like after that.

I just don't like the leg chain thing...Even it is a fashion stuffs, I still won't buy the idea.

[quote author=Twoclans post=111044462][/quote]You have endorsed the one wey suit your taste na
I know you go dey wear leg chain like wrist watch

flokii:
Everybody sha want to claim right.. those days, you dress corporately to a job interview with your tie, well polished shoes and socks.
How will you go for interview putting on leg chain and whatnot, I'm sure she was blowing gum too.. when no be p0rn audition.

Even those days in school, we were thought how to dress for an interview, board meeting and presentation...

You must be on corporate..imagine looking like naira marley in bank job interview.

The funny thing is people saying she is being true to herself..So we should allow shit because one is acting real? to useless western ways.

Bigredmachine:
What has a leg chain got to do with the job, was the question... Now the answer is... What is the work of the leg chain on the leg...

I have come to a conclusion that many people don't have any tangible reasons as to why they do some certain things in this life, because u see other people do it, u too just want to do it...

If for example my friend who is a musician tints his hair, pierce his ear and draws tattoo on his body (just to promote his hustle) and because it looks good on him, then me an aspiring banker or a medical doctor should i now go and do same, just because it looks good... Anyway I digress

This empty skull headed girl, would see it as normal and something accepted by the general public...

Am happy she did not get the Job... Cause her appearance has already showed she's irresponsible...

Well explained...You are addressed the way you dress.

I just don't like two things on a lady, waist chain/beads.

And leg chain.

As for piercing, no problem, but make e no pass two for ear and that lovely one On thè nose...In case of extreme fashion..

Leg chain is a turn off..I have this medical doctor that comes around to patronize , I changed my rating when I saw her with leg chain...For somebody whose kids are in secondary school.

To future wife, please avoid waist/leg chain biko.

Mariangeles:
It could be anything.


Nice.



Shouldn't he have come alone first, before coming with his babe?
Since you both had a lot of catching up to do.


I di introverted okwa ya?




If they're up for it, it'll be nice.



Gini wu zodiac second to the last?

Good.


You see how smart you are to point out this issue..@bolded...He wanted to come, the babe said she must follow him..Ya gwawa m, I told him allow her...Makè e no be say na my no go come put sand na garri ha.
If I am dating now, last thing m ga eme wu ikporo ya gawa udi ije ahu...rather in our next meeting which will be in a place to eat and merry, ma o wu I will give my babe ego ya zuta ihe and cook, then I invite him and his babe to a lunch or dinner for four..Which is even more cute and matured.
I let it slide.

But, deep down I know she needed to be absent... ihe a wu his first love/gf so I kind of allowed them...Normal me ga apiasu ya...We had a reunion/business and general talks to catch up with, ya kporo Nwaanyi biawa.. Some men are not serious atimes..Anyway he saw, A changed me..30% general talks, 70% business discussion...


Lol...I am in the middle...I can be extrovert in some occasions, I can be introverted sometimes...I think this surprises my friends...When they expected me indoors, I don get location already they happen before they arrive... In some cases they will be dragging me to come out.

If you have a function, I attends, just know say you are special to me...If not, them go use towing van drag me to that event.

When it comes to talking, Sometimes I can be direct and bold no mata who is involved, Sometimes, I can appear like a gentle man and listen more than say any pim!

They talked about it when we were in secondary school...but somehow the talk varnish..They are not that old, but I wouldn't want any thing to stress them..Since chukwu enye hu ha nwaanyi, let them forget it....He will give them through my kids or that of my siblings.


He is June5..(Gemini)

Last April14.(Aries) This one zodiac ya depicts his personality more than anyone else I have ever seen in this life..

Field Marshall nyesome WIKE...norseman in chief...Spitting fire and gas...

Basheer22:
If only you know how they spend NDDC money on ladies, you will pity Niger Delta people

tax payer money in the mud...

princeemmma:
that is the point my brother....... op think life is cruel to him, he does not know life more cruel to some people........ that 2million he has will change some peoples life

As in eeh....My dad will say, see when I married your mom, The salarie from both side was nothing to write home about..

But, we survived..

Just get who you understands, and she understand you as well, case settled..