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kay29000:
I guess you haven't experienced stubborn goats that will sh*t all over your compound.

Lmao

tradepunter:
Hahaha my brother cats stubbornness nu be from here.... I had this male Persian cat with serious attitude problem.

You feed am when he nu wan chop, he clear you by saying I tell you say hungry dy catch me??

I came to understand cats do and want things done on their time and terms.... Las las na one oyibo man carry am go UK after he beg me tire for the cat...

The hair was soo fluffy and full, even niaja people when hate cat go wan pet am.

A woman can do shakara, but them the learn where cat dey..
Cat and shakara na 5&6.

You must adjust to it's time...

MCKitchen:
I love Rivers State. Their money is endless. I would marry in Rivers State.

Because of the money abii?

Mariangeles:
Na so!
If you think say e easy, run am na!

Op, to be honest with you, those akara sellers are not even making much profits.

Lol...That thing takes time...

Growing up my mom makes akara on sundays after church. Before she go finish all man do commot...

SmellySperm:
Who gave this one mkpurumiri to take?

What a humour with stone face..

Jennyclay:
I created a thread early January this year seeking for an advice about how my boyfriend is keeping malice with his father for over 3 years, even till today without opening up to me about what actually happened. Mind you he's a great guy with good qualities. But I saw that "malice" as a big red flag. But most nairalanders were saying Men are scares, you better continue with the relationship.

What if we had little misunderstanding in marriage will he forgive me or keep malice with me for years? If he can't forgive his father despite I've tried severally to talk to him politely, will he even forgive me? That was a very big red flag for me. I don't want to feel lonely in marriage.

If you're in a potential relationship and he/she is displaying some unwanted characters and you're seeing the signal clearly that it's a red flag but you're hoping he/she is gonna change, hmmm.. Honestly it's not easy to change a full grown man/woman. Don't give yourself false hope he/she will change.

Being in a Relationship is not all about Intercourse But interview. What do you do during an interview? You have a chance to communicate and study each other personality and character, it would be so easy to detect red flags. Don't be carried away by sex, money and gifts.

You gave the best analysis as regards to the topic...Experience is truely the best teacher.

So did you later found out why he kept malice with the man he called Dad?

3years is too much...Though some fathers can be extremely annoying, but not to extent of malice.

My Dad ones he offends me, I bodly tell it to his face what he did is wrong...He will carry face for small time, then later will call to engage me in serious discussion...now I am imagining him staying off for 1yr...damn! .

Ahmed0336:
Love is Blind

See this one, love don dey wear contact lens o

helinues:


You are not serious, why did you also have issue with Agberos.

Just like one day I went out to chill with some of my guys, we got to the club and started partying, can't really remember what happened between me and one guy, before I knew it, the guy pushed me.

Immediately my friends pounced on the guy and his friends that are about to interfere, me wey no like fighting, na so I reason with the guy maturely, he apologized and we moved on, meanwhile my friends and his friends have gone downstairs to had the proper fight, when they all returned, they saw the two people that started the fighting drinking together and they were confused.

The truth is I didn't send them to fight my fight and the message is clear, if you got into a fight with someone, I won't get involved..

When you reconciled with the guy, what stopped you from going downstairs with the guy to go stop whatever is happening? If them get sense they should distance themselves from you..

You aren't a good human.

If they acted like you, those guys would av handled you like a criminal, then you will open thread to castigate friendships.

Anyway wahala for who he is keeping a Buhari supporter as friend...No conscience.

Iyaebe:
Where my car

Taa which car?

Oya take...

Iyaebe:
I love gifts,I wish her duplex next time

Blablamalala:
It is sweet to have tasted kpako life before blessings it makes you a complete package.

Truth...I can attest to that.

Some people can't believe things I can do until I start doing it..

siofra:
I hope you don't look like this

Blablamalala:

E shock the guy...Them no know say I don test kpako before the blessings..

Any how matters be, I go run am..

His hubby reminds me of My Dad and how he is always the parent that will come to school, PTA meetings, registrations,graduations etc...

Parenting is a cute experience when you have intelligent and smart kids..

Malory:
Congrats. She looks exactly like her mom and only her mom knows who the father is

And her mom looks like her hubby.

Blablamalala:
Foreigners are already filling the gap from neighbouring countries like Benin and Togo for real.

You are right..Worst case is here in SE....Young Igbo boys no want to artisan and craftsman work.

Na most Benue guys and northerners we dey use build here .

And they have learnt to extort plus the shakara...Of recent I have embarked on self development towards these things via YouTube and elsewhere..

In 2020, I hired one to assist me run a small job he came with outrageous bill, I told him hold on...Days later he came back and saw It was done perfectly...He was like haaa Oga nothing wey you no dey do o...

Since then, he dey respect himself anytime I call him for job...yeye people.

okeyumez:
The youths of today wants to be like Obi Cubana without hard work.
South West is even worse. Almost all youths in Ogun are into skull mining business

funny enough, they don't to hear the rough days of successful men...

To them, it is now or never.

iKON11:
I'm 31 and my friend is 34 years. Lately we've been having some issues over the above topic.
I don't know why but he takes so much pleasure in sleeping with girls he's far older than. Like 18, 19 years old girls (very tender girls).

Anytime I complain about this, it becomes an issue. He even think I'm jealous of him, in fact he told me today to stop been jealous but frankly I feel very embarrassed anytime he brings such girls to our gathering.

We are new in this area but people have already taken notice of this and its even rubbing off on me now.

The funny thing is he doesn't even feel any shame or remorse about this.

He is 34 and you are 31....Daddies in a brief time.


Well since 18 is the constitutionally accepted age for adult, he is not committing any crime to warrant insues...
People have choice and we must respect that..They are adults...What if he dicide to marry an 18yr old girl, will you stop him?

If you are not cool with it, Stop being friends with him..It is as simple as that.

When it comes to Men, Some are younger at heart meaning they will always date a lady they are older than..

While some are older at heart..Meaning they can comfortably love and date a much older lady.

The rest are sitting on the fence, always swinging like the pendulum...Today they love a younger woman, tomorrow they carry their mama age mate.

Whichever works for you, make sure you are respecting the law...

Siberia01:


Op

What of Enyimba of Aba

Lmao..

iKON11:
I'm 31 and my friend is 34 years. Lately we've been having some issues over the above topic.
I don't know why but he takes so much pleasure in sleeping with girls he's far older than. Like 18, 19 years old girls (very tender girls).

Anytime I complain about this, it becomes an issue. He even think I'm jealous of him, in fact he told me today to stop been jealous but frankly I feel very embarrassed anytime he brings such girls to our gathering.

We are new in this area but people have already taken notice of this and its even rubbing off on me now.

The funny thing is he doesn't even feel any shame or remorse about this.

You are a teacher right?

Kobojunkie:
If you feel this shame and remorse you speak of, why is he still your friend?

Or are you here to tattle because you never reach to sleep with some of the small girls? The gals never dey look your way yet?

Kobo wahala...

Twocups:
All these people saying 6k, 7k for person are lying. Most of them don't eat till 12pm, maybe mama put #500, they now top it with garri in the evening, they are done for the day. Nairalander dey form sha


Though I spend at least 2k per day food only

sheanzy:
Are you feeding your whole village daily

sweetmelanin:
This break up is paining a lot of Nigerian women who idolize the fantasy that you can be a whoore, have no self- respect, reveal your body anyhow, exhibit jezebel-like behaviour under the guise of "liberation" and still have a supportive simp by your side (in the case of Korra, a white man)

I'm glad more men are waking up sha ...gives me hope while raising my young king in this wicked generation.

The man was enjoyjng the fun aspect of it, now responsibility has set in with Gear 3...

Kids changes everything...

A woman should be wild only for her man in the private..And come decent in the public...This is the status quo our mothers maintained.

Anyone who changes this will see the end.

We4all:
This man should shut up already. I thought you said you guys were perfect for each other?

Anyways, men do worse things to women and they still endure. This man should just manage her like that.

You enjoy deceiving yourself.

chatinent:
As in eh. It's the audacity for me.

Ike gwuru..

EBMedia:
https://www.instagram.com/p/Ca7qu0Gr2_3/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Love is a beautiful thing with the right one.

nonxo007:
But come to think of it, she had evidence to attest to the fact that she was raped by this man in a BRT bus if she had made public these claims with evidence it would have gotten him arrested and the lady who lost her life might still be alive today. I'm just saying

This is a proof that the Nigerian system has no place for a common person...Even this one that lead to loss of life, the government want to twist the real deal, not to talk of rape case with evidence.

LASG will still deny her and maybe say it was a sexual transaction

Corrupt system

emmykk:
Which means the 3 men narrative who the driver is claiming boarded the vehicle with them and drag the lady out at cater bridge may just a lie..

This must be what played out and because his victims refuse he killed her.

If ritual killers make him a juicy offer, he will turn his rape victims to cash cow after the act...It could be what played out.

Revolution2022:
See how a NURTW branch chairman is giving orders to the number chief security Officer of the state.What guts.Is it not the government that owns the park?
Rubber-stamp sanwo-olu should take over the motorparks and hand it over to you to control as a ballot box snatcher.

MC oluomo incoming lagos Governor..

Smart girl...She came prepared with the evidence...Nice one!

A whole government tra transport firm is now being used to violate women and commit other crimes.

It is a normal any where in the world...When there is conflicts, tools must enter black market which are usually Middle east and African countries.