₦airaland Forum

Mariangeles:
Mba o.
I don't do gender wars.
Eshiokwu ka'm gwara onye ahu.


Romance section wu territory ha.
Ha juru nga ahu.

Ngwanu o..

System202:
as an Elder Brother, I can't tolerate kind of things. I love my Brothers, I love my sister's, I am like father to them, u just can't come one day and separate me from my family, if u love me u have to love my family. If they can't enjoy my house where in this world would they go and enjoy.

I tire o...Some ladies enoy creating problem where it doesn't exist..

Most importantly it depends on the man..A man set the dynamic in his house and the woman follow his lead..Any deviation from that, is going to be a problem.

aboyaji:
Thanks. You're wise. That's exactly what I'm doing now.

I only wish him well.


Guess what happened 2 days ago. Mom called and said "let your brother not repeat what he did some years ago".

What happened years ago? He had impregnated a certain young lady in 2014. Same person. Same occurrence. Who settled the matter? Family. And he's 3-4 years older than I am. Guess what? I wasn't close to him when it happened in 2014 and the girl in question came from an irresponsible money driven and alcoholic drunk family.

This new girl smokes weeeeeeeeeeeeeed. Story for another day.

And that punk assess of a kobo.junkie is talking thrash.

Nawa o...weed kwa

I am sure na SK...Ladies like SK well well


This your brother go be area scatter o.

aboyaji:
This is no disrespect. And I'm in no way asserting my own standard.

Just so I'm clear, so, you'd rather turn a blind eye if you were in my position?

If our only daughter and last born was close by at the time, she'd have fingered him big time. She'd have talked more sense into him. We raise no dumbskull.

Well, I've left them since last year because it was then that it all happened.

This January visit was the last I think I will give them.

E reach to stay on your own, this last visit na 3cups of insult she give you...And worst is you carry your babe go there...she come witness the whole thing...Anyway she is your witness any time the case reach family court..

It's high time you tell your bro to make it make sense by maintaining a stand...He is cohabiting and having baby with a lady who isn't his wife by act of paid dowry or whatsoever...I hope you know if anything happens to that lady, hmmmmmm you people should do the needful before una go hear wetin Onitsha tell Obosi o..

aboyaji:
She is not yet a wife, Oga. She is a baby mama for crying out loud. Her type is not entertained in our family, hence my advice to him.

Did you hear me say I was advising our 3rd brother? No. Because he has a nicer WIFE. I call her children my children. That's how we live in our family. When they had issues, the lady ran to us and we CHANGE AM FOR MY BROTHER, STRAIGHT UP!!!

Who will the second brother's woman run to in hard times? Me? Our only daughter? Or mom whom the lady warned my brother not to spend more than 4hrs with while visiting her for the first time in the East? Imagine traveling from the north central to meet your mother in-law to be for the first time and could not pass the night but rather spent more days in the neighboring town doing nothing?

Na that mother in-law go send you?

By which law? Baby mamas can easily be put away. Make hay while the sun shines. That's it.

The bolded reminds me of how my friend arranged with his other siblings to deal with one for raising hands on his wife.

The day he narrated the story I laugh fall for ground that day..They invited him to his house, lock door pack there parents go one corner to create space to deal with one of their brothers because he beat his woman. Some adult general beating stuffs.

Mariangeles:
If to say op na guy na, your comment for reach two pages.

I ji la nwaayo na agba gender coded war.


Eshi ndi ogwu red anyi juru here chetara gi eeh, I no dey o

aboyaji:
Wait let me tell you what you don't know. I may have made a mistake quoting you. You don't sound learned in this discourse.

He is my brother. I am closest to him. I am not the type of adult that sits around doing nothing when things are going out of hand. I am very much responsible in his life because he is my brother. Get it?

You quote kobo junkie forget it, this matter no go rest..

That person enjoys long talk like one weak but inquisitive university lecturer in management faculty..

aboyaji:
Some people are not well raised.

I had sometime last year sat my brother down. He's older than I am o. No be taata.

I told him it's still early to end this thing with that girl since he's yet to pay her bride price. Girl that makes him feel uneasy. Because she has your child. She calls to check where you are every minute.

There was a time she asked him to go home that it was late, while my brother was hanging out with friends. She wasn't in the same state with him o. Haha

She gets her phone subscribed every 2 days because she spends all her time online doing tiktok and video calls. This is not a hearsay or accusations. It is what's happening.

The same week she put to bed in her hometown, she asked for data money from my brother to post a new video she made while on wrappers in her house. She was even dancing. I said to myself, na wa o! A nursing mother?

I don't even view her post because it contains videos from tiktok. Na wife be this abi?

Hehehehehe Aboy focus on that your nice babe abeg... leave your brother to his choice...As long as there is no domestic vawulense, you muuuveeee

I don't like putting eye into siblings relationships as long as no one is choking them, I am cool...
And they are not choking anyone, I move.

I only remind them to remember where they come from and whereever they are chanced to go. Needs first before wants.

Rachel98:
According to my brother, she has PhD in Sociology & Anthropology

Smh PhD in sociology and she is acting anti-social..

Well in the same naija a PhD holder in mechanical engineering still the wait for road side mechanic to fix minor issues for his car.

timefarm:
Funny people.

There is nothing bad you won't hear from this government. Wrong copy submitted.

This country is a comedy on it's own...

You wake up and hear new things on a daily...

AlhajiBitcoin:
I'm sure the unemployment rate among Tiktok creators is above 70%.

Lmao...

NwaNimo1:
After lamenting.........

[img]https://media1./images/a218af33a6df977d81932e6705eae90b/tenor.gif?itemid=22696307[/img]

....start dieting!

Lmaoooo

Mariangeles:
She's beautiful.

Onwere onye doubt ga her beauty?

Nbotee:
Lolzzzz... One man who is vying for Presidency comes to mind

Bobo chicago like my guy playmaker14 will say...

KillIgbohoN0W:
I fail to see how you survived an accident here Mr. Attention Seeker.

Attention...

mrvitalis:
Shots fired ...

Bullion Van

Mariangeles:
Yes. Iyawo wu nwunye.
I gbaliga nnoo.




Eshiokwu nucha n'okwu ndi a.

@the last paragraph, a naghi a gbalaha ya a gbalaha.

Exactly...you cannever escape the last paragraph ahu.

HonestFriend:


Wetin man go do; everybody dey find solution to him palava!!

If you like sex, and your girl doesnt, You are not compatible na...Except if she feels somehow having it on premarital stuffs..

Again, someone can hate it initially, and start enjoying it later...Again, I still find it hard to believe anyone hates sex...Unless he/she is not into the partner like that.

[quote author=obowunmi post=109443632] Timing is the most important thing about relationships. If the timing ain’t right - no matter how perfect the person is, it won’t work.

Timing, do you mean dating when one is prepared and ready..

HonestFriend:
My girl doesn't like sex, But I like it...

Can we still marry?

You people have succeeded in turning Nairaland to a family/relationship court...

Wetin remain na for seun to get lawyers and a judge for una.

Bahamas95:
That's not true. You can love someone at first but change your mind when you notice something you ain't comfortable with.


I'm speaking typing from experience.

Truth..

Especially when you've tried to iron out the issues, he/she refuses to make amends.

Again, loving a pretender can make one retrace steps later.

A baby less than a month old, this fool don dey carry am snap pics just to Impress Instagram people...

Sister Tobi..smh

LordIsaac:
"... anytime she leaves home...she usually doesn't exceed one day..." To where?

To hustle....Very nonsense something.

She had a poor upbringing.

They knew she is a hustler

Aidejay:
I like that his song.
Baby oo baby you're like medicine to me you give me every thing I need dun dun dun dun....

Oooh!!!

I think Everything is his best song.

brainpulse:
A woman that values and cherishes her husband stays and grow old with him.

Truth the secret our mothers have been using to grow older with papa.

MufasaLion:
I would have sang a better song.

You are funny..

Timi is good.

Realchairmann:
This is kinda confusing to me. I've been married to my beloveth wife for 11 years and counting. God has blessed us with three kids of ten, four and a year old. We are having a wonderful Union and time of our lifes.

For sometime now, I've been nurturing the idea of relocating abroad. My wife has BSc and MSc in Microbiology but has been jobless since she concluded her NYSC the year we got married. I'm ready to sponsor her for PHD to any country of her choice to pave way for I and the kids to follow later.

However, she has turned me down whenever I brought up the issue. Her response is always tied around the bond we share and that she can't just leave her kids and travel abroad.

I have a good paying job but I really want her to explore her potentials too. She's a very good wife and an excellent mother but I'm confused why she's skeptical about leaving this Country.

Or am I the one taking too much risk?

Some guys sef

God will give you a good woman, you still want to use your hand to turn her to what she isn't

If she desire to teach, why not she pick up a teaching Job with a secondary school and build a career while you sponsor her PhD and look for a connection to see to her smooth transition from a secondary school teacher to a university lecturer.

A wife cannot leave her kids, husband who have been her source of joy and happiness to go and search for greener pastures overseas...Only ashawo wife and one who is just being with you for the time will agree to such arrangement..Or these our online feminists/diamond harvesters..

Congrats! You married one among the few wives/mothers on earth...She is even contented sef...kudos.

See to her exploring the opportunities here...Make friends wil those in the university teaching field..And get her a mentor.

Everything will be fine as you are retiring from Job, she is climbing her lecturing or any other employment peak..And the kids will not lack.

If anyone needs to travel, it's you.

Sucolee:
You no dey give ur man bj and ur man like it

Hehehehehe inside life.

Mariangeles:
Hahahahahahahahahhahahahahahaha

Oko wu di, wukwanu local government nwoke.
It's the markings and pronunciation that differentiates them. (Although, I didn't add the markings)

Ihe m dere nga ahu wu awon oko asewo, ihe o putara wu ndi di ndi akwuna.

Hahahaha oooh...yes one movie I watched nkem owo married from tribes..

Nke yoruba ji akpo ya Okor mi.. ya wunu my husband.

Just like iyawo mi is my wife okwaya?

A ghota ga m yoruba ntakiri ntakiri o

Ezigbo ndi di ndi akwuna..

Ufodu nwaanyi ji ahu nsogbu and flags, yet daba n'ime ya...Nwoke nor mba ofesi after oluchara gi, common sense kwesiri iju ajuju si how is he coping when he gets hor.ny as a married man..

Again, nwoke noro ya juo gi oji nwaanyi eme gini..smh just mara na owu patron ndi Ashawo ma o wu ndi ihe nwoke ibe ha na amasi.

Same goes with some ladies that feels men are shit, ndi nke ahu ejila Love Machine meruo onwe ha ahu.. or the indulge in same sex stuffs.

Law of nature created vacuum for attraction with opposite sex...And if their exists a vacuum, nature must fill up.

Tototoosweet:
I don’t even know what is in pussy?

Sugar...In agreement with your moniker..

Mariangeles:
Awon oko asewo!

Kowa ihe

Ahu la m oko..local government nwoke..

Asewo..

Ya wu ashawo prik okwaya?

Mariangeles:
Owu nani ihe oma?
Some scary sh!t.

One should not marry if marriage will be a threat to their happiness.
I cannot bear to live life always wondering what another person is doing.
I cannot let my happiness be taken away from me.
Not even marriage is worth that.

Lol...unfortunately marriage is not for everyone...But those who wished to, will surely get to find the one for them....Inside life.

It is a place of sacrifice, if you can't don't go into it o..

I si scary shit..

Noro kwa nga hu...I luta di likiri oral, i ga enye ya hu o...Unless ya agawa outside...