₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
Ageless beauty.
That is how you look without man troubles.

lefulefu:
there some faithful wives who contact it from their husbands who keep numerous mistresses around and have skinto with them.some faithful husbands also contact it from their wives who play away matches with their side boos .no be only men who patronise ashawo dey at risk..even married couples who are not faithful are also at risk.the key point is to be faithful to one another or abstiene but then how many nigerians are actually faithful to their better halves .is it not these era wey guys dey get 13 girlfriends and some ladies dey get about 10 boyfriends with six daddies .u can imagine a guy dey do skinto with two of im babes and the other remaining ten he dey use condom and he thinks he"s playing safe.those other two wey im dey do skinto with also get other boyfriends and sugar daddies dem dey do as well.

iamJ:
if i say my mind dem go call off the event

let me hand over my laptop to lie lie jude

very lovely couple

OddslordIsBack:
if I'm not mistaken, I av done mine not less down 12times, since 2017-19


and all negative

it was not easy


I can't in my life do skin again until marriage, and its next year

NwaAmaikpe:





Skin to skin is for people with balls...a ball you've just decided to shatter by getting all those rubbers.

So stay alive for those who love you.
Practice safe sex by masturbating.

Sonnyboom:
The joke is on you.

Should:
I knw how depressed you are realizing the fact that your bikini bottom has closed to a point of prickly hole as a result of RUSTication...
Kpéle, we understand, buy yourself a Mandingo pórn collection and get that half closed dirty grumpy greased!

drlance:
She kept lying about this guy who happened to be a medical doctor, I am unemployed but sell phone accessories and do mini importation on the side but doing my Masters.

It happened that one time she told me she was to travel to Asaba to meet her family members, on hearing this I was happy and looked forward to talking to them.

After spending the night at my place I put her in a bus to Asaba, she didn't pick my calls till the next day.

The next day she posted an outing pic of herself in an eatery I didn't see it as anything but it's the next one that broke me.

A guy took a picture of her with her phone while backing a glass door so I could take that he wore a blue shirt I called that day and when I asked playfully to talk to the family members she asked me "what kind of talk is that ?"

Not long from then I got tagged in a picture on her wall on Facebook, low and behold it was a selfie of her and the Medical doctor in blue shirt and the caption "I love you forever, my personal person" someone she said I shouldn't worry about but he is asking her out, that she knew months before meeting me. She was supposed to be away for 2 days and ended up coming back after a week.

On seeing this I called to demand for an explanation if they were related, she sighed cut the phone on me and didn't pick my calls ever again.

She left me for a Medical Doctor!!

One month later now she calls me out of the blue to ask for 2k to buy foodstuffs. Which I gave without saying a word.

Fast forward to today I got a job with the government and relocated to Abuja.

She called me later shedding crocodile tears and begging for me back.

People of Nairaland, what would you have me do? What will you do if you were in my shoes? It's not my fault she didn't see the bigger picture.

She isn't the first woman that has left me for a better person.

nadesh:
I go eat na while i remain jobless in my jobless situation
#MercyXjustfurniture
#MercyXRoyalElectronics
#MercyXMrTaxi
#MercyXRoyalHairs
#MercyXCiroc
#MercyXMapiatea
#IkeXHypeandSteam
#IkeXRemymartinNG
#IkeXPrive

More coming

nadesh:
Make i chop first

Simplep:
Mumu

OladimejiRufai:
Well, I have an advice for you my boy @OP

From this moment, stop looking for true love

I'm not implying that you cannot find it but stop looking for it.

Rather start looking for a lady who is psychologically wired to always do the right thing and has a very advanced understanding of life.

See, in most cases, love is transient.

Sometimes, people fall in love because they fell into a moment where they perceived something that touched their heart from the other person. And then moments later, they find out that the feelings are lost.

sometimes, people fall in love because there's constant communication or commitment between both persons and they are just lost in the fun of it and think they are in love. If something happens that distracts one of them from achieving the constant communication or commitment to the other person, they find that they lose the love gradually.

sometimes, people's love for another person is usually connected to some features of that person that fascinates them or blows them away.

"oh, the guy is funny." "the girl is intelligent" "the guy is charming" "the girl is georgous" e.t.c and they continue to fall in love so far these qualities are present. But what happens when they lose those qualities or those qualities gradually fade away? that's how the love will also be lost or will gradually fade away.

So in most cases, love is transient. This is proven by the many broken relationships where you hear from both sides that they have fallen out of love.

So if a person were to enter a marriage because of love, he or she is likely to be no more interested in the marriage eventually and may crave attention or love elsewhere and may want to break up the marriage.

That's the reason why I said you should look for someone with a larger and better understanding of life and who is psychologically wired to do the right thing.

this is because when it gets to the stage in a marriage where both spouses have fallen out of love, for people who do not fulfil the said criteria (no understanding of life or being wired to do the right thing), they would want to break up or would start seeking love elsewhere and they many end up cheating etc.

But for someone who fulfils that criteria;

- someone who understands that this life is not a bed of roses and it is not everything you want that you get;

- someone who understands that the purpose of marriage is not necessarily to love rather it is to show care, support each other, become responsible, help each other achieve desired goals and for mankind to multiply (procreation);

- someone who understands that there is time for everything and there are some certain pleasures that should not be sought at all stages of life or the pleasures should be limited at some point in time (imagine a 45 year old woman complaining that her husband doesn't take her out for shopping or so like he used to when she was still 25 when she should be more concerned about caring for the kids that she didn't have then but have now and focus on making them successful in life)

- someone who understands that this life itself is a place of trials and there'll always be sour times or times when you would have to forgo your heart desires for the right thing to be done;

- someone who understands that the pleasures of the hereafter are far greater than those of this life and is more concerned about that and because of that, he or she gives up some pleasures in this world just for the right thing to be done.

- someone who has values, who understands cheating is bad, who understands that it is an evil thing to extort or deceive a partner for personal gains, who knows how to control anger and doesn't expect perfection from the other partner, who understands that for a marriage to work, both sides must be committed to it, who understands that deceiving a partner and extorting him should not be the measure by which you "make it in life", and who is psychologically wired to follow all those values;

So for someone who has a better understanding of life and is wired to do the right thing, such are the people who stay in a marriage when there's no more "love" or when they have fallen out of love and continue to try everything to make it work till the end.

So this is what you should be looking for, for "true love" Is scarce.

If eventually you are able to find true love in a partner that fulfils the above criteria, then consider it a plus, consider it a blessing and thank God for it.

My piece!

ornicus:
She burns it all in za oza room

midnighter:
The best thing to do would be to ban her from campus but still allow her to complete her course via distance learning.

At least it would punish her, stop her from being bullied, let the school save face and prevent the years she has already spent there from being a waste.

This one is just throwing the baby out with the bathwater. But what do we expect from a typically judgemental and heavy-handed Nigerian institution.

No nuance or lateral thinking, just punishment punishment everywhere without considering the humanity of the person

lefulefu:
and again and again a lot of girls will still be making the same mistake of allowing guys to video them while having sex even with the rate dudes release sex tapes .

lefulefu:
not that they had consensual sex but that they made a sex video and released it thst got her expelled.tits a high sight of irresponsibility nau.even in US wey we dey take make noise as the place of liberty and freedom if u are in a respected position and u release sex tape either u leave that position or dem fire u.she mess up doing a sex video and frm the way she position herself and dey look at the camera she knew she was being recorded .

MJBOLT:

why do i have this funny feeling she wants to pin another man pregnancy on you


if you have unprotected sex with her,be ready to face whatever comes from it.

Pubichairs:
don't break de bro' code..u should know this is de only way to still keep her relevant around me, as man u be u suppose understand

Rayd502:
"Ike who has given himself a second job to be liking all posts" "

garfield1:
Apc peppered you in kogi and bayelsa

newsynews:
Actress Etinosa Idemudia has flaunted the brand new Mercedes Benz she got as a gift in Dubai from someone who reached out to her via DM.

Etinosa took to social media with a video showing how excited the gift made her feel.

She shared:



https://www.instagram.com/p/B4-xxKEnoXW/?igshid=1rqps3mabatzh

https://wotzup.ng/etinosa-idemudia-receives-brand-new-mercedes-benz-as-gift-in-dubai-video/

ikechukwu21:
You prefer they be hypocrites instead? It's your way of thinking that makes sex a big deal not because it actually is.

pocohantas:
Hmm,

What is it with pastors and being more vocal about sex these days.

Looks like the people of God have been complaining bitterly in their individual meetings.

Twoclans:
Perfect list ,I think doctors should be on the list those guys can flirt for Africa

breadplanets:
Fried abacha for Sunday lunch.... This life I can't kee myself

nadesh:
Their new name is Lucky and Shy With love from Dubai