GoodHardDick: Based on what a girl told me about SIMPs, have come to understand that simps guys project the following characteristics below
Who's a SIMP/weak guy?
A SIMP/weak guy is a guy who allows a girl to control and manipulate his emotions
He is a guy who always loves to please a lady no matter the circumstances, even if it means depriving him of his own happiness.
A simp guy is so weak and can easily fall in love with a lady, they can never say NO to a lady.
He is a guy who always says "YES" to a lady's demand
He thinks with his emotions, instead of thinking logically with his brain.
Make i shock you?
Ladies hate these types of guys a lot. Hence, the reason they find bad guys highly attractive because they're the opposite of this guys.
as a guy, if a girl says she can't date you because you're broke, make her understand that you can't Also date her because she's too broke for you. Don't go around trying to please her... all in the name of trying to win her heart over., that's stupidity and shows a great level of weakness.
There are 3 scenarios you need to understand;
1. There are complete simps who ladies control in a relationship.
2. There are complete red-pillers who want to dominate ladies in a relationship.
3. There are those in-between who control their ladies and who allow their ladies to also have some level of control over them cos relationship really is not a competition. As much as you're the man, it's ok to express some weakness for the one you like/love.
Sufferingboy: I am male.I have said everything I can think of,she dey form rubbish not knowing I operated the fake white man account she her masturbation video to.
Wetin pain me be say I don't have that video anymore.
What will you have done with the video? Would you have blackmailed her with it? Not cool bro.
Just decide if she's worth the trouble then you can win her over by giving her your time and attention. Or be ready to spend on her.
Otherwise just let it go. You win some, you lose some.
Sufferingboy: They usually say it that women like to hear and beleive lies.I have now agree to that statement.
There is this girl from one of this east africa country I have know for some months know,I created a fake white man facebook account to chat her up,she was in love and even sent me(fake white man) her nudes pics and video where she was masturbating and using her hand to open her vagina.She was even inserting and deepen her hand inside her tot* .
I decided to chat her up with my private whatsapp,this girl is beautiful.But she started behaving somehow,that she does not want any relationship now.
The mistake I made was not saving her nude video in my google drive,She is now telling me to go love another person.
If I should create a new fake account and add her up she will accept and still send me her nude.
This girl is in her early twenties.We are of the same age but I am older than her by 2months.
This girl would have been my first girl,but she is not willing to give me her heart.I really love this girl and she will be a good fucker(from her masturbation video,I can tell that)
Ishilove,Nwanyiogwashi,mynd44,
Come and rescue me.
First off, are you male or female cos I'm confused. Second of all, if she doesn't want you, you have 2 choices; 1. Let her go. Or 2. Win her heart if she is worth the trouble.
fkj950ax: You have a right to believe or otherwise in tithing, but don't twist the definition of tithe to suit your belief in it or otherwise. If giving cheerfully as you put it is the same as tithe, then there wouldn't have been different definitions.
Tithe is not cheerful giving.
What you should do is show me scripture where tithing was a requirement in the new testament.
I'm not here to argue with my-pastor-says believers
youngdave78: I was wondering if it's a most to take your tithes to church?
For Jews, your tithe is for the priests/Levites since God has separated them from having properties and working. Their source of livelihood is the tithe from the other tribes of Israel.
As a Christian tithing is not a requirement, cheerful giving is. Which some times could be less than a tithe (10% of your produce) or even far more depending on your choice and not a law. The early disciples gave all they had to the church after conversion.
Study the new testament carefully and you'll realise that no where did Peter or Paul mention the word tithe as a requirement. Only that the church make cheerful giving according to their will. Knowing that God blesses the cheerful giver.
However everything is hinged on your faith. If you have faith that paying tithe is when God blesses you, by all means do that. If you have faith that giving cheerfully is when God blesses you by all means do that. If you have faith that giving to the poor is when God blesses you, by all means do that.
johnydon22: There are fundamental flaws in your assumptions about morality as held by atheists. You have to first understand that the idea of morality as a God-centered enterprise is majorly an Abrahamic idea, at least in the modern sense. Most cultures developed moral values and ideas without basing these ideas of the authority of God punishing or rewarding certain actions.
So, someone not believing in God is not mutually exclusive with them having firm moral beliefs.
I do not know what you mean by good and evil being products of subatomic interactions, I am hoping you will explain that further
But here is how I will try convincing such a person: I will appeal to their rationality, practicality and curiosity.
1. Rationality: Detonating the nuke serves no purpose to him, so what would it matter to him to detonate it? 2. Practical: He has family members, friends whom I assume he deeply cares about. Why would he want to remove the choice to either live or die from those whom he confesses to love? 3. Curiosity: Assuming that such a person is a nihilist as your post seems to imply, even a nihilist can be curious. We have both seen the scientific wonders, architectural and technological marvels human has been capable of in the last century, wouldn't you like to find out where it is all going? What comes next? Perhaps, you could hold off nuking everyone just yet.
So now OP, assuming this person believes in a God but is determined to nuke everyone, how would you convince them otherwise?
Very intelligent. Nothing to add or remove.
The assumption that morality is lost to atheists is at best a product of religious brainwashing.
TenQ: Whao! I can't believe the appropriateness of your comment! Atheists in the same class as animals? No way!
I expected this base and unintelligent response. But I decided to bait you into it just to gauge your iq.
Scientifically living things exhibit several characteristics. This should remind you of MRNIGERD.
So using comparison between living things as an insult only depicts unintelligence.
Eg Animal moves, does that mean that movement of humans is supposed to be derogatory? Animals breath, perhaps you should stop breathing. Animals feed, let's see how long you last without food. Animals respond to stimuli, I'm sure you are already deciding your reaction to my response.
So me alluding the word atheism to animals or any other living creature is something that should make an intelligent mind see beyond insult but observation.
If an animal is trained to believe in god then it would likewise be theist. Perhaps that means theists are also animals?
The primary role of a prophet is not as you see it falsely displayed today. Primary role of a prophet is to teach God's word. And you will see that evident in all the OT prophets. They taught so that men will believe.
Moses, is a central example. He was a teacher of the word. His teaching was the basis of every other writings in the Bible. That's to let you know how much he taught.
That is the primary role of a prophet. God's spokesman is to teach oracle of God. Other things are secondary.
So those in the OT were taught and have access to the teaching of God's Word through their prophets.
No one just believe in the bible sense. Believing in itself is a product of knowledge. Knowing who or what you believe.
And faith is a product of faithfulness which in itself comes from a proper knowledge, a knowing of the person or things.
Bible is an embodiment of teaching that provides knowledge of God's faithfulness thereby persuading you to have faith in him.
The 5 fold ministry has it's different roles.
The prophet reveals the mind/will/mysteries of and from God. The teacher is the one who teaches the word of God. The evangelist preaches the gospel.
Biblically people developed knowledge and faith in God in 3 ways; 1. By direct revelation/hearing from God either through dreams or theophanies (appearance of God or an angel) Abraham and Moses heard directly from God hence they believed. Jacob had a dream about God at Luz before he also believed. The apostles saw Jesus directly before the believed in him.
2. By evangelism. By someone preaching to you about God. Now those who operate in the evangelistic ministry have the advantage of being used prophetically or as teachers but they are primarily evangelists.
3. But being born into a religion. All Jews were expected to believe in the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob.
TenQ: All here perfectly said: Although I doubt if the core atheist will agree with you that atheism is a state of disbelief. They will rather want to use the vague term of "lack of belief".
A disbelief is a logical or mental or emotional rejection of a belief system.
In other words, without a belief system, there cannot be a disbelief.
A lack of belief is a state in which there is no subject of belief on ground in the first place. This state is possible only in total ignorance.
Example: A goat or a dog lacks a belief in any deity.
Hence the goat or dog is also atheist. It has no knowledge of god nor any belief in a god.
If any creature believes in god then it is theist Likewise if a creature doesnt believe in god it is atheist
TenQ: Why didn't you define theism as possession of a belief rather than just a belief in a deity?
The opposite of belief is DOUBT! So that in its proper sense atheists are those who DOUBT the existence of God!
Check your English Dictionary: The antonym of belief is either DISBELIEF or DOUBT and not the play of semantics referred to as LACK of BELIEF!
I'm not the linguist who decided Theism is belief in a deity. Neither did I decide the definition for atheism. Theo means deity/god.
Hence Theism mean belief in a deity. So atheism applies to unbelief in a deity. General lack of belief is something else. I'm sure there's a word for that too.
As for the opposite of belief, it's unbelief. Doubt and disbelief are close relations to unbelief.
KnownUnknown: I don’t have a dog in this fight because I’m neither atheist or theist. That being said, if this buffalo could ask Mr. God a question about his environment, I wonder what it would ask?
TenQ: You have stated what atheism isn't. But what then is atheism?
I actually have a problem with the definition of atheists as people who lack a belief or absence of a belief in any deity. To me, it's a senseless position for a rational human being to lack a belief about a subject he has taken a position upon.
I think the problem is the definition of belief in context of a deity.
I submit that the position of atheism itself is a belief irrespective of how you argue against it.
You are not to decide that. These are simply english/grammatical words that have their definitions.
Theism means belief in a deity (god). While its antithesis/opposite is Atheism which means lacking belief in a deity (god).
An atheist might have a belief in science or other philosophies but certainly not a belief in a god. Cos by believing in a god, they are no longer atheists but theists.
Babsojimjim: Her character changed,no marital relationship, no care no concern, she prefers her friends instructions and advise to her husband, whenever she does wrong and is been corrected,she will turn it against her husband and start bringing up issues of the past that have already been resolved. This she has always been doing. But the man would still plead for peace. How can two couples live in the same house without intimacy for months, no sound communication etc, but when she needs money she does not hesitate to ask for it. The man has been the one canvassing for continuity but the woman seems to feel she is right and would still have her way out there.
For my friend to have peace and regain his sanity, hence the need for this post.
TenQ: Definitions are not as important as the meanings words convey.
An ATHEIST is one who consciously
1. Reject of the thought of a supreme being (Blocking of ears). Blocking God at an intellectual level OR 2. Reject of the authority of the supreme being. (Rebellion). Blocking God at an emotional level.
Check the dictionary definitions of the words-Atheist and Atheism in my previous post.
Then you can understand that Atheism is not only about rejection of a belief in god. But most importantly it is simply not believing God exists either by rejection o by lack or information or apostasy.
TenQ: Atheists would like to define atheism as a lack of belief in a deity BUT actually, it is a rejection of the supremacy of any deity.
The lack of information or knowledge about any deity should not be defined as a cause of atheism. This is simply IGNORANCE at its best. Without any information about Santa Claus, there is no opinion, belief or lack of belief I can have about him.
As per rejection of the information about the existence of God OR apostasy, they are still both about REJECTION of a Deity! 1. Rejection of the thought of a supreme being (Blocking of ears). Blocking God at an intellectual level 2. Rejection of the authority of the supreme being. (Rebellion). Blocking God at an emotional level.
A baby has no opinion about the power of electricity. Therefore, he can't be said to lack a belief or not in electricity. A baby probably doesn't have the intellectual capacity to even understand what electricity is in the first place to form any opinion.
An atheist could be likened to a man who never saw the power of electricity BUT was informed that the wires on the pole contained dangerous power that can maim, kill or burn.
The Ordinary Atheist argue the impossibility of ordinary cool, noiseless ordinary metal wires carry such energies.
The Rebellious Atheist seek a complete removal or destruction of such energy carrying wires (usually with an alternative).
The Agnostic-atheist argue the impossibility of an ordinary cool, noiseless ordinary metal wires carry such energies While still profesing his uncertainty
The Agnostic-atheist argue the possibility of an ordinary cool, noiseless ordinary metal wires carry such energies While still profesing his uncertainty. It's better to be safe than sorry
The Ordinary Theist argue the possibility of ordinary cold, noiseless, ordinary metal wires carry such energies and thus behave appropriately.
An atheist did not define the word ATHEISM. Atheism and Atheist are smply english words defined below;
As I said,there are different ways to be an atheist; 1. Not having any information about a god (deity) and hence not believing in the existence of a god. 2. Rejecting the belief of a god. 3. Apostasy which is also rejection of the belief in a god after once believing in the existence of a god.
hupernikao: It's likely you just want to firm an argument from this.
Lack of knowledge of God is not same at atheism. Ask an atheist he will tell you or likely refresh what you know about atheism.
Atheism is a rejection not an ignorance. A baby case is not a rejection but ignorance. Except you only want this in a circle, I think it's clear enough.
And mixing religion with a belief is affecting how you see and express your opinion on this issue. Religion and belief isn't same.
I think it's rather you who simply wants to defend your argument even blindly.
If you're taking the first man to be Adam according to the bible, then it's ok to say he was not an atheist cos he had a direct relationship with God.
But if the bible is not the only source of our history, then it's safe to also assume the first man had no prior knowledge of a god hence would have had no belief in God.
Atheism is simply lack of belief in any deity (god). It has nothing to do with whether you have knowledge of God or not. Atheism simply means you do not believe in the existence of a God.
Atheism is a state that can be as a result of various factors;
1. Lack of any information or knowledge about a god. 2. Rejection of the information about the existence of a god. (Which is your own definition). 3. Apostasy as a result of losing belief in a god. Etc.
So boxing every atheist as the same is more of a misnomer.
1. To be irreligious isn't same thing as been an atheist. You need to get that well. Atheism is not at the heart of religion, atheism is at the heart of existence of God. Those are two different things.
Man wasn't born with religion, man was born to believe in things. He learns as he grows to believe in his world, environment, strength and as much as his mind can explore. How does that make him an atheist?
Atheism is lack of believe in God, man born doesn't even have the knowledge of God at birth. That's isn't believe but lack fo knowledge.
Atheism is a choice, lack of knowledge of God at birth isn't a choice, it's innocence of the knowledge, at most.
So get that right. No man was born atheist. Man was born to know his environment. He will find God in it, hence develop prerogative to believe in him or disbelieve him. That's what birth theist and atheism.
2. Thank God you said religion preached man born sinners, not the scriptures. A proper interpretation of the scriptures will show you man is born as I explained in 1 above. Innocent.
Scriptures never taught that.
3. Bible never tends to conflict science except by your own interpretation. You will need to align your knowledge of the scripture to what is truly taught Sir.
Man was born an atheist. Why? Atheism means lack of belief in a deity.
How could the first man believe in a deity when he was barely forming knowledge of his environment and his existence?
Religion is simply a creation of man to make sense out of his existence.
mdsne: The former President declared that secession is not the way to go and promised his loyalty to a united Nigeria.
Former President of Nigeria, Chief Olusegun Obasanjo has said he will never support calls for secession.
This is as he revealed why he doesn’t believe in and would never support the agitations for the Yoruba Nation.
Obasanjo said that secession is not the way to go and promised his loyalty to a united Nigeria.
The former president argued that more can be achieved by having a united Nigeria than promoting agitations for the break up of the country.
Obasanjo made the submission during a retreat on inclusive security organized by the Global Peace Foundation in collaboration with Vision Africa.
He said: “One thing that we’ve together in common is Nigeria.
“I have never used Yoruba Nation, and I will never, because I believe that my Nigerianess is bigger than my Yorubaness, and neither my Yorubaness or Nigerianess should stand in the way of each other.
“For me, my Nigerianess is very important because I am more than what I should have been as a Nigerian than as a oduduwa republic man, and I believe that should be the case for everyone of us.
“Why should the accident of my place of birth be a hindrance for me as a human being first of all, and for me as a Nigerian?” he questioned.
Before attacking OBJ for his stand I want us to consider the following;
1. OBJ is q part of the past. He is one of those that got us where we are today.
2. OBJ is a politician, he is only looking out for his own best interest.
3. Truly Nigeria is stronger together but when the cons are more than the pros, we need to reconsider.
4. OBJ stands to lose little. You would expect that because he has too little to lose he would be more patriotic but instead he is still a greedy man whose ambition clouds his judgment.
With these few points of mine, I hope I've been able to convince you and not confuse you that OBJ cannot be trusted anymore.
Dont know why I just like this Lola lady. She might have been the cause of their initial break-up cos it seems the family didnt accept her even though she supported the twins career from the get-go.
But some how now that they're back together she seems to be in a better place.