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Dtruthspeaker:
Not my problem!

Blame everyone for your problem except your self. Typical of your kind.

yanabasee2:
The mother doesn't sound like an African mother that will be using slippers to hit you on your head....


And I believe it's just how soft she is that made her to go the lesbian way...


Because my mother and her friends will beat you till you no go know when you go get boyfriend even marry come born children...

Haba she's a full grown and full blown adult so the mom knows she's beyond beating.
Though I stand with the mom on this cos I don't know why a lady will abandon a good hard naturally blessed dick and choose a Love Machine or cucumber instead.

All the same if she has chosen this path only 3 solutions abound;
The mom should get her an exorcist to cast out the demon of lesbianism. What we her call deliverance session. If it exists.
The mom should get her a therapist to identify the underlying cause of her lesbianism.
She should find her way to a homophilic country and live her life happily without bringing shame to her mom/parents. And make sure she sends good money home. By then the mom will start having a rethink.lol cos "money answereth all things."

Nkan mbe labe orun.
Things dey happen under the sun.

Nwaokija:
This is just a question
If you don't have anything to say
Cucuma be on your way

They are afraid of losing the South.
Once the North loses the East they know for sure it will inevitability lead to the disintegration of the rest of the West and SS.

The Easterners also contribute a lot to the commerce and economy of Nigeria.
But without the East, the West and SS will most likely thrive better alone.

Nwaokija:
This is just a question
If you don't have anything to say
Cucuma be on your way

They are afraid of losing the South.
Once the North loses the East they know for sure it will inevitability lead to the disintegration of the rest of the West and SS.

The Easterners also contribute a lot to the commerce and economy of Nigeria.
But without the East, the West and SS will most likely thrive more.

Moreign001:
Hello Guys, Good Morning and a Happy Sunday to you all.

I don't know how concise i can be, but I will try.

I just graduated last 3 months, with my girlfriend who's now my ex, and she's 26yrs of age while I'm 28yr.

We started dating from our 200level till yesterday, (that's approximately 4yrs and counting...).
We were ideal together, we were well known in school, to an extent where her friends and mine kept asking how? And wishing theirs was like ours..

She promised never to leave, and she please everyday that I should never hurt her. At times we jokingly talked about our future kids which is now a never happening fable.

So after we graduated, she travelled to stay with her aunt, we do check on each other everyday.

Last month.. She called, and said her friend needs an advice, that she and her date just graduated, and that another man is asking her out, and she's thinking of dumping her guy since he's not ready, and that the newly known man is ready to pay for her marriage rites.
Immediately I knew she was the one in the story, because I already had several dreams were she left me. I pretended, I told her to tell her friend to "Follow Her Heart".

Last night she called, and said there's something she wants to tell me, I responded, "Is it what I already know?", she asked what? I told her she's getting married soon, and she said yes! I was speechless. I asked her for how long has this been going on, she said it started when she came to stay with her Aunt. We spoke, and I congratulated her, she started crying, I ended the call, sent her a good luck text.

This morning, she called and said she couldn't sleep last night. I asked her why she did it, why she decided to get married, she said she doesn't know. I asked if she likes the guy, she said yes. She couldn't stop crying and was saying I shouldn't leave her, while she's the one leaving me. I was totally down, but I have crazy friends. I WhatsApp a friend, told him what just happened, his words boosted me up. He said, " Support her, we move, no be God leave you". That was enough, but it's hard, really hard to move on without her, and she said the same thing and kept pleading I shouldn't leave her.
Now I'm asking, if I was the one who had left, what would have been the story? That I used her and dumped her, because this has always been used against the guys.
Why are women in a rush to marry? They don't even add value to themselves, I'm now 80% in agreement that marriage is one of the greatest achievement for a woman, maybe in Nigeria.

Place yourself in her shoes.
What would you do?
If you were the one who met a lady that checked all the boxes you need in a wife. Would you stay or leave?

Danlily24:
Hello Guys!

Good Evening, please i want to confirm if its right for two different banks to bear same account number here in Nigeria? Cause i have noticed same account in Sterling Bank being used by a different person in Stanbic IBTC bank.

Your responses will be highly appreciated. Thanks!

Even if it's possible, there is a failsafe measure in place.

Every transaction requires you to indicate your bank.

So even if the account number is the same with another bank, you are required to indicate the bank you're transacting with.

It's actually almost impossible but if it happens,indicating your bank is the fail safe.

OpenYourEyes1:
He will tempt you with opportunities to become "rich" and also get you to see flashy things or people around you that become "rich" by sinning against GOD. This is to make you feel jealous & desire such riches more, then get you to sin against GOD and have them.


Becareful of worldly people seducing you with earthly riches. 
Always remember that once you become born again and start pleasing GOD, whatever you ask HIM that is good and within HIS will for you, HE will give. This works very well for me!
Ask and don't doubt, you will receive the blessings.

How then do you differentiate when it's Satan tempting you with riches and when it's God blessing you with riches?

Nahunger:
I understand the frustration a man can face due to pressure from work, extended family, peer pressure and other forms of issues which could fall in the range of financial, religious, promiscuous (women) colleagues at work and all that.

It's more disturbing when the man comes home after the days work hoping to find peace only to be greeted with a nagging woman and an ungrateful wife who seizes every opportunity to complain, bring up issues at every slight opportunity.

I do not subscribe to hitting a women but sometimes this cruel and vile rage crawls up to give her a resounding slap, which I strongly over come due to my descipline and principles.

I see some other men flare up in rage and beat their wife this in turn makes their wife fear and respect them unlike what is obtainable with me..

Please guys does hitting your wife when she errs makes one a man who is in total control of his home?

It's all about understanding.
Women by nature must nag.
Only few women don't nag.

If you're not so lucky and you have a nagging wife, the solution is obviously not to hit or beat her.
The solution is to find a way to make her see how much you need peace at home.

Some times this might mean staying out late.
Some times this might be achieved by you bringing her gifts to appease the goddess.. Na heir automatic mumu button be that. I wish a lady would prove me wrong.LOL

But hitting or beating your wife is never the solution.

IbileIfe:
The world was not created in the 6 days of the Roman Calendar.
A day spent with Almighty God outside the planet Earth may be a million years calculated by light years.
2 Peter 3:8:
8 But, beloved, be not ignorant of this one thing, that one day is with the Lord as a thousand years, and a thousand years as one day."

Finis.

So you mean the 6 days actually mean 6 million years or 6000 years? Meaning it took God 1 million or 1000 years to create trees. Another one to create animals. Then another one to create humans?

Just letting you know that there's no excusing the 6 days story of creation. Like every other religious thing, it's meant to simply be believed and not reasoned.

IbileIfe:
Seventy years ago, American chemist Willard Libby devised an ingenious method for dating organic materials. His technique, known as carbon dating, revolutionized the field of archaeology. And he won the Nobel Prize in 1960.
But now a new report found fundamental errors in his theory which scientists and paleoclimatologists have used to change the biblical accounts of creation in Genesis of the Holy Bible.




Dinosaurs existed on earth, but that they existed between 243 and 233.23 million years ago is a historical Lie.
Two of them were mentioned in the Holy Bible.
Behemoth (Job 40:15-24) and Leviathan (Job 41).

Biblical accounts of creation from Genesis 1 shows that the universe is millions of years old. But the creation of humans occurred thousands of years ago.

Genesis told you the whole world was created in 6 days.
That the woman was created from 1 rib taken from the man.
That there was light before there was the sun.
That all the sin in this world was because Adam and Eve ate from a tree.

Anyway. I rest my case.

IbileIfe:
Seventy years ago, American chemist Willard Libby devised an ingenious method for dating organic materials. His technique, known as carbon dating, revolutionized the field of archaeology. And he won the Nobel Prize in 1960.
But now a new report found fundamental errors in his theory which scientists and paleoclimatologists have used to change the biblical accounts of creation in Genesis of the Holy Bible.




Dinosaurs existed on earth, but that they existed between 243 and 233.23 million years ago is a historical Lie.
Two of them were mentioned in the Holy Bible.
Behemoth (Job 40:15-24) and Leviathan (Job 41).

Biblical accounts of creation from Genesis 1 shows that the universe is millions of years old. But the creation of humans occurred thousands of years ago.

Leviathan was a fish not a dinosaur.

Anieke77:
Although she is making a point. But she should go and sit down

The whole thing is just suspicious.

MaxInDHouse:
Declaring your view is not persecution, to persecute simply means mistreatment and when you're airing your view without facing any specific person or group that can't be taken as persecution but mentioning the name of a group that you want to be treated as infidels is persecution!

Declaring your view by harassing others is persecution.
Persecution is not limited to killing.
That you heard the word persecution from the bible does not mean only Christian's are victims of persecution.

This post is to educate you that today esp in Nigeria where Christianity is now dominant, Christian's have become the persecutors.

You a JW member should know this better. You're always victimized and persecuted by other Christian's simoky for not participating in their prayers or other church activities in an office environment.

FuckDModz:
Them tie your umbilical cord for the job? Quit and find a job that can pay you better!

Fuc.king bastards have no clue what it takes to run a company and put lazy mfs in your payroll.

Lol both employer and employee need each other bro.
You dont know his situation so just chill.

Minimum wage applies to civil service and govt parastatals.
A private biz cannot be sued for not paying up to the minimum wage.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6AiBp9pB_d8

Thank me later.

EkehPraise:
My relationship with God grew deeper and stronger and I realized that I didn't need to be in church to communicate with him so I started reducing the rate at which I go and sometimes the things my eyes sees in church settings these days are scary

Also you can do online service. Thanks to Covid, most churches now have online platforms.

Dtruthspeaker:
Why do you people like to roll in shame and disgrace?

The beginning of that chapter Answers you.

Proverbs 30:1
1) The words of Agur the son of Jakeh Even The Prophecy:

Most interpretations called it "words" or "utterance" only KJV uses the word "prophecy."

The book of proverbs as the name implies is about proverbs.

Proverbs by definition isn't a prophecy but observations from past events.

hybrid11:
Offload ronaldo and get your team back
Goat my yansh

Seriously?
Ronaldo is the best thing that happened to ManU.
Prior to Ronaldo's return, ManU already lost its place among the greats. But today ManU is relevant again.
Everyone wants to watch a ManU game because they want to have an experience of CR7.

What ManU needs is a Manager worthy of it.
I like Ole but the calibre of players now (esp CR7) is bigger than he can handle.

I pray Zinedine Zidane reconsiders the offer to manage ManU.
Rodgers is no different from Ole. So I hope that's not going to happen.

Dtruthspeaker:
Proverbs 30:11-14
11 There is a generation that curseth their father, and doth not bless their mother.

12 There is a generation that are pure in their own eyes, and yet is not washed from their filthiness.

13 There is a generation, O how lofty are their eyes! and their eyelids are lifted up.

14 There is a generation, whose teeth are as swords, and their jaw teeth as knives, to devour the poor from off the earth, and the needy from among men

As we have Truly Seen today, atheists have Truly Come to fulfill these Words of Prophecies.

Your ignorance of scripture is littered everywhere on NL.
A prophecy is about the future.
A proverb is formed from observations of past patterns.

Proverbs was not talking about the future. Learn to study your bible for personal growth and not for arguments.

Dtruthspeaker:
CHANGE OF POST!

IF YOU HAD A VALID CASE AND OBJECTION TO MAKE, YOU WOULD HAVE PRESENTED IT!

SO GO BACK AND ENSURE THAT YOU HAVE ALL THE FACTS RIGHT BEFORE YOU COME MAKING YOUR POSTS.

Point to anything I mentioned here that's not a fact.

oldienavie:
What is the best way to get a good wife in Nigeria these days ?

University
Family friends
Church (though you'll meet many pretenders).

Ammishaddai:
This man is an ex-simp who loves misleading his followers. Was that how you wooed your current wife? Mtchwww...hypocrite

Don't let redpillers of NL mislead you.
You cannot be an extremist.
You have to have a blend of Alpha Male and "simp" to win a woman's heart.

MaxInDHouse:
Victimizing in what sense?
Sat Guru Maharaji claimed he is the perfect living master so all those who refuse to accept him as Jesus' contemporaries accepted him, as Muhammad's contemporaries accepted him, God will punish them in the day of judgment.

Do you call that victimization of those who ignore him?

Does he attack or harass those who dont accept him as Jesus and Mohammed contemporary?

Guru mahataji cannot be a persecutor simply because his teachings and religion are not a majority in Nigeria.

A persecutor usually has the benefit of being the majority.

nans24:
Before I begin, I am not a pastor or a preacher and I don't attend any church. I am just a sinner who continuously makes mistakes and tries his best to make changes and quit bad habits that are discouraged in the Bible.

I have personally observed that alot of you are not really atheists as you call yourselves. Most of you do believe and know that there is a God, A creator of Heaven and Earth, but you find it difficult worshipping a God who turns his face away while chaos and destruction envelopes that which He has created.

Some of you are in deep pain as a result of loved ones lost in death, individuals who in one way or the other expressed kindness and love towards you by their actions.

Some of you have gone through or witnessed tragic and traumatic experiences that still haunts you and makes you wonder why a so called "loving" God would sit back, fold his hands and do nothing.

Some of you successfully got out of a brainwashing cult claiming to possess truth and then in your quest for real truth, got consumed and trapped in an endless loop of existential crisis and decided to give up completely on that quest.

Some of you are just sick and tired of the suffering, injustice and deceit that goes on in this world, with the wicked and heartless prospering, Wolves clothed in the garments of sheep leading and so called worshippers of God with no single iota of love for their fellow man displaying their false sense of godly devotion.

If you can relate to all that I have mentioned above the message below is meant for you:

1. Its okay to be angry at God. You are not the first neither are you going to be the last to feel this way. Individuals who lived in much more tougher and barbaric times have questioned God, some even accusing him of deliberately deceiving them and making them an object of scorn and mockery. God did not kill or get mad angry at those individuals. In fact, He is much more closer to those who are broken hearted.

2. Death is not the end. You have a spirit within you. The wicked can destroy and have your weak body. Unforeseen occurrence can take hold of your body. But your spirit is the special property of God. Your loved ones who are dead have ran their race and they are resting. There is nothing in this world. They are not missing out on anything special. All is vanity.

3. It's okay to lose faith in God. A man boldly called down fire from heaven but then ran like a coward to a deserted mountain when a woman threatened to kill him. Another man who raised the dead, asked God why He has forsaken him as he bleed on a stick he was nailed on. You are not RoboCop or Superman. It's okay to lose faith in God. God knows what we are. He reads our heart and always has a way of drawing those that are His back to him.

4. You have free will. You are free to do whatever you like, believe in whatever you want to believe in and partake in whatever that pleases or gives you delight. But as you go on doing all of that, remember that actions have equal and opposite reactions. Every action has consequences and you will be judged/rewarded based on your actions whether you accept it or not.

5. What you see is not what God sees. His thoughts, ways and actions are unimaginably higher. Humbly accept that you cannot understand EVERYTHING about Him and what He permits to occur. You have to spend eternity with Him and be able to stand in His presence in order for that to happen and a time will indeed come when that will happen.

6. The Bible is a useless and stupid book for deluded people. Yes, that is exactly how God has made it to look like in the eyes of men. However, To those who continuously and unrelentingly continue to search for him in their heart, He gives His spirit of knowledge and understanding. You are always free to ask for that spirit if you wish.

7. You are an imperfect human. God does not expect perfection from that which is imperfect. No man is good. What God expects is you fighting/battling with sin rather than giving up to it. When you fall, get up and continue to battle.

Have a nice day.

This is an inspired thread that would help some.
Apparently the OP is writing from a place of experience.

Apologies for derailing.

hupernikao:
The difference is in the conviction. Hatred isn't a strategy neither is it a conviction.

And on NL
It's means a lot so as to know the angered noise makers from the ones who truly hold a conviction of no belief in God. Seriously am yet to see a true atheist here, maybe just two are close. The rest are untrained psychologist.

What's your idea of a true atheist?

orisa37:
Hey Bro, you get it all wrong. This is Criticism not persecution.

Criticism is the first step to persecution.
I'm simply letting you know that Christians this days have gone beyond criticism hence why a Catholic cannot marry a Pentecostal.
Hence why a Pentecostal cannot marry a Muslim.
Hence why a Christian coy might some times frustrate the Muslim out of their midst through various means.

Hence why you see atheists and Muslims as your enemies even on NL.

MaxInDHouse:
So by airing their beliefs they're persecuting their audience shey?
You still don't know the meaning of that word PERSECUTION!

Noah must be the persecutor for telling his contemporaries that God will destroy everyone who refused to enter the Ark he (Noah) built.

Moses must be the persecutor for telling Pharaoh and his people that God will deal with them if they don't free Israelites (their slaves)

Israelites must be the persecutors for telling the inhabitants of Canaan to vacate the land because God wants to use the place.

Elijah must be the persecutor for telling Israel that rain will not fall for three years due to their idolatry.

Jesus must be the persecutor for telling his audience that anyone who fails to accept his teachings will not inherit everlasting life.

Come on my friend, you don't know the meaning of PERSECUTION!

Preaching your religion is not persecution.
Victimizing those who fail to accept your religion is persecution.

MaxInDHouse:
That's what i'm saying!
If you're not identified with a specific group then on what ground do you say you're persecuted?

This thread is not about me.
You don't have to identify with a group. As far as Christians are concerned if you're not a Christian then you belong to the "group" of unbelievers.

But to cacuminate the point of this thread is that even Christians are the ones persecuting non-Christians today esp in most parts of Nigeria.

Rushur:
Reno don quickly drop another one again.. e no follow drop money o, so people wey drop money for the love they had for davido are not wise.. Oga whyyy, which one be your own..
but anyways
Davido kind gesture will really shock that agama lizard that called himself Big wiz

He talks too much.
And those who talk too much often suffer from mouth diarrhoea cos they eventually start talking shit.

MaxInDHouse:
A program or campaign to subjugate or eliminate a specific group of people, often based on race, religion, sexuality, or social beliefs.
Above is the Oxford dictionary's definition of PERSECUTION!
So persecution is real only when it's against a specific group of people, race, religion, sexuality or social beliefs.

Please to which of the above do you belong to prove that your group, race, religion, sexuality is persecuted in the society as evidence of your persecution?

For your information, an insane, a drunkard, a lesbian or gay can also say he/she is being persecuted due to his/her way but it's when you belong to a group that you can truly be persecuted along with others who belong to that race or religion.

That's why i said "you don't know the meaning of PERSECUTION!

By your definition, we agree.

Muslims are being persecuted just as Christans are being persecuted depending on which is the minority.

Gays are being persecuted just as Heterosexuals are being persecuted depending on which is minority.

Religious people are being persecuted just as irreligious people and atheists are being persecuted.z

On that premise, we can deduce that Christianity being the most dominant religion in Nigeria has created a situation where Christians have become the persecutors.

JW members are likewise being persecuted in any environment they are because they don't identify with other Christians.