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Romance / Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by MYMINDER(m): 10:32am On Dec 30, 2015
Tamee:
@Docmann, in a civilized country, your IP would have been traced and you would have been apprehended and thrown in Jail to rot there.
One, you drugged a persons drink without knowledge of her body make up/how she reacts to drugs, what if she took the drink and died in her sleep?
Two, you drew a persons blood without consent and then proceeded to carry out a very sensitive test without first seeking consent..you DO NOT have the right to seek or divulge a thirds party HIV status without their consent.

See, I know you are in Nigeria and so many sh!ts fly, I think women should begin to get more education as regards basic rights before getting in a relationship with you folks out there?

On the flip side, you decided to help a friend? Is your friend missing some chromosomes that he can't take decisions for himself. If his sexual orientation is different from that of his partner, what stopped him from walking away? What stopped him from asking the girls permission for the instant home-test and if she refused, he ends the relationship!

You guys never cease to amaze me, so coz you live in a lawless country, you suddenly feel you have the right to drug people, draw their blood and carry out tests on them.. wow!

Cc Roland4lif I dunno why you haven't commented on the Ops actions, you support him huh?
Cc Docmann, something else will surely kill your spineless friend one day if not pre-marital sex cos we will all die eventually and YOU MUST keep violating people to save him okay.
Cc Seun, people drug women and then post the details on your forum. What a wasted generation and a wasted country.

It's also a criminal act in the USA, Canada etc to knowingly have sex with others without disclosing your HIV status even if a condom is to be worn. People are in.prison today for knowingly having unprotected sex to infect others with HIV.

Unfortunately, you.missed this part which left your response unbalanced.

My mind

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Business / Re: International Airlines To Reduce Flights To Nigeria Next Year by MYMINDER(m): 5:42pm On Dec 27, 2015
IamDejman:
I unfollowed all boards and became a ghost member for a year now.

The situation of the country made me like that.

But I noticed things aren't getting better

We lie that things would get better

But they aren't

I'm not supporting or aligning myself with the wailing wailers but I'm saying we need a better change.

Youth need active participation in politics.

This God forsaken men ruled this country at the early stage of their life and still come back to rule us at this old stage

We youth should ask ourselves when we would free ourselves from this slavery

We need the Revolution. Common or uncommon sense

We need revolution.

I believe in Nigeria ruled by Youths. I am a leader of tomorrow but when would 'tomorrow' happen?

Emefiele is NOT Change. He is from GEJ transformation. Blame GEJ who decided to play politics with the economy and pander to the steps of his cronies.

I doubt he will last his 5-year term.
Celebrities / Re: OAP Omalicha Of Rythm FM Is Engaged by MYMINDER(m): 8:25am On Dec 22, 2015
Lilimax:
If you desire it, it shall come to pass afterall None shall want her mate (Isaiah 34:16) smiley

Forcing issues in life is a recipe for disaster. Ask the many people who are married but weeping and gnashing their teeth. Desiring something does not mean getting it will make you happy and does not mean because you desire you are SURE to get it.

Hope for the best

Prepare for the worst; I did not say expect. Make the best of what life throws at you. It won't last forever.
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by MYMINDER(m): 8:18am On Dec 22, 2015
Nipple:
human beings are the most adaptable beings. it means that regardless of any situation, you get to find a way to make it work. I like to think adaptability is something you resign to where compatibility is absent. we belong to a society that places value or maybe used to on staying married/together either for the sake of children or for just the fact that it is the way it's meant to be and I'd think it's a spur of the mindset of being able to make it work with anybody.
I have heard a lot of people say they can be with anyone and it just takes a few basic factors in place to do that. You get used to a situation, get used to be with someone and live with them. In my opinion, it's no different from settling. Why settle for ANYone when I can have SOMEone? Compatibility is a match, a complementary fit and everyone deserves to have that with their own someone.

At the end of the day, Love is a decision first and foremost. Everything else follows from there.

Adaptability is locally referred to as managing someone. Not a good idea... compatibility is a form of decision making that makes you want to put in the effort to love the other party.

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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by MYMINDER(m): 8:14am On Dec 22, 2015
Udysweet, kindly explain what you meant. I am not sure what you are implying. When you do, I will take it from there.

Cheers
Business / Re: Emefiele Promises Stable Naira In 2016 by MYMINDER(m): 8:00am On Dec 21, 2015
Demmocrats:


Sack this man, what a clown. What about South African Rand does it fluctuate the way Naira fluctuates. I swear i prefer Lia Mohammed to this CBN Governor because in Lia's case you know his lying and in this man case you just know his "clueless".


Has any of his policies since he became CBN governor ever worked!!!

They don't want to blame Emefiele because GEJ appointed him. They try to pass his clueless nature onto Buhari and exonerate him. A knock on Emefiele is a knock on GEJ and the emotional antagonists cannot tolerate that.




#Team_Sack_CBN_Governor.
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by MYMINDER(m): 5:43pm On Dec 17, 2015
missbronze:
Eya. Sorry and take heart. Just be strong.


Today makes it the third month I lost my kid sister. My best friend, my love. She brought so much joy, laughter, happness among us. She died in my arms on the 17th Oct. My mum was sharttered, for the first time, I saw my dad shed tears.

What breaks my heart most, was that she promised me she won't die when on her sick bed, she promised she will fight the stupid two weeks sickness. Several times, she told me " Adanne, stop crying, I will be fine".


But, you know what? she didn't keep the promise. She died. Leaving me heart broken every day of my life.

Everyday, I go thru our chats on wasapp and Fb. I read and read all her txt msgs to me. I go tru her pixs. And, I break down. I can't believe she is dead. It still feels like I am dreaming.


I am sorry I am writing this epistle, I am letting out my pains. I am mourning her the way I can think of. And, I am trying to let go.


Just like everyone said to me, " time heals all wound" I believe you will heal too with time. Just take heart. and accept my condolence.


Blessed are those that mourn for they shall be comforted. You shall meet her again in a better place. This ephemeral world is a seesaw. I commend your letting out... It is therapeutic.

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Celebrities / Re: Linda Ikeji Is A Homewrecker, She Broke Up Dbanj & Bella Naija - Kemi Olunloyo by MYMINDER(m): 2:58pm On Dec 15, 2015
Odani:
This woman is just looking for cheap popularity by dragging Linda's name to the mud, whom God has blessed the devil can not destroy.

Not only God blesses; we seem to forget the Devil blesses a lot also. Just want you to keep things in perspective. Financial prosperity should never automatically imply that the person did good things and God is blessing the person as a resultant effect. Remember what the devil tempted Jesus with in the wilderness? It is the same thing he is using to win souls to hell here on earth and people are falling over themselves to go to the hell for vanity here on earth where they can move and shake with random abandon and leave their fellow human beings with mouths drooling. Earth is the devil's heaven, where from he hopes to win souls permanently to his underground Kingdom of hell.

My mind

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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by MYMINDER(m): 12:42pm On Dec 15, 2015
Hi everyone.

Warm greetings to Venus Betty, Ms bronze, Udysweet that called me out. I may have missed one, sorry about that.

This period of the year should focus more on Thanksgiving than supplication. Globally and in Nigeria this year has been rough pretty much throughout. We have survived against all odds. All gratitude goes to the Almighty God.

I guess interactions are happening behind the scenes. Good to luck you all and I hope you find what you need.

Happy Holidays, it's a joyous time of year.

Just a thought from MY MIND

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Religion / Re: George Castro-Yankey Caught In Sex Scandal - VIDEO by MYMINDER(m): 9:34pm On Dec 07, 2015
TWOWAYMIRROR:

THIS GIRL IS bleeping A PRIEST..THATS HOW THEY TALK...judge not .....THATS EXACTLY HOW ONE IN OUR OFFICE WAS FUCKING AN OLD REV FR...TILL I SAW THEIR WHATSAPP CHAT AND EXCHANGE OF NUDES

A Reverend Brother is NOT a priest. The original title is misleading. All ordained priests are called Reverend Fathers.
Phones / Re: MTN Nigeria Fine Increased To $3.9 Billion After Regulator Error by MYMINDER(m): 2:53pm On Dec 04, 2015
jmoore:
Story!!! More reductions to come. This is not the final fine.

Buhari did the reduction. Case closed. They either pay or lose their operating license. NCC carried out PMB's directive.
Phones / Re: MTN Nigeria Fine Increased To $3.9 Billion After Regulator Error by MYMINDER(m): 2:40pm On Dec 04, 2015
efembaba:
A typo?? Really?? Issoke o. But I trust MTN will not just accept they will surely react and when they do Nigerians not d NCC will bear the brunt

Foolish nigerians that did not port will be burnt. No pity on them.
Phones / Re: MTN Nigeria Fine Increased To $3.9 Billion After Regulator Error by MYMINDER(m): 2:38pm On Dec 04, 2015
Gazzy88:
Mtn is really killing me,my credit always disappearing every now and then.

Port and keep your number. What's holding you back?

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Romance / Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by MYMINDER(m): 9:03am On Dec 04, 2015
kushma:
don't want to rude but that is not an excuse for want to marry late ma mum is the only gal that finish skul in her house as in she sponsored herself thruout(am not trying to make mouth ooo) due to her parents died early and she still married early so wat course did u do in uni that took all those time. Ladies should learn how to separate education from love life jor.

Not everyone will or needs to get married or become a reverend father. Everyone is focused on the marriage ceremony and few are focused on the kind of person they are getting together with.

Life is about being happy; it is much better to be single than to be married and miserable just to be accepted by society as being married.

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Crime / Re: DPO Who Tortured A Pregnant Woman Transferred by MYMINDER(m): 4:40pm On Dec 03, 2015
madridguy:
GOOD JUDGEMENT.

A good judgment does not have E in it.
Phones / Re: MTN Nigeria Fine Reduced By $1.8 Billion As CEO Resigns In Fallout by MYMINDER(m): 11:07am On Dec 03, 2015
PHATE007:
Pls NCC shud collect dis money as soon as possible...






But Something tells me this fine will b reduced further.....

The reduction came from Buhari directly. This is final.



MTN, eatin our money since 1960
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by MYMINDER(m): 4:22pm On Nov 30, 2015
Which one is tougher to deal with: Remaining a spinster or bachelor for life OR getting married without experiencing the joy of parenthood I. E. The couple cannot have children.

The one assumption here is that you already know you cannot have children if you do get married.

Will you prefer not to be married if you cannot have children in the marriage or you will still rather be married even if you cannot be a biological parent?

Where do you stand in this tough dilemma?

Marriage is supposed to serve two purposes: unification and procreation. Since the former is still satisfied, I will go with marriage.

Thoughts?
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by MYMINDER(m): 7:20pm On Nov 26, 2015
matrix199:


I was actually allusive with my previous post. U just had to tag urslf to it.

Indirect can become direct now; makes for easier communication

But then, is this why u're here, to appraise people? I tot we're all here to mingle freely as friends. I joined this thread because of the age reference. I presumed I'd get to express myslf freely among peeps in my age group and beyond. I needed to relate with peeps with sense of maturity.

Are you not getting what you came for?

Well, no fear, I just dey follow u play. But u sef, try relate with us like u do with ur siblings. U don allow the private tisha job wey u do when u finish secondary sch, affect ur expression. U too dey blow glammar*. U be christ okotie broda? smiley

I did not realize my normal writing was big grammar. Don't take online persona too deeply; the actual may be very different.
Politics / Re: 44 Ships Expected In Lagos With Foods, Petroleum Products by MYMINDER(m): 4:12pm On Nov 26, 2015
OZAOEKPE:
"it has gotten to a point where the government announces to us what they wanna ship into this country, I weep for this 'animal' kingdom, are we to start dancing?". Quote me anywhere

You have 3.5 years more to continue criticising. Stay strong. Your journey is still far.

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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by MYMINDER(m): 4:08pm On Nov 26, 2015
@matrix I am not a beer drinker so don't worry you won't have the opportunity to strike.
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by MYMINDER(m): 1:59pm On Nov 26, 2015
Zubinike reappear, don't let one woman's antics take you out of the mix. Stand up; don't bend down.

Sisioge I like your entrance. Direct and straight to the point. No messing around. No attitude. No beating about the bush. You will eat the fattest bone.

Blessedbeads keep being you.

Matrix and sonofananimal keep being down to earth and being able to discuss matters arising by focusing on the content and not being dismissive from the outset.

Msbronze kudos for not being caught up in group think and be willing to stand up against your own female gender. It's a rare occurrence. The hunger for acceptance typically kills off individual thoughts that are not expected to gain majority acceptance.

Fourfunmi, your view as you implied may be unpopular (especially among your fellow females) as it relates to me. You still spoke out and made your view known regardless of if you stand alone or not. Kudos to you not because it was directed at me, but, because you dared to be different and take a likely minority view openly. I salute your courage and strength of character.

Life is so complicated that it became so simple.

Greetings to all. Live every day like if it is your last.

It's just MYMIND

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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by MYMINDER(m): 10:21am On Nov 25, 2015
missbronze:
, Dreamt we were running about in Elugushi beach.

Quoting Shaggy: it wasn't me
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by MYMINDER(m): 9:02am On Nov 25, 2015
missbronze:
Good morning to all my darlings. wishing you all a great day.


Myminder honey, hope your night was good? I dreamt of you. Did you dream of me too?

Dreams are of different types. Care to shed more light?

I dreamt of you in relation to your response to mssparkle003. I like the way you stood up to be counted even as a fellow female like her. Have a nice day. It's Hump day; make sure you enjoy it.
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by MYMINDER(m): 1:03am On Nov 25, 2015
magneto:


Bro the above bolded is not entirely correct. Of cos u can control how u want to be perceived; its not by WHAT ur saying but HOW ur saying it. Using expressions like "low hanging fruit" and "barren expeditions" may be realistic reasoning, but the choice of words is poor. Emotions cannot be ruled out from these kind of interactions, u know. U can't be all efficient and logical about hookups and dating. Ur just gonna rub some ppl off d wrong way and u don't want dat bro, trust me. Ur suggestion is not bad at all, but u could've presented it in a more "acceptable" way...hope u get my drift.



MY MIND

That's the biggest disadvantage of written discourse. I am not saying it, i I'm writing it and people are reading it and will definitely interpret things their own way leading to different reactions.

Just the way you deemed those words as poor choice some will see nothing wrong with it. Now matter how good someone's intentions are, no one can be sure how people will self interpret especially in a public forum.

It's like a basketball game. I focused on the delivery of my shot and not how it Will go in or how I will celebrate if it goes in before I even take the shot! Emotion is driving this and while I acknowledge it cannot be ruled out, it ensures animosity rather than reason drives responses where applicable. The emotion should be saved for romance.

Nigerians like to hear what they want to hear. If you don't give it to them, then, you have to be sidelined while others aligned are carried along.

What is going on here is a smaller version of what goes on in the outside world hence, very few in Nigeria speak up on matters without fear or favour because the desire to be accepted is much greater than the desire to be heard and nothing changes. I will stop here.

Btw, why don't u put up d link to ur thread so some of us can't comment there as well. One luv bro.

I may dig it up at some point...

Nice discourse. Remain blessed.
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by MYMINDER(m): 12:34am On Nov 25, 2015
halexito:

Attack you personally? No! I only responded to your post here. Because I don't agree with SOME of your ideas and methods, does that mean that I'm against you personally?
Prof, we warmly welcome intelligent and enlightening posts here. But if you're one of those guys who always think those who disagree with some their 'intellectual' views are against them personally.
Then I think you should try to keep YOUR MIND to yourself.

I made some points in my quoted text. If you are sincerely going to respond, then, address what I actually wrote instead of slithering around it.

I made it particularly clear in my quoted text , what I was getting at. You now spun my comment to enable you put the spin on it you wanted to enable you make your conclusion.

I have never said or implied that a difference in opinion means an attack. You may want to step back a little before forging ahead. Your focus was to be dismissive and you found a way to get there.

Sonofananimal made his response made his take on the discourse without taking things out of context to drive home a preconceived notion. You can.learn from him.

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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by MYMINDER(m): 6:18pm On Nov 24, 2015
udysweet:
And then there's dis old saying"overtaking is allowed"you can take the lead by giving us ur own info. And of what importance will my divulging such info be? So the fact that I'm active on this thread,means I have to be one of those to take the lead? See its my mind am saying,I just think you're deliberately stirring up troubled water,mbok! I'm just seriously thinking you're a male version of Melish(heck you could even be Melish sef)apologies to her tho,lol(no be say I wan find trouble o!
Just be urself,let the thread flow naturally and flow along with it. And one last thing,drive traffic to that your thread,cos I need to see it on FP. I believe in you somuch that you can do that. Me I'm not that intellectualy inclined enough to be able to post there o but I'll try in my own little way to read and decipher what's its about before making my own input.
Gracias!

About that thread; it's not that deep...

Your answering the profile questions is advisory in nature. You dont have to do anything; you can choose to do something. You can accept or decline. I believe you have chosen the latter which is fine by me.

If you read my earliest posts on this thread, you will know why I do not deem it nevessary to provide my info. I am not going to regurgitate.

If you need to keep telling yourself myminder is here to cause trouble so that you can use that to fuel your animosity towards me when you comment, then, do what you believe you have to do.

I have told you I am not and I won't comment going forward about your assertion.

You can gang up all you want. I am not going to twitch.

You are free to keep speaking your MIND. We all have one.

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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by MYMINDER(m): 5:58pm On Nov 24, 2015
Sparkles003:
Zubinike my apology in advance for what m about to do.
you have never said hi to me on this thread where i guess you
noticed me first but choose to pm me,
to wat purpose do i owe your precious pm

I don't know Zubinike and neither am I seeking his favour.

I do not think putting him on blast in the open is right. If he has gone against your best practices, then, you could have

1. Told him off in private

2. Ignored him and then come to the public thread to inform everybody not to pm you except certain conditions are met. Everybody will now be guided properly going forward. You did not have to call him out publicly to get across your displeasure to him.

I am not also trying to attack you in any form. If guys start getting cold feet to connect in private then, the main purpose of this thread will be defeated in my opinion.

Remain blessed nonetheless.

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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by MYMINDER(m): 5:14pm On Nov 24, 2015
Sparkles003:


hahahahahah
why don't you take the lead as per the originator

It's out of my context. Those who are active along the lines of the purpose of this thread are best suited to kick things off. Likely because the suggestion came from myminder, you and some others will not want to contribute...

Keep on keeping on...

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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by MYMINDER(m): 5:07pm On Nov 24, 2015
halexito:

You're trying to build this thread the way YOU THINK it should be. You sound all wise to me. Let us be. We're OK.

I never said you were not OK; no need to go there. I am not building a thread; I am contributing to one. Maybe when you make these two adjustments then you may have a softer stance when you look at the bigger picture

I doubt whether you will see msbronze comment to me as dismissive because it came from someone likely on your good side. If you put my moniker attached to the same words, you may have already dived in to have a go at me. Human beings, nothing changes...

My point is this standoff has very little to do with the content of my contribution thus far and a lot more to with a negative view of the content provider and whatever he stands for or doesn't stand for.

It's just MY MIND
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by MYMINDER(m): 4:28pm On Nov 24, 2015
matrix199:


Nna, make we no lie, u dey exhibit narcissism. You need to slow down. Where ur own intellect stop, na dia some ppl own begin.

Don't use ur intellect wrongly. Probably there's a noxious part of u that sublimed on this thread, and they perceived it. You shld take corrections discreetly, even if u're right. They like humble guys.

Ladies do not necessarily crush on intellectual guys, particularly the ones who show it off. They crush on humble, intelligent guys.

Abeg, try treat our ladies here like queen u hear?! Na because of u I don hide my own intellect, com activate ordinary sense.

Wetin be dat ur slogan wey dem borrow sef? smiley

People perceive what they want to perceive. That's why people react differently to the same stimuli.

I neither seek acceptance nor rejection from males or females on this thread. I say what I believe needs to be said; how people decide to react or perceive my content is 100% outside of my control and I will not lose sleep over it.

I have no agenda whatsoever: udysweet said I am here to make trouble (wrong) or you that is now linking this to showing off. People will always think what they want to think; I am not going to dwell on it. Live and let live.

I have spoken MY MIND as always

Best wishes

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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by MYMINDER(m): 2:58pm On Nov 24, 2015
Some People here feed themselves with the fuel they need to validate their outbursts.

I never used the word impose ms bronze used it to validate her outbursts. Don't apply words that I did not use just to enable you give your response a nice takeoff.

Spare me the deceit though it is widely accepted in Nigeria so as to gain acceptance. I remember comments when I first talked about topics to discuss and some said go ahead that it is not a strictly hookup thread. Talk about anything here. Now some women are twisting it to feed their agenda.

I started an intellectual thread. What I WROTE above is 100% in line with this thread about people trying to build relationships. It is not meant for anywhere else. In your haste to get me out of this thread you refuse to see that. Take out the emotion; logic and objectivity is all you need here.

When I mention leaders I mean people who actively participate in the thread and not just OP.

I have made my logical view known. I don't need to seek acceptance before I speak out. I guess that is part of the gripe.

You don't have to like me online to make sense of my content. It seems that some of the women that have spoken thus far have refused to separate both of them.

You peeps are borrowing my slogan. It's all good...

MY MIND

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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by MYMINDER(m): 12:05pm On Nov 24, 2015
udysweet:
Come missbronze,where are u presently? Giv me ur addy,I need to come and plaster two hot pecks wit dis my pink lipstick on both of ur cheeks and then turn back,lool! Now u know why? U jus spoke my mind,no addition or subtraction. I told sm1 offline that I wanted to reply dis mentions but I feel I'll offend mymind,so mak I wait see weda anybody dey in my shoes too,so it won't look like I'm oversabi,u jus did! God bles!!!!!
Now mymind,I dnt tink I need say more cos my darling sis here jus said all "my mind" too.
Love u miss bronze(no homo)

You are entitled to your view just the way I am. No hard feelings.

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