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 Travel › Re: Niger Wives by N101: 7:50pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
Portsmouth86:Yeah, the "marriage counselling". I spent my time laughing throughout, I couldn't take it seriously. Plus the lady doing it was funny. Significant Other on the other hand was looking serious and tried to side eye me but I wasn't having it. It depends on the local government. Our marriage counselling was on a Tuesday, apparently that's the day the LG ran it; weddings were on Thursdays and Saturdays except Sanitation Saturday in which case it was only Thursday that week. A friend who got married last November had the "marriage counselling" about a week before their wedding. |
| Travel › Re: Do I Need A Visa To Travel From Nigeria To Barbados by N101: 12:52pm On Jun 05, 2016 |
momoyama:A visit to Nigeria will prove that not only do many people not travel (which isn't unusual), but even fewer know about the Caribbean, much less Dominica, Barbados or the Bahamas. If you say you're from the Caribbean (the Bahamas is on the fringes, you will just confuse people even more if you try to explain lol) the default question you'll be asked is if you're "Jamo" (Jamaican). |
| Travel › Re: Following A Person Or Doing Your Own Research And Following Google by N101: 5:20pm On May 22, 2016 |
Simple - do your own research, ask questions later. No point asking about something you can Google. It's about informing yourself; someone else's experience may be helpful, but be aware of the processes before asking. |
| Travel › Re: Travel To Babardos by N101: 2:56pm On May 22, 2016 |
Originalsly:Immigration will suss the op out from the time they land and hand over their passport. You can live in Barbados alright, you just need to go with money and a realistic business plan. But you're right, the op can't hide in Barbados at all and definitely not a place for Nigerian style hustling. Hustling on the island is very very different. |
| Travel › Re: Flights To Barbados / Jamaica From West Africa by N101: 1:23pm On May 22, 2016 |
kegeewayne:It can't be that urgent if you're not prepared to apply for a transit visa. A transit visa would be the quickest way to get there without any hassle. |
| Travel › Re: Travel To Babardos by N101: 1:12pm On May 22, 2016 |
Aysup247:I can tell you for a fact it is very difficult as a foreigner to get a work visa in Barbados. Just because you can stay there visa free for a period doesn't mean you don't need a visa to work. They're not even giving them to Europeans and Americans, so unless you plan on marrying a local, don't make any long term plans to stay there. And those Immigration Officers don't joke - ask the Jamaicans. 1 Like |
| Travel › Re: Pls How best can A New Zealand Citizen Get A Nigeria Tourist Visa. by N101: 9:59pm On May 05, 2016 |
If your friend is based in NZ, I'm afraid they may have no other choice than through the Nigeria High Commission in Australia. Even if they applied for the visa through the London High Commission, they may have to come to London to submit their passport and make any additional payment. |
| Travel › Re: Experiences Of Nigerians Living In London by N101: 1:37pm On May 01, 2016 |
justwise:Maybe the writer was mixing up Peckham and Tottenham. They sound the same  That aside, it's a painfully badly written article. |
| Sports › Re: Westindies Vs England T20 Final Today by N101: 7:46pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
And it's over Windies - 161 for 6 (19.4 overs) won by 4 wickets withn2 balls remaining) England - 155 for 9 1 Like |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by N101: 7:41pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
KingRex1:That's not called porn but sex education, BIG difference. If you don't mind being a Viewer in someone's relationship, it can be a learning experience. 1 Like |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by N101: 6:07pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
mimopel: Abbeyunique2:I honestly worry when I read stuff like this. I'm hoping the people saying this are adults, if you are, lemme give you a little help. http://www.themarriagebed.com. They're also on social media. Research and Google are your friends. If you can type out the question here, you can look it up, and it doesn't have to lead to porn or X rated sites. There are enough medical sites out there that can guide you (no pun intended) in the right direction. Both parties have to be prepared to learn and grow sexually together. There are no hard and fast rules and it's not a do or die affair. But it does require a lot of patience, openness and honesty. Pornography is NEVER the answer. It's a slippery slope devoid of reality, apart from the unclothedness and basic anatomical act. Real life is much better than porn. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Phones › Re: Why Do People Still Spend Alot Of Money On so called High End Phones by N101: 5:48pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
I laugh whenever I read a certain brand phone is about class. Really? According to who - the people you're trying to impress? I don't subscribe to that. In a myopic world, that may be true. If someone is stupid enough to judge me by the brands I wear or the phone I use, it says more about them than me. I don't feel the need for attention or validation from others based on something as unimportant as a phone, and neither will I judge them based on the brand of phone they have. I've always been into technology, and along with that are phones. Once upon a time I used to buy a new phone every few months, just to try them and be familiar with the operating system. Many people asked for my help and advice with phone problems so it was an excuse the indulge My current phone is an iPhone and I like it simply because I got tired of tweaking every blessed Android device I had. It works straight up; like my Windows Phone, I could install all of the apps from a previous device, whereas with Android I had to install each app again, or at least install the main backup app before installing pre-existing apps. Too much faffing. Never had any problems with the iPhone - it does what I want, doesn't come with a bunch of bloatware I resent, and runs all of the apps I use regularly. Add to that, I still can get the latest OS without having to buy a new device. I currently have a Tecno Camon C8, not rooted - I've never felt the need to root. If I didn't have the Tecno I would have opted for the Nexus 5X. Having said that, I got the Camon C8 because I didn't want to cut my mini SIM and there weren't many Mini SIM-Micro SIM options available.. But I've learned that quality varies with different devices. I have yet to meet a low to mid range device that functions as well as a high end/flagship. I've had both and to date, the high end of certain brands haven't disappointed me. So if I buy an "expensive" device, it's because I've done my research and it's my preference. |
| Travel › Re: The Reality Of Returning Home- As As How? by N101: 5:00pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
I've never seen the reality of "jazz" (an insult to the word) on the ground, just heard story story. And the people who were claiming "jazz", when you looked closer they were part of the problem. If you believe so much in it, trust me it will get you at every turn. Best advice I've ever heard? Go to Nigeria with a plan, and rely as little as possible on other people. Survey the ground to see how your plan can be implemented and be aware of the obstacles - there wil be many and they will try you. As others have said, be wary as a lot of people will be hostile towards you, both family and "friends". Even with all of the cr*p that happens, there are some good people with good hearts out there. |
| Travel › Re: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by N101: 11:51am On Jan 06, 2016 |
Portsmouth86:Sounds like you'd be better off just getting the photocopy certified/authenticated from the Nigerian High Commission in London. I suspect it will be like pulling teeth to get another copy from the Ikoyi Registry office. 1 Like |
| Travel › Re: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by N101: 10:13pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
jangolo:As I've learned, those in the registry see weddings as a time to make money - after all, as someone said to me, people get married when they have money. The fact that you are marrying a foreigner means you (and the person) have I would think if the original certificate cost anywhere between 2k-3k, a replacement shouldn't cost more than 5k. But Nigerian factor, 10k+, depending on the person you're asking. 1 Like |
| Travel › Re: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by N101: 9:01pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Lexusgs430:Personally, whoever told me that a copy of my marriage certificate was 40k. I'd make sure I got s name first, I would make no fuss and say thank you, then report them to a higher up (especially if the local government are responsible for running the place). I don't think anyone is against finding out the actual price of a replacement certificate, but I'm not convinced that those guardians will be honest enough to tell you the real price. It wouldn't surprise me if you'll probably be quoted different prices from different registries. |
| Travel › Re: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by N101: 2:05pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Portsmouth86:[quote author=Portsmouth86 post=41663091]I would advise you against calling them. As Oreskid said, the price will probably go up. You may want to enquire about a multiple entry visa, rather than a single entry visa if that would be more useful to you. Good luck. |
| Travel › Re: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by N101: 11:19pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
justwise: Not good news at allI had meant to post that the judgement regarding the income threshold was coming out today. If I recall correctly, the phrase I heard repeatedly regarding the judgement was "discriminatory but justified". |
| Phones › Re: Mobilitynigeria's Tough Stand - Blackberry App World Now Opened To Nigeria by N101: 6:04pm On Jul 20, 2013 |
This is a 2 year-old thread people - January 2011. A lot has happened since then. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: What Makes You A Different Christian? by N101: 11:08pm On May 19, 2013 |
ajufinz: I almost got critical abf the question, since U made clear who a Christian is.On point. |
| Phones › Re: Nokia Care @ Nigeria: by N101: 1:53pm On Apr 07, 2013 |
missylizzy: Pls my Nokia Lumia 510 is giving me probe wit sending and receiving with Bluetooth. Its isn't paring with other phones. How do I go about it cuz I got it new and im not too familiar. With windows phones. ThanksHave you tried the reverse i.e. getting the other device to pair with your Lumia 510? Or tried scanning from the other Bluetooth device to see if it can find your phone? I tried it with my own Lumia and another device - after scanning for devices, my phone was picked up. |
| Computers › Re: Apple To Launch 'iPad Mini' by N101: 11:28pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
Has Cupertino said anything officially about this? Because all I'm hearing is that "sources" are saying this. I will believe it when I hear Apple themselves say something about it. |
| Family › Re: Cultural Differences Matters A Lot In Marriage? by N101: 5:05pm On Jun 26, 2012 |
Beync: thanks @ all, especially some of you who truly hit the nail. I like the person who said something about what you want, the family background and how they relate with others, also appreciate the one who ask if I could be able to live with these differences say like 50yrs. that's the issue. There are certain things we have power over them, there are things we can change and thing we cannot. Remember there are times when love wil go down but others things will keep it glowing. also in this part of Africa marriage is not just between a man and a woman other things surroundings it. If you love someone but not in acceptance with his people's ways of doing things will u find happiness at the end?Yes, because at the end of the day his family does not run our home. He is a grown man and he will not allow them to dictate to him nor offer unwanted "advice". We don't share our business with outsiders and so it should be. Adults who let their family's voices have a say in their relationship are not ready to be married. Whether culture is involved or not, marriage requires sacrifice and compromise. It is better to have shared values than a common culture. If you are not prepared to do that and want to eat Ewedu and Amala every day and not try Edikaikong, your choice - but you're missing out! |
| Sports › Re: Count-down To London 2012 Olympics. by N101: 12:20am On Jun 18, 2012 |
Definitely looking forward to it for a number of reasons. First and foremost, I get to see sports apart from track and field. I love to watch hockey and the rowing, even the equestrian. Probably will only get to see the Games on TV but I know of a few Games Makers; a friend's daughter is a Young Games Maker, working in the Olympic Village. As an aside, what is it about black people and their seeming aversion to volunteering for anything outside of church? |
| Sports › Re: Count-down To London 2012 Olympics. by N101: 12:16am On Jun 18, 2012 |
REALITY101: I wish its in the U.S. London is my 3rd home but sorry Brits kinda boring.I dunno the kind of Brits you know but I seem to disproportionally know a lot of interesting ones |
| Politics › Re: Femi Otedola, Sue The House Of Reps For N1trn by N101: 12:10am On Jun 18, 2012 |
Aigbofa: What bribe? Can't you read? If you think Otedola is a crook, all you have to do is provide a watertight evidence agaist him, the same way he is doing agaist Farouk. Besides, this is not about AP.Forget AP, of course Otedola's hands are [url="http://saharareporters.com/press-release/how-femi-otedola-milked-african-petroleum-ap-clement-aviomoh"]totally clean[/url]! naijaking1: Confusion or illitracy no dey good-o! Whose money he used to pay the bribe? Have you not heared that the police or SSS gave him some marked dollar bills.You're right, silly me, he got the money to bribe from the SSS - they have that kind of money floating around, impressive. Who would have thought...  At least I'm not so blinded by Odetola's so-called "patriotism" any more than Farouk Lawan's folly for accepting the bribe. Both, as far as I'm concerned, are no different to the other . Who approached who again? Oh yes it was Otedola approaching Lawan (with the support of the SSS). I wonder how many of these "transactions" have already gone on and we don't know, yet we're get excited over this one - big deal. Nigerians are so easily distracted. |
| Phones › Re: I Registered For Etranzact Pocketmoni And I'm Loving It! by N101: 3:29pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
[quote author=seun_adeolu]Oga u be agent urself. the 001197 code that follows the applicant name is ur own personal agent code.[/quote]If you actually visit the pocketmoni website, you will see that the 001197 code isn't necessary to register in order to be a user: http://www.pocketmoni.com/user.html |
| Politics › Re: Femi Otedola, Sue The House Of Reps For N1trn by N101: 3:09pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
This is the same Femi Odetola that messed up AP while he was "running" it? Boy Nigerians have short memories. Pray tell, whose money did he use to pay the bribe - his own or Zenon's? The pensions debacle, the SEC hearing, now the fuel subsidy probe - nothing surprises me anymore. Much ado about nothing, Nigeria and Nigerians will not change. |
| Travel › Re: Dana Air Is Not An Indian Company by N101: 11:39pm On Jun 06, 2012 |
The latent passive-aggressive racism that rears its head in Nigeria never ceases to amaze me. Which is of more importance, why this incident occurred in the first place or an obsession about the ethnicity of the owners? Misplaced priorities. |
| Family › Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by N101: 4:29am On May 07, 2012 |
Frazy: A married couple work in different cities, he works in Abuja, she in Lagos, he goes home every weekend.Story - although this kind of thing can happen, I don't buy this. It is totally irresponsible for a married woman (or man for that matter) to be having an intimate conversation with anyone other than their spouse. Sending pictures is even more stupid, which is why I find it hard to believe this, but then there are way too many people out there full of their own self-importance. Personally, there's no way I'd add someone I don't know to my Facebook account unless we crossed paths elsewhere (e.g. a public forum). Don't even go there about having private conversations of an intimate nature with him - it can't happen. I didn't do it when I was single and I sure as hell wouldn't take it up now. This man isn't just insecure, he's stupid - the fact that he could think up something like this speaks volumes about him. And the wife is sending pictures of her private bits to a total stranger? They both deserve each other. 1 Like |
| Travel › Re: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by N101: 2:49pm On May 06, 2012 |
In case anyone has submitted an appeal to the IAT over the past few weeks, just to let you know that there's a backlog, so it may be a while before you receive acknowledgement. I spoke to someone recently who has contacted the IAT's customer services number and was told that there's a backlog - they were still opening mail from the 28th March as of Friday 5th May. So yes, it is definitely an exercise in patience! |
| Phones › Re: MTN 500mb Bundle by N101: 12:38am On Apr 29, 2012 |
Kadata: 2000k for 200mb Ngutor: I heard MTN has a 500mb data plan for 2000. Please who has the code for the mtn 500mb data. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE |
