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[quote author=Negro_Ntns link=topic=295331.msg4172552#msg4172552 date=1247349804]It has a lot to do with physical approach. A man must approach in a way that lowers her defense. You cannot compare approach on cyber on one hand where we are just words of expression to one another with a physical approach on the other when the totality of the personality is under review.

If a man knows what strength work for him, then that strength is exactly what the woman senses and will try to block. . . so he should learn ways to out-maneuver and out-smart her defenses in a way that it does not raise flag for her.[/quote]is it star-wars?

iice:
[color=#9900ff]In your dreams [/color]

i checked there too

Realestdude:
Hello nlanders,i'm in a relationship right now & my gf makes it seem as if it is my sole responsibility 2 take care of her hair do jst b/c im dating her.Fellow nlanders,what do u think.Is it really my responsibility?

heck nah! she is using ur head, leave that parasite alone now while u have the chance

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Don't be too sure [/color]

oh, i am damn sure, i checked already

whiteroses:
I have a friend dating this guy called Dominic they were on the bridge of becoming lovers and they couldnt keep things from each other anymore so turned out this guy's original name is sanjo and she was actually turned off by his name, and everything concerning him just din't appeal to her anymore and they finally broke up today. so made me think about how uncool our names can be sometimes. but some parent aswell just name their kids anyhow, new couple just had a baby and her name is prayer  I dont know about you but geez i love to pray and it's good but naming a child one is just crossing the line when she starts school in this english community the name will raise few brows. i also remembered a woman where i used to live also had a child called jesu-gbeshumi (jesus swalloed satan) in this london  is this not a little over the top?
i now see a lot of people renaming themselves because their given names are just not cool enough for anybody to read or pronounce, a lot of people can't even put their full name on facebook lol. i dont know maybe nigerian names arent just cool or is it just individual parent
btw my friend wasn't turned off by him lieing about his name she just couldn't stand the word sanjo and since then she doentot think he is cool lol shallow maybe she is

she was turned off by a name? she needs to grow up, no offense

[quote author=*Shentz* link=topic=295331.msg4172502#msg4172502 date=1247349146]I think the way the guy carries himself can be quite imtidating especially if he's full of himself[/quote]case in point

maritalman:
Are Women Intimidated By Attractive Men?

We all know that attractive women can scare off guys. You know, the whole rejection thing and all.

But are women like that with men they think are really cute? Do they think, "I can't talk to him. He'd never want me"?

please let open up

yes they are, alot of them are seriously intimated by urs truly

iice:
[color=#9900ff]7 pink goats, 3 blue cows, 1 golden chicken, 4 newts and a dragon egg [/color]

4 why? u r not Angelina Jolie

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Maybe you should try offerings [/color]

ha! very smart idea indeed. how much should i give?

demistress:
@davidylan, when i say i question my faith and all, i question myself for what I am doing knowing what i have stood for all these years. I know what I am doing is wrong and I am already taking steps to be on track again. God is not at fault here. I am human and fallible and I know his grace is available but I don't want to take that grace for granted.

iight girl, get back on ur feet, we r rooting 4 u.


FYI: be very weary of men that suddenly get close to u in the name of "they understand what u are going through"

[quote author=ice_man link=topic=294937.msg4171135#msg4171135 date=1247329361]U guys r gettin it all wrong. Ill never leave her cuz of this weakness. Is it a crime 2 b worried about this? I just want her 2 develop herself. She will one day be the mother of my kids, This is d 21st century.[/quote]she is using all her brain power to stay beautiful for u, what do u want from her?

LadyAnn:
Well done Guys, this thread is the best thang since sliced bread. Pure talent and wonderful sense of humour,

BTW, I think I lurrrv the Judge, How do i get a job on his court? Who do i have to bribe?

it is very easy, follow Pat's foot steps and u will be there in no time. just in case u r wondering what pat's footsteps are, i will explain, sleep with oxone during one of the court sessions and the judge will notice ur zeal for active service and u are in or better still sleep with the judge

philip0906:
nd u r an intelligent woman?

it is called an oxymoron and boy, she sure knows how to apply it


@ poster

to be honest, i feel ur pain and confusion, we all make terrible mistakes in life, but u really need to cut off all ties with those dudes bcuz they dont have ur interest at heart at all. my recommendation is evaluate where u and and take that evaluation to God and asked sincerely for a fix and he will give u the true strength to overcome that temptation bcuz his grace is abundantly available 4 every1 that ask.


FYI: there is still a guy out there 4 u, be still and let God lead u to him.

pappy2000:
@na2day
Who is an idiot,You must be totally crazy for saying that?.
I have apologize and what else.Fool,attention seeker?.

better arrange ur mouth b4 i slap those fake 32 out of ur mouth. me and u who is seeking attention? did i hold ur hand to type a sick, stupid thread as this one? or did i tell u it is ok for u to display ur foolishness in the public? yeye dey follow u

iice:
[color=#9900ff]No luck still? [/color]

woman, bi quiet! i am working on it

PurestBoy:
me too love white women o, I'll sleep with atleast 2 on my first day of arriving at States

i see u r a goal getter, good for u

pappy2000:
NL can you imagine that i met a woman on this forum,called her om tuesday and she agreed to come and spend the weekend with me,I hope she is not trying to share the virus.I beg make una help do i welcome her or not.

another idiot on the loose. where is seun when u need him? 

pappy2000:
Hello,let us end this discussion.I have received enough bashing from you guys.Let me off the hook.Once again


I AM SORRY.

u better be! arrant nonsense!

demistress:
My two lovers have logged off the internet. One is a married man, he wanted to go and have sex with his wife. The other one is engaged to be married in a few months. He was mad at me cos i made reference to his fiancee that he didn't like. I am left to my bed and computer.

This is the story of my life. In the past couple of years I seem to have become addicted to painful relationships that leave me empty. I always had good self esteem. I never gave married men a second thought. But I am now caught in a web which instead of taking a bold stand against, I have allowed myself to continue to wallow in. How did I get here? The particulars of my case are not necessary. I just want to detox because I've had enough. I have slept with the married man and I want to stop. The engaged guy seems to be chasing me but he has made it clear to me that he absolutely adores his fiancee and that's what I questioned that left him livid and walked out on me online. I need to break free from this. Anybody who can talk some sense to me please help me here. I'm usually a very confident woman but my self confidence is gradually disappearing. I am no longer focussed on my work like before, i am doubting my faith and even questioning God. Everything I believed and stood for is becoming blurred. I have taken out time to get reinvigorated even in my faith, but I find myself falling back into the same pattern with these two men. I am just fed up.

let me guess, the biological clock is ticking very fast now and reality has finally hit u, right? dont worry all hope is not lost, i hear u can google a husband now, try it and come back to share ur testimony with us

[quote author=ice_man link=topic=294937.msg4166426#msg4166426 date=1247237595]Hi nairalanders. I have the most beautiful relationship goin with this really really beautiful girl. We have been datin since 06 and iv bn d envy of my friends. My prob is that she is not so intelligent,  Both generally and book-wise. And she is.nt eager to develop herself. What can i do. I really care about her.[/quote]this is a tough one, brains vs beauty, i say keep the beauty and read twice for both of u. she makes u look beautiful or handsome (depending on where u fit) and u should make her look intelligent. my take, the girl has paid her dues, its now ur turn to pay urs.   by the way, it worked for 2yrs why change it now?    if it ain't broken dont fix it  

ikuoma4rea:
l was really a player but recently decided to settle down so l met this chick who just finish youth services and we had a lot going for us.sometimes when we make love she sometimes complain about me using a condom and also about me bn scared of pregancy but to my shock l was infected so badly dat l was placed on treatment for 5days and since then av bn hurt so badly and the feelings dropped so swiftly without any second thot.l treated her but loving her was now a problem cos l could hardly relate with her anymore.l trl am stranded right nw and confused cos i really intended to settledown with her.it happened btw 5 mths since we started dating.what do l do am in a fix.

bros, why u dey vex? it is a dog eat dog world. its either u will infect her or she will infect u, i guess she was smarter to score the 1st point, now its ur turn and dont forget to share the part 2 of this story

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Pray hard [/color]

sssshhh! prayer in progress

190:
@na2day
all the best broda,wen im away pls help me takia of plat
ok, i still love her more dan she kan imagine

take care ooo, my ppl full 4 abuja oo, greet them 4 me. as per pat, i go throw am 4 gutter

iice:
[color=#9900ff]I always do [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Time will tell [/color]

i got da lawd on my side on this one

iice:
[color=#9900ff]You can try [/color]

u asked for it

FL Gators:
Yesterday it was bluespice and TheSeeker (or sth like that).
Now today, its iice and na2day?

madam, why didn't u respond to my YIM?

iice:
[color=#9900ff]LOL. . .he is trying. . .we shall see how far his patience goes [/color]

oh, i got patience that stretch the Nile

platinumnk:
na2day u dissapoint me, _{no wonder u never made it to the jury}

me on the jury? heck no, i am not that jobless  

Nezan:
In as much as some people fake it, there are still true believers that actually speak in tongues

falling under the anointing has nothing to do with speaking in tongues, dont get it twisted

iice:
[color=#9900ff]No! [/color]

dont make me torture u