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whitelexi:
I am not the type that keeps beef but recently, i inherited some extremely potent specie of agro - and that needs addressing asap.

plz fire on

@ poster

dont let it bother u, i have never fallen under anointing too, in fact i made it a point of duty never to fall under some preacher's anointing. for me elephant blue detergent too cost for that kind thing

persist:
Mistake choosing my first JOb


I am working for a great computer programming company here in nigeria.I started two months ago.THough I studied physics I was given a chance  to prove my self in programming.I Loved the little I used to do while i was in school but now after like two month I fell like hell My head pounds during work and I get scared like shit.I am not even producing good code.The thing seems very stressful.

Please guys I am thinking of quitting with my integrity intact before one boss starts shouting  Useless on me.I am confused should I quit.I feel like I should switch to networking by attending at least a three month course.

NB A friend help me get this job actually and he said if i should quit within 2 months I will look like I cam to siphon some cash and run and also It will give him a bad name in the company since I entered through his recommendation.

Guy what should i do .Should I quit and just change careers?

why on God's earth are u opening 2 threads with the same post? anywhoo, all IT jobs are stressful, i come home with all manner of headache, i am surprised i have not been involved in an accident when driving home because i just leave work drained and totally blanked out . i take alot of Milo like hell once i get home till i feel dizzy. ur problem is confidence, u must remember u have more control than most IT ppl; ur stress will be mainly u, the code and ur computer acting out, in mine, i have to deal with idiots that can't use computers and make major mistakes. ppl that swipe out their contacts from their phone and didn't backup to outlook or mobileme or any other form of back up but some how think i have a magical wand to bring them back. what about when u did everything right and one idiot click or makes a false operation and brings down a part of ur network if not all and its on ur neck to get things up and running immediately. what abt ppl that have to deal with folks that will forget to mention to IT or NOC that they tripped over a loose cable somewhere, some how and half of the network communication is out, and u spend ur life troubleshooting hell for hours and spending half of ur life on google only to find out that a cable is not having proper connection because liz tripped over it without mentioning to any1. dude get ur act together man.

[quote author=big_bumper link=topic=56009.msg1148399#msg1148399 date=1180271619]The thread I am referring to was initiated by a bitter, twisted, scorned non-nigerian female of the species under the CULTURE board, headed "Nigerian Men, Sex And Affairs: Non-nigerian Women Speak" .

Having gone through the thread with a fine toothed comb, Nigerian men (THE CULPRIT) were labelled as unfaithful liars and cheats, backward africans with backward thinking, backward behaviour and backward society, for whom
exploitation and corruption and rampant poverty prevail, whilst the Nigerian
women, the AFRICAN QUEEN ( mind you the only crime we committed was that we got the ring) were labelled thus

gullible

submissive

fat

uneducated

chattels

not independent

stay at home to cook, clean and have children

love of money

housemaid

dull in bed

not strong-willed

obey our man's every whim and fancy

don' work

brought up to think being a woman is a disadvantage

dumb

stupid

scared of being labelled a promiscuous nasty LovePeddler

stiff angelic christian wife

thinks our p*ssy is on a pedestal

desperate for love

can't do better

our men disrespects us

our men puts us down

we are crap in bed

ALL THIS ONE TOPIC ON A NIGERIAN FORUM AS WELL !!! The annoying thing

was that most of these lies were fed to them by Nigerian men.

THE MIND BOGGLES INDEED.[/quote]u should stop reading yoruba with an english accent, it will just confuse u

jennyo:
Hi all

I am  currently working on a major deal with a new client and and recently my client's attitude towards me has been less than professional, for one
i have to meet him for lunch or dinner for meetings and  when he send text messages to me he refers to me as honey /sweetheart.The most annoying is that recently he gave me a hug right in front of my female colleague However he hasn't come one to me directly or asked me out directly i really do need advise on how to  tell him in a subtle manner  to back off without offending him i  really need to close the deal.

PS Did i mention that i recently got married and he is aware

this is why i hate certain things in nigeria. this is nothing but sexual harassment and the stupid company will keep quiet abt it, they will rather have the shameless customer and fire a diligent employee, it is just plain annoying and u can't even sue

iice:
[color=#9900ff]A lot[/color]

clarify ooo!

FL Gators:
Thank you, we know we're wonderful "creatures", men are also "wonderful" animals.

My "No" has always mean "No".

wassup baby, nice pic

Secretz:
I know a lot of women who might like to date your boyfriend . . . . . I mean he's caring, thoughtful, takes you out on dates, seems committed. . . . .  Please leave him for someone who would appreciate those little things. Na by force you must stay with him? 

girl! u r the best. There are way too many girls on NL with misplaced priorities

IFELEKE:
and instead of you to concentrate on taking care of the pregnancy you come here fighting in my court!
I won't jail you for the sake of your wife  BUT I will place you on house arrest! you can't evade rent especially now that you have a pregnant wife.

this is a cruel and unusual punishment

gloriuss:
@ na2day, u make me laff wela wela! lol, High 5 to u!

i appreciate girls that speak the truth as it is

iice:
[color=#9900ff]You've now been updated[/color]

thanks for the update, what could I have done without u

bee22:
@ na2day,  U must either be an illiterate or a stingy fool.My point which u failed to get is dt if he loves her he should do the lil things that make her feel secure in d relationship.

if spending on u is what makes u secure or feel loved then yes ur a gold digger and u need to get ur priorities right

iice:
[color=#9900ff]You're supposed to say, ok ooo bye [/color]

damn! i must have gotten the wrong script

IFELEKE:
My option 3 is getting both of you tried for contempt and promptly locking you up!
you are a senior member of this romantic republic and it behoves on you to keep sanity/order all times Not Break It!.

plz do, i am tired of paying rent. by the way my wife is bed resting, her being pregnant is no easy task for me

gloriuss:
@poster, wow, that is soooo deep, and all of y'all that are making fun do realise that its not funny. see this is why there there is such a severe shortage of good guys in this world, after this kind of experience they dont wana be taken for a ride again.

And ladies will be running helter skelter in order to find a decent guy to marry not knowng that some uneccessary actions and attitudes have turned some good guys permanently sour, ive said my own oh!, 

girl, give me 5, u yan better

brein:
@na2day? (some peeps id can be scary at times ) off topic.

Like i said bro. I stand to be corrected, i didnt mean any words of blas.,.,,,,.,!

i guess they didn't mean to hang Jesus either

bee22:
my 2 cents,

if he aint spending it on u, he's probably spending it on sum1 else!

all guys in the world know that most girls like gifts so i don't get how he'll never have bought u anything at all in 2 years, thats kinda funnee.

I also agree with the guy who talked abt the 5 love languages but he needs to show her love not in the language he understands but in the languages she'll understand.e.g someone who speak the language of Quality Time may be pissed if her bf keeps giving her gifts and ignores her all the time.

another gold digger

iice:
[color=#9900ff]If that's the best you/he can come up with. . .
My reply would be. . .not interested [/color]

my reply, macka why?

IFELEKE:
Now both of you have two options:
either you settle this dispute in court devoid of fightings or you both get out of my court!

we take option 3, settle it in court with fighting since u r always late in coming

JustGood:
Nothing wrong with the name.

Why do we need to get offended by what offends Black Americans?

i tire, like african americans care about what we go through

spikedcylinder:
You see? It works!!!

yeah! for me

mamae:
can you share your personal property with anybody especially your wife

like i said, there is love in sharing

lalaboi:
**gets the koboko from Na2day** chops it into 2 pieces. . . .*** Gives him a bicycle kick!** Upper cut** Fatality with a punch-kick combo**

The end!! end of dispute!

gives him yoga fire, hundred hand slap, use the judges chair and break it on his head then end it with a fiery shoryuken church close

brein:
And hey u deeperlife contenders,,,, may God have mercy on ya souls'.
I stand to be corrected if wrong, but none can change the Gospel truth, ,. Do u know if this gf of mine was to be married by me in the near future?? Huh.

thunder fire that mouth wey u dey u blaspheme

brein:
Gab sweetie, Why are u disappointed in me instead of u bin disapointed at the Topic thread, u knw, i get some trepidation sometimes wether u're that Catholic realy or u're a budhist. In other words, u seem to be moved by what u see rather than experience and YeS.! I am a pure true Christian by Gods grace, nt even NL wld make me curb my faith.

story

Gabry:
Brein, Im disapointed in you. U claim to be a pure true Christian with great beliefs. use it naaa against this mermaid juju lady ok?

in his case, Jesus will be supporting the mamiwater spirit

brein:
Tudór,
Its not what u think
and besides being a deeperlifer mean one shouldnt have sex??
leave d church outa this.
Gabry, thats my predicament oo. Wht u hav to say bou it?

chei! kumuyi don suffer. So na ppl like u damage deeper life?

Nezan:
wetin wrong wit d name?

I tire

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Simply tell him, dude i don't know you [/color]

my reply to that, now is ur chance to know me