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Tokskob2008:
Very shameful.... imagine at almost close to 50yrs old and still following one usless man to hotel for sex, she might even be married with grown up kids who know....

The useless animal should have not killed her, plain and simple. No victim blaming here.

Kelechi009:
You are just a stupid person

Why the rude words?

Because I decided to give objective advice instead of judging without hearing the wife side of the story?

Let a woman come and complain that her husband is not satisfying her sexually or that he never listens to her, you people will not jump to insult her husband, you will blame the woman instead. But because a man is the one complaining here, you males have concluded that his wife is at fault without hearing her own side.

Logical gender my foot.

If this story is true and not figment of a crazy misogynistic man's imagination.
Op, do you have sex with her in a loving way or you just dive in and dive out as if you are sleeping with a prostitute, thereby making her feel like she is being used and causing her to hate intimacy with you?

You said she is always right and she doesn't take corrections, what about you? Do you regularly make stupid decisions or are you a terrible decision maker? It might be possible she is always right because she is smarter than you and has more common sense. It doesn't make her a bad person. Examine yourself.

As for the money making skills you claim she is not willing to learn, what skills exactly have you introduced to her? Some people are not entrepreneurs naturally for instance and if you introduce entrepreneurship to them they lose interest, some people are not naturally good programmers so if you try to teach them programming they shy away.

Many boys on this thread will advice you to divorce your wife simply because you said she isn't giving you sex, men are just obsessed with sex, as if it's life and death something, I no understand una. Don't rush to divorce, look inwards and be objective and see if you carry any of the blame instead of pointing fingers at your wife, then have an objective discussion with your wife to let her know you are not happy with the lack of intimacy (I know that's the most important thing to you among all the flaws you listed) and other things you are not happy about.

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kokaiye:
u shld tk her go c ur doctor... Pls dont scrub her tongue ooo

Thanks ma, I appreciate your help a lot.

Towerofgrace:
At our 6 weeks appointment pediatrician recommended using cotton wool and water wrapped around a finger to wipe baby's tongue and to exercise caution so you don't leave lint in baby's mouth

At the sight of a tooth we switched to the silicone mouth cleaner still with water only

These are the two remedies that worked for me. Thanks a lot.

impeccablerose:
There are wipes to clean baby's gum in the market. You can use that. Wrap around your finger to clean the tongue.
That's what I use for my baby when his Paediatrician said it can build up to cause a fungal infection.

Yes, I bought silicone tongue scrubber and cotton wool and I clean her mouth everyday, the stains are gone. Thank you.

The people clapping in the back are making me laugh even more, what are they clapping for?
lwkmd

kokaiye:
leave it alone, it does not do any harm to d baby.. It wil clear on its own

Thanks ma, but it is now having black spots on it (sorry for graphic description) and she sticks her tongue out sometimes as of she is not comfortable with it.

Good day all.
Please how do i clean white milk stand from my baby's tongue?

It's her body and her right she should do as she pleases
The old man needs to get over it, getting upset because another adult cut her hair.

Op, don't be angry with your step sister for pretending, she was afraid of the consequences of telling the truth, she is just a child, only twelve.

If you want to help her next time, first of all give her assurance in private that you want to report her step mom and she needs to cooperate with you and let her know how much better her life would be if she works with you and tells the truth.


Honestly, the behavior of some mothers is so evil and disgusting. Tufia

I think men need to be held accountable for their kids if they leave them in the care of step moms, I have seen too many cases of step moms treating innocent children like slaves because they dint bear those kids. Just pure wickedness. Their fathers shouldn't just drop the children with their stepmother and start acting blind to their mistreatment. They ignore their wives bad behavior so much, it's honestly pathetic and disgusting.
The women that maltreat step kids for no reason are cursed creatures.

Angelfrost:
Some of you women will just open arms and legs wide for men you know very little about...

Y'all just get married or start cohabiting without proper background checks, and other investigations of the person's true character.

Now this poor baby has to suffer the eternal consequences.

You people will always look for how to blame women. What about the hopeless man that did this terrible act?

I am very sorry for your pain Op, please disregard the comments of the males in the above posts, you should understand that on nairaland females barely get sympathy for anything bad that happens to them. If a man had started this thread people will rush in here to sympathize with him and insult all women in Nigeria.

What is the problem exactly? Do you care to share? And please don't end it all, try to be there for your children's sake. Please try to be strong for them if you want to stay in the marriage. Have a virtual hug {<(°-°) >}

Sorry again.

Why disturbing that innocent baby because of one poorly acted script?

How old is the Op's wife?
She behaves like a thoughtless child, imagine adding another man to listen to a personal call with your husband without telling the husband himself, where is the loyalty she is supposed to have in marriage? She just embarrassed her spouse and made him look stupid to another man.
And she is still relating with the guy and telling her husband to help him even when she knows the man has his eyes on her.

I wish you good luck ooo, Op. Sorry to say but you need to be very smart with her in your marriage after you get to UK.

Issalog:
No. They did not.

Thank you.
One of my uncle who promised me nnpc job said he can't do anything for now because they placed embargo on recruitment.

Good morning, please for those in the know, did NNPC place embargo on recruitment currently?
Thank you.

MrHighSea:
About 1 month.

Ok thanks a lot

MrHighSea:
Similar grunting noise here too.
Doctor said it's normal.
It cleared on its own.

How long did it take to clear?

kokaiye:
lol... I play songs frm YouTube 4 him but oga no dey feel dem ooo... Na my voice him wan hear ... U c babies ehn.... dem b punisher

Na love, he loves your voice above all else

Just see it like that

kokaiye:
wow!!! Ur girl is a punisher ... No idea on how to mk babies sleep... My 7months old mk me sing 4 him b4 sleeping or eating, which is far worst dan backing cs i gt tired of singin most of d time.

What if you play coco melon or other songs on your phone for her?
So you can rest your voice.

kokaiye:
take baby to see doctor 4 checkup pls.

I did that today, thank you ma.

shiller:
You can visit the hospital so they can check ur baby please

I went today, they gave me medicine for it. Thanks

Please help, my baby makes grunting noises as if catarrh is stuck in her nose, when she sucks its more pronounced and she also makes the grunting noises when she is aeep, she has been doing it everyday since birth, but my mother who is doing omugwo told me it's normal for new born, please has anyone had this experience before?
Baby grunting and breathing loud as if there is mucus stuck at back of nose/throat?
There is no catarrh coming out from her nose, I only noticed the noisy breathing.

estilo:
I salute everyone o. Make una rub me baby dust o.
Any of my march mamas 2020 back here?

Haha, March 2020, memories are coming back


Plenty baby dust to you mama

That my march baby has become madam with younger sister now.

So you brought your wife to spread out for nairaland small children to insult?

See people calling her all sorts of names because of your meaningless topic.

So what if she likes nollywood movies? Why make her look like a stupid person because of that? Your own love for football is not better than her love for nollywood movies, they are both recreational TV viewing, None is better or worse. You knew the type of person you married before you married her so what exactly is the point of this thread?

I don't blame you, I blame the silly males and even more stupid females with zero self esteem encouraging you by insulting your wife on this thread.