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Good day all,
Please who knows what I can do if I lost immunization card for baby?

Is there a way to get another one? Thank you

Hello all, I want to ask if there is a way bolt drivers can see the passengers profile and the number of rides they have had,


Last month I had to run around town from beginning to end of the month because of my business and I had to use bolt app for quick movements during that period of about a month, I must have used it more than 20 times just one month.

So I entered one bolt car last week and the driver was telling me its like I use bolt to move around a lot and I should try and contact him if I want to enter town because he lives near my house.


Is there a way you can see riders number of rides the way you see driver number of rides? What other information about riders can you see?
Just curious, thanks.

Another topic for males to hurl unjustified insults to all women and feel better about themselves like psychopaths.

Seun or mynd44 or lalasticlala whoever of you keep propagating woman hate by putting topics like this on front page your karma will catch up with you very soon.

futuremoma34:
May be yes,maybe no...time shall tell....be hopefull

Thank you

Please someone I know was given application form in civil service commission to apply in ministry of health and the letter was taken into the commissioner office by the CCS, is here any hope that her letter will be taken seriously after submission or is giving letter to commissioner not good enough?

Thank you.

God bless you as you reply.

UjuJoan2:
Exactly!

Women need to define their own standards too, and never ever settle for less.

Smart reply

Ujujoan2, stop replying these people that are suffering body pain because your husband treats you well.

Just ignore them, the truth is that Nigerians have normalized dehumanization of women that when a woman says her husband is kind to her and loves her, people find it hard to believe.

Women are typically supposed to be work horses that hustle outside the home and then carries housework on her head while being submissive to husband and super mom to kids. If the husband does not provide, she should double her hustle and support him until he decides to work, if he cheats she should lose weight and pray for him, if he does not assist at home it's clearly because she offended him or because she is not obedient enough so she has to increase her humility and please her husband so that he will treat her well.

That is how the average Nigerian man
expects married women to behave.

The funny thing is that they will NEVER ever take half the rubbish they expect women to swallow.

Teespice:
I came here to read happy stories but alas, poco was right.

look at how they descended on uju's post like vultures.

make I waka abeg. I no get strength this morning.

Abi oo,

@ujujoan2 Sorry about the attacks and bitterness you had to deal with because of my thread,
These nairaland men have mental problems.

They cannot see a female oriented topic without descending on it to destroy it and insult women.

magkhan:
1. Prays for me and with me. I’m not the prayer type of person but his midnight prayers gives me joy.

2. Supports my career and education. Has no issues with late nights at work or out of town engagements.

3. Gives me ANYTHING I ask for even jokingly. I’m not demanding or unreasonable. I’ve never asked for a house because I know he can’t afford to buy me one even if he wants to.

4. Aside being a good husband he is a perfect perfect father I sometimes envy my kid�. He is also a good son and brother to his sister.

5. His sacrifices. Don’t get me started on this. He is the typical Igbo anambra man that will give his wife his car and use public transport.

He is not perfect but I married right.

God bless your marriage my dear, may God preserve the love you both have for each other and give your husband the strength to continue being a good husband.

Thank you for sharing this with us,

I wish more men took their role of provider and protector serious instead you see lazy louts that want women to provide for them and submit to them at the same time.

Shortyy:
Nothing positive will come out of this thread.
The wives will come here to praise their husbands and how good they've been to them.
The single toxic and sadistic men will come and counter the posts calling it lies and labelling the husband a simp.

So I'll advice anyone who truly wants to marry not to come to Nairaland to seek validation, because it will end in tears for you.

If you've found someone you connect with, go ahead and do the do.

Many men are just sadistic and evil beasts, if they see anything that brings women joy or makes life easy for them they want to claim it for themselves or tear it down

I felt bad for ujujoan, reading the bitter hate filled posts these frustrated nairaland males were directing to her because she said her husband treats her very well.

The irony of the whole thing is that a man can come and tell us how his wife hustles money to take care of him and carries housework on her head and obeys everything he tells her and they will be happy to read such posts, they won't compile ten page arguments of why it is wrong.

Selfish bunch of he goats.

UjuJoan2:
So what are the things he does . . .

1. He gives me ANYTHING I ask. I know you'll think this is impossible, but my husband is the type of person that will use his last card to buy me an iPhone, just because I asked. He can never say no to me, he just can't. No matter how unreasonable the request, he just won't be able to say no. Even when we are quarelling and not talking, I would send him a message on WhatApp just to avoid talking to him . . . "I need to go to the salon, come and drop me off", he would still do it. I can't tell you the kind of confidence that gives me.

2. I am always right . . . Even when I'm wrong he still supports me. Whenever I complain about anyone to him, he automatically hates the person. It doesn't matter what happened, if you make me unhappy you become his enemy.

3. He supports me . . . Whatever I need to get to that next level, he provides. He doesn't get threatened, instead he pushes me to reach for the top. He thinks I'm the best, most intelligent and most gifted person on earth. I wish I could see myself through his eyes.

4. He lets me get away with almost anything. I can do almost anything and get away with it. To him I can do no wrong.

Let me stop here sha. . . .

My dear I was so so happy reading this post, thank God some men still have a good idea of what leadership means, all hope is not lost, I was starting to develop hatred for them because of all the wicked and selfish things we hear of men doing to their wives.
Please treasure him, appreciate him oo
Infact later today send him a romantic message or WhatsApp telling him how you appreciate his goodness to you, you are a lucky woman. My own case if I talk am for hear my bp might start rising again just by talking of the evil things the man does, please appreciate your husband

And dont mind the males on this thread saying stupid things to you. If a man had written what you wrote and said his wife does them for him they will praise her and say she is a good wife.


Majority of Nigerian men and black men in general don't know what leadership means. They think it's all about exerting control and being selfish and unnecessary cold to their wife, they dont want to take responsibility for anything that goes wrong but they want to claim to be in charge of everything.

pocohantas:
Let them not share abeg. Aisha Yesufu wey answer question, see as them done analyze the matter, come tag the husband simp. Please enjoy your marriages in your homes. If you so want to share, look for a platform with predominantly happy people- that platform isn’t Nairaland.

Nairaland in general is such a toxic and negative environment for females, I think majority of married women or mature women have left, I remember the time when the likes of deb.rief, chair.cover, ice, ais.ha2, ileoba.tojo were very active here, mature conversations and helpful advice about marriages couldd be easily seen in family section, now it's just a parade of entitled and bitter males on here everytime. Even this thread I created to spread positivity has been infested with bitterness against women.


Maybe I am too old for this site, I might deactivate soon.

ezugegere:
Few reasons why many women will never be happy in marriage:
1. They compare their husbands with others', compare their husbands with their exes, compare their husbands with their Facebook boyfriend, etc.
2. They want to control their husband. They want to control how he spends his money, how he relates with family members, friends, etc, forgetting that these people were there for him before he married her.
3. They want to claim equality with men, which will never be accepted in African culture.
4. Women are typically selfish

Na wa oo


So men cannot be responsible at all for women unhappiness in marriage?


Thanks for sharing.

AstroG:
NIGERIA

Lol, why are you now crying.

Munzy14:
Woman bashing ke? who get time for okoto meows...


By the way we have good ladies out there, just like we have too many bad ones....Same goes to men.


Perish the idea of thinking every woman is good...You will know reality one day...Online everything appears perfect..

Haba I didn't say every woman is good now, later you will say you dont have time for okoto meow but you are still trying to bash women with your post.

Munzy14:
Them plenty for here o, unless u never jam them slayers....Indomie mothers...AKA new generation trophy wives.

Unless the husband is filthy rich and can hire multiple househelps and nannies for kids there is no way in hell a woman will do nothing at all except watch tv morning till evening, you men should stop telling lies to make women look bad, take your woman bashing elsewhere please, this thread is for positive marital stories.

Prognose:
I'm tired of feeling angry all the time.
It's just bubbling beneath the surface.
Funny enough I can't remember when last I lost my temper. Maybe last year?
But everyday, every fucking day I get pissed at least once.

And I just want to rest

Fucccccck.

I can't tell anyone.

They all see me as the shining example.

Bleep shining example.

Bleep mr perfect. Far from it.

But I've been placed on a pedestal and any move I make now will be met with great disappointment.

Alcohol helps but you know it's not the best.

I'm scared to try marijuana. What if it multiplies the anger and I go on a killing spree?

I'm FUCKING TIRED.

What exactly triggers your anger?

Please dont take marijuana, it damages the memory and will make you forgetful and dull.

JidennaJason:
Unlike the one's who sit down from morning to night with a TV remote control on their right hand watching BB9ja and come to this forum to disturb us.

He who finds a wife, (Not a Liability) finds a good thing.[/b]

I don't know where you people see these women that sit down in front of tv all day doing nothing, not cleaning, not cooking, not caring for kids, not washing, not doing any type of business even petty trading, not doing anything at all except watching tv.

What planet do they exist?

Zzor:
This thread is dead on arrival because most Nigerian women suffer in marriage,change your topic and you will see this place bombarded with horrible experiences

Well, I wanted to give myself hope that marriage can be a happy and satisfying haven for Nigerian women. All I seem to hear about is negativity making it seem like Nigerian marriages are bleak and unhappy setups for women.

mariahAngel:
Yes o!

People in happy marriages don't like to share their stories because envious people might cast their evil eyes and jinx it.

I once read a thread here, created by a then newly married woman, whose husband couldn't get enough of; she was asking if it was normal for her husband to be all over her...

Well, guess what...2yrs later, she created another thread about having problems in her marriage and with her husband's family and not being sure if her husband still loved her

What is her username?

Please share how you are enjoying your marriage here, the nice things your husband does for you, special things he does to make you happy, how he shows you love etc etc, how he assists you and things he does to make your life easy, you know, just positive things that make you love your husband.

I would like to hear positives about Nigerian marriage, let the happily married women gush about their happy marriages instead of everytime negativity that we read about.


Thank you for sharing, God bless you.

Does anyone have used exercise bicycle to sell? I need it.

konti:
Price is negotiable for Abuja residents

Have you sold them?

hello all, please who knows some nice vegetables that I can cook and puree for a baby on semi solids (7 months)?

Uzomacharles:
yah and sometimes change of weather too

Wow, I didnt know, thanks.

Uzomacharles:
Did you take borehole water ?

No, does it cause those things?

usj:
Why don't you start from whatever the cause is, it could be a leaky roof, from bathroom, or you are living in a waterlogged area. If none of that is the cause then try opening up your windows to let in air, put on your fan or AC to help dry up the place. Cleanup the house and wash all items to get rid of the pollens. I guess its rains offen in your location.

Yes it rains often but it's the way the house is built that is causing wall dampness, the houses to our left and right are have their bathroom next to our bedroom wall.

frozen70:
I think the floor has to be recasted with a nylon on the floor before the concrete cast then tile it, in the case if it is the floor

If it's the wall then you have to put tiles on the wall upto where the dampness is

Thank you, but if we tile it will the wetness of the wall not make the tiles fall off and detach?

Uzomacharles:
Same here

I've been sneezing for almost 2months

Honestly,
My eyes are red, nose is just running since morning, throat is scratching me.

Infact I am tired of this damn house.