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Busta:
Lol
because even tho most of that saying is true . . . I don't want to admit that it is true.
that way, I feel tougher than I really am.

lol. . . . .  its ok to be vulnerable.     

Thats why we are women . . . . .  the lesser of two evils         

Busta:
no comment!

Can I ask why?

Busta:
slap the lesbianism outtta her system

WORD!!!!!!

@poster

send her my way; by the time i finish with her she'll be repulsed by the mere thought of cannodling women.

_{nonsense . . . . . .  and you sound so blase about it . . . . .  i should even slap u sef.}

rilwan01:
hello naja,am jibril and will like to meet you.i guess your name sounds familier

rilwan01:
naja i have not heard anything from you

@rilwan01

Thank you for the kisses. Happy val to you too.

my name sounds familiar to you? ?

want to bet the black guy's bod is way hotter than your's? 

. . . . . . . everyone on nairaland, I wish you all a happy, warm and sultry valentine's day.

Y'all make my day at work.

Love, Love and even more Love

P.S remember to call your parents and tell them you love 'em. . . . . . valentine is not just for lovers!

Could someone please do me a summary? ? ?

I would love to read it but its tooooo long      

damn . . . . . . that rose looks so heated and frosted.

Heat me and cool me down baby!!!!!

Here's wishing everyone on nairaland a happy, warm and sultry valentine's day.

Y'all make my day at work.  

Love, Love and even more Love      

P.S remember to call your parents and tell them you love 'em. . . . . .  valentine is not just for lovers!

Rebellious:
Obviously not becuz some guy sent me this a couple of years back.

okidoki

opuro:
plz
na wetin be saguine abi sandine abi na saggitarius?

sanguine means a characteristic/aspect of personality. It's a lively confident cheerful person. Extroverts.

[quote author=naija_diva link=topic=112480.msg1952414#msg1952414 date=1202925906]the reason they leave is because they expect the woman to remain the same way the day they met, which is impossible.[/quote]Both evolve and integrate into each other. This is part of a good marriage. Have you noticed when couples are together for a length of time they start to morph into each other? This also happens to their personalities.

One reason they would leave may because this is not happening. The wife is becoming stagnant.

Chacal:
@ Naja Haje,

Skip the personal attacks.

ahhhhhh baby boy . . . . . . . . . .  dont take any of this personal. 

Chacal:
@ Naja Haje,

Nigerian men will definitely seek the cheaper options. . . . This is why guys go down South.
A full-blooded young Nigerian will head South where cheap Nigerian gals can be taken.

A full blooded Nigerian man will not be seeking cheaper options. Period

Chacal:
@ Naja Haje,

Essex chics are mostly white girls(they are not the bone of contention here).

they neva were ma dear. I just corrected your 'stereotype'.

Chacal:
@ Naja Haje,

Dont get me wrong. . . . Most men will go to Nigeria to find a wife than marry a South London girl.

now now . . ,   you know that is the fattest lie you've eva told. Humpty Dumpty had a big crash!!!!!!!!!!

Chacal:
@ Naja Haje,

I have seen too much, i have heard so much. . . . . . . . .
For instance, there's a popular saying that THERE'S NO DECENT THAMESMEAD GIRL.
I am sure u must have heard of that before. Dont be offended if u stay in Thamesmead.

I hear the echoes of experience.   

[quote author=naija_diva link=topic=112480.msg1952267#msg1952267 date=1202924254]girl you are too much . you can still find a good guy with with lots of flava in him. the bads one may be more exciting but he may want to go and hook up with someone else because to him that's what having fun is all about even when he's married.[/quote]see this is where you are soooooooo wrong!

this is the only time am sure that two bads can make a right

We obviously won't have the same level of badness but we go compliment   

The reason they leave is because the wife is too cool and probably tries to hold them back.
I agree there are times you would want to take things slow. Thats when all the communication takes ova.
But having said that a bad boy is always a bad boy. Fun for life.

A bad boy doesn't cheat. . . . .  . a loser does. There is a difference. Don't confuse the original bad boys with the millenium ones

Chacal:
@ Naja Haje,

South London rules? Of course, It does. I never disputed that.
It rules when drugs, guns, knives, violence, thuggery and gangs are involved.

lmfao. . . . . that was really funny

Chacal:
@ Naja Haje,

Blimey . . . .It also rules when a quick shag is required so it is normal to see dudes from other parts taking the trip down South.

Dont kid yourself Mr Koko-intellect. . . . .  guys will follow their souther antenae where ever it leads.

The problem here:   with all the blood that is been drained from their brains they are not usually sure where exactly they're headed.    should i say this is the case for you?  

Chacal:
Is it not true that u have the most lascivious women in the Northern Hemisphere?
Bloody Hell . . . South London is the reason why men/women go back to Nigeria to find a spouse.
Their shag history is so thick it can sink the TITANIC.

eeeerrrrrrrrrrrmmmmmm. . . . . . . . .  Mr Geography. . . . . . .  those are the chics in  Essex.

                                 

ifyalways:
the bad boys are so so sweeeeeeeeeeeeeeet and phenomenal.
the good ones are dull,dull,dull and boriiiiiiiing.
however,i would go for a bad boy with a good heart inside.

u no warrrrram saying . . . . .

[quote author=naija_diva link=topic=112480.msg1951966#msg1951966 date=1202921132]theu're good when you're young trying to have fun but when its time to get serious, then you get yourself a good boy that will help you keep your life together and in line.[/quote]if you marry good guy. . . . . . . . then divorce is a knocking babes. Last time i checked you'll need all da spice you can get to make the marriage work if it's with a straight-laced goody shoes. A sensible, hot, smoking bad boy will turn you into a funky granma. u feel me. . . .

ibkaye:
you have spoken well o

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Gbam![/color]

am glad am not the only with butterflies for the smooth operator

Chacal:
@ Naja Haje,

You are dragging me off-topic.
I don't have a problem with you defending your postcode like em Nazis died defending the walls of Berlin . . . Keep it up!!!!
All i know is the guys residing in the South are sometimes ashamed to tell peops where they live.
Why is it so hard for u to realise South London is the Mushin/Ajegunle of London.

now listen good. . . . . . . baby boy. . . . . . I ain't defending nada. There is no need for me to defend Southlondon as your definitions are so stereotypical they'll make a journalist blush red fire.

The guys you know residing in South are the ones you're using to generalise South?

Just admit it. . . . . . . South London rules. Ghetto with style. North London------ boring and lifeless.

Your people make pilgrimages to our spots and clubs for a funky good time.

what topic was i dragging you from by the way?

Chacal:
@ Naja Haje,

You asking me where in South London they make em movies?

I neva asked . . . . . I told you!!!!!!

Chacal:
@ Naja Haje,

I don't stay in the South but the stereotype of the peops i see in em movies reeks of South.

last time I cheked . . . . . the word 'steroetype' was a media generated word.

Chacal:
@ Naja Haje,

99.9% of Naija movies made in London are shot in the South. . . . [b]Just look at the shops and see the postcodes. . . all u see is SE.[/b]This is why its called DIRTY SOUTH . . . . You don't hear Dirty North.

well you know baby boy. . . . . am just to posh to watch dem kinda movies.

Chacal:
@ Naja Haje,

Talking about Yoruba movies?? We all know the South is where they act em movies.
Every commercial ad in em Yoruba movies have SE postcode. Is that a coincidence?
Babes, y'all southerners are razzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.

erm. . . . . . . where in south london? cos a ain't seen none of 'em

Talking from remembrance. . . . . . except 'poshness' won't allow you to believe it actually North?

Chacal:
@ Naja Haje,

How can u say the North is bad. We make thangz
The degree of poshness descends from South West in a clock-wise movement and ends in the South.
It means the Kesington/Chelsea areas are the poshest followed by Golder's green/Hampstead then to Camden to Tottenham/Arsenal, then to Stratford, Leyton, West Ham and to Woolwich/Thamesmead area then finally Peckham, Brixton. The South is the roughest

errrrrrrrrrrrrrr. . . . . . mr what-do-you-call-yourself? a dont fink sooooooooooo

Last I checked woolwich and thamesmead were right in with the southlondon post code your geography sucking babes? ? lol!

'Good' guys are too boring. Life is too short.

'Bad' boys know how to have fun and take you to the edge. . . . . . you know warram saying its all about adrenalin

As long as he's not so bad that he ends up in jail or attempts to beat me then its all good.

Plus 'bad' boys have a shed load or charisma and spunk!!!!!!!! THAT. . . . . ladies and gentlemen. . . . . . . is what turns me on. _{that if there is something intelligent and smart going on in his brain}

As for the ones that are rude and cuss, its safe to say they are plain idiots!

Chacal:
@ joshjosh,
How many teenagers were killed last year in Peckham and all em areas compared to where u stay?
When u hear about stabbings and gun-shot wounds. . . . . your mind drifts to the South, . . That is how bad.

The media makes you do that        victim of BBC 10'o clock news and the spawn of Sir Trevor Macdonald                 

Chacal:
@ Naja Haje,

Racism in London? I very much doubt that.
London is not Shropshire. The residents here are so used to Black men and can't be bovvered with the colour of your skin.

is this the case in your building? or maybe just between you and your next door neighbour??     

Chacal:
@ Naja Haje,
Inter-racial dating is on the rise here compared to the DIRTY SOUTH.

You just cemented the point I was trying to make earlier so. . . . .           

Chacal:
@ Naja Haje,
Lets face it . . . . .South is rough!!!!!!!
I have been told once that it is normal seeing herbalists taking sacrifices to a T-junction in your end.
How true is that?

This as tru as the last naija movie you just watched.   

I suppose it was easy for you think this up because you've seen it happen in your junction?           

I knew north was bad but I didn't think it was that bad. hhhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmm  _{******shakes head******}

Chacal:
@ Naja Haje,

South London? Ohhhhh ma days. . . . . . .
I won't be caught dead in the south, . . . . Too ghetto, too rough, too violent.
North West is where i rest me head.

So u are from the South?
Heheheheheeh. . . . . . .Brixton, Camberwell or our dear ol' Peckham?
Waking up to see anutha day is a bonus for u guys. . . . .the death rate is at par with New York.

Pot callin kettle black

camberwell, brixton and peckham dont make up southlondon. Am sure you know that. . . dont you

I hear north is where all the racism is rife and you black guys have to make do with the lillies in order to congregate

joshjosh:
really? this is snubishness of the highest order. what about the killings in Nw? but for God's grace is anywhere safe these days? i live in NW3 however, i wont say that is safe place. not even buckingham palace is safe these days.

My broda I could plant a smacker on you for saying that. . . . . _{in fact i just will so there}. . . . . . . .

Delta007:
WTF is a sanguine abi na sardine? I'm thinking is that horrorshow horoscope rubbish. Na wa oh; how people can be sucked into believing that all 50million peeps born in January all over the world behave in the same way and have similar destinies is just mind buggling. No be only sardine; try geisha!

erm. . . . i don't think Sagittarius is the same as sanguine.

@poster

any type of personality can make a good husband. The question here is do the both of you make a balance, or should i say do you think you compliment each other?

Chacal:
@ Naja Haje,

People have different opinion about me on this forum.
Some people thunk i wasn't even a Nigerian with the way i cuss when i was using the JACKAL handle.
Others felt i was in Lagos masking as a Brit. Some other twats thunk i reside in the States and reh reh reh.
You also think i could be faking this schitzo. . . . .Just ask around or read previous posts on Chacal/Jackal.
You will be convinced religiously.

No agro dearie   

Did you forget I said am 'very proud of you'.    Thats my opinion of you from what I have read so far. No need to justify.

But From this;

Chacal:
@ Naja Haje,

and reh reh reh.

never seen this on nairaland.    Southlondon? I won't be surprised.  Its so ghetto. _{am southlondon too so am not dissing you}                

joshjosh:
word as they say

u feel me. . . . . 

poster sounds like Ross from Friends.

@ poster

did you write the poem by the way?

seeing as he just joined he probably joined to do a  shout out to his val.

@poster
have you told her to google it. Nice val present.   

Chacal:
@ Naja Haje,

I wasn't born in the UK . . . . .Came in when i was about 9!!!!
In other words, i was a child when i came in and that makes no difference.
Hustling is mainly about brains and not graggz. . . . . . . .

We are all products of our environment. . . . It is what u see people do that u will probably follow as long as they are successful at it.
If one grows up around drug addicts n criminals, he is more likely to follow that path and self-destruct.
However, if one alligns himself with focused young professionals. . . . .There's no way in hell u would derail.
Thats the secret!

I still think naija blood is coursing thru your veins and is pushing you further

Dont mind me, I just refuse to believe that you are a product of an undiluted british society.

Its all good tho. I am proud of you, very very proud of you. I just hope that you are true to what you say. You know, . . . anonymity and the online.

@Chacal

Were you born here?

If you were did your parents take you back naija to live for a while?

Babes I refuse to believe that you were born and breed here and have lived here all your life and you know how to hussle like you're saying.

Am not being pessimistic but . . . . . .

a little bit a both.

actually i like more stubborness than anything _{maybe cos am really stubborn} I like the challenge. Its invigorating. I like a good fight.

babes you've been with this guy for 3and a half years and he's 31 now.

let me ask you a question: when you both met did you contemplate what the future would be like?

I think you have wavering faith in your man in terms of finances. If he is hardworking, you do know that in a couple of years things will be very different.

Are you both talking about your feelings? From what you have written it doesn't look like you have. Now i dont mean nag him in any way but rather make him aware of what is going on in your head.

Your dad is not a problem at this point. You both need to iron out some issues before you approach the question of your dad because united heads are stronger. Any loving father is ultimately looking for the comfort of thier daughters. It only makes sense that he's protective towards you.

so if you both are not on the same page, . . . . . it's only safe to say that your dad will rip it apart.

Goood luck tho.

thanks tsmack and bebe2007

Any body know any more places?