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HerexG:
As for me I'm of the opinion that "Sex before marriage" best suits our present age. I will use this short true life story to buttress my point. Please read this carefully and it should be a lesson to learn from, it's a true life story that happened to someone in my neighborhood just few months ago. The guy involved is a devoted church worker so he held strictly the church's "Sex after marriage"

It all started with "he's my brother in the Lord and she's my brother in the Lord". I got attracted to this my sister in the Lord Sis Funmibi, a devoted church worker as myself from the church but from another branch. So I thought to myself marrying a born again Sister from the church should be the best any man can ask for. After studying her character and her devotion to the church, I made my intention known to her. Sister Funmibi accepted my marriage proposal and fews days later we made our intentions known to our family and consequently the church. I was so excited that I have hit a jackpot for finding a lady like Sister Funmibi, as a church boy that I'm I must get married to her first before she can come into my house. So I kept fantasizing about our wedding night and her becoming my wife, so we further speed the marriage preparation up. I have always wanted to meet with my Fiancee's family church pastor for counseling but she will always stop me telling me that after all we are not getting there. To cut the story short, she chose a random church instead for our wedding. At this stage I have been blinded by her charms all I could think of is to bring her into my house.

Our wedding night wasn't as romantic as I thought it would be, we started making out kissing and carresing. I noticed each time I tried to press her left breast she she cry's out in pains saying " Please don't touch the left breast, you can touch the right one". I was like " waris happening here", she wouldn't even allow me to open the breast to see not to talk of sucking. We would have just sex without intimate pre-intimacy, I was thinking maybe it's because of her church background or that she's not yet used to me that's why she's behaving that way to me. She even finds it difficult to UnCloth or get dressed in my presence, I was like with time she should be able to change. Couple of months later Sis Funmibi my wife started falling sick, she will get better today but days later gets sick again. I will try to inquire from her Doctor what's exactly happening to my wife, he will mention one random common sickness. Until one day the doctor finally opened up to me that my wife has breast cancer. I was really devastated, I really felt cheated and deceived. She knew all these while that she has breast cancer and yet she kept it away from me. After battling to save her medically, spending the bulk of my resources to save her life, I finally lost her.

Now choose for yourself which is more ideal in our present world?

Your story does not add up and has nothing to do with sex before marriage.

To your topic,

My response to you is...

Acts 5:29 (KJV) ........ We ought to obey God rather than men.

ladiesreject:
Miss (or Mrs), which ever one.

Marriage and issue of life partner has nothing to do with church or God picking him/her for you.

Know what you want and go for it.
Someone like me cannot marry from Kogi State, Never!

If the girl like make she be virgin Mary.

My point is, keep religion aside.
Know the characteristics you want to see in your ideal husband, like age bracket, his height, his educational background, his financial status, his state of origin et'al.

The one that fits the bill and you're happy with is your husband.

All those God revealed to me that he's my husband or my prophet said this or that na WASH

You are two ignorant jare.. Go and have a relationship with God first before all these nonsense.

With all your likes and what suits you, you can't see tomorrow. The bible says, commit your ways to God and he will direct your paths.

Do you know tomorrow? Do you know the battles ahead?

You are too ordinary. Go first have a relationship with God.

For all, those who use the word "religion" freely are


mostly not Christians or true practicing Christians.

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The op, doesn't know what he is saying.

He thinks those PVC and underag voters will all vote for Buhari.


Joke... Buhari may not even run at ten last minute, when he sees things for himself.

This shows, there is no light.

Relax... In few months time, Buhari himself will be afraid to run for this election.

If you ask the govermor of the state about this, he will tell you, it never happened. That there is peace and people have returned to their farms and businesses.

So why should i worry

Don27tiky:
Nigerians don't be deceived. Politicians are now using bloodshed as a campaign tool. Though Buhari is too old to be our president now but we must be careful else we will end up electing those killing our people to discredit this government. I don't believe Buhari is behind the killings to give his regime a bad name. We must rise up to say no to politics of bloodshed

But GEJ was responsible during his regime.

NwaAmaikpe:



Only you failed,
Only you still doesn't want to give oga kpomo.

Now you think blackmailing him will make you pass.
My sister you are on a very long thing.

Your advisers have led you astray.
There's no how that old man would have gone longer than 4minutes and you would have gotten your cool A.

Now see your life.

Be very careful.

God needs you.

All these things shaped the, 2015 election. It was all over ALL Islamic fraternity.

Those, who can check posts history, can check mine.

I told people in various posts.

They now want to rally the Muslims for a terrible government.

It's shameful.

The implications of 2015 elections, is beyond comprehension.

From Buhari to Okorocha Rochas ?
Shiiiiittttt!!!!!

Demonicide:
If they do abortion now, na that same pastor go still call them murderer. That was how one sister did abortion all because of this pregnancy test before wedding. She now has blocked tubes now, the pastors commits atrocities than members sef.

Why must they go do abortion. Did God not say flee furnication?

We have to choose who we shall serve.

Emekus92:
I don't see anything wrong with pregnancy b4 marriage.


All sin na sin. A sin has been committed already, our God is a forgiving Father always ready to accept us when we confess our sins and forsake them.


I don't see y any pastor will chase someone away bcoz of sin against God that simply mean they are claiming to be god .

As Christians, God commands us to reprove unrighteousness.

Ephesians 5:11
And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them.

2 Timothy 4:2
Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all longsuffering and doctrine.


When you get born again and start walking with God, you will know and understand these things.

Any APC supporter can't see this as corrupt. In fact the question shouldn't arise

donbenie:
This is purely a PONZI SCHEME like MMM and got NOTHING to do with Bitcoin..try knowing the difference..

Is bitcoin a legal tender?

DTeekay:
Nigerians don't want to be patient when investing, true investment takes time to grow, I work as a financial advisor and some of the feedback I get when I introduce a profitable but slow growing investment to people is appalling, little wonder why they fall victim to fraudsters. My dear if you want to invest your money safely and profitably walk into either ARM office, Stanbic IBTC, Mansard or Ensure Nigeria PLC.

The margins are quite small to tie up your money. 15% per annum? That's crap.


Besides, please who knows about Amyn investment. Do they still exist?

Why are people supporting yahoo boys. How can we support evil for goodness sake....

Yahoo boys indeed.. Which lie.. Are they telling on the internet to make such money... People are going far into evil just for money.. and you are defending them.

Abeggyyy...

Definitely not Cairo.... That is, if we say, no okowa.

If you are chaste till marriage, you will be honoured.

Her husband was so happy when people gave positive remark about her. Why on earth will he not be happy for that.

Rather then people telling you, your wife had abortion for them... Like that comedian

vchykp:
Is alcohol a sin?

This particular topic has been bothering me, i once asked a Rev Father, who said its not a sin.

On the contrary i met another man of God(prophet) who said alcohol has an evil spirit in it, it has demons that controls who ever takes it.

But on friday, my cousin who happens to be a prophet came around and has been drinking Williams(beer) comfortably from my fridge and he said neither can alcohol stop his gift of prophecy nor possess him with demon.

I really need help concerning this topic and scriptures to back it up.

#thanks

Have you seen where people drink alcohol.. As in the shayo dey flow.. Ask your self if the Holy Spirit is working in the people there ...

Flee alcohol

Great!!!

These are the issue I ponder about in my corner with surprise that people are not interested in asking these pertinent questions.

The executive stinks... Faaaar more than the legislature.

It's unfortunate that people have been manipulated to always fight the legislature and defend the executives.

Nation news paper will have to work overtime on this issue.

I'm really not interested.

Even that tax card, you sure say dem no dey runs am?

Anything Tax for this country, no runs.

Probably when some people want to PH

CHAI!!!!

But they may not close that of Nigeria. Oh Chuddy is in Asia now.

Well, there are lots of such sites in Nigeria. So the GH -PH continues.

crestedaguiyi:
i am the one who said it, if they doubt me i will drive down to his church now and snap his church sign post. its on odili road precisly close to the the promise fast food

Correct.

yarimo:
Mtcheeew they are from port Harcourt or not, they are Christians and citizen of Nigeria

Arewa pastors, should have been smart enough to call themselves APC pastors.

I recall someone in the original thread said the fat man's church was somewhere around woji in ph.

But of course, they are your type, so you'll support them

sokera:
that tells you Buhari is democrats in nature than any other president Nigeria had ... for example the cunning way Saraki became the senate president, Buhari took it as democratic games , the issue of DSS Boss report against Efcc Boss Magu, and Buhari minister Aisha Alhassan openly said she would support Atiku against Buhari in 2019 election, Yes she still remain In Buhari Cabinet .. a lot more ... Buhri is indeed the most democrat President Nigeria ever had ... like him or hate him Buhari is not weak but Democrat in nature ...

May I know what is democratically wrong with how saraki became Senate president. Most of you keep saying it and I wonder what you people are saying.

Let's be honest. Oyegun is doing the right thing. The sudden change of opinion by buhari, is just to make tinubu happy.

But then, if the want the Congress, let it start immediately from the ward level.

Please can someone list Dino's offences for me. I seen not to understand the reason for the dislike for the man.

They will catch them for sure. With such killings?

They can't escape. If it takes time, them the government is involved.