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Family › Re: Husband and Wife in the same Profession? by Ndipe(m): 3:01am On May 30, 2007
My parents were in the same profession. As a matter of fact, my father was my mom's boss, and when he retired, she took over from him. There was no rupture in their marriage, regarding this, and they were married to each other till the 90's, when they sucumbed to death. So, there is no problem. As a matter of fact, I think it strengthens the bond of the relationship if you are matured about it.
Christianity Etc › Re: Was There A World Before Genesis 1? by Ndipe(m): 2:50am On May 30, 2007
http://www.christiananswers.net/q-aig/aig-gaptheory-problems.html

The above link attempts to debunk the notion of a pre-Adamic age.
Travel › Re: The New Yorker Magazine Article On Lagos by Ndipe(m): 10:44pm On May 29, 2007
For stating the obvious truth?@waxy? Why cant you take criticism?
Jokes Etc › Re: Expectant Fathers At Hospital Labour Room by Ndipe(m): 5:00am On May 29, 2007
smiley wink cheesy

Both are very funny, particularly the 2nd one.

Classic!
Travel › Re: The New Yorker Magazine Article On Lagos by Ndipe(m): 4:33am On May 29, 2007
For those of you attacking Jakumo's diatribe on Lagos, why can't you face the truth that the squalor in Lagos is appalling instead of excoriating him for baring his mind. Lagos is a dirty city, and at one point, was named the dirtiest capital city in the world. I'd like to think that most of us are Nigerians, and we care passionately about the affairs of our country. Like a loving parent who wont hesitate to smack their recalcitrant kid, rather than spoiling him, I think the writer was on point. I am actually surprised at the sentimental reaction of some board members, by blatantly defending Lagos. Tell me, would it have been any better if the writer had written a glowing report, filled with lies about the beauty of Lagos, complete with tranquility, sanity, and peace? Or, would you prefer if a true report of Lagos was written in the publication?

The truth is bitter at times, and from the write-ups on the board, most people would have wanted a more positive article about Lagos in the New Yorker. Sorry, that should not be the case. Let the truth be told no matter what. if you don't like, it, well, write a letter to OBJ or Yaradua and inform them to make life a bit decent for Nigerians back home. We can't expect foreign journalists (though, the article may have been embellished) to focus on the positives while abandoning the negative aspects of our country. If the New Yorker had painted a glowing tribute about Lagos, maybe our politicians would have congratulated themselves for a 'job well done' in making life better for the citizens. Same Nairalanders, who are criticizing the report, probably would have changed their tactics, and accuse the foreign journalist of being dishonest in their write up. Let the truth be told. If our leaders have ignored our masses for so long, maybe the article would spur them into action in ameliorating the deplorable situation back home. And you would thank the NYker journalist for it.

Now, I am reading about fuel prices in Nigeria hitting 75 naira. Even with people complaining of this inflated prices, if a journalist visited Nigeria and wrote a negative report on prices gouging of fuel at the station, would you still complain that foreign journalists are apt to write only negative stories about Nigeria, instead of focusing on the positive? Or would you applaud the article as a step in the right direction in exposing the ineffective leadership in our country?

Jakumo: Remember this saying by Star Jones Reynolds "You have to stand for something or you will fall for anything"
Travel › Re: What Did You First Experience In The US? by Ndipe(m): 11:01am On May 26, 2007
Dont know any Nigerian that stays in Oakland, but from my understanding, the city has a sizable number of our folks there. It's unbelievable that you live alone in Oakland. Like no family or friends from Nigeria? How did you land there? I don't frequent Oakland that much, aside from attending some of the Nigerian parties out there. Hit me up sometime.
Travel › Re: The New Yorker Magazine Article On Lagos by Ndipe(m): 9:04am On May 26, 2007
That Lagos is dirty is an understatement no doubt, but is New York any better? Inside Edition has been producing nauseating stories of rodents in NY restaurants. So, let the writer leave Lagos alone.
Travel › Re: What Did You First Experience In The US? by Ndipe(m): 8:59am On May 26, 2007
I only visit Oakland for certain Nigerian parties, so I don't know much about the area. However, Oakland has a large Nigerian population, something that is lacking in my neck of the woods. Someday maybe all nairaland members living in the bay area will have a mini get-together.

PS: whom are you living with in Oakland? I have always maintained that for a newbie, being around the Nigerian community eases homesickness to some extent. I am sure there are nice joints, frequented by Nigerians in your area.
Travel › Re: What Did You First Experience In The US? by Ndipe(m): 8:46am On May 26, 2007
Cant reveal, precisely, but I moved out here in the 90's.

I really missed (still do) Nigerian when I moved out here.
Travel › Re: What Did You First Experience In The US? by Ndipe(m): 8:37am On May 26, 2007
Oakland is about an hour drive from where I live . . . in the San Jose area. I sometimes attend Nigerian parties out there. But be careful, Oakland is notorious for crimes.
Family › Re: Why Are My Friends In Nigeria Always Asking Me For Money? by Ndipe(m): 2:51am On May 26, 2007
Feel you@omoege. I have also lost a friend back home, because I could not fulfil his outrageous demands. The guy even had the nerve to tell a former classmate of mine that our friendship was not working out, because of this reason. I say, don't lose sleep over it.
Travel › Re: Nigerian Girl 17 Who Travelled To Space by Ndipe(m): 3:08am On May 25, 2007
It does not make any difference to me. IF this is a Nigerian govt sponsored programe, they are better off utilizing that money in alleviating the squalid conditions of the country, instead of sending just one person to go to space. How can you justify a poor man driving a Lexus, while living in abject poverty?
Travel › Re: Nigerian Girl 17 Who Travelled To Space by Ndipe(m): 2:58am On May 25, 2007
What difference does Felix's trip to Space make to your life?
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Are U Are Christian , Why Christianity ? by Ndipe(m): 2:43am On May 25, 2007
I am a Christian, because Jesus Christ died for my sins on the Cross. Praise be unto His Holy Name Forever and Ever, Amen.
Travel › Re: Nigerian Girl 17 Who Travelled To Space by Ndipe(m): 2:42am On May 25, 2007
And what's the big deal about it?
Literature › Re: Sequel To "without A Silver Spoon" By Eddie Iroh by Ndipe(op): 11:58am On May 23, 2007
Yeah, my friend told me he was born on banana leaves. Could that book be a subtle autobiography of his? Well, what is he upto now? Back then, he had a magazine that probably folded up. And no, that summary was culled from sunnewsonline, so dont give me credit for that.
Literature › Sequel To "without A Silver Spoon" By Eddie Iroh by Ndipe(op): 12:39am On May 23, 2007
Dilemma of an indigent child
By SAM ANOKAM
Tuesday, May 22, 2007

PHOTO: THE SUN PUBLISHING

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The book Banana Leaves by ace broadcaster and former Director General of FRCN, Eddie Iroh is sequel to Without a Silver Spoon, a novel for young readers. In the story, the author celebrates African family setting as depicted by Ure Chokwe, the young boy from an indigent family, so poor he happens to be one of the children delivered on banana leaves at the back of the family compound.

Banana Leaves is the story of hardship as well as the saga of a family which found strength and survival in traditional values. The author uses proverbs, indigenous language and pictorial illustration to drive home his point.

In chapter one, the author takes a look at the protagonist who is elated to be free from school burden after passing out of primary school. He reveals with joy what the protagonist encountered during Christmas. The author by so doing takes us through his December experiences with vivid narration.

In chapter two, Chokwe’s first morning of freedom is certainly not as exciting as he had expected. The lone cockerel in the pen behind his compound wakes him up from sleep with his crew. He lauds his father’s wisdom in telling the time accurately without consulting the white man’s clock. Again, the author promotes traditional values in teaching morals, like when Dede (Chokwe”s father) calls his sons to his side whenever he wants to settle disputes among people.

Also when Chokwe and his friend Niko, disrespect an elder, they plead for mercy in view of the consequence that awaits their action.

In chapter three, Chokwe is angered at waking up and having nothing to do when the school closes. He recounts how he usually woke up early in the moving by the cockcrow to do his chores, after which he would rush off to to his teacher (Steve) in whose house he served as househelp. For instance, the issue of late arrival to school always attracts punishment from the head master. The pupils dread this trepidation. Disicipline was the order of the day to avoid confrontation.

In chapter four, the central character continues in his reflection of the past concerning his sojourn with teacher Steve, his benefactor, for the first time, he laments his family’s status. The decision of the teacher to drop the bombshell that he has been transferred to another school brings his world to an end.
Three months after teacher Steve left, Ure wonders how his family would be able to send him to secondary school. He wonders why his father who is endowed with so much wisdom and honesty could not make it materially. Chokwe’s father taught him the importance and the power of the spoken word aside painting a picture of how poverty made them break the rule of entertaining visitors and the disgrace that followed suit.

In Chapters six and seven, Ure is taken to Port Harcourt by his uncle, Ikenna. He however expresses his disappointment that schooling is not included in the plan. The new environment dumb founds him as he sees different levels of development when compared to his village. He also has taken a larger responsibility of house work, than he used to have with teacher Steve.

In Chapters eight to ten, Ure recounts his first experience at Roxy cinema where his uncle works. As an 11 year old naïve boy, he is soon carried away by the photo tricks and fictions of the movie as if they are real. The author points out the effect of the cinema on youths, as if it is another form of education which can impact negatively or positively. Ure lament the absence of secondary school education three months after arriving the city. His uncle came out with the idea of augmenting his income by turning him into a hawker at Roxy cinema and his first night in the hawking business was a total disaster as he recorded a huge loss. And as a result his uncle gave him the beating of his life.

Chokwe in chapters 11 and 12, is fond of going to the cinema, and comes in contact with new friends who ultimately become a street gang. His uncle who is only interested in the proceeds from the hawking business did not notice his changing attitude. He gets involved in a street fight. With that, the author contrasts city life to that of the village where everyone cares for children and are ready to discipline them. Despite the upsurge of fortune for his uncle, Chokwe’s secondary education remains a mirage. He frequently writes home with the tone of his letter stating all is well but he dare not mention his involvement with street gang as this would break his father’s heart.

Chapter 13 dwells on the morals of child upbringing. Chokwe himself blames his street life on his uncle’s betrayal and refusal to send him to school despite the enormous wealth at his disposal.

As with every criminal gangs, in chapter 14, the quest for revenge over the humiliation of their gang leader, becomes top priority. Chokwe never anticipates such a manner of revenge which Tinto has in mind-Robbery. For the first time since his arrival at the city, he tested cigarettes and participated in the first robbery attempt to which he unwillingly obliged.

Chokwe’s conscience pricks him in chapter 15, over his participation in the robbery which takes its toll on him. He records low sales due to fear of being spotted by the victims of their robbery. This thought weighs him down and later gives way to sickness although he refuses a share of the loot as a result of his moral upbringing.

The author completes the scintillating story as Chokwe’s day of reckoning comes when he returns from the tap to face the woman whose shop they robbed. He is summoned by his uncle, gripped by fears and finally admitts his fault.

Afterwards, his uncle realises that Chokwe has made a bold statement and he too admits to his fault. Chokwe apologizes to his uncle and the latter promptly forgives him and realises that sending him to school is the best alternative.


http://www.sunnewsonline.com/webpages/features/arts/2007/may/22/arts-22-05-2007-001.htm
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Literature › Re: African Literature by Ndipe(m): 12:34am On May 23, 2007
I prefer the first generation of African writers to the current crop. Very talented writers.
Christianity Etc › Re: The Best Christian Book You Ever Read; Recommend It Here To Others by Ndipe(m): 10:15am On May 22, 2007
Do you have the book at home? I read it when I lived in Nigeria, so I can't recall the exact page number of the book that refers to the brothers of Jesus Christ as the son of Joseph.

Read this link.

http://www.truthorfables.com/Desire_of_Ages.htm

I culled the above from the internet.
Car Talk › Re: Which Brand Of Car Has The Best Fuel Economy? by Ndipe(m): 12:34am On May 22, 2007
@ivie, it's her choice to drive a navigator, so I have no sympathies for her. Cut your coat according to your cloth.
Christianity Etc › Re: The Best Christian Book You Ever Read; Recommend It Here To Others by Ndipe(m): 3:51am On May 21, 2007
I really liked Desire of Ages, but the authors were trying to tow the line of Catholicism when they suggested that the brothers of Jesus Christ were actually Joseph's sons from a previous relationship.
Nairaland General › Re: How Did You Spend Your Weekend? by Ndipe(m): 3:16am On May 21, 2007
My weekend was nice. I attended an Art and wine festival and in the evening, drove an hour plus for a wake-keeping ceremony at a family friend's place. Headed home past 1 a.m and missed getting into an accident, Thank God. There was this abandoned car, - presumably, it had been in an accident- on my lane, that I had just noticed. As soon as I saw it, my heart beat accelerated, a sign that I had just missed being in a car accident. I stepped on my brakes, hoping that I caught it on time and then swerved to the left lane cautiously and drove off. My happiness: Thank God for preventing an accident on my way. My regrets? I should have called up the cops about this abandoned car, to prevent any accident. It was a close shave indeed.

Today, was at the festival again, and then attended evening services. Now back at home, writing my experiences on Nairaland.
Literature › Re: Best African Author: Wole Soyinka or Chinua Achebe? by Ndipe(m): 12:46am On May 21, 2007
Nobody needs a Nobel prize to prove that they are literary geniuses.
Literature › Re: We Need To Write And Publish More Books In Nigeria by Ndipe(m): 12:30am On May 21, 2007
What's your obsession with writing and Nigerian women, Orikinla? For goodness sake, not everybody is cut out to be a writer. There are females and males also in admirable and notable professions that is of greater benefit to the society than writing. And for those who value marriage over career, I say, more grease to their elbows. Dont even attempt to place more emphasis on writing over marriage.
Music/Radio › Re: 'Nigerian' Hip Hop Doesnt Make Sense by Ndipe(m): 11:50am On May 20, 2007
Oh, so it is now Nigerian hip hop. What happened to fuji? Cant they be original instead of 'copying' their African American counterparts?
Family › Re: Prenuptial Agreements by Ndipe(op): 11:26am On May 20, 2007
Its quite ironic, that while American women would be aghast at the idea of bride price in Africa, comparing it to 'purchasing' a commodity in the market, they are in the same vein, during divorce, requesting that the property should be shared equally. Their reason? While the man was busy bringing home the bacon, they were home preparing it, for family meals. This was really played out during the split of one famous top shot in the country, Gary Wendt. Honestly gold diggers need liberation too. Let them better themselves, instead of relying solely on a man to cater for them.
Car Talk › Re: Your Car Is 'Not An Investment!' by Ndipe(m): 10:10am On May 19, 2007
10 thousand Naira a month for gas? That's not bad, especially, if you are making over 2 million Naira a year in Naija.

For those who regard their cars as liability, I have to ask again, of what purpose is your investments, if you can't reap the fruits of your labor? Finance 'experts' always allude to the wealth of millionaires by pointing out that their frugality is the essence of their wealth. Count me out of it! What is really the point in investing and investing, getting returns without spending it? If I can afford it, I will drive a nicer car. I wont have a million dollars in my account and drive a honda or or some other car, especially if I can afford it. In the long run, sometimes, older cars may cost you more money than buying a new one. Living thriftly, while saving up penny and penny, without reaping them eventually is not my kind of lifestyle.
Car Talk › Re: Which Brand Of Car Has The Best Fuel Economy? by Ndipe(m): 7:19am On May 19, 2007
Well, some peeps back home are commanding 3 million naira a year, so for them, the prices of gas is chicken feed.
Politics › Re: Obasanjo May Marry Liberian President by Ndipe(m): 11:45am On May 18, 2007
Somze, that was a nice reply.
Car Talk › Re: Your Car Is 'Not An Investment!' by Ndipe(m): 11:38am On May 18, 2007
What's all this obsession with money? If you feel your family members comprising of your wife, children, siblings, and parents are liabilities, then, do you really think you are better off, locked up alone wining and dining on roasted beef, without any company? What misery you would feel, because your thoughts were fixated on accruing money, at the expense of your loved ones.

As much as I am fairly knowledgeable with finances, I completely disagree with the idea of cars being a liability. If I was worth millions of dollars, I would treat myself to a nicer car, than what I am driving. I wont harbor the notion that 'cars are a liability' and as such, opt for an inexpensive car. That's the route that misers take. So, take it easy. Live simply, contentedly and quit obsessing over money.
Travel › Re: African City Skyline Pictures by Ndipe(m): 5:07am On May 18, 2007
Abidjan is beautiful!


Yaounde, not Douala, is the capital of Cameroon.
Culture › Re: Ghanaian (Ashanti) Dating Nigerian (Igbo) by Ndipe(m): 3:02am On May 18, 2007
Globalaid, you don visit Ewe part of Ghana before, like Ho and Keta?

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