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I came to visit my cousin here in Agoo palace this evening, he called his babe and while coming she came with one beautiful friend of hers. We were drinking at Nice Touch hotel this evening and discussing things randomly, the beautiful girl start bragging and ranting on how the person that will marry her must be a Landlord. She bragged so much that I decided to know her worth and what is giving her that gut so I engaged her for a discussion, my cousin smiled and kept quiet because he knew me.
I asked her:babe are you an alumni of which institution?
Babe ans:eh? I don't understand what u mean
I asked :I mean are u a graduate of which school?
Babe ans:my brother I schooled at urban girls onitsha
I asked:which means u are not a graduate?
Babe ans:I am not
I asked :what do u do for a living?
Babe ans:sales girl 'my cousin coughed'
I asked:don't be offended, how old are u?
Babe ans:32
I asked: u have a boyfriend presently right?
Babe ans:well shaa I have
I asked:what is he doing for a living?
Babe ans:haa y all this question
I just want to know, u are looking for a landlord as a husband whereas u have nothing to bring to the table. Only beauty? School u no go, handwork u no get and money u no keep then what will attract a landlord ur way? No be even say u still be small pikin o, if u come this world as an okro seed, u don dry to be eaten, u will be kept as a seedling for next year cultivating section. Why bragging and ranting that after all girls way de marry landlords no get 2 heads, I pity for ur present boyfriend because paying Bills will kill guy man and he will be enduring because he is dating a fine girl.
At this moment my cousin no fit endure the laughter he has been hiding so he let it out, the girl begin Para o o, that am insulting her. She nearly fought me while shouting, I told her it's not an insult but an advice in disguise from an elder spokesman o o. Mellow down and work on ur self first, find something doing because Sales girl no be work. At least with ur earnings u will not only help ur self but ur boyfriend also, struggle and build something with him and by God's grace u will be able to help him become a landlord that u so desire. He no go use u play in future and he will hold u in high esteem.
Landlord fit come marry u as u wish but be prepared to be a second wife or marry a widower with grown up kids.
Beautiful babe carry vex comot go home without waiting for her friend. I told my cousin babe say I no do her friend bad o, na advice I give am na em my cousin babe shout Kingsley u get bad mouth! I even thought u are a gentleman. Na Bad Thing I Do?

Give me ur whatsapp contact bro, I will like to dm u directly

Evaromantik:
Coding will be too heavy a duty for a married woman, but not impossible anywhere.

I will advise you try blogging. There are several niche in blogging that has not been touched yet. Relationship advise, marriage tips, child raising tips, cooking/food blog etc.

Don't be tempted to go into the stale News, Gossip, Music or Sports niche. It will be a waste of resources and time, unless you have a different strategy.

I sent u an email bro, I want us to discuss. Am also in anambra and I need u to guide me

abimic:
But for one, why would the guy keep doing what his girlfriend doesn't like?

such is life bro, we human are unpredictable u know?(rhetorical question thou) but we have to be prayerful and keep working to improve our selves and not to impress others. What am saying is this sir, if she rush into a new relationship with the impression that the new guy is buoyant pass her ex then it may backfire. If she rush into a new relationship just for empathy (closing vacuum) it may also backfire. She need time, peace of mind, prayers and counsel to put her life back in track then she hope and pray for God's intervention bro

Mrlouis:
WHERE DID YOU GET THIS FROM? THAT NURSE YOU CLAIM YOU ARE ABOUT TO WED, DO YOU TREAT HER BAD BECAUSE SOME OTHER GIRL IN YOUR PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP CAUSED YOU PAINS?

no I did not, I took my time to get myself and work on myself 1st.i wasn't expecting to enter into any relationship when I met her, I stayed years without any defined relationship until I met her. Still It was not my intention to enter into a relationship with her until she started getting me interested, so I gave love a chance. Is she ready for such? Am not concluding on her behalf sir, am just asking

abimic:
Couldn't be said any better bro.

The girl deserves her happiness just as everyone else, so it's in her best interest she quit, because no matter what, she would always be disrespected by him as she has showed she needs the relationship more. Happy New Month.

I wish u d best brother. The problem with her type is that any relationship she venture into with this pathetic state of her will be a disaster, the new guy will suffer because he will be at the receiving end. She will show d guy pepper and the relationship will not be enjoyable, either d guy keep enduring or he will leave for a better lady. Then this same girl will start writing again ALL MEN ARE THE SAME

abimic:
Wishing you a blissful home ahead bro, nowadays, na when woman love pass, na im sure pass o.....so your mind would be at peace....It is obvious the op loves the guy more, so she should avoid the guy, because no matter what she does, the guy is done with her and would keep disappointing her as they would always have issues over irrelevant things.

This is a red flag, op should disappear from the relationship and set a standard for herself.

fact sir, u just said it all. The problem we normally have is that we already know the truth but when the truth is not favorable to our desire, we start forcing things even when we know that we are building a time bomb. A bomb we know will eventually burst one day, a broken relationship is far better than divorce. The world don't care who the architect of d divorce is, it's already a stain in ur records

Is this a prophecy or a tactical prediction? Just wanna know my man of God

Michelle55:
You've being told in your previous post to let go and move on yet you refused, I wonder what other tips you want that would help you to move on.
Learn to appreciate yourself and your peace of mind first then everything would fall into place, you guys weren't meant to be and it's time you give yourself a pat on the back and move on.
I do know how you feel because for the first time in my life, I experienced heartbreak too. Omo, I wan die it wasn't easy but I'm glad I've got good people around who helped me forge on. Just count it as your loss and be alert in your next relationship, the breakfast go reach everybody las las. Be happy for no one is worth the stress

word, God bless you nwanne.

U alone knows what your heart wants, no amount of advice can change it. U are already full of remorse and regret, can u be sincere to ur self and not us? U love him a lot right? u still want him, even if it true that he is secretly dating or want to date her, u don't care anymore. U just want him back cos u are seriously missing him, u seriously want him cos u seriously love him. I have been in ur shoes my dear, I broke into pieces in 2016 to d extent that I considered Suicide. I lost a lot of money trying to secure Dubai visa just to walk out of her sight at that time, my house rent expired and I closed my apartment and run back to my dad's residence. STILL I survived without running back to apologize for doing nothing. I am getting married by d grace of God by January to a lady that I don't even deserve, she is too good for me and my family so much love her even when she is not my tribe. Prayerful, a nurse, hardworking, caring and understanding. Me I love her so much but she love me more,
Babe review ur self again to know if u were a blessing or a curse to him, will he later regret it when u move on? Or he don't give a damn, u know y I asked? My ex accused her girl when they were quarreling of recent that she was d reason y I left"that she gossip about her to me" and it's not true. My life now is better than before, so check ur self and work on ur self

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FahBuLous:
It's only FOOLS that make the kind of comments you make...
Thicker fools quote reasonable people like me and show forth their foolishness...
Bro, with all due respect, you are a fool...

eiyaaaa, so u quote me at d 1st place because you are a fool? anu mpama

FahBuLous:
But if Messi forfeited his wage and still stayed at Barcelona, you fool will still say he doesn't wanna leave his comfort zone, that he knows he won't make it outside Barcelona...
Ronaldo fans are the most useless football fans I have ever seen... But don't worry, e never begin the pain you yet, wait till he hits Juventus with PSG

oga u don't have to show ur stupidity by calling names here, the term FOOL should be referred to you cos everyone is airing his view without insults Untill a FOOL like u come in

Ghostrye:
Imagine being in the same club for so many years and then having to leave, even if you want to leave, won't you get emotional

it's normal to get emotional bro but if he values all those things he will leave behind, you leave then? He have d capacity to play a whole season there without collecting a dime and still he will not shake financially. The club is in financial mess that's y they can't renew their contract, maybe he is crying for the money

Freestainworld:
There's time for everything, he came, he saw, conquered, he is leaving for good, those criticizing him because of money should know that footballer's are equally business men who earns their money with their legs, no business man will want to toil with his business.

the critics are not cos he left but why the crocodile tears?

What is d benefit of weed intake in general biko?

Wetin go come happen to the 8 fowls and 4 crates of beer wey we contribute in respect of the Monday?

Since it's free oga share it here

habsydiamond:
are you just knowing.... The only categories of girls that you won't see having sagging breasts are those that are 6years or below. Another reason will be that those don't have breasts at all... Flat chest type, cos what is not there can not sag.

u nailed it brother, what is not there can never sag

Umunwanyi, u never know with women

Always thank God that you are not from Nairaland, em sorry I mean Nigeria.

Ebami Eda is the true activist,

habsydiamond:
are you just knowing.... The only categories of girls that you won't see having sagging breasts are those that are 6years or below. Another reason will be that those don't have breasts at all... Flat chest type, cos what is not there can not sag.

my brother e shock me o, u have a point u know

@16 and their breast is already sagged like this? God have mercy

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That means one have to go and purchase a car key to be qualified to chase her, go get one

PeaceforNigeria:
Well she was stoned tired and wanted to sleep. She was under the influence of drugs he bought for her.

u have good point sir,

Invitation for drinks or money in Nigeria is an invitation for sex biko nu, it's either you decline or u just shave abeg. What is d op saying? U drink and do drugs with him and u don't want to finish what u started by having sex

danietohbadt:
How come we didn't know this until Buhari banned twitter?

deep question, oil de ur head bro

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