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Skyview01:
If i find my wife with a man, do you think i am going to attack her and go to jail?

Hell no! I would simply divorce and move on.

That guy in that video must be diametrically demented.

What you said you will do if faced with such circumstance is what a level headed person should do. As I always say, never destroy yourself over any spouse.
I will also go as far as saying, few women if any is worth dying for. As it is asked, can you die for me? Omo, hell no! Yeah, one should defend his family. But defend your life also.
From early marraige, tell your wife to never provoke conflict. Tell her to keep her mouth shut. Eg you are both in the car cruising, someone almost hits your car, she then starts cursing at the fellow.
She drives out, someone hits her car, she comes out and slaps the man, omo, you are on your own. That kind fight, you no go see me. My madam suv twice them bash am, she no go talk, na to bring moto come house, we fix am. Lol
My brother, go jail or even loose life or limb over woman matter, tops 1 year, if na good woman, another man don de climb am. If the late hubby come be rich man weh leave better money and assets, na flenjor and enjoyment in the new found freedom laced with cash she go de enjoy come add small small gigolos join. Lol

NewDea4:
The money wey dem thief for eight years, now-now e done finish sef

Na why people like Fashola, Akpabio, Fayose & co no wan leave public 'service' till dem die be dat

Useless thieves

Omo, that kind money de finish? Specially person weh be governor?
I been sabi one guy in one of the poorest states in the SW. They give am political appointment. This guy went on rampage, just de marry chicks up and down. Some relocate them abroad, some for lekki, vi etc.
This niggar had over 1.5b in just one account out of many. Just one position the fellow had ohh. Houses abroad, fully paid for, not modgage!
Look at that oga weh them send go jail for abroad over him sick pikin, na him pikin I feel for no be the guy, why? My paddy for US sabi am. He said way back then, years ago of how this man just de buy property for US as if na okada him de buy. He does not even see the house, once he is told of a property, him go just ask if the house fine, them tell am yes, oga don send money, as if dollar na paper!
Then imagine governor weh de handle the purse of the state.

BloomingDale:
Most women are brainwashed into worshipping the men, especially by the Bible written by misogynists, and this message is drummed into the woman day and night to value the man above her, and see themselves as worthless especially when compared to the man.

Genesis, the beginning of the genes (DNA). Man came out of the woman but the Bible will tell you a woman came out of a man. Even nature will let you know it’s neigh impossible for a man to birth anything. Without the female plant all living things will cease to exist.

Nature is rectifying the natural order of things and women are waking up, albeit slowly. The major impediment to their awakening is the book of lies known as the Bible. This same book makes the black man to worship the white man cos the book gave them a white savior known as Jesus.

Despite the truth in what you wrote, you must consider the fact that adultery in a marraige is more unacceptable for married women. Could it be because of paternity fraud? Possibly. It is not peculiar to Africa alone, but worldwide. That is the fact we must live with, in this case, the woman was accused of being an "area fucker", in other words, a cheerful giver. She is lucky her husband is level headed, some have lost their lives.
Her circumstance, could be financial or itchy pant, afterall, I know married ladies that call my paddies till date, young and grown married women, sending nudes, videos, and I mean full videos, not even hiding their faces, one that recently gave birth to the second puppy 3 weeks later was sending videos and it was so disgusting he sent her some money and then blocked her! Married woman, saying the Kongo is still sweet! Is that what a spouce will condone? People should call it quits rather than bring such humiliation to their family. If they cannot leave the marraige, then they should avoid being caught.
Afterall, it is said the cheating spouse is the one that has been caught.
The husband was calm headed, some have lost their lives.
Don't watch if you do not have the balls.
https://twitter.com/000_esi/status/1419035944485801987?s=20

helinues:
That nonsense should be stopped.

Why should they be receiving double salary ?

Lots are wrong about our constitution

Pension for ruling as governors for 8 years and amassing wealth for several generations. Collecting pensions from poor states, money for suffering masses.
Anyway, who is the originator of this pension issue for ex governors? I think it is a fallacy to think such individual gives a hoot about average Nigerians.
Yeah, a 21 year old can be bought a flat for 2.5m dollars, another a town house for $11m, likely from questionable, u explained sources of income linked to state resources, yet folks still hail and praise despite being subjected to penury, urged to manage for better tomorrow, yet the political leaders and their puppies have their own tomorrow today.

Lol

Since gov cannot protect citizens, why not allow them bear arms? Imagine if a community is armed, who will go there to claim gunmen? They will serve the garri with hot lead.

Lanre1st:
Where is the man she committed adultery with

Oga, I assume it was the hubby that raised alarm. The man has more business with his wife than with the man. Afterall if the wife did not open totex, Stranger will not blokos her.

Did you ever see the below video? Things could have gotten worse.

Viewers discretion.
https://twitter.com/000_esi/status/1419035944485801987?s=20

BloomingDale:
They did not parade the man? Jesus would have asked for the man she slept with, asked the people parading her if they have no sin, forgiven her and asked her to go on her merry way. A lesson on hypocrisy.

See as the men gather round her like vultures. The seed of Satan hating on the seed of the Woman, always screaming they are the head. The woman should have crushed that their coconut skull as she has been given the victory.

But the person shouting the most is a lady.

Nchoje34:
Cheating is extremely wrong especially when it is an extra marital affair..... just that society do not punish men quite enough when found guilty but ruthless to the female gender

Question is, in African culture which we are domiciled, can a woman have more than 1 husband? A man certainly can have more than one wife and it is acceptable. In that case, while it is wrong to cheat, it is considered acceptable for men, but looked at with scorn, a taboo for women.
A woman can give a man a child that is not his. A child from fornication. Patanity fraud.

Me looking at the US like this,

This charlatan will surely wound himself with chest pain.
Nothing as painful as throwing tantrums at a someone, and the person ignores you.

SmartPolician:
Oga, I work online 24/7. Come on Nairaland to relax whenever I need a break. That comment you made should go back to you.

You moved from selling yeye app to promoting an ex-druglord whose true identity is shrouded in secrecy and fraud.

You de mind the mumu man?
Guyman like that vulture meat seller. They claim to have businesses, but reach them to patronize them and they take off.
Ask this fellow for his imaginary free stuff. You go ask taya. All from for 30k bmc money.
30k is now 30 gpb. Just enough for a meal and cider for 2 at JD Weatherspoon.

cremedelacreme:
Those saying 450K is more than enough to buy a land and start building do not really understand how expensive things are in Nigeria today. I earn slightly above what the OP mentioned, but believe you me, it's not been easy. If you live in Lagos, Abuja or PH and you are married with kids, you will understand. A 2 bedroom flat in an average neighborhood is over 700K. Cost of fuel and car maintenance is over 60/70K monthly in recent times. School fees for 2/3 children is over 200K per term (600/800K annually). Feeding takes over 100K monthly. Utilities and other miscellaneous dey ooo. Best thing na just to save enough and japa.

What kind of vehicle do you use that 70k takes you for 1 month?
As I use more than 100k fueling 2 vehicles weekly. One does less walka than the other if not, it would have been almost 150-200k weekly.
Omo, naija is not easy now.

Racoon:
Wetin carry Putin go enter Egypt matter now? When it happened in his backyard he was busy sleeping on a bicycle.

Same thing weh carry US, EU and the rest take enter Putin backyard.
Hope you know say it is likely the west wan remove sisi from Egypt as he is a strong proponent of brics. Same as they tried to do recently during the elections in turkey and even staged a coup few years ago.
Countries having an independent foreign policy, not taking orders by the westerners, challenging the dominance of the dollar and western financial dominance will be faced with cia sponsored disability.
Let our oga at the top champion keeping some of our foreign reserves in yuan or the proposed rival to the dollar and watch how the US will fish out a campaign of calumny against oga, first in private to streighten him out, and if he does strong head, demonize him and even go as far as causing instability.

ChatterHouse:
lawlessness at its peak

Oga, I use to know a foreigner that worked at a gym. Muscle guy from Togo or Cameroon cannot remember. Heavy scammer. He scammed so many customers. Once he even scammed some aboki fx dealer. Was arrested. Legend has it he uses jazz on women, because it was alledged he started nacking the oga popo that her officers were investigating the case. Infact, case changed against the aboki
Funny thing is that I was driving pass one day and saw this fella beating a lady and a guy with military belt. He was driving a hilux. Oga don become military officer. High officer, I think they said he was a major! How? Even on his whatsapp profile, he had picture of himself in full naija army uniform, once, even with other officers! No be juju be that? How can a foreigner, gym instructor instantly become a high ranking army officer within 1 year of not seeing him?
Anyway, all man just mind their business. Afterall, in naija anything can happen.

God1000:
True, Our roads have become very empty because so many people cannot even fuel their vehicles anymore

Is this dividends of democracy?

Guy, I drove from Egbeda to oshodi 2 days ago, no traffic. On a working day ohh. I was scratching me head wondering what was happening.

E de work? Who don try am abeg.
Anyway, the truth of the matter is that all these enhancement mixtures, pills etc sold are just normal agbo and the rest. Some, majorly honey. The active ingredient is either cialis or sildanefil they buy, crush and add to the mixture.
Then charge a high price. Basically all you have bought is ₦350 vira for 10, 20, 30k.

If the federal government cannot take it's responsibilities seriously, they should legalize arms. Let citizens get vetted to own pistols, shot gun and assault rifles as is done in the US. The least a citizen should have is his ability to protect his life, family and livelihood!
Imagine people in a community having legal arms, will this rubbish of gunmen raiding communities and imposing their devilish wish on them work? Will armed robbers approach a house when they know you have the ability to unleash lead on them? Abeg, enough is enough!
Governors in the south east should raise a pool of funds, atleast 100-200m usd and invite South African merceneries to do the work . Eg look at the decimation of Boko harm during the end of GEJ's tenure. Visit YouTube and see the action of private quick action strike teams in south africa and how they fight crime. Anyway oyobo de south africa.

Jeyun:
then select the Stations u buy petrol from. Total stations most times sells treated fuel but this particular total station at lasu road after igondo roundabout to iyanoba they don compromise. Petrocam for me Na no no. They dey mix full 30,000 litre form depot with condecent 15,000 original fuel 15,000 condecent fuel making it one truck 30,000 much profit for them now. Na wetin my friend Papa filling station for porthacort road that year for ahuoda East dey do, I buy 190 Benz under 2month after I graduate 2007. money too much for condecent that's why they no go fit stop Modula refinery finish. Just mind the kind of station u refill from.

Quite educating info. Thanks.

Jeyun:
Na condecent una dey buy, that is the by products of Modula refinery, most filling stations are now going for it to make much profit now that the original product is high. They load their tankers in the depot take it to the Stations those who can afford it the original product sell 15,000 litre to them take the tanker to the bush load it with 15,000 litre of condecent and send it back to the society to run their cars. If u are driving a brand new car v8 your name Na sorry after few months. Before now Na for North u go see mostly but since fuel subcidi e dey everywhere now.

I said it. Leaded fuel.
My madam de use v8 and I de use v6. Her working place no to far, ie about 5 kilometers away. Me, for my Waka, I burn atleast 12-15k daily!
Tomorrow morning, mechanic de come commot my throttle mouth, take am go ladipo for service, because I notice black sooth for the silencer. Ie incomplete combustion likely due to poor quality petrol.

fineboynl:
I don’t know if its just me.

The way fuel burns now eh is so alarming.

Very very correct. Even the fuel has a little odour. I think it is low grade leaded fuel.
I noticed little black smoke yesterday when the vehicle was left to idle with Ac on for a while. Touching the inside of the exhaust showed black sooth. Ie incomplete combustion, poor fuel economy.
Mechanic is meant to remove my throttle mouth first thing tomorrow morning. I will then send my assistant to take it to ladipo, I hear they charge 5k to service it.

Pacesetter123:
Which work those ones get to marry?
People wey majority of dem still dey kip plate for dia Mmama to dish food give dem na dem go marry?

Na wah. Naija settings de slow people lives.
At 25 a young man for uk don start to pay modgage for his first house as a young family. By 30 as family don grow, he sells the appartmemt with gain and upgrades to a bigger house etc.

Tareq1105:
The train has left you at the station.

Lolz,
Pls hold the train for me.

Earthquake and volcanoes? Watin concern naija with that one? Last I checked, we are not located on any geological fault line.

N3TRAL:
Under-25 men in Nigeria are not Bachelors. Take them off that list.

Why? Is it that those below that age are not old enough to marry or it is unusual in naija.

hyzich:
Wow, this is commendable. There is something about BAT that I really like which is attracting the best brains. It's no brainer that this committee will perform with their leader being the Tax guru himself.. we all know that revenue generation and treasury management is BAT forte so this should not come as surprise. I pray this works. For those shouting he appointed another yoruba. please show me a better Tax guru than Taiwo, check his profile and you'll be amazed I even thought BAT will give him the FIRS chair.

As far as the fellow has not worked or consulted with alpha betta. As far as alpha betta will crap will not be brought to federal level, where percentage of my taxes will go to a criminal organisation. No problem.
Furthermore, when you say best brains, Id say maybe, but will a touch of criminal enterprise. Look at all the fellows having one kleg in either their cv, or working life. Most liked to the oga at the top during his inglorious days in the US. One was disbarred as a lawyer in the US, another was indicted for credit card fraud in the 80s, one of his major aides was recently convicted and serving jail term in the US for same financial fraud, speaker was alleged not to have graduated and neither attended law school. Another a governor is facing litigation over his Waec certificate. The lost goes on and on.

I trust Lagos police,
They don't joke I with kind of matter.
Stupid "businessesman" that wants to go to jail because of "totex".
Hope it is a female police prosecutor and a female judge that handles his trial.

wallrichy:
Subsidy must quickly be granted by FGN or else, this could lead to large importation of fake and dangerous drugs into the country. It's should be treated as an Emergency Infact...Nigerian are really suffering for a better tomorrow presently....

Is it today Nigerians started suffering for a "greater tomorrow" ?
Pardon my asking, how old are you? (no disrespect intended).
Why I ask, is that this same suffering today for good tomorrow has been said since the early 80s, from the time of Buhari, to ibbs SAP, to abachas time and till date. Nigerians have never gotten it better despite the sacrifices. The only people that have gained are government officials, amassing wealth and living large.
The person currently telling you to endure is still collecting pension from a state he governed for 8 years and grew rich from. Buying $11m mansion, flats of $2.5m for 21 year Olds. Allegedly proceeds from our common wealth, yet we should endure for a greater tomorrow.
All this is not new, read about ibbs SAP, incase you were not there then, that is exactly what is happening again. Devaluation of the naira based on recommendation of the imf, world bank etc. Removal of subsidy.
Nigerians are being impoverished daily. Soon you will price brand new corolla for 80m, tokumbo 2003 corolla for 20m.
Anyway, you and I, the righteous will survive.

Very true. Soon folks will not be able to buy medicine.
I bought augmentin few weeks ago for ₦12,000.
But I hear if you show one party id card or you tell them you are an indigene of a part of the country, they sell it for 1k.

Na wah.
He surely will be caught. Scap yards, iron smelting yards should be put on notice.
A bounty should be put on his head based on this video.