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stanliwise:
if little things could make you do some certain things then it goes to tell you are kinda made for that thing.

Cheating is not easy, trust me, but it isn’t so for people who are made for it, people who are natural cheat do it so easy without too many contemplation. Saying money or materials was the cause is a far cry from reality.

Money and materials are just nothing but spices to make it sweeter

People cheat for many reason, but many ladies cheat because that man has lots of money. You can deny it all you want, still doesnt change the fact.

Kobicove:
Is it only ladies that cheat?

Did I say it was only ladies? Read please

stanliwise:
No that isn’t the inference. He was trying to connect two things that aren’t.
No one is causing anyone to do anything.

Everyone love bad things. We won’t just accept it. Cheating is something adventurous and human love it.

Call boys out or girls out is not addressing the issues in anyway.

SOMETHING DRIVES people into doing those things. For ladies MONEY is the major drive.

Nicenancy:
Is stealing and armed armed robbery equal

How about masturbating and gay

Fornication and adultery

Thank you

Sin is sin. Some may carry grave penalties though, while others may carry little penalties. Eg someone that steals and is caught can go to PRISON and if he is ARMED he may even be EXECUTED based on NIGERIAN LAW.

Fornication may not carry such penalties but it's still a sin.

Sinning against the HOLY SPIRIT is an UNFORGIVABLE SIN according to the BIBLE.

stanliwise:
Stop blaming gender for cheating baba... what is wrong with you all??

“So as long as most girls are materialistic and love the latest iPhones, wears, makeup, hairs, bags, shoes, you name it -CHEATING WILL ALWAYS EXIST. “

This quote is only sensible if we have more lesbians but hopefully we don’t.

Check the dictionary for the word consensual and after than check for the word Transactional.

You will see there are two side of same coin, there is no master an slave. They simply agreed to do and so it happened

Please dont be in a haste to comment. The inference from this post is men and women are both equally responsible when it comes to cheating and MONEY is majorly the root cause.

Offpoint1:
Cheating is having affair with others without your partner knowledge, taking another wife can't be described as such.

Funny but not true. With or without your partners knowledge cheating can happen. It may not even be physical.

Offpoint1:
Abandoning our culture and adopting the western culture is the reason, any other thing you mentioned are irrelevant.

Polygamy still dey African culture na. If I Marry a second wife while still married to a first is that not cheating of the highest level?

Mizwalterz:
if he is arrested for "not paying", then prostitution is legal.

if he is arrested for "rape", then he could has proof that it was an agreed arrangement for sex.

if he is arrested for "transferring cash form the ladies", then bank statement would save him.

if it's for "drugging", then wahala dey for him.

the judge would not set him free because people will follow his pattern.

Hmmm

Interesting perspective

lukui:
a girl looked at me to an extent and asked me IS YOUR D**CK WORKING?

because she just wonder why i dont carry woman all around the place, my neighbours also hiss, gossip and mock me whenever its time for prayer and i carry my kettle to go and pray,

they will be like IS HE GAY, CANT HE F**CK


so man thats the kind of world we are living in right now, BAD IS GOOD, AND BEING GOOD IS BAD



#MAYGODSAVEUS

You are correct bro. I remember when I was in the university some years back. A course mate of mine, a girl collected my phone with my permission and next thing she was in my gallery. She saw like 2 images of guys with nice build on my phone and was taken aback. She couldn't contain her thoughts, she accused me about why I had such pics on my phone, like she never took me for a gay and she knows I have a girlfriend and I'm into girls.

I laughed, then I showed her pics of me going to the gym and that I was trying to build my muscles to look like those guys. I keep them for comparison.

She laughed too but she was still eyeing me one kind, like hope this our fine bro hasn't crossed over to the other side.

Quote for materialistic girls

pozehnani:
Who's talking about indecent dressing here. I said make-up and the last I checked, make-up is not indecent.

As for who they dress for, that depends totally on individual as it's not everyone that dresses to attract the male folk evethough the men still get attracted whether it's for them or not.

I dont have to spell EVERYTHING OUT. You WEAR MAKEUP, and its part of dressing. Most make up today can be TERMED INDECENT cause they are meant to CONCEAL/DECEIVE the beholder, from the true extent of the beauty of the wearer.

You CONFIRMED that women WEAR MAKEUP for men, inorder to get a man. The goal post has been set straight. Thanks.

Xenry:
Women's matter again?

But it's the TRUTH.

pozehnani:
Meanwhile those are the kind of girls you men find more attractive and would pick any day over their counterpart who don't use all those artificial stuff.

Stop deceiving yourself. You'll agree with me that the artificially decorated girls would catch your fancy first before any adanma looking girl. Talk true. And that is why more and more girls are beginning to join the bandwagon of artificial beauty in order not to be left out and it's working for them.

Abeg shift!

This goal post has been shifted for far too long. Let's set it straight. You just said girls dress up to catch a guys attention, hence lots of girls are joining the bandwagon of indecency to catch other guys attention. So do girls dress for guys or for themselves?

Let me see as you perform magic in changing the goal post, cause you will.

WoundedLamb:
Lol... you people will blame women for everything including the way you fart.

I believe you read well. If you can you will you get this fact, that cheating are men and women's problem

Their are many reasons why guys cheat, but the number one reason for me is because THEY HAVE LOTS OF MONEY TO SPEND.

Most ladies LOVE MONEY because they love having ALL THE MATERIAL THINGS that money can buy.

If you have money, you can Cheat with almost any girl you like without saying a word or even much.

So I mistakenly horned while in a campus environment, I was in a nice SUV, belongs to my family and a group of beautiful ladies in front came and asked if I was calling either of them, I replied no. Some of them couldn't hide their disappointment and it was even in the afternoon and not evening. I came to pick up my sister from her hostel that day.

Truth is even if I was calling them, at that moment they dont care my relationship status- infact most dont want to even know. Truth is no guy could drive that SUV and still be single. He must have a girlfriend, a wife, is a gay or if he truly is single he must either be a priest or totally despise women. So those girls never truly cared about my relationship status and yes I am not single.

So as long as most girls are materialistic and love the latest iPhones, wears, makeup, hairs, bags, shoes, you name it -CHEATING WILL ALWAYS EXIST.

Those goodies wont buy themselves unless with MONEY, and even the few girls that have money like my sister, DONT LIKE TO SPEND THEIR OWN MONEY MOST OF THE TIME. THEY PREFER DAD'S OR MOM'S MONEY OR BIG BRO'S MONEY.

Cheating isn't men's fault alone, women are very much involved and are enablers. If most girls can reject materialistic things, cheating in our society will greatly reduce.

Onyi22:
From my inbox
I met this guy in my final year in school, we almost shared the same view in life, he possesed all the qualities I need in a man.
He's so caring, kind, handsome, a good pay Job n from a humble home, I can't deny the fact that I Love him,
But the issues is that he's a Muslim while am a christian lady,
Pls house does religion matters in marriage
Cc Fynestboi
Cc Lalasticlala
Cc Roctation

If he later marries more than one wife because of his RELIGION don't complain o

chatinent:
I'll mind my business.

For me I'll be diplomatic. Tell everybody whatever the hell they need to hear so I can have peace and one solid family.

As marriages these days are no longer for a lifetime but last less than 10 years, especially celebrity marriages - is it a wise decision for a husband or a wife to make enemies for themselves for their spouse, whether it is extended family, close friends, business partners etc?

Or is there a better way?

Prince Harry and Meghan is the reference case. What happens IF their fairytale ends? Especially with Prince Harry in particular.

Lucrativress:
No problem Sir..

Thanks young lady

Oiza131:
Alright then
It's ok
Thanks for responding though

You are welcome.

Oiza131:
Maybe
I wasn't expecting the previous message you sent from the person I thought it was.

You speaking in parables, dont get you. Couldn't retrieve my mail password, could have replied you there.

Oiza131:
Yea
I'm sorry, my mistake.
Just confirmed.

Hello, how are you?

so it was a mistake?

oma19:
I'm not trying to speak ill of you no body is perfect, someone once told me that I'm selfish when it comes to a relationship after I listed what I want. relationship comes in different ways but you need to compromise. peace

Thanks.

dannyrhymes600:
see how some girls are being praised while two monikers are sidelined, no positive thing to say about them, na wah oh.
op more oil to your shiny head, you be better pikin.
wait oh, has anyone seen biglittlelois, my crush since time immemorial

Thank you jare!

Lucrativress:
sorry I can't
you'll have to device a way if you want us to speak..
you have several option's
either use another Key to open the Door or just change the lock and open the Door

Young lady, I'll think about it. But I dont want to open another moniker, so on this one, I am making no promises.

Jsaviour:
Thanks for the appreciation.

I'm glad it's not always fight as usual.

More grace to you

And you too

Neobulletzz:
Lol my brother no be only you like better thing ooo

It's late, you are disturbing my baby. Haba

Lucrativress:
no comment..

I get what you mean. I cant send you a mail cause I cant access it here, lost the password. You can drop yours in anybody's post anytime this week, just mention me , I'll get it and reply.

Not now though, hungry wolves everywhere.

Lucrativress:
you'll get to find out in our Neighbors House,if we ever make it there

Hmmm. I know it will be sorted and turn out well.

Lucrativress:
smh
you sha want your pride intact abi
don't worry,I go fall your hand

I worry less about my pride, I am just into our conversation. Leave out everybody else.

Lucrativress:
No
that's not why I'm shy

What other reason is there?

Lucrativress:
You were meant to walk out quietly but now you've made me shy in public

How will I test how true it is if not in public. It's good you are shying, very good.