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Hatima:
Thank you so so much!

You are welcome, have fun!

Erojepromise:
thanks for the appreciation.

You are welcome.

Jeon:
Zzor, fati2001

Guy how far you?

Cakhama:
Muchos gracias.

You're welcome, ciao

showafrica:
Tell me one electronics that does everything... Even computer needs power.

I dont know

pretteemee:
Wowoo...never seen a NL guy talk good about the ladies, it has always been Slandering.

Thank you, I really do appreciate�

Oil dey your head. Thank you too

TheVictim01:
If women knew of the gift they have, GOD entrusted them with that worth of more than an angel.
Zzor, fati2001 and unamamatoto1

Shit, not this ones o . You are looking for trouble o

pozehnani:
Thanks a bunch, dear.

You're welcome.

TheVictim01:
Specially for you, I'd modify.

Thank you sir, if you can mention a moniker or two it would be splendid!

TheVictim01:
Evening newspapers get in here.

I like you sir but those words are not nice.

dairykidd:
Op wtf is the objective of this exercise because.. Ohh ur appreciating female monikers.. This is soo touching n overwhelming. It brought tears to my eyes... for u

So you dont have any worthy female moniker to post abi?

vickydevoka:
Na scammer him be. All na format

You are sure, okay.

Yes o, everytime shouldn't be fight or a clash of words, sometimes we need to appreciate some insightful female monikers.

Sorry I dont keep tabs of their names but I will state the few I can remember, in no particular order.

Erojepromise
JaneYave
Lucrativress
Hatima
pretteemee
Jsaviour
Ishilove
pozehnani
Cakhama

I'll keep updating the list as I remember their monikers.

You can add yours.

Seun

sogud:
tnx alot.......I knw of many 50% return investment
bro .....d issue is dat , i dnt even ve d money to invest on it , dat y i nid job to gather money n do business also..if ve d money i would ve invest in such investment, i know of genuine ones.

my situation is notin to talk abt...painful story. I only depend on God to send a destiny helper to me dat wil transform n change my life

Sorry bro. What are you Good at? What business do you want to start? Market yourself here, maybe something positive can come out of it.

ogbonti:
Wise move and have a blessed day Sir!

Thank you. Wish you the same!

Hatima:
I share your pain to be honest. Like you, I like to talk about everything and anything, try out new things etc.

I can't say you should overlook the anger issue or not. You wear the shoe, you know how it fits and ultimately you know what you want. I believe you'd make the best choice.. don't rush it.

Marriage scares me because I honestly think I'd get bored as well. I remember telling a guy to come with me to an amusement park, he asked if I was a kid, I love watching and talking about animes, history etc.. asking questions that lead to deeper conversations..I've been told I'm boring...

if not because I'm the first and only girl, I honestly would not bother about marriage..my mom would lose her mind if she heard me say this..

Now if I met you in real life it would be interesting. I like your energy.

IamPlato:
thanks bro

You are welcome.

begoniaa:
[color=dodgerblue]His thoughts are not the Universe's thoughts nor Laws of Nature.
Someone that doesn't believe in God wants to be making absolute moral judgments? Very funny.

The bolded is true. If love happens between a woman who is a virgin, and a guy that isn't, it's not bad. But selfish reasons, hypocrisy and social realities would play out in most cases.

Why is a non-virgin *insisting* they want a virgin? These things aren't hard and all those unnecessary shalaye up there is because those guys want to eat their cakes and have it. If a woman who is also virgin chooses you, finds you befitting... fine.

(All these words sound yucky to me somehow. Virgins, non-virgins, as if people are pieces of meat and have...mtcheew.)
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A non virgin can insist he wants a virgin. Same way a virgin girl or any girl for that matter can insist on getting anything she wants in the opposite sex whether she deserves it or not.

begoniaa:
[color=dodgerblue]Soooo many wrong analogies and pseudo-facts. Lmaoo.

There is every benefit to a guy's virginity. The same benefits you listed as being applicable to women is applicable to men. Choosing to believe what you want is on you, but they are not true and universal. Stop making your ideals the reference point, 'coz I'll always quash them while you scurry away forming "I-don't-engage-blehh" and craftily facing things you think are beneath the grasp of your logic. (Why was your first account busted again?)

You said: There is no value to a guy's virginity BECAUSE evidence of his chastity is unimportant?? How do they correlate? How sensible is it that the second part is a progression of the first part? And who decide what important or not?

- A virgin man is a man who has never had sex. That's fact. Hymens do not determine virginity as penetrative sex isn't even the hallmark of sexual activities or how will you even confirm the virginity of a woman without an hymen and she's never had sex? There are the zero women/twenty women a man has had sex with also to confirm if he's a virgin... Unless he's lying, a guy saying he's a virgin (something he'll likely be mocked for) is taken as the truth.

- Physiology might be different but there are consequences for people who are sexually reckless. Every disadvantages you listed for a sexually active woman applies to a sexually active man, too. Every body is susceptible to sexual and fertility issues. Even virgins. That's another fact.

I follow numerous pages and groups where women share their stories of sexual frustrations and cheatings while they married as a virgin. You can play ignore, but you won't wish the reality of virgins being sexually exploratory with other men after marriages away. The Adulteressss lady that shared her story sometime ago here, didn't she say she married as a virgin? Mummy GOs, nko? So what are you on about? Like men don't make baby mamas of women and bring other "illegitimate" kids INTO a marriage that's supposed to be MONOGAMOUS?
Is it about the suspicion for you? Allay suspicions on the surface while collecting dicking from best male friend on the low? Hahaha.

- And finally, when people are true to themselves, emotionally, sexually and in every way, everybody is happy.[/color]

What you said is true unfortunately but that's the poster's thoughts. Mine is anybody can marry anybody as long as that's what they desire. Of cause the other party must see something in you they equally desire.

ogbonti:
My apologies if I came up as being rude, maybe I was trying to make you realize you are making a big mistake. Most girls who are very humble out there may be very broke and a huge liability if you marry them. This very girl is not broke as you said she has her own money. That’s a big one in today’s Nigeria. And she is pretty and every other thing is complete for her EXCEPT anger issues. If that’s the only issue, there are anger management programs you can get her into and try to fix the issue. No human being is 100% complete - no man is perfect, and once you fix that part of her life then you would have found your missing ribs. To find a woman lacking just one attribute out of a host of attributes is very rare, you will remember me in future, once again I apologize if I came up as rude, no vex - God bless you and hope someone else won’t take her before you realize your mistake - and you start regretting all your life why you let her go when you end up with an angry, broke and ugly woman! take care

Lol, why angry, broke and ugly woman? Three very bad combinations. Well thanks for your heart felt apology. Maybe I will look into her, maybe. The communication lines are still open between us although we rarely use it. So I'll see how it goes.

Rebelsquad:
Omo.. this thread.. very few people actually offered advise. most came to fight and insult
we'll be alright in this country. I don't know what's always annoying us

Lol .very true

divineappo:
am in same shoe right now

My babe, I love her so much and she loves me, but she is a last born, she is 28yrs old, and she has this lazy last born attitude, she even told me whenever she falls sick, her sickness is always tough, yet she hates using drugs. Am conservative with spending but she isn't, she is the type that won't rest until she use iPhone despite not working.

Am patiently working on her, and hoping she would change. She has to change, grow up, begin to think and act matured, stop her last born attitude, before I marry her

Truth is, I really love her

I'm happy you really love but like you said she needs to change before you can marry her.

BlackNostra:
Go back and manage your ex like that, take her to therapy or something
Go back and manage your ex like that, take her to therapy or something

Is it that simple?

Rutherford2019:
I have never dated any girl before, in fact I have not hugged or kiss a girl before and now I'm 33..
I lost feeling for girls but the problem is that there is pressure for me to get married but I'm comfortable alone..
What should I do

Create a new thread, I'm sure you will get valuable answers

cococandy:
Marry a man. You’ll find all you seek. And probably all men won’t be the same to you

You have chosen violence.lol

Sixfeetbelle:
That's the point.

Let them speak ill of you. Let them tell you of your shortcomings as a boyfriend and use it to evaluate yourself.

You might be surprised to find out something about yourself that you'd never have agreed you possessed

Hmmm. But that doesnt mean I should settle for someone that is boring regardless.

pretteemee:
Yeah...it's a norm and it's sad that it has come to stay.
We all have taste,desires and likes.
Everyone want a perfect partner but its unfortunate that they do not exist.

What is common is beauty without brain,brain without beauty, beauty plus brain minus good character,brain without beauty,good character without beauty plus brain....We can't fix this or remain single because there's mystery in being all alone,you need a companion...yeah ask those who have choosen to be single.

We can only choose the fault(s) we can cope with or tolerate.
So the 'Lower your standard' song is to say when you get a good looking lady with few good traits and flaws that you can manage,please keep her.

If you are out for a balanced partner, you might end up deciding to remain Single for ever.

It's TRUE. A well thought out answer. Thanks for sharing it with me and us.

RisenPhoenix1:
No. It's because without love, both parties enter the marriage with eyes wide open, not just the woman.

Another angle.

TheVictim01:
Just came outta Shit, now I'm good though. Dude is working his ass of to 2010 bmw 335i, sponsor Grand parents pilgrims and foot siblings school expenses. Daddy should rest small!

You doing good although this is more than romance.

TheVictim01:
Cracked me up, big time. Your choice, choose what suits ya.

You too, hope your romance life is thriving too?

PearlFid:
you'll remain single or think marriage is not for everyone if you keep looking for Miss perfect(miss perfect is someone who fits into your desire completely), and unfortunately you can't find such, look for who you love and love her completely with her imperfections. (imperfections you can deal with, not the one that will kill you).

Thank you.

TheVictim01:
Ned nwoko 2. Lol

If you mean as a billionaire, amen. But 6 wives never. 1 is enough