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Lucrativress:
Awwn
I'm trustworthy o and I don't bite *blushing*
I'm like a toothless Dog
Just barking,never harmful

Wonders shall never end. Mrs smart pants, that's your nick name now, I dont like to take things personal, never my style and I won't take this personal but I'll be watching you closely.

Lucrativress:
My fun was cut short when I found out you feel I'm insulting you

So you were having fun indeed. It's good it was cut short.

Lucrativress:
Don't let us argue again
We'll keep going back and forth and I'll go crude again but you'll think I'm insulting you and that will make me feel bad

I was open to listening until I confirmed what you were doing. Can I trust you now? Maybe cant say.

Lucrativress:
Are you vexing for me
I'm sorry

You had your fun, so why are you sorry?

Lucrativress:
I don't need to know them na
Using a derogatory word on someone else's choice wasn't soo good you know.
You could have just said, your friend's Ladies or Girlfriends "are just there"

It's good you telling me why you are attacking me, mrs smart pants. If you read through properly instead of attacking me, you will see I didnt condemn their choice of wives for them either in words or actions, they dont know even today, I ONLY condemned IT for ME!!! this post was about MY PREFERENCE and JUST ONLY MINE. NEVER ABOUT MY FRIENDS OR FAMILY.

You missed all this too, mrs smart pants.

Lucrativress:
I'm not trying to convince you at all,I'm just worried you think I'm trying to insult you

You dont need to be worried, I knew and it's obvious from your chat.

Nice move though coming from " checking if I was boring , to attacking me".
I knew this therapy was wrong.

Lucrativress:
And shallow is a good thing right...
It is not demeaning....
Okay Sir

Yeah but it wasn't directed at YOU, you dont even know them. At least you see you mixed it up trying to be smart.

Lucrativress:
I won't lie,it's breaking my heart that you feel I'm insulting you

Fake heart break. Dramatic

Lucrativress:
Dude really I don't want to laugh but wait
Seriously ehn I'm laughing rainow
I'm saying work on yourself to also be a spice
Can someone else say "Oh! I have this friend or Boyfriend, he just has his way around things,he knows how to sparkle up a discussion, he knows how to initiate topics and diversify and make me a better me or make me want to explore culture...,he is soo intelligent, he just has an idea on several area's so the sparkle will find its way"
Infatuation is what that woman was trying to tell you..
Married people get married not just for sparkles cause the truth is infatuation will surely creep in..
Go and find how your Parents handled the situation when it did,did your Daddy keep expecting the same sparkle?
What happened when it became dim?
Don't look for what's not there,cause even the most liveliest persons of today have their boring time's..
Learn to deal and cope and also learn to also be a sparkle or a spice

Like I said detective fash, read all my post but you failed. If you read one of my post outside of this one you will see where I talked about married partners getting bored of themselves with time. And I said, it should be "old but gold" and not "old and worn". And do you think girls just walk into my hands like a gift, wont I toast them? You think it's easy to get beautiful ladies back to back to back? Shey na beans? Do you think it's easy to maintain a lady? I mentioned even in this post, me and my current babe go out frequently just to have fun , I spice things up but she is not creative enough for my liking. Mrs smart pants you missed out all this in your failed attempt to condemn me.

pansophist:
What most men have come to realise is that "the struggle to develop themselves to be a quality man is nothing compared to the struggle of finding a virtuous woman". Those with good wives do not know how blessed they are, especially when they didn't struggle hard to find her.

Furthermore, the way women see themselves is not the same way men sees them. You might have experienced a scenario where you got a faint idea about a woman maybe through her online profile or recommendation from someone but after personal interaction and dealings, you realise she is just like the rest, a thing you can see, but she can't see.

Put yourself out there the more, and do not go strictly for beauty, it's deceiving. Or you may just enjoy the ride and settle down when a good one comes your way. It's better than enduring hell in the hand of a troublesome woman.

Thank you man and this is the point of my post, something lucrativress missed all in an attempt to insult me.

Lucrativress:
Eeeyyyy Jesus
Can't you see we said the same thing?

Mrs smart pants dont disappoint me. I never called my friends wives my friends, go read it again. I only called them shallow, only shallow and never my friends.

Lucrativress:
Let me give my verdict
It's quite late already
Your Ex that you liked the most was actually the spice in your relationship
To find someone like her
You'll have to cook up your own Sauce
Sprinkle a little salt on your ownself
And you'll be surprised, the next girl you meet will be just your spec

You came back and said exactly what I just summarized, like I said. You came as a fake helper to insult me, but I knew already.

Lucrativress:
Lemme elucidate
Go back and read the place I quoted you for the shallow
Sire,you said your friend's who are married.......
Like look
Go back and read your initial Post..
What if a friend of yours come across this your post and somehow deciphers you're the one behind this moniker,how will he feel...

If you read it properly, you will see I meant not my Male friends but their 'female partners as been shallow as mine', did you get it now?

Lucrativress:
The funniest thing is
I'm still ascertaining you
And I can say like two extra things about your character
I'm just here using your response to judge you
Nothing more,nothing less

Well I judged you already and you cant be trusted. You already have a narrative in your mind and you want to bend whatever "evidence" you feel you can find and use against me.

Lucrativress:
The funniest thing is,I'm pretty calm
You're the one reading notes to this really
Just calm down
I really mean no harm
I just want you to know you've still not told me who you are

You are only looking for more dirt to throw at me simple. Its not like you care about anything I wrote up there, you just simply wanted to say "I am stupid, as such I should lower my standards and settle for the boring girls around me".

Lucrativress:
Trust me,we are both playing with words here
You used shallow,I used unintelligent
Seems like mine held more gravity,so sorry,next time I'd look for a synonym less annoying
Really I'm just being blunt with you,no single harm
You have to understand that your "shallow" was demeaning

You still dont get it do you? Are you sure you really are smart as you claim, cause there is a sharp difference between me calling my ex girlfriends shallow who are in no way related to you and you calling me directly unintelligent. Like I said, you always wanted to attack, you only came in the guise of a helper.

Lucrativress:
Even the most brilliant man failed is it 99 times or 999 times?
There's room for failure
Robert Kiyosaki the money maker went Bankrupt
There is always room for oxymorons

That's just an excuse. It's either greed got to better of you or you were just naive.

Lucrativress:
Can't you see what I am seeing?
Counter attacks matter's..
How are you countering what's been said?
That is what I am using to ascertain if you're boring or not
I'm not a Witch
I need a tool to judge my thesis

You are you kidding, checking if I am boring and attacking me arent the same thing. You left your mission and started your true mission.

And like I said, I dont toast anybody here, I mostly relate with guys so my post may not be funny to a girl, they are mostly intellectual posts.

Lucrativress:
If I talk now,you'll feel bad and I really don't want that

As long as it doesnt degenerate to outright name calling I dont mind, plus this is what you came for initially. This was your game plan all along. I gave you time to properly show yourself and you didnt disappoint.

Lucrativress:
Trust me I'm just being blunt with you,sorry it seems a bit harsh...

No, you just simply found a way to stylishly attack me. You said you wanted to check if I was boring and later you turned it to calling me unintelligent when both things dont even relate. Yeah I know your game.

Lucrativress:
I don't want to be smart book wise if I won't be smart street wise or life wise cause life is shitty and shouldn't be judged by a Book

I am smart all wise. Like I said you got scammed by a street artist, does that make you street smart?

Lucrativress

I thought you were smart but you still got scammed, interesting

Lucrativress:
They seem shallow to you,bit do you know if it's same with their Boyfriend's?
You seem not so highly smart to me,but is that the same way someone else will view you?
You judge a bit in a haste,so it seems like you don't get to tickle their fancy to bring out some of those attributes you're looking for,cause come on mehnn,there are still lively girls put there,you've met just one,what if your personality is attracting you to those boring girl's cause somehow somehow,you're a bit like them

Okay I think you have said your mind, this is all you ever wanted to say. Hence forth I wont be to nice with you

Lucrativress:
"I don't think"
You're showing you're not that smart...

Okay smart pants, you just talking, can you stand up to me book wise?

Lucrativress:
I will reply you with something from your own word's
"Their Babes seem shallow to me and you used it more than once"
Shallow in your context meant unintelligent, you can't even take what you dish out

Wrong, I have only ever dated undergraduate and graduate, book wise they are intelligent but outside of that they are not.

But you missed that part. It was obvious in my post detective.

Lucrativress:
I will reply you with something from your own word's
"Their Babes seem shallow to me and you used it more than once"

And what those that mean regarding my person?

Lucrativress:
Laiye laiye
I ain't telling you shit
You have to understand that you have to have a level of something to look out for it in someone else..
Or else you just don't know what you are looking for..

Now I think I get you. You think my standard is too high, cause you also think I am not smart.

Okay, if that's how you feel. Reading my post alone would have told you I am smart but never mind.

Lucrativress:
Can't you see that you are not intelligent?
I asked you a simple question and you couldn't even answer right

Okay inspector fash lady, are you trying to help me or are you just stylishly bashing me? Cause I have heard I am not intelligent like thrice or something like that. I can write a whole book about myself, but the most important thing is that I know myself, even if i cant type it all out for you to read.

begoniaa:
[color=dodgerblue]Understanding that simple phrase is not going to magically turn a person around... so, just say what you could decode from that. I want to know.[/color]

First time I agree with you but i am not happy i even agree with you , me too I want to know

Lucrativress:
Ask yourself who is your type of person
And answer it
I'm talking of your personal self,who are you?

Is this how therapy feels like ? I know my kind of person and if you arent interesting to me, if I cant have an engaging talk with you, I get bored.

Lucrativress:
You said you want a girl that's intelligent but you're less intelligent yourself,cause you couldn't decode that simple phrase

Okay, now that 'less intelligent' part is an assumption on your part. Like I said I dont have time to start drawing conclusions from that, he didnt say the meaning and i didnt bother thinking of one. So since you did for me, please tell me what you thought it was about?

Lucrativress:
You are not looking for your type,you're looking for someone else
You'll keep on looking Oga

So who is my type exactly? I told you the other girls bore me.