₦airaland Forum

You know Aloy, I think someone with your mindset and passion for a unified Nigeria is the kind of candidate we need to vote into office.  I believe you are magnanimous in your ideals to a see a "One Nigeria" where individual merits and proven abilities are far more recognized and rewarded above tribal identity and sponsorships.  However, this is all an ideal.  You are ahead of your time. . .the cultural mindset on the ground and the maturity of trust across tribal lands is far too shallow to accomodate a grandeur vision as you plan.

I continue to tell you this, for now and given what we have it's best to negotiate each other out of this unholy wedlock joined together by the UK. This is one union that I support tearing apart and assunder.  It was not a best fit to begin with, it never was and never will be in forseeable future.  We need to negotiate and compromise out of this mess.   You go rule the Igbos. . . I will tell Osisi to make sure she rally support behind your nomination.  

Osisi ,my sister you dey hear me so?

Because she left her pata in your house, she's spontaneous?

You see how message get thrown out of content?

No that does not mean she is spontaneous. I only said I prfer spontaneous woman.


TOH, Long time no hear.

Kano is owned by Hausas but ruled by Fulanis.

What do you do in a situation when u see someone flirting with your guy, and guys the same thing too.
what will be your reaction?

Well, sometimes women overreact. What you call flirting might be no more than me looking at the girl's clothes and body and thinking to myself, wow, Id love to buy that for Secretz, I bet she would look lovely in it.

If on the other hand I catch guy flirting with my girl hin own don baje for that brief moment. I am not carefree with what is sweet to me, NO

. . . Negro is an artful narrator. Dont mind him!

She is not animated. . .this is still picture, but there is a language in her that men of virility can recognize (this will not apply to eunuchs). She is saying something, its subtle and like I said men. . .possibly lesbians can relate to her gesture. In translation, it will equate to spontaneity. The spontaneity is not visible but the message is suggestive. If I was a marketing manager using the theme "spontaneous" to market, say romance, I will recruit her as my model.

Spontaneous is living the moment and caring about the consequence later. A readiness for adventure! Definitely adventure is the firecracker that keeps a romantic relationship going strong. Take that away and it becomes a monotonous duty to satisfy expectations. This is the threshold where many of our women are and the men share blame in that. Nigerian women have a lot to offer sexually, if they would be allowed uninhibited to bring their loving and freaky spirit to the surface in a spontaneous show of affection.

Uuuhh Jesus. . .that was a mouthful!

@Post,

Government run healthcare system is best where the government is not simultaneously funding alternative options that are in direct competition with one another. US Governmen is currently subsidising private healthcare system in America and it is planning to float a competitive alterative. . . its just a planned disaster, thats all it is. It would be different if the private option is totally funded on the capital market. . .then the Government coul argue that its option will save cost. People that will go on the government option will be turned into a milking cow. . .Doctors will be eager to perform surgeries at the least possible step for a solution because doing so brings in more money to their pocket and this reality will surge the cost of medical care because insurer's will then raise cost of coverage for malpractice litigation. If the cost go up on the public option then private providers, even though their cost of operation remains flat, will be incensed to increase premiums so to compete at market prices. At the end of the day, public or not, it will result in graded care offerings and if you cannot afford high premiums you end with a basic care that is shittier than the shittiest of what is available today under private systems.

Lagos had a robust universal healthcare at one time. You have a healthcard that you take to one of the community health centers around the metro - Massey street Health Center, Oke Arin Health Center, Yaba Heath Center, Surulere Health Center, etc, - they have the General Helath care and the Pharmacies under one roof. For special care - Ob/Gyn, Orthopaedic, Radiation Therapy - they refer you to a specialist. Then you also have the General Hospital at Odan. All the costs were covered by the Lagos State Government for all residents. As population swelled it became difficult to fund and manage but what really sunk them was the fact that Lagos University Teaching Hospital became a direct competition. Government Doctors with years of hands on experience in public health system were readily recruited and paid far more under secured research grants at LUTH than universal helathcare operated by government. From LUTH a bunch of them subsequently found fame and success and emigrated. Many of them ended up in Ibadan as well.

I pointed out this scenario to highlight the dangers of a government funded project competing and suffocating its alternative. True, the picture they are painting now is rosy and sound good but you only need to check track record of how big government always unfailingly screw itself when it comes to options between privatization and nationalization.

We spent the last quarter of last year listening to lamentations from sympathisers of the "Too Big To Fail" Bank Club. Any prediction for what to expect this winter?

I think we will hear from sympathisers of Universal Healthcare that their idea is "Too Big To Fail". Harley Davidson of USA might show up on the list as well.

Lmao!! Oyinda, you dont know who u are messing with. . . after I bend you over all you will think of is how best to please my wishes and desires.

Roky, Oyinda can be misunderstood sometimes. . .but she is sweet and friendly.

Roky,

Oyinda is envious of the many privileges men enjoy at the expense of wives. She wants a wife or correctly,"wives" too and she is advocating it as just cause for all women.

When you get your wives you let me know so I can make you my wife and you all can then be my wives.

Nice essay!  hmmm, the burdens wives carry. . .may God Bless wives!  May God give men more wives to help them get things right  

I promised not to respond to this post until after you all calmed down.

@POST, Its a good thing that there is inter tribal marriages. It will not cause tribalism to go away. Tribalism is a form of discrimination and its human nature to discriminate. We need to accept it as a good thing that we have the capability to differentiate, associate and bond. I will marry Igbo, Hausa, Yoruba, I dont care and that will not stop me from waking up in the morning to curse out your roots and demand that your prove you are a Nigerian.

Oh, before I forget. . .that girl is very beautiful, I think they make a fine couple.

Where have you been lately anyway. . .in hiding?

Oyinda, how many times I have to remind you of your bed time. Its too late for you out here. . . this is time for adult conversations.
Go to bed now., c'mon!

Oh Chiko, now you are talking! There are Nigerian girls like Sherri. . .unfortunately they end up with guys that shut down the spontaneity.

LMAO!!

LMAO. . . hahahaha, .

Mr Blazer, tell the truth. . .you've been fantasizing on Sarah Palin. Oh shiggitty!!!

Ahh, lol. . .

Omo Oropo. . .
. . .Oropo oo

Omo Afidipote mole ni Ijebu Ode. . .
. . .Oropo ooo

Ijebu Ode o ajabga lura. . .
. . .Oropo oo

Becomerich, I salute oo.

Letter to my Ex.

Dear Ex,

. . .bring it back.

You know. . .when Nigerian women share their spontaneity with their men, they are ridiculed and mocked. When they respond timidly and shy. . . it doesnt get better, their spontaneity is demanded. Our women got it bad, attending to old and archaic mindset for how a woman should act out her romantic side. I want a girl like Sherri. . .a freak that will spice me up, in all ways spontaneous. . .panties and all!