LillyVal:
Same radio progam a man called, telling the presenter how his wife beats him

It happens, not because the man isn't stronger but because the man actually knows he's stronger and if he retaliates it will be more damaging.

I don't want to relive my experiences...crazy sh*t, real crazy sh*t, sometimes I practically avoid women because of those. Yeah I know everyone's different and all but one needs time to process certain experiences in life.

MannieA:



Lol
I don't support evil.
I can't see a woman doing something bad and I will still support what's she's doing,doesn't make sense at all.

You are among the very few...

Mostly excuses such as she's the weaker sex kicks in.

MannieA:




I have same feeling towards them.

Lol...that's cool coming from a female.

I'm an adherent believer of human equality and as such I like to treat people how I would want to be treated

XhosaNostra:


Not all women. Some of these issues stem from one's own upbringing. Example, women who grew up watching their mothers being physically abused & women with "daddy issues". It's nurture, more than it is nature.

Growing up, I had two adult males in my life. One my biological father (obsessive love there ) & the other one my stepfather (would empty his pockets for me, buy me whatever I want etc ). Both loved me in different ways as already stated & have never laid one finger on me my entire life. Now I'm an adult & because I had not one but two father figures in my life, I have no confusion about how a man is supposed to act. After all, they say a father is every little girl's 1st love. Your relationship with your father in your formative years, will help shape your perception of male/female dynamics when you're much older. Mine is mostly positive & I'll be dammed if I allow someone treat me like trash because the two men that raised me didn't treat me that way. So yeah, every case is different.

couldn't agree more...

MannieA:





I just dey laugh.....
I don't like domestic violence.
I also detest men who abuse women.
I want to be pampered and carried like a baby!!
You can scold me(in private)and correct me when I do something wrong but don't lay your hands on me.
My body is too soft for that.
*Sips tea*

And what of the female counterparts who does same?

Topic created already?

XhosaNostra:


Aquarius

I see

XhosaNostra:


Okay No wonder our conversations flow effortlessly lol.

lol...what's yours?

XhosaNostra:


Yeah, try to cut people some slack. What's your zodiac sign?

Yeah I will, my friend constantly tells me that.

I'm Gemini

XhosaNostra:


We're very similar lol. I also have very extreme loner tendencies, plus low tolerance for drama & stress. If a person makes one small mistake that makes me feel some type of way, I feel like cutting them off, immediately. I have ONE friend of 16 years. I consider her my best friend. I can't tell you how many times I yo-yo between keeping her as a friend & never speaking to her again. It's a constant battle because she does things that I find very annoying. Like the other day, I gave her a call after a couple of weeks of not talking. Well, she sounded somehow during the call & I was done with her at that point But yesterday she called, now I'm reconsidering our friendship again. It's something I battle with because deep inside I feel I don't need anyone (so won't be putting up with shìt to keep people in my life). However, the realist in me keeps telling me to try & not be so quick to dismiss people. I do it through gritted teeth now because I realize I do need people for companionship, love etc. I just need to be more forgiving..not of everything of course because it's not in my nature lol.

So yes, do try for your own sake.

The text in bold sums my tolerance for Bull up. I'm a very realistic and rational person but I'll try for my own sake...

I can also relate with the feeling you get when dealing with your friend...lol.

LillyVal:
The bolded, would make an interesting read and revelation. I think I will create a thread for it.

Lol, let's see how it goes. The thing is men hate singing like a canary when it comes to being physically assaulted by women...

For instance, my very close friend didn't know I was constantly being physically assaulted by an ex-FWB of mine whom he held in high regards and was constantly pestering me into actually dating and possibly marrying not until four days ago...

XhosaNostra:


@bolded, me too! It was a huge wake up call for me because I can see myself in her. Plus it doesn't help that, something like that has happened to someone I'm related to. So I'm working hard on the few relationships that I do value. Now, I'm not going to start liking everyone lol. But I keep in touch with people more now.

It's a very heartbreaking end.

Same here, huge wake up call. I have a penchant for staying away from people, mainly because I hate drama.

I've got only two friends both males, one is married and lives about an hour drive from my location, the other just few minutes away (mostly hang out once a week or so). I will try and keep in touch more often and maybe call my mum at least once a week

XhosaNostra:


IKR. It's very sad for such a beautiful lady to die a lonely death like that.

Yeah, I mean she was beautiful, Intelligent and quite social meeting figures such as Nelson Mandela, dinner with Stevie Wonder.

I can't help but wonder what went wrong...

Picked up a few lessons from the read.

XhosaNostra:


Lol, but people who live alone do get eaten by their pets in some cases or mummify in their self-imposed tomb aka their home.
One story actually made me cry, about this woman who died in her flat & wasn't discovered for 3 years. Her mummified body was found sitting in front of the TV. Google Joyce Carol Vincent

Just did, her case was quite a sad one. According to her friends, she'd run away at any slight manifestation of trouble. That alone was enough to reinforce the fact that she was a victim of domestic violence...

At the very least she should have allowed one or two friends visit occasionally, say once or twice a week. Crazy stuff, real crazy stuff!

Finnese001:



Must all relationship leads to marriage, i love her but marriage is the last thing on my mind right now, so if she wants to marry, i will endorse it, even attend the wedding self

My ex will think I typed this...

It's up to you to decide when you are ready for marriage, different factors can determine this. Till then don't go asking any girl out on date.

I am as honest as you when it comes to such matters. Trust me, It won't in any way hamper your s3x life....

That guy no get joy at all...

pansophist:
Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment. A woman decides if a man will have sex, a man decide if a woman will be married. Women will use sex as a bait to get commitment, men will use commitment as a bait to get sex.

If women want men to marry, then make sex expensive, the culture that has reduced sex to a commodity must be changed. You can't sleep your way through life, use up by multiple men, and decide to settle and gain the long term commitment of a man. It's a bad deal and men instinctively are wired to avoid it. This is the root cause. It's not money, it's the dynamic.

I reckon that this is just a hypothesis...Take me for instance, I easily get bored when I repeat an activity x number of times except trading index futures as it's dynamic and challenging.

For someone like me, if and when I meet a lady, the first thing on my mind would be her intellect, second would be how amusing she can get and lastly how she expresses herself when she gets riled up (I've had my fare share of physical assaults from ladies all in the name of "men should not hit a lady no matter what, which now includes self defense" ).

For me, it's not just sex, wits is inclusive, fun too...

XhosaNostra:


Hahaha. So shortsighted. It's amusing. People like that end up alone & get eaten by their pets when they die in isolation because they have managed to push everyone away with douchebaggery. You're not going to be virile forever, casanova. There will come a time where the only company you have will be your shrivelled up penìs & sagging scrotum.

Omg! you again...lmao

I don’t f*ckin' care about what the child did...that man is a monster and should be treated as such

DonDaniDee:
I just have so much love for this 50cent. From getto all the way to good music and then to movies. That his POWER series is one of the most entertaining work of calculated brains I have ever watched.

To see he is still very much in the music business is still so amazing even after the fall of G-Unit. He is truly an definition of raw talent and success after being given a second chance to live again when he was shot in the mouth.

How many of of still remember his true life story "Get rich or die trying". The guy is amazing and even with all the money he has made as a street guy, he is free from any scandal or law issues compared to some others like Dmx, Ja Rule, and the rest. 50 cent adjested so well from street to clean success.

Patiently waiting for August 25th for season 6 of POWER and as for his "Get rich or die trying" I practically watch that every month, Nigga is just filled too much talent.

czarina:
Beautiful, I like when males get like this:

"if you can't suffer with me, don't expect to be part of me when things are right"

*************************************

What do you think I'll be doing with my life while you're improving yours?

Wankking? No, honey.

You can threaten lazy "beaches"/leeches with that. Not me, and not the females I've grown to look up to OR the ones who inspire me everyday.

I know females who work harder than most males and they will never settle for less.

No one should ever settle for less...

XhosaNostra:
No, I will never accept. His priorities are all mixed up for starters. Why rush into marriage when you only have a handful of things & flip flops to your name? I've seen homeless people with more stuff than this!

The sentence highlighted in bold cracked me up

vixpal:
All industrialised nations(G7) of the world plus China use local language as their official language
Japan =Japanese
Italy = Italian
Britain = English
USA = American English
France = French
Germany =German Deutsch
Canada = English and French

we should adopt Fula language then

Topsic70:

Yes o, they are not Igbos. They are shite Igbos.
Igbos are known worldwide to be law abiding ppl.
Igbos are not known for violence.

These are clearly shite Igbos.

I'm Igbo though but the bolded cracked me up real bad chai...shite Igbos, nairaland no go kill person with laugh one day

helinues:


The billionaires, if the are so rich, they would have paid AMCON and remove their names from the list.

If they pay all their debts, both banks and AMCON, majority will dropped to millionaire..

So which kind fake billionaire you be with loans everywhere

They will still be millionaires won't they?

My opinion is that there's good loan and bad loan. Bad loan would be money borrowed to purchase a phone or a car for personal use, with no intent of generating any passive income while a good loan would be money borrowed to expand an already established business.

Abdulazeez99:


Executive Chairman of the Federal Inland Revenue Service (FIRS), Babatunde Fowler, said the government might appoint banks as agents to deduct five per cent VAT on all local online purchases with a bank card.

There's always a work around...online stores should just include BTC as a means of payment. We can then make national bank transfers to BTC sellers on localbitcoin, who in turn will send to our wallet address.

Definitely 1, what's the point of telling a lie?

Haba, she should have included the girl's contact. I would love to caution that girl.

highqueen:

and what now different you from the girls you call hoes?

You guys haven't seen anything yet.
let the competition begin.

LOL...what competition are you talking about? Most guys and ladies just want to have fun with their counterparts, it's just that they live in self denial.

okolet:


Be strong bro

Lmao That meme gave me a good laugh

Patrotism:
Brotherly Not All. Some are really angels in human skin. Just pray to meet one. You should also know that women are weaker than men when it comes to sex. So lets always try to make excuse for them.

Pardon me but the bolded is BS. Send me a beautiful clean curvy lady to tempt me and see if I won't be weak

fairfora:
Maybe her guy is weak in performance. If he's not, the lady wouldn't have tried another guy, no matter the distance. If her PPA is Borno for instance and the guy is in Lagos, she would not mind traveling to see him every month because one thing about ladies is that, if you are not satisfying them in bed, if you like, give her billions, she will still look elsewhere and that does not mean she does not love you. As a corper some years back, I dated a lady for the first time. I did not have the opportunity during my school days because I was one of the bookworms, from class to library everyday of the week. This girl got married and was still disturbing me. I dated another girl, who said she could not marry me because she was the only child and her parents were disturbing her and as a man, I needed to work and earn some money so I could boast of something after settling down as a couple because I just got employed that time. I told her to wait one year more but she refused and went ahead to marry a guy she met after courting for 4 months. She got married while I remained single for over a year before I now met my wife. Funny enough, she's always calling to disturb. Her husband is rich. They live in their own house off admiralty way in lekki phase 1. I thank God I'm not a poor man either. She had invited me for a date many times which I did not honour, same with the first lady. I always ask myself, what do women really want in sexx? Once you have the money, you should be comfortable with whatever comes your way. either big or small, so far the man can produce children.

The bolded is a presumption.

I've had s*x with girls who admitted their guys are good in bed but just wanted to taste something new for the fun of it.

On one occasion a girl asked me "you just want to taste my pussy abi"? and my response was YES