akpota:
by Fwm, what do u mean?

FWB you mean?

Friends With Benefits

Mrbillionaire:
10cent to $1000 self-challenge update. Result for last week. Over 2000 pct recorded; some are still struggling with 400 pct.

Please what broker are you using for your cent account?

I’m working on a strategy I’ll like to test on a live cent account rather than conventional demo account.

Thanks

Juliearth:





Judging by your narrative, you must pardon me for assuming wrongly and you have every right to be angry.

Not angry though...

Idiotmod:

U got fingerprint lock phone, u think she can't put Ur finger on it while asleep

I’m a light sleeper and have insomnia. So No, she wouldn’t be able to do that while I’m sleeping.

Juliearth:





Did that lady know she is/was just a friend with benefit? Most guys are in the habbit of stringing women on. You want her for intimacy only, but then you profess love and what not to her. Is it safe to say that that was what happened, thus the reason why she had the balls to upload her pictures on your social media?

I’m way matured to string anyone on just because I want intimacy from them. I’ll rather pay a sex worker or an escort for those services. As at that time I had about 4 FWBs.

I’m not into dating and I explicitly made that clear to the girl in question before we had any form of intimacy.

We had a long conversation the very first time she spent the night at my place after she showered...she asked “if I had a gf” and I told her No which was the truth btw and I also told her that I wasn’t in anyway looking for a gf, just want a FWB. I asked her if she was cool with that and she replied yes. Asked her if she has a bf and she said yes. Only thing I can come up with as an excuse for her action was that at a point she wanted us to date and she told me she and her bf were not together anymore, I refused and I remember we had a quarrel because of that and out of anger she said “you feel you have everything and that you don’t need anyone in your life”.

Back to your question, it’s not safe to say the reason she had the balls to upload her pictures on my social media was because I professed love to her because I don’t use the word “Love” lightly, to be sincere it’s even difficult for me to say a thing like that.

Lol...your own na play “GF”. A FWB did that to me sometime last year while I was asleep...She did not stop with WhatsApp status she also shared it on my fb story with all the whole my love captions.

Back then I was using an old android phone which I refused to change cos I’m of the opinion that the phone I use shouldn’t define me. Well the phone didn’t have a fingerprint sensor and I didn’t like the idea of having to type in a password or pin every time I needed to use my phone so I left it unlocked.

It was a friend of mine that sent me a message on WhatsApp “Na she?”...When I opened the message I was confused It wasn’t funny back then... I felt like slapping the girl up from sleep but then I was like “No Wahala”. I deleted the WhatsApp status and went back to sleep. In the morning I started getting fb notifications...omg! the notifications were from her pics on my fb story, I was like wtf!...you kidding right?

I immediately took down her pictures and had to put up a post on my timeline to serve as a disclaimer, stating that the pictures weren’t uploaded by me. Some of my friends on fb made jokes out of that incident.

No one advised me to get a new phone the next week...hence forth I locked my WhatsApp with fingerprint. She didn’t like that...

Note: I didn’t bother confronting her

One should be careful with this FWB thingy

I was once accused of rape a long time ago by someone I refused to date and haven’t as much as kissed let alone had s3x with...it was infuriating. Let’s leave that for another day

Since my experience, I make sure I always have conversational proof...I don’t do pictures because someone can bring it up one day claiming we dated...just 2 days ago one of my Hausa FWB was taking pictures at my place and I could tell she was trying to get me in the picture. Lol, I just went to my kitchen pretending I was drinking juice from the fridge until she was done.

Back to my point, the last FWB I initiated wanted to turn the whole stuff into dating, she’s not the first to try...like seriously? The s3x was great though and she’s homely too but I held my ground because I had explicitly told her that it was just FWB besides she has a BF.

Note, this girl tracked me for weeks, making sure she turned up at spots I usually hung out. After about 3 weeks or so of hanging out together with my friends and I. One night I asked her if she wanted me to drop her off at her place or if she’d go home with me. She said anyone, in my thoughts I was like okay. Well I took her home that day, we both showered and then while we sat at the bed before having s3x she asked me “if I had a girl friend”, I said NO because I didn’t have one at that time but also told her I wasn’t searching for one either, which were the truth. In turn I asked her if she had a boy friend, she affirmed to having one. Unknown to her this conversation was being recorded...well we had s3x that day, great s3x by the way.

After that day several other times too, she’d come spend time at my place, sometimes she stays for days. I treat everyone of my FWB same, one can say almost as if to say she’s the only woman in my life. Well the girl started catching feelings and then one day another girl whom I was considering having a serious relationship with called and just because she was with my phones she picked the call seeing I wasn’t close by. I was infuriated when the other girl told me a lady picked my call...

I gave her stern warning after that because she went searching through my phone another time, asking me who that particular girl was. WTF?...this is coming from someone I have never searched through her phone or in any way restrict from answering calls from different guys when she’s at my place. Well I reminded her that before we both had s3x that we had defined what he have and if she wasn’t comfortable with that anymore we should stop seeing each other, she refused. I cut ties with her January but she buzzes me a times even after seeing me with the lady whom by the way I’m putting in my best to see if I can maintain a serious relationship with. This very FWB has been calling for weeks now, she even called last night telling me she misses me but I down played the conversation because I’m scared she has sinister intentions.

Please try as much as possible to always have evidence that will exonerate you just Incase another girl decides to accuse you...it could be WhatsApp chats or calls indicating the s3x was consensual and she also had a great time...I usually just check up on them when they leave my place to be sure they got home safe as well as to talk about how awesome the s3x was...which they’ll admit to. Also try as much as possible to not be the one to invite them over...let them be the one to say they want to see you.

There's no big deal...She's proly the FWB type.

You friend should just protect himself because from my experience in this FWB tingy there's no such thing as having only one sexmate...

Op leave that girl to earn her 1k in peace...when she starts requesting money from you you’ll not hesitate to come on here and scream gold digger!

Meanwhile I find it disturbing that you’ll snoop through someone’s phone without their permission...It’s called invasion of privacy and that’s sick but if that seems normal to you then you need to get your psych evaluated.

Those people that stripped her and the ones that are watching are really stupid...does stripping her change the fact she stole?

It irks me seeing this sort of rubbish...I mean hand her over to the police if you feel you can’t as much as forgive her...MTFs! everywhere

Imagine the number of innocent guys that will end up settling with the girls from their network

WTF! we have to dot the I’s and cross the T’s before settling down or opt for surrogacy

50 kobo

Kekekenny:
We all know the Covid-19 cases in naija are more than ds figures. Carefully releasing it not to create panic. We are aware of 15 new cases from Gbagada .But let me stop here. God is in control already

Definitely

richesbhc:
Mine is still showing MTN NG and to think some ignorant people especially people of the Eastern region still believe COVID-19 is a scam in Nigeria that it just a plot to loot money by the Buhari government still baffles me.

Not only the eastern region , I’m currently up North and most of em’ believe it’s a scam... I went to purchase face mask yesterday from a pharmacy and they were all oblivious

Shugavee:
There is absolutely nothing like a broke / lazy good man. You can never know the real him till he has some money. You can never know if he’s faithful, except he got money in his pocket!!

So ladies, don’t waste your time, if he doesn’t have a source of income, he is a waste. Always remember that your time and attention is an investment, don’t waste it on some dude who got just sex to offer. Don’t let people single shame you that you go for anything and don’t ever agree that you can only offer sex. They know you have a lot to offer.

YOU ARE A WOMAN!!

WTF! Guys you heard it...please negotiate and pay for the time and attention given because it's an investment

while at it, wash your damn! hands and as always stay safe!!!

pmoye:
It isn't always about discipline. Sometimes it is about absolute lack of interest. Unfortunately many ladies can't handle such rejection and they take it as a sentence of lack of sexiness on their part. Believe it some men are just not attracted to some women period. I personally can start to count how many girls I have politely asked to dress up after getting naked and trying very hard to seduce. And my reasons for saying no range from lack of attraction, suspicion of real motive, to just plain No-I-don't-want.

There are times when attraction has nothing to do with. For instance, when I’m trying to make money moves my urge for s3x dies completely.

I had to cut a girl I was assisting financially off because she made sexual advances towards me...I mean wtf! I sincerely just wanted to help and she embarrassed me in presence of my friends, she was all so touchy to the extent my friends excused themselves and left my house thinking I wanted to have s3x with girl.

Women don’t handle rejection well... I turned down a FWB and she was furious. She was like no man has ever turned down her advances. She started the 21 questions thingy: did she need to shower, is her boobs no longer firm as I wanted, is she not cute anymore etc. but truth was just that I wasn’t in the mood for a couple of minutes s3x and when I took longer to cum she’d complain that I made her feel lazy in bed.

I can go on and on...women please respect a man’s NO it’s no different from yours

Op why stress yourself over peoples opinion? You need to learn to live your life as it pleases you...

tsephanyah:
Good in the interest of national security. Some things are too sensitive to be on paper

wow! national security you say? Where exactly in the nation is secured?

Pete Edochie right now: " My son E get why "

That scenario is just one more reason why such things need to be classified from day one : if you're there for the coochie or D make it known, if it's for the money make it known, for companion? make it known. In clear terms state your mission

Lol...I will never find myself in such situation

MANGAM:
Its the nature of men to cheat and sleep around. The only thing a man sees in every woman is sex. The man loves with is peniss and the woman with her heart. God created us this way.
It takes a lot of maturity and self control not to cheat as a man

Pure BS

OBku4:
This is exactly why I don't trade for no one... Or stress myself explaining to people who associate trading FX with scam.

Couldn't be bothered

Let me trade and live my life in peace.

Same here...The hedge fund sector notched a 9% gain in 2019, according to Bloomberg's Hedge Fund Indices, well below the S&P 500's 29% gain through the year .

If top hedge fund managers such as Ray Dalio are posting annual gains under 29% why would someone be promising 20% to 30% monthly returns? It's achievable but what will be the Risk Of Ruin . See wetin over leveraging dey cause

Gina2019:
They are loose girls already. Probably taking 2 or 3 d*cks at the same time.

Exactly!!!

I opened a new account to remain anonymous.
This story is a bit long but pls bear with me.

I met this man almost 2yrs ago at an event a friend invited me to. The next week, he collected my number from my friend and called me, we began talking from there and agreed to go on a date. He proposed marriage to me on the first date which I rejected. I told him that I can't marry outside my church and from the little I've heard from him, our life dreams differ. I decided to cut him off from that day and I stayed away for about 3months. Meanwhile he got my friend to introduce him to my sis, mum and another friend who happened to be from his place, I'll call her Grace.
He made them all aware of his intent towards me and my stand and asked for their help to change my mind. Grace became his biggest ally and convinced me to have another date. He asked that we date for a while and see if we can work out our differences. During the date I noticed he has a very hot and quick temper and he listens to gossip a lot so I do tell Gracethat I don't see a future with him but he was too persistent, Grace always had words of encouragement and considering the fact that for some strange reason, it was mainly married men always approach me for a relationship with stories of how they got married to a wrong woman and they are or are almost divorced, dating a single man with no kids was very tempting and I decided to give it a try.

He asked me to tell him everything about me so there are no secrets between us and I did. Starting from secondary school to that day, I told him everything, from my first kiss, the colleague who tried to rape me, my ex who lied about his marital status and disvirgined me etc. he did the same too and I felt a burden roll off my shoulder.

Few days later I began to notice changes in him especially towards my business. I thrive in a male dominated industry in a ratio of 9men to 1woman. He asked me to show him the pictures of my colleagues which I did, he also asked if they make passes at me which I said is almost inevitable but my boundaries are clear and rigid.

Fast forward to now. I noticed that whenever I drop my phone, he goes through it. Facebook, sms, WhatsApp etc. He even picks my call when I'm not close to the phone. He asked me about a certain colleague who cracks dirty jokes like how I rushed to get married (I told him I'm already married). I didn't think much about it.

He later began to complain about my partners and how I'm sleeping with them like the prostitute I am, called me an unrepentant liar, unsubmisive, manipulating etc. Said he regrets asking for my hand at all and he's just waiting forthe day he'll catch me redhanded so he can dump my sorry a*s.
I told him to end it now cus I'm fed up, family came in and I later found out that Grace has been telling a lot of lies against hoping to get him for herself as well as hate filled advises from some aggrieved friends who felt ladies from my tribe are no good and just there to "chop money". Apologies were said and received and we continued.

Another time I visited him and we had an argument, he gave me several heavy knocks on my head and I developed a headache and began to insult him which resultedin more heavy knocks. I broke up with him and left. Later my mum called him to ask why he laid his hands on me, he denied it swearing with his life. Said I insulted him and he lost his temper and insulted me back that he's sorry. He began to drop messages everywhere and I eventually gave in.

3rd incident happened on our way back from an event. He saw a message from a colleague he told me to stop doing business with cus he feels the man has his eyes on me which is totally not true. He flared up, stopped the car and was even threatening to beat me up. I came down from his car and stood by the roadside. He came down too and gave me the insult of my life in full public view and glare and told me to enter the car which I refused. I had no money on me and had to beg a stranger for money. By that time he was coming back, he quickly took a picture of both of us and sent it to everybody of how he caught me in the act with my lover on the road. He called me and said that if he must marry me, I must break my business sim card and look for a wife friendly occupation or sit at home.

He later apologised over it. Meanwhile he and my sis don't flow as before as he once called her a prostitute.

I want to call it quits but everyone around me feels it's a mistake and he is saying everything out of anger and if I'm patient enough, he will change completely.

I must admit that he has changed alot since we met but the progress compared to the timeframe and the heat I face everyday is nothing to write home about.

He loves me to a fault and I don't know if I can find someone who loves me like him but his other attitude is sniffing life out of me. Do I stay or quit?
Thanks for reading and pardon any typos

If all you typed are true... I’ve got just one question for you?

What da f*ck...You wan die? Please leave like yesterday already! Omg

Gina2019:
it still doesn't mean [b]he[/b]can get the sex on a platter of gold.

Don’t make it a he thing...
Females as well like to get s*x on a platter of gold...I’ve got ladies who buzz me up to know when I’ll be free for them to come over and that’s that

You need to define whatever relationship you have with an opposite s*x from the get go...

There are girls who I’ve been with strictly on s*x basis and I explicitly told them I’m not interested in having a girlfriend or any other form of serious relationship as people term it.

Sleeper cells waiting for orders

chigoziri2403:
An uppercut to the face will solve half of Nigerians problems

Laugh wan kee me for here

Isoduwa:


You are a learner

Go and tell your boss your own lies

Let me help you
Tell your Madame say na the girl bring deal come say make Una kill Madame collect everything travel out of the country then you ask her how? She ask you to buy sniper so that she can put it inside Madame food you were surprise by her action immediately you refuse her offer the next thing she started shouting rape rape rape

Are you Gemini ♊️?

Op your narration has sexual harassment written all over it.

You are not an introvert

The maid looked appealing to you

You grew concerns over her wellbeing

You decided to show you cared

When she declined, you felt rejected

You took it a step further to touch her, if that isn’t flirting I wonder what that is

At that point she deciphered your motive

You are a victim of your intentions

dauddy97:
This is a distance relationship that involves two undergraduate. we separated after I couldn't tolerate all what I was seeing with her. From sugar daddy to, double datting and still billing me high. I was in Ondo and she's in Ekiti. She comes once in awhile. After we had separated, we moved on with another guy and gave my number to the guy. I talked to him, but the guy noticed I wasn't happy but, he didn't say anything.


YESTERDAY:
His present Boyfriend messaged me last night that If I wanted her back I should let him know of which I rejected. So, he continued to asked me why I left her.
I told him the plain Truth. After her bills , double datting and so on.


THIS MORNING:
I received a message from my ex. (Screenshot below) Meanwhile, her present Boyfriend has sent her all what I chatted with him.

I woke up and checked my phone only to see the message from my ex.
I couldn't hold it any longer. I told my mum immediately. We called her two parents. They apologized. My mum was angred with me why I discussed such matter with her present Boyfriend.


Now, she called asking me if I still have her nude pictures on my phone. I told her the truth yes. She told me to delete it. I didn't say yes or no. She sent me a message again that "I have yours too".

pls, how do I remove myself completely from people like this? This girl is LIKE A DEVIL to me, I have done a lot for her. She really offended me and still saying I did wrong to her by putting end to the relationship.

You aren’t ready to rid yourself of your ex...
Why the f*ck will you be trying to rid yourself of someone and at the same time won’t mind your business?

Well since you need it to be spelt out to you mind your business delete her boyfriend’s contacts, her contacts and block her from contacting you via phone or social media

I’ll leave you with an advice my mum made me imbibe way back when I was in secondary school “make money and you will have a whole lot of options”. Umunwanyi ga kwu na line

Females think I’m a pastor Till I turn up the heat in da oza room with Dat Night by Chris brown

While males think I’m proud until we sit at a table

But i don’t care what people think or say about me since 1960

Mad Ooo! Nigga wants to toe the kiss and tell line...