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This issue get as e be. Am not really supporting your girlfriend but I think your elder sister and you are over flogging this common bread issue.

There are better ways to pass the message that she would not have tried what she did again. She is you guys guest. Don't forget that.

It is better a lady is her real self and your family knows her for whom she is than having the one that is like heaven's perfection and when married into the family, she turns to a devil.

Don't throw away a 3 year old relationship because of bread that she ate. Just one word and silence from your part and your sis for don borrow am sense and that's all.

AltMonk1:
Hello Romancelanders,

Please help me judge this case between my girlfriend and me, cos I don't see any wrong in what I did, but let me hear your opinions.

So I have been dating this lady for 3 years now, she is pretty and all, she sometimes has character issues but comes back to apologize later, I plan on marrying her in the nearest future, so in an attempt to get her familiar with my family, I decided we should go for the holidays in my state, and we agreed she was going to stay at my elder sisters place whom she knows as they have been communicating on phone for over a year already, so they are quite familiar with each other. We went and all was fine the first night, her husband welcomed us, gave my girlfriend a whole room to herself, we chatted a bit and I left to where I was to stay.

Now the problem started on the night of the second day, I went to see her and we even went out to the park where we had a good time, after we came back home, we were chatting with my sister and she was telling me of how she woke up and everywhere was cleaned and the plates were washed and all, and she even said she was going to miss my girlfriend when she leaves, I was seeing it as an approval, and as we were chatting, my sister offered us food, we both ate together and she asked us to get more if we wanted, but I was full already, so as we were speaking, my girlfriend said she wanted to eat bread, so I teased her a bit about her crazy love for bread, till the extent her mum told me not to give her bread, like, I can buy a whole N500 loaf of bread and not eat a quarter of it, but it will be finished before the day runs out, despite that, my sister was saying I should buy her the bread, she too wanted to eat from it as the remaining bread there was for her husband as he loves to take tea when he comes back from the office, already, my girlfriend ate a part of the bread earlier in the day, and the remaining was what she left for her husband, so I told my girlfriend all that my sister said and said we were going to buy another bread, my sister showed us where they sell, we went there but no one was there to attend to us even after we waited a little, we decided to go home and try later.

I decided to spend more time there knowing fully well that Marwa/Keke stops working by 6 pm, and getting a normal cab is usually difficult, so I used bolt to return home, on getting home, I decided to call my sister to let her know I have arrived safely, and wanted to speak to my girlfriend as her number was not going through, as we were talking, my sister just jokingly told me that I gave my girlfriend an assignment to buy bread this late, and I was like, why didn't she wait till the next day to buy it? must she get it that night? so that was when my sister told me that my girlfriend ate the same bread I told her was for my sister's husband and she wanted to replace it but still did not get bread as most bakeries are on break and the one close by was not responding. I got annoyed and asked to speak to my girlfriend, I asked her, not in a loud voice but making sure my displeasure is passed in my tone, why she ate a bread I told her was for the husband? she said she was sorry and gave my sister the phone and left to her room. I sent her a message on WhatsApp at first trying to make her understand that I was not in any way yelling but was not happy about the situation, but she was not replying to my WhatsApp message, I called her but she refused to pick, so I called my sister back and asked to speak to my gf, that was when she was calling her to come take the phone, but this girl refused to answer her, she called severally but she refused to answer, I felt embarrassed and ashamed of my self, I apologized to my sister and promised to come sort it out the next day, after that, I was angry and texted my girlfriend about how her attitude this night has been terrible and she wanted to spoil 3 years of her life because of a N200 loaf of bread, and if she wants to embarrass me, I will book a ticket for her to return the very next day, and replied me with 'Please do what pleases you.'

Fast forward to this morning, I called my sister to find out if they settled and she told me my girlfriend was still giving her attitude as at this morning, I don't know if what I did was wrong but I need you all to be blunt in your advice, I will be sending her this link to see peoples opinion of her behavior.

Thanks.

Lalasticlala

Yea I have.

Robnectar:
U staying in abj also

Yes na. We have refused to be realistic.

Robnectar:
lol... u are funny but very right

By the time the person starts stealing their goods e go clear for their eyes.
Last year December a 5 liter gallon of groundnut oil was sold for 2500 naira and this a year later (2021), it is almost 6000 naira. Over 100% increase on oil and almost everything in Nigeria. The person go trek and drink gaari to do this kind work.

Robnectar:
Even primary school holder no go survive for this kind job,..... Peace!!!

You hit the nail on the head. God bless you. Flee from both insensitive and stingy people.
If anyone went to uni and have experienced hardship while in school, then you will understand what the OP is talking about.

Klass99:
I honestly can't see what you did wrong and I read your story twice to be sure I didn't miss something.

Your brother and his wife are just very insensitive people, if you ask me.

I don't know what's worse, people who are insensitive to the needs of others or stingy/selfish people?

I think I'll lump them together. Both are worse!

It is not about him and his wife but about his unwavering history of being a two faced man.
Those that have worked close with him as staff all have bitter stories to tell.
A man who is unstable in his words and can sell his integrity for a penny just because he has a presidential ambition for 2022.
What his wife have allegedly accused him is not far from the truth.

It might not come the way you want and when you want it to happen. But know that your reward can be from another way.
I did same too (long story). It was even as if that time my suffering in school got worsened but I know that I could have been preserved from any sort of evil bcus of that and today life is much more better. Just keep doing good if u can in a smart way.

goodconsience77:
My friend I did the same thing 2005 by returning the money was mistakenly giving to me by my customer. The Money was #130.000 even the woman didn't appreciate what I did 4 her. In 2014 I lost #248.000 nobody return anything back to me so it seems that doing good today doesn't attract reward from any supernatural being.

Are you sure those hard palms will not come handy in this regime we are in for protection?
Wait let this administration handover by 2023 then you can make it soft.

Idamond:
Happy New week Nairalanders!!

don't mind my grammar


... please what cream or chemical should I use to soften my hands?

N8200 as at last week I bought

xpressionx:
Their cup of tea.
How much is 12.5kg gas in your area now?

Because prison is freedom and the outside world is prison to them.

Maxymilliano:
Am I the only one wondering why prisoners with access to guns and grenades decided to hold a gang war rather than break out of jail or is it just plain foolishness

Your certificate is just a mere paper. What will determine your how successful you will become for me is:
1.Knowing God for your self
2.Change your mindset. Use a year to reprogram ur mind. U can't go far with the way I see u think about yourself
3.Develop street smartness
4.Skill upgrade. Leave adding certificate upon certificate and pursue raw skill on what is profitable, lasting and u will love doing.

Did anyone notice FFK pic on the wall with a new baby and different woman?
Seems this relationship is a quite one.
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Grow up kid. Got no time.

RedishGreen:
Shut up. Mind your hormones

Am yet to understand why this post had been on every thread. Claiming a million naira salary just to write. You mean up till now 5 writers have not been gotten? Waiting for the gullible to fall into this trap. Please let's be careful.

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[quote author=Lilfemzie post=105572375][/quote]So sorry about this. The passing of your mom really touched me.
She has gone to make life here better for you.
Don't give up. God will surely make a way for you soonest.
Never. Never. I repeat NEVER allow people's opinion validate you.
Keep being frugal in your spending. Keep fighting. Never stop fighting until you break through. You are blessed.

So sorry about this. The passing of your mom really touched me.
She has gone to make life here better for you.
Don't give up. God will surely make a way for you soonest.
Never. Never. I repeat NEVER allow people's opinion validate you.
Keep being frugal in your spending. Keep fighting. Never stop fighting until you break through. You are blessed.
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I hate the mental stress. Am almost useless for the day once I close from work.
Sitting on the PC no easy.

Your children will never be stranded in this life in Jesus name. Amen.
You left me shedding tears with this.

emerged01:
I saw a malnourished baby,OverTwo years old. he couldn’t sit nor walk. I was moved to tears and I tried to know more about the baby. I was told his mother died at childbirth. I promised the guardian baby food monthly even at a time my wife just gave birth. I did it for a year. Just two months of the baby food supplies,the baby regained his strength. The guardian called me one day and I said I need to see the baby. He started walking just after two months of supplies.

Lol. Continue decieving yourself using different moniker to quote your original post. End time scammer.

This scamming is becoming too much in Nairaland.

Havenie:
Good afternoon ma.....I was going through this thread then I saw your comment and decided to seek for your help as I've even created a thread yesterday but no help has been rendered.. please Ma assist me with money to register for jamb....I'm genuinely in need of this ma.... Heavens bless U as U consider my plea

I wonder y this is on front page. Na new scamming format be dis.

Your format is old. Try better. Scammer

Story for the gods

Elpacino481:
The guy is even telling me that they have opened shop in Abidjan and Dakar which he oversee. Very Crooked human being

I don't think op is the owner of the goods he is selling. These are pics from random places. No goods dey any high sea.
Don't afford to ruin your integrity most especially online cause even money can't buy it back.

So shall it be.

FatherCHRISTMAS:
His cup is full already

One day his cup will full. Very soon.

Exactly. Well said.

Mekudi:
Know God's prophecy for your life ,don't go into any business because of how Lucrative you think it is , go for what you have Passion for so that if challenges come up ,you can handle it in a way that the business won't ruin

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The problem is it has already been programmed to be useless if used outside kaduna

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Please someone should explain to me how a sane business person took time to enroll in the school of insults for the sake of his customers?
It shows you are what people say you're if not you will not be defensive.

OP please well done for the good work.
I keep asking myself if this scammers know that a generation lies within them?
You thrive in life at the expense of stealing people's sweat. You have set in motion a path to irreversible curses for generations unborn after you to live in without any option to choose.

If you are making a living on cheating people, decide to change today. Not because of you but for your generations not to become vagabonds.
Not everyone you encounter in the cause of scamming will allow their money to go down the drain without visiting the beyond for your sake.

We can make this nation to be better. Starting from us in the online world.
Scammers should not forget that for every action they carry out to rip people off their money and make it difficult for genuine people to do business online, nature will will fight for the cause of the good.

LAST WORDS .....
Money can buy several things but cannot buy INTEGRITY & HONESTY. No one can take this away from you. Strive not to lose it because once lost, it cannot be gotten back.