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Iranoladun:
Do people date nowadays by 1st exchanging credentials & CVs? If not by the time you are heads over heels in love if the guy/gal has a pass it won't matter to you! It is your ability/capability and attitude that matter most not the way you have been classified narrowly(during a 4 or 5 years degree program)out of the rest of your life span education because life itself is a school: are you still learning on other alternative means by which you can excel or you've given up on life? May be another undergraduate degree, a diploma or a Masters degree to complement your 3rd class, learn a skill, devlop your hobby into something great e.g. Cooking, singing, acting, reading, etc

Please tell the poster because i can see that iwo logbon ntie (u get sense)

@ post, let her drink a lot of givenchy and miyaki perfs

hollandis:
@poster
It depends,have you bleeped all of them?

This is a craZY POST , well u can consult pastor T.B joshua for a way forward,

Double N:
A degree doesn't determine a person's position in life,go to the psychiatric Hospitals and see enough first class graduates.

Good talk boy, very sensible leave the madam alone make she dey find phillips emegwali up and down, @poster , u go grow white in ur search for Cloud of FirstClasses , by the time u r 45years of age,maybe u wil get one, pele,sorry,ndo

JustGood:
Can you even manage one wife successfully?

Can u pls answer that question? I now understand that Humans only use about 1/10 of their brain power. With you, it could be less Even physics confirmed that Since light travels faster than sound, people appear bright from afar until you hear them speak then you will be disappointed that they are thoughless being.

@poster, if u ready to get someone else,nobody go teach u, stop crying over spilt milk, enof babes dey out there for u man

I will jump from the highest storey building in Lagos and will treat myself with part of the money

@poster,
For ur information,everything is wrong with having a second wife without divorcing the first one, 1 woman= 10problems then 2women=100probs, Pls branch a hospital for checkup abeg, u r loosing ur mind,
Toto no go drive u down ur grave like our late ex military president.

i found my love on the internet, no big deal dear, its left to u to find out his intentions if they r genuine

@poster and supporters, how many of u graduated with a 1st class, Y would u let academic performance determine the success of ur marriage?That's absolute nonsense and ur type of pple end up in the wrong hands.
Having an Education is a fairly decent guarantee of a life that is above mendicancy and homelessness. This however,
is true if you live in a society that have a productive capacity to accommodate your skills.
So the question now becomes, is it the learning or grade i am looking for in a partner?
or the ability to sustain a quality of life where finances and academic stance become a non issue?
i can go for an intelligent girl(not necessarily a 1st class) who has gotten ideas on how to manage a home.
Educated(might not b sensible)nigerian girls/guys like u r more likely to shop around 4graduate hubbies/wifeys,simply to fulfil their parents'unchecked desire for a lawyer,doctor,engineer, , as son-inlaw, Even if the person is not worthy to be the father or mother of ur kids,so long as he/she is able to meet ur "My partner must be a 1st class policy" ,then he is perfect for u,
capital mumu

@everyone.I am so disappointed to read all these comments. No one has ever asked the ladies in the house true question which is, Will u ever believe it(whether ur ears or eyes or instinct) if ur husband / fiance tells u that ur mother is or has been luring him to bed? Let's be realistic, For once in ur lifetime,u will detest ur supposed husband or fiance because of the love u have for your mother and u will nvr believe watever he says again, Him telling u the truth can even break the togetherness.Every1 is just pasting watever he/she likes cos u were nt in tha shoes, Don't criticize what you don't understand, son. You never walked in that man's shoes.[i][/i]
yoruba says [b]eni bo lobo, eni ba lomo[/b]Pray nvr to be a living testimony of such my people,
Cheers!!

@poster,
When he threw u out of his house to the street he made u understand dat u r nothing(0). .mathematically speaking,1+0=1 and 1-0=1. .since he told u to ur face that u were nothing to him,then y worry?as far as i am concern.he is nothing to u because 1+0=1 and 1-0=1 that means dat with him u lived, without him u still lived and u will still live long my dear. .Go ahead and grab ur happiness in d man u wanna marry without wasting time so that u wont regret"I don't want to hurt my father" and remember,
Never give up on sum1 when u can't go a day without thinking about them, [/i] and
Never make anyone a priority when he/she only makes you an option.Even ur parents.Think about it.[i]

To me ,Love is all that matters, God be with u.

aderonke12:
If i must say anything, then it has to be frankly said. U see, the issue of marriage is a very sensitive one. As for the ladies, its God that directs one to a good man. There are no good men out there, only just a few are serious. At the same time, we ladies have to be serious too. I am married with a son and I love my family so much but i tell u, prayer is the key. What is bad needs prayers and what is good also needs prayers. I have seen a good man turning to a bad one and I have seen a bad one turning to a good one. Above all, we must be very careful and not allow worldly things take over our lives. Ladies, there is time for everything the desire to be big girls(bis girls) is the begining of loneliness for life. No man will respect u anymore, forget the fact that u are rich, they will help u spend ur money and run away. Everyman wants a well mannered girl from a good home. HARD WORK will make you richer and u have nothing to loose if u work hard, u'll only be rewarded for ur hard work. GOOD LUCK to all the ladies out there!

Please preach to those young ladies who claim to be focused but lack MORALS and RESPECT cos of their status @ work.

Omolola1:
There is everything wrong in visiting a guy friend alone, its just like you are giving him an INVITE!

Omolara, for the first time I beg to disagree with u, To me it doesn't matter whether u go alone or in multitude.Look @ JENIFA part 2, I think the girl should not let all her guards down and moreso she should ascertain the guy's sincerity of purpose b4 going to his house. its just like you are giving him an INVITE this is not always true.

Omolola1:
RUN! RUN!! RUN!!! FOR YOUR LIFE

Did u hear that?Gbo oun ti emi mimo nso, Mo wi temi naa oo, orun mi(my neck) ma mo o , eni ba leti ko gbo oo eee(he that has ears,let him hear wat d spirit wuld say)
Even physics confirmed that Since light travels faster than sound, people appear bright from afar until you hear them speak/advice then you will be disappointed that they are thoughless human beings(like you).

@poster, Why did u fall in love with ur partner?

That tells u that there is no difference between the wise and the foolish man when they r in love,

i_laugh:
Studies has shown that women can fok anything that moves once they are in a sexual state called freudal ignite stage - at this time, not only the driver can do, even if it was the cook, he will be adequately foked to his heart desire.

@i_laugh, Don't u think this is uncalled for?There are better ways to express it, If your strength is small, don't carry heavy burdens. If your words are worthless, don't give advice.

Omolola1:
@ nethacker

yeah, you are partially right, it happens like that sometimes.

But then, ladies picture this circumstance

You place an advert that you need a driver, one day, a tall, handsome gorgeous looking MAN (not boy o) walk into your office and says he wants to be your DRIVER! Fine, you employ him, and then he is your driver.
But then, you started having feelings for him, something you can't control, and you discover you are really CRAZY about him. You wont mind the Circumstance he is in, you won't even mind that he is your driver, the next thing is you UPGRADE HIS STATUS, buy him clothes, give him a clean shave and polish him up.

Then, he wont even look like YOUR DRIVER! He would then be your FIRST CLASS BOYFRIEND
Though, tongues would wag but who cares.

WE ARE ALL HUMAN BEINGS REGARDLESS OF OUR CLASS.

@Omolola1
To generalize on women is dangerous. To specialize on them is infinitely worse.

Check this analysis i extracted from ur view
1)A tall, handsome gorgeous looking MAN (not boy o)
Is he learned?Does he have the minimum qualification u would like ur hubby to hv?
2)But then, you started having feelings for him, something you can't control, and you discover you are really CRAZY about him
How easy can this be?Someone u barely know his origin or background or parentage?
3) He would then be your FIRST CLASS BOYFRIEND
Why boyfriend?Why not Fiance?

Just an extraction,don't quote me and don't take it personal my dear.

y me:
of course i can that is if he is handsome, brilliant and the love is there i will just clean him up and the rest is history

I like this I must confess but can you do it?
Ladies, let's be realistic,thinking of the man as ur DRIVER alone will make u NEVER create a space for him in ur heart .It's very very rare to see this happen and if it happens,it'll be because of some circumstances beyond the lady's control which can be either she's too old to get a man of her choice or she's been jilted many times.

See All of una, una like oil companies , chei, awon omo 9ja. ,
Mobil ko Mobil ni, How many of una apply wey una won check una centre?Awoooof,Have u ever check ur jamb result @ jamb office without collectin Jamb form or registering for Jamb? , shortcut,

mama good:
hmmmmmm women??
when will they learn?
pal,this babe wont have glace ur way if u were a cleark,cleaner or a guy earning little cash some where.
my advice?
jus forget her.
she belong to ur past,let her remain there.
Bn friends is very dangerous,one thing might lead to another,
u sure know wat i mean.

@mama good,
I am surprised @ ur comment :oU r knowledgable and intelligent.This note of urs applies to my ex girl--just broke November, Some ladies like shortcut to success all in the name of not suffering with a man.

asomugha:
if yr husband happens to slap u d first one endure but if he gives u d second one return back d slap expect u are a dolli.

@asomugha ,If your strength is small, don't carry heavy burdens. If your words are worthless, don't give advice.
@ poster,"If you are patient in one moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow."
Food 4 thought.

Make the guy go buy viagra for that nite or use be-fit capsules

pmdaboh:
@igaro

I think it is a blessing that your wife is in a financial position to do those financial things for the family. Try to financially position yourself better, so you will feel better about your financial contribution as a husband. Most men are not comfortable if their wife is pulling most of the financial obligations in the family. I personally do not think a woman should carry the bulk of the financial obligations in a marriage myself--although I believe a woman should help out financially. The cost of living (in America) is high, and it usually takes both husband and wife working together to handle the expenses.

@pmdaboh, oku lakaaye jare omo oluwabi, iwo l'ogbon ni tie, You are making sense jare

y me:
oya all the real men step up on your game right now ok

@y me, The  only people who find what they are looking for in life are the fault finders-the unmarried babes- and surely in the one they love most.They have the answer to everything and the solution to nothing.That's y they'll remain single.
A Lady educated in mind and not in morals is a menace to society” for Manners easily and rapidly mature into morals.”It baffles me alot that When women go wrong, SOME men(not ALL) go right after them.

Ofcourse as long as they want

nickybayo:
it brought me to my knees and tears to my eyes
and to think a man posted this
@ poster
will u marry me
its just so marvellous
thank you 4 reminding us of our worth

@nikkybayo, If you need advice, text me, If you need a friend to hold, call me, If you need me, come to me, If you need money, THE SUBSCRIBER CANNOT BE REACHED!, Come marry me am single, hehehehehehehe

Theblessed:
Again, it's high time men in the 3rd world begin to respect their women and realise they are as capable as men and it's about time they should grow up - all of them.  You see God has told them, shown them, hinted to them in more than many ways that men and women are EQUAL but DIFFERENT yet, most men are as deaf and blind as a bat to acknowledge this broad day light FACT and thus give women their long over due respect.

@TheBlessed, I want you to understand something,Women who seek to be equal with men lack ambition.One mustn't criticize other people on grounds where he/she can't stand perpendicular himself/herself because "A critic is someone who never actually goes to the battle,yet who afterwards comes out shooting the wounded”Don't criticize what you don't understand, dearie. You never walked in that man's shoes.”

Extramarital Affairs??Total Nonsense Is it not better to divorce than to do that?Because in a marriage where secrecy or mystery begins or lingers, vice and/or roguery is not far off.No one is perfect.

@poster, I don't think there is a problem with that anyway, Just pray to GOD for a brighter day, Remember,she is your WIFE and not your GIRLFRIEND, If you are legally married,don't feel bad about it, who knows,she might be your angel in times of trouble, perhaps thats y GOD joined u guyz, please let no third party in,

Do you know what it means to come home at night to a woman who’ll give you a little love, a little affection,
a little tenderness? It means you’re not in the wrong house.

Will help u find that out from a friend sha, call him on 08056559428 his name is matthew, tell him from leke@technology