BigBlackPreek: Lack of respect for Goodluck haaa.... He must really be your nightmare and the fact that you lost the gubanitorial election of which you weren't the rightful owner of the ticket in the first place
Generalmystic: you are comparing Rivers state that receives second highest allocation from federal government after Delta state?. You must be an Agbaya.
Why is federal government still constructing roads and bridges in Lagos despite her acclaimed wealth?
Don't argue with mongrels, bro, it's just not worth it
Jewessgratitud3: I just thought to share and again it's no bodys business what I share about myself here. I chose to do it and don't care if it sits well with anyone or not. My life, my share .
I'm sharing this just to let some ladies know that being a widower doesn't break a man and will not stop him from being an unrepentant cheat if he wants to. I used to think a widower will be more responsible and loyal to one woman considering the fact that he's now a second hand value bachelor and the death of his former wife will make him get closer and more committed to his spouse, home and family at large but I was wrong cos after my experience with one, I realized men will always be cheat men.
This happened in 2013 after staying away from relationships for a long time. So I joined Badoo ( it was the rave then, though I joined in 2012). A young man ( in his 40s then) chatted me up and I checked his profile. There he stated that he was looking for a lady for serious relationship and added he was a Christian. He was also looking very handsome and tall. We chatted and exchanged numbers.
When we got talking he told me he was a widower. It was hard to believe because he looked very young. He now told me he married very early. He went ahead and told me he has 6 children 👀👀👀. I didn't believe until he showed me their pics. 4 girls and two boys. He said the wife kept having children because she wanted a male child and died after giving birth to the last child, a male. She got home from the hospital after childbirth and started bleeding immediately and was rushed back to the hospital but never made it back. Meanwhile he was not in the country when this happened.
This made me have compassion and developed feelings for him. After a few months of inviting me over, I finally agreed to visit after he assured me the elder sister is staying with him to look after the baby ( he was already a year then but was not walking). He never liked the boy because he was always saying the boy caused his wifes death and each time the baby boy sees him, he'll be screaming due to the way he looks at the baby and I'll be telling him to stop, teasing him that it's him the boy resembles. So when I visited for the first time, I was shocked at what I saw. He actually owns the house he was living in in Sango. He built it when the going was good but after the wife's death, he came back and stayed for a whole year without a job. He just got the job he was doing as a hotel manager when I met him and his take home was not good at all. So to maintain the big house was a challenge. He could barely feed his kids. Even the two older ones were not with him. They were living with his brother just to ease him of the burden. when the sister saw me, she got angry and told him that he has not finished taking care of his children he's bringing in another lady. He told me to ignore the sister and face him. If I go there, I'll cook and serve everybody because he was always complaining of not having money but sometimes he'll give me part of the money I used.
Initially the children didn't like me and he said I should be buying them snacks. So then if I close from work, I'll go and meet him at his office and we'll go home together. I bought snacks and the children reluctantly collected the snacks. He went to work on that Saturday and I gathered the children and started telling them stories. They began to come close. When he got back he drove all of us to a football viewing center and bought me pepper soup. I thought I had found the right man. I was even saying I don't need to birth any children since he already has six. We'll just stay with his own children ( lol . small girl sense). He would tell me no, that he wants me to give him a beautiful daughter like me.
Six months into the relationship, I noticed something in his room while he was away at work. I saw a foreign prison card in his jacket I now began to connect the dots. I remembered him saying he was away when the wife died and while she was pregnant, he had problem abroad. So she developed BP. He even told me he wasn't around when his house was built that the wife supervised the whole thing before he now had a problem but be never told me what the problem was. I then discovered with the prison card, he was prolly in jail all that time. I didn't ask him anything.
Later he started telling me there's this single mother that has been begging him to marry her and she buys him stuff. I was like marry her now afterall two of una na second hand value. He'll laugh and say God forbid. That he wants chassis. The lady buys him and his children stuff. At a point I told him to stop collecting the gift or risk our relationship. He promised to stop.
One day he was sleeping and i was just going through his phone ( I never used to do that) and saw "my love". My head sparked. I woke him up with a heavy slap and showed him, he started saying its you I love. I said no! Tell me who this Is.. then I began to cry because I just knew it was over. He started begging and called his Aunty into the room. The aunty said the person is a family. I said call her. He now called the number and an elderly woman picked and he started telling her that I'm crying my eyes out here because I saw a message he sent to her. The woman spoke with me but I wasn't convinced. Throughout that night, he played "please forgive me' Brian Adams. hmm.. feeling nostalgic now. I calmed down and we continued.
After some months my chairman sacked me because I refused to go out with him and told him I'm in a relationship. After I lost my job I reduced my visits because bus fare from mainland to Sango was quite expensive and he too could not sponsor my visits regularly due to so much financial responsibilities and since I had been the one doing it when I was working. It became a once in a while thing.
Then one day, he told me to come to his office let's go home that he has missed me. I asked him, do you have money he said we'll manage. This man did not tell me we were going by train ( chai things we do for love) from his office we set out to oshodi. This man put head for train lane. I said waaaat t... I almost went back but it was already getting dark. I entered train for the first time. See me shaking. He had to hold me before one man now stood up for me to sit. Because it's been a while I've been to the house, when we got home, the aunty said you'll not stay in one place. Today you carry this, tomorrow you carry another one. I told him what the sister said and he told me not to mind her. In my mind i was like... see this second wen I dey manage too wan dey play ... I kept asking until he now confessed that the Aunt was referring to the other single mother that the lady has been forcing herself on him but it's me he wants. There and then I zeroed my mind.
After that visit, as we were going that morning, we quarreled on the way because the vehicle we borded got spoilt plus I wasn't happy after hearing what the sister said. So I was just edgy that morning and blasted the driver and some of the passengers. He got angry and left after trying to get me off the bus and I refused, saying I should run after him cos he's running late for work. I was just looking at him. I didn't get down. I waited for him to go far, I now got down and took another route to my house.
I didn't call for a week and refused to pick his calls because whats the point killing myself over a widower with six children who has refused to stick with one woman. When I eventually picked, it was my guy ( now ex) who told me to pick in the bus that day we were going to camp and he was chyking me. Oga kept calling and as usual I ignored him but the sound was disturbing our conversation so my gy told me to pick and hear him out. I picked and he was crying and put all his children on the phone to beg me. He said they are missing me and one of them is sick. I said ok, I'll call you later. That was it. I blocked him. Went to Badoo and blocked him there in fact I deleted my Badoo account. Deleted his number and ended the whole thing..
Men will always be men
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When I said all men are the same what I'm simply implying is, whether they are poor, rich, widower or handicapped they will still cheat or have that tendency to cheat. Take it or get lost!
A man's vulnerability doesn't stop him from exhibiting those bad habits (cheating and deception). They'll will always do that thing that make us call them meennnn... If you know what I mean and if you don't Gerrit, forget abourit. .
After you do olocho finish you are now hunting the single-fathers
You mongrels are down in the gutters attacking each other, even while your oppressors up in Abuja are united from all the 250-something tribes Nigeria encompasses
mormoney85: I am still wondering, is it bad luck or coincidence, anything the man touches or comes in contact with gets bad
Two time president same bad economy and recessions
He touched a Pigeon and it refused to fly
Joshua was doing great not until he visited him and that's it, today even if you set a match for Joshua against him self he will still lose to him self
He call the super eagles, and we all knows how it ended for them
Now since I was born I never heard any bad news from south Korea , and then few days ago there was in south Korea snapping pictures and the boom hundreds of people were dead for the same event they had been hosting for years
Anthony Joshua prostrated for Papa Failure, and his destiny disappeared in a flash
I'm sure it was that cursed parrot, the demon-infested 'Pastor' Femi Adesina, who misled that poor guy
Conner44: I know you will still abandon this particular account again just as you did with all the others that I've busted. Heaven knows how many fresh ones you've printed between last night and this morning to use as replacements
I can only imagine how frustrating it must feel, you suffer to hide and mask yourself to be able to come here and find trouble only for busybody conner to bust you just after making a single post
The truth is that anybody can pick you out of a stack of fo0ls because your own fo0lishness never struggles to stand out it's automatic and inbuilt
The only thing I agreed with you was that if you ever come here and post as you usually do when you have smoked colorado I will immediately expose that your particular account, and maybe a few more from the other sections and threads you're also actively terrorising.
simple
You think am your father that is addicted to cheap kwale weed. Stop projecting your life situations onto other people, you hear
Conner44: Believe it or not, these two accounts belong to one and the same person
Sometimes I honestly wonder why a human being will be so preoccupied with this type of behavior on a forum like nairaland. There are some actions you see and start to wonder out loud to yourself saying "what manner of man is this?"
The only thing he wants is to scatter - scatter - scatter . . . It's sad.
You're so jobless you have the time to scour nairaland doing detective work for seun for free
And no, the fact I registered around the same period with that other dude doesnt make us the same. Use your brain, zombie; & don't forget to get a life while you're at it, you're pathetically underemployed
UdyOgwoUde: Obviously, they are kidnapped victims probably killed for not paying ransoms. When Gov. Otti temporarily shut the market down, haters said it’s an attack against the Hausas, now the governor have been vindicated.
Aboki kidnappers were using the place to warehouse their victims. Those bodies are the ones who could not pay ransome and were murdered or otherwise died while in captivity. See why ruga is such a bad idea...
BadMaster: It doesn't make sense to you because you have a phone on your hands with internet connection, which in turn, makes you believe you actually have an opinion on this matter, something you know nothing about.
These people have conducted years of researches and tests, and the know the viability of embarking on this.
This is the problem with having access to social media, everyone has an opinion over issues they know nothing about.
Lol you're a fool, big one in fact
Palm oil is not even enough for human nutritional requirement, you think it can be repurposed as fuel. Just like biofuel from corn it's purely an academic exercise, it cannot compete with hydrocarbons.
[quote author=Nonny95 post=126689964][/quote]Igbo land is sitting on vast reserves of natural gas
You can bet the northerners are watching this video and taking notes. Another operation python dance/ rugafication of SE will soon be launched from Abuja
Yankiss: What is the challenge when we can always borrow and leave the sum and accrued interest to future generations, that doesn't include our families?
All our leaders' kids carry 2nd passports from either America or Europe, some of them are not even with Nigerian passports they're straight-up foreigners. The biggest fools are the emilokan zombies supporting them to plunder Nigeria, in exchange for crumbs like 100k salary to post garbage online
Even Mc oluomo has his nine kids in America, k-1 too. Shettima just got back from seeing his new baby born on U.S soil, yet fools like Rostikol are on here rooting for the ongoing enslavement of their entire descendants for the next 200 years...such pathetically brainless and worthless fools they make me wanna puke
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it's automatic and inbuilt 