The youth of nowadays are like wild animals. I can't even imagine the period they will be the ones in charge of Nigerian society, it's gonna be HELL on earth
Nigeria is just a terrible place. No scruples, no morals, no sense of community. Just game the system and cash out at the expense of every other person even when they are your unborn kids
SuRamzy: Pardon my jargons i wasn't brought up speaking English.
Where do i start?, imagine Battling abject poverty, Aids, hearing loss, brain tumor, sickle cell,, homeless, depression, glaucoma.
My life is badly ruined, yes I'm not caping nor exaggerating my conditions i felt it's right time i seek your opinions and maybe find a helpful hand.
My name is suraju, I'm from kogi state, I'm 23 yrs old a secondary school dropout, here's a downturn of my life .
I was born into a polygamous family of four wives nineteen children, my mom and dad are divorced nor did they married before i'm the only child bind btw em.
My mom and dad are likely related but not too close blood. I was three yrs old when my dad attempted to deny me, according to my mom i would have being fatherless if not for the gods intervention . He prolly denied me because of his wives motivation and advices but the gods react negatively on him which almost cost him his life.(long story)
What's my crime? At times i feel i never existed before but who I'm to decides.
Throughout these years i face so many challenges to become successful in anything that i venture but to no avail, i dropped out of school not because i don't wannabe but simply because i can't afford it and life remains unbearable.
To meet my end i sell sachet water, pushed wheel Barrows, learned tailor, worked at warehouse, worked at timbershed, worked as filling station dispenser,
now working at leather factory with a peanuts salary N5k its not even a monthly but paid according to tons of work done. its three years Working at the factory not because it's sustainable, i can't even afford a pencil with such wages but damn i have no choice, due to my dedication and loyalty my boss entrusted me to handle his leather shops, i'm the only person left at the shops the rest flee overnight nobody want to settle for less, yo no that kinda of feeling working for a narcissistic boss.
That's not the problem, the problems now is i had ear effection and other aforementioned health conditions. Due to excessive heat and noise at the factory causing my hearing condition to deteriorate i'm now deaf i can barely hear what'sup if you're not too close to me hmmm.
I can't afford anything i feel hopeless depressed not even a slippers, no saving, homeless where do i begin if i quit.
I'm currently learning forex trading, i enrolled to oanda premium webinars training which i can't even attend because my device is not zoom supported , my phone running on android 7.
Forex trading is my priority, but how can i succeed if i'm fighting so many wars on my head, you know how devastating its. hearing loss can negatively affect your brain functions as you gon stressed it out.
Aids is under control I'd go to the hospital every four months for check ups, i don't know how i got infected blud life is so darn on me i feel like ending it all.
Odewaleadesoye: A chieftain of the All Progressives Congress (APC), Femi Fani-Kayode, has urged President Bola Tinubu to condemn the killing of children and women in Gaza.
Fani-Kayode urged Tinubu to join world leaders in calling for an unconditional ceasefire in Gaza.
The former Aviation Minister made the call while faulting the bombing of Gaza by the Israeli Defence Force.
Tmb78: It's always pathetic when I see people like you typing this when the news is about yorubas.
The same igbos that celebrated the vice president of the USA just because her niece married an Igbo man You all were shouting igbos to the world right here Anybody who wrote what you just wrote was tagged jealous and tribalistic
The same igbo will shout Igbo amaka if the same lady is Igbo, with the same comment attracting hundreds of likes from your people
I can't deal with two faced hypocrites like you people, Jesus!
Oya go and carry her come back to Yaribá na, shebi na you be her papa
adenigga: Former President Muhammadu Buhari on Monday said there is no evidence to prove that his government was, at any point, hijacked by a cabal. He claimed that if truly there was a cabal, Nigerians should have pointed it out. “Why didn’t they talk?” he queried in an interview aired on the Nigeria Television Authority late Monday. The President said he never interfered with the jobs of his ministers. “I don’t have any evidence of anybody doing anything wrong and being allowed to walk away. No. “No, because I don’t deliberately allow anybody to use public resources for himself. I allowed people to do their job as I understood it,” he noted. Buhari noted that if he were to be president again, he would not do anything differently.
mamagee3: [color=deeppink]Younger brother saw me and gave a long sigh when he saw me at our mother’s house after a few years…Not hello, just a long sigh and walked away.[/color]
It simply means that your wahala is too much! You need to be calming down!
Meanwhile are you related to Kobojunkie? Is she your mother?
[quote author=plaindealer post=127078299][/quote]What Africans fail to realize is the fact that the White man is always about his own self-interest. There is no altruism in the game of international relations or diplomacy
Centuries ago they were forcibly taking the Black to their lands to serve as free labour...now the job is done and their societies are shining, they lock out the Black man from those same societies he was used to build.
Stop expecting anything good from these White devils in human skin! Seize your destiny in your own hands and take care of your kin!
pocohantas: It would never make sense to me. That is how one Nlder's wife was hustling for a low paying job, all because she wants to be working class. By the time she starts that job, she won't be able to save or even contribute to the home after deducting transport and other overhead expenses. She would still come back tired. Unable to tend to the kids, let alone the husband's sexual needs.
I recommend a source of income for women, but it doesn't have to be this crazy 9to5 schedule. She can have a skill and create a workspace at home. Anything to keep her mind busy and have her interract with people. It helps clear the mind and support the home/her immediate family.
What were such women doing in their teens and twenties? If they had joined the rat race at that period of their lives, they would have achieved some level of seniority by the time they got married, at least enough to cushion the effects of a hustle on their home life.
A woman should always work, because what if the man dies young? In all such scenarios that I've seen the women ended up in ashawo work and it's not cool, most especially if they've got girl-children looking up to them and copying their every move. Let every woman have something doing abeg: buying-snd-selling, handwork like hairdressing, or at least civil service. Every woman should work even if it's only to set an example for their young kids.