Travel › Re: Mbaise Cultural Event In America Shut Down By Texas Police by NewDea4: 4:47pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
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Travel › Re: MMA: Thieves Breach Security, Steal Million-worth Lighting Components by NewDea4: 4:44pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Epic Throwback: Tinubu Tackles Ibori (November 2005) by NewDea4: 11:12am On Jul 10, 2023 |
Twenty years of heavy piping. Is not easy on the human frame |
Politics › Re: DSS Never Raided Our Offices For Documents Against Tinubu - Code Of Conduct Bure by NewDea4: 1:57am On Jul 10, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: A Very Disturbing Statistics !!! by NewDea4: 12:58am On Jul 10, 2023 |
Is Adamu Garbage a human being? |
Family › Re: Genotype Issue. Please Be Rational ( I Am Not A Religious Person) by NewDea4: 11:14pm On Jul 09, 2023 |
Bolt458: I am not writing this for religious people to come with their funny talks, I am just putting this out here to hear from people who might have tried this methods or who heard about this methods and still proceeded or did not. I want to hear your experience. I have been dating someone for 5 years now, it happened that I began to see her as someone I would want to spend my life with. Last year we did our genotype test and we were both AS. Now , I know some of you will say this should be the first thing you ask when you meet someone but c’mon, would you say people in university that are dating now, would ask their sef that question? That theory is only feasible when you are single and ready to get married and want to start a new relationship, then you can always ask, but we all know some of our relationships started when we no Dey even see marriage in the nearest future, all of a sudden you just see them as the right person and you take the bold step. Now, I had to meet my family doctor here in Canada, I explained to him my current situation and he referred me to a GENETIC COUNSELOR. I am trying to take the necessary steps cause I am not ready to bring in a child with Sickle cell to this world, and I am not leaving anything to faith. A fone appointment was set with the counselor and we spoke at length. She told me that in every foetus, there is a 25% chance that we can get an SS child. Now , how do we mitigate this percentage to the barest minimum I asked as I am not even ready to bring in a sickler to this world. She gave me three options, I would rather say two because the last involves test when the baby comes, and that is out of the question.
Option 1: A) CVS: They take a sample of the fluid in the womb through her vagina, at 12 weeks to test, if it’s good then fine, if not we have to terminate.
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B) At 16 weeks, they take the fluid using a needle directly from her womb, and if it’s SS , they terminate. Both procedures are cover by the government and we don’t need to pay a dime.
Now, she assured me that abortion is a very safe procedure if done properly, and it is even a bigger risk that one can die from a penicillin injection or carrying a pregnancy to term than any harm during an abortion.I know many people would come here and say abortion is this and that but let us be frank to ourselves. If you were told that the child in your womb would have cerebral palsy, or Down syndrome or a neurological disorder, would you still keep that pregnancy? Is there a 100% assurance that two AA people would give birth to a healthy baby? I have come to a realization that pregnancy is just a risk that people take, cus you really don’t know how your child would turn out.
Option 2: PGD. This is just like IVF, where they would select the genotype before they insert back to the womb. She told me the government doesn’t cover this, and it could cost between $10K- $40k. However she mentioned, just like IVf, it is not guaranteed as it can fail and your money is gone.
I discussed this with my girl in Nigeria and she said she was fine with option 1a. I then asked her, that if the first, second are SS would she still remove it. She accepted. I would not lie to you, this girl is everything I want in a woman. I am not just looking at just love because I know love fades with time, but she is a really nice person, and has a good character. She has always been like this from my days in Nigeria because I was with her before I moved outside. Now after finding out our genotype, I tried to get into a relationship with AA. The first one Dey nigeria, she is a nice person, beautiful, but I just didn’t like her or feel attracted to her. She got tire and we just free ourselves, the second one is here in Canada, I just don’t like this one . Please note, I never slept with any of these ladies because I feel it’s not fair.
Now my question is for those who knew all this and still proceeded, how did it work out for you?
I repeat, don’t come here to tell me about how abortion is this and dat. Cus I know if they tell any of you that your child would be abnormal, 90% of you will go for the abortion So wtf d'you want to hear dude |
Romance › Re: How I Used Civil Defence To Collect Back The Phone My Brother Bought For A Girl by NewDea4: 10:45pm On Jul 09, 2023 |
God1000: Na waoo
Ladies hate seeing their own brothers being played that way, they can't stand it But they have no problems playing other people's brothers, shey? |
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Politics › Re: Names Of Ex-Governors Receiving Pensions In 10th Senate by NewDea4: 11:40pm On Jul 08, 2023 |
nedekid: Pension for ruling as governors for 8 years and amassing wealth for several generations. Collecting pensions from poor states, money for suffering masses. Anyway, who is the originator of this pension issue for ex governors? I think it is a fallacy to think such individual gives a hoot about average Nigerians. Yeah, a 21 year old can be bought a flat for 2.5m dollars, another a town house for $11m, likely from questionable, u explained sources of income linked to state resources, yet folks still hail and praise despite being subjected to penury, urged to manage for better tomorrow, yet the political leaders and their puppies have their own tomorrow today. The money wey dem thief for eight years, now-now e done finish sef Na why people like Fashola, Akpabio, Fayose & co no wan leave public 'service' till dem die be dat Useless thieves |
Politics › Re: Names Of Ex-Governors Receiving Pensions In 10th Senate by NewDea4: 11:35pm On Jul 08, 2023 |
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Travel › Re: N1.54trn Kano-Maradi Railway To Have Over 100 Bridges, 3 Side Camps by NewDea4: 7:58pm On Jul 08, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Subsidy Removal Drags Down Petrol Consumption By 28% by NewDea4: 11:13pm On Jul 07, 2023 |
airsaylongcome: Common now! Smuggling was responsible for the 28% reduction? Do you know how many people have stopped purchasing petrol for their cars and generators? Those monkeys probably work for NNPCL, the figures you see there were front-loaded and doctored that's why you see an exact 28% result for both consumption deficit/differential and the population factor. Nigeria is not consuming up to 30 million litres - less than half the fake volume NNPCL has been subsidizing since the Skeleton Dullard came to power eight years ago. You can bet his share is sitting in a Swiss account waiting for him, they are all bastards |
Politics › Re: Subsidy Removal Drags Down Petrol Consumption By 28% by NewDea4: 10:56pm On Jul 07, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Bulkachuwa Asks Court To Stop ICPC From Probing Him For Influencing His Wife by NewDea4: 9:31pm On Jul 07, 2023 |
They should be probing the wife too |
Properties › Re: My Room Transformation Progress With Cost Breakdown(Photos) by NewDea4: 8:43pm On Jul 07, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: ‘I Curse The Day I Joined Labour Party Because Of Peter Obi,’ 74-year-old Woman by NewDea4: 9:39am On Jul 07, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Ayo Fayose Visits President Tinubu In Aso Rock (Photos) by NewDea4: 9:37am On Jul 07, 2023 |
Godjone: Yoruba na yoruba. They can never change. This man that speaks terrible things about APC in the past is the one romancing and dinning with the APC. Shameless people His loot is running low Baba need to re-stock from national treasury |
Politics › Re: Ogun: Gbenga Daniel Asks Abiodun To Stop His Monthly Pension, Allowances by NewDea4: 9:33am On Jul 07, 2023 |
Na now this big THIEF dey get conscience 
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Politics › Re: Fani Kayode: The EU Are Nothing But Big Losers by NewDea4: 1:38am On Jul 07, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: 2023 Census: NPC Seeks Extra N256bn For Training, Others by NewDea4: 1:34am On Jul 07, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Why I Ran Away From Daura To London – Buhari by NewDea4: 6:31am On Jul 06, 2023 |
Useless man saying useless things as usual |
Travel › Re: FG Issues Flood Alert, Says 14 States May Record Heavy Rainfall by NewDea4: 11:12pm On Jul 05, 2023 |
Candidlady:

Why did they mention Lagos twice
Lagos the overrated state.. ordinary drizzle everywhere is already flooded..
Iheard during rainy season people sell their cars there to get canoe 🛶 Lagos will be gone within the next fifteen years...the entire Lekki-Ajah down to Dangote's holdings in Ibeju. I bet the refinery and port complex are way higher than sea level though. Y'all can forget about Parkview, old Ikoyi and the greater part of Victoria Island too; the Chagourys and their tenants will use helicopters to access Atlantic City, they will rename it 'New Lagos'  |
Crime › Re: We Have No Department Like Cyber Crime - EFCC Tells Nigerians by NewDea4: 8:30pm On Jul 05, 2023 |
RingRoadMafia: Even the writing is looking like it was done by one of Tinubu's miscreants. We all know that mostly illiterates supports Tinubu. Which is why he didn't win much in the learned South. Dude is the messiah of illiterate Nigerians, the christ of the Great Unwashed  |
Crime › Re: Lady Discovers Her Boyfriend Used Her Picture & Panties For Fetish Purpose (Pics by NewDea4: 2:54pm On Jul 05, 2023 |
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Education › Re: UNIPORT VC Asks Aides To Take Details Of Student Who Dressed "Indecently" by NewDea4: 1:55pm On Jul 05, 2023 |
And I bet he trades grades for sex too, when the doors are closed
Hypocrites |
Politics › Re: The Ugly Trend And Concequences Of Yoruba Youths Migration by NewDea4: 10:10am On Jul 05, 2023 |
mokwechineme: Its no longer news that southwest is becoming the poverty capital of the nation. If u go beyond the capital and into the villages of Ogun, Ondo, Osun and most especially Kwara and Ekiti, you will shed tears for the inhabitants of these areas. There u see people eating poverty as food. The worst part is there are very low remittances from family members who have managed to travel outside these areas. A typical yoruba youth once he managed to leave these areas finds it difficult connecting back to his root. You have lots and lots of these villagers scavenging for food and there is very little to scavenge because the leadership has very minimal presence outside the state capitals
A young yoruba fron Ogun, Ondo etc will arrive Lagos and automatically becomes a Lagos indigene abandoning his root and people back home.
There should be awareness among Yoruba youths to arresting this very ugly trend because parents after struggling to train their kids will be left abandoned by their children The youth have all migrated to Lagos to do ashawo work and political thuggery (agbero or owoda?)
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Guinean President's Unconventional Security Details: Video Sparks Controversy by NewDea4: 9:22am On Jul 05, 2023 |
The Black man is really truly fúcked |