₦airaland Forum

udatso:
The writer erroneously believes zakat is paid from one's worth. That Dangote is worth $25b doesn't mean his zakat has to be 2.5% of it. Before you try to call out a Muslim, let it be that you have made attempt to reach him privately. Let's not just be among those who forward messages without really checking, scrutinising and verifying the contents of what we are forwarding

bukatyne:
It is her duty to explain before marriage? A lot of people don't have issues with night duty.

Aren't you the one who has an issue with night duty so should have researched the schedule of a doctor before proceeding with the marriage?

A doctor/nurse who would not be required to work night shifts would be scarce. If I remember correctly, a hospital operates for 24hrs and there must be personnel on site to man them.

Now you know, steer clear from a medical professional.

bukatyne:
Isn't it easier to marry a woman whose career doesn't involve night duty than marry one and start giving her hassles?

Are you allergic to soft loving with peace everywhere?

Why do you lots thrive on struggle love like this? Why do you like to marry people not your spec then break their spirit to suit your interests?

'I can't cope with night shift work'; marry a career that doesn't require such. It is a different thing if ten years down the line, night duty enters the convo.

But to start with a career that requires heavy duty night shift when you don’t want it?

I can't comprehend.

armadeo:
Still not getting it I guess. You have all the power to decide but don't make a decision that you don't like from the beginning. If she has a job that requires anything you aren't comfortable with as a man let her go!!. Don't marry her and start trying to change the rules when the match had started.

In the example you have given above I would call you a bad husband if you were aware of the nature of job, went ahead to marry her and start threatening her second wife.

In summary if you're uncomfortable with any aspect of her life that you cannot absolutely tolerate then let her go.

Mindlog:
You don't need a second wife, you need to divorce your doctor wife and then marry one or even more that would be 100% devoted to you with no career distractions.

Mindlog:
Before marrying a doctor or a nurse, didn't you know about night shifts? Why didn't you focus on marrying a lady whose occupation have nothing to do with working at night?

You should also say that asking your medical doctor wife not to follow up with her postgraduate studies dies not make you a bad husband.

Look for girls who just finished secondary school and marry from the lot, she would sit wherever you place her as career issues would less likely be an issue in your marriage.

armadeo:
You should marry a woman who's career does not involve nightshift. If it does and you knowingly marry her and then decide to say no night shift then yes you are a bad husband.

Mindlog:
"Several reasons" for hindering the career growth of a medical doctor, who happens to be his wife?

I am wondering how the doctor wife, haven studied psychiatry and personality disorders in medical school, allowed the man in his psychosis to mess her up!

fashykenny:
I leave in the state and the governor is saying the truth . He has paid everybody and Infact he has also started giving doctors hazard allowance . He is also repaying all roads

Odewaleadesoye:
Assuming the case was done in Nigeria, I am so sure that Ike Ekweremadu and his wife will go scot-free while the boy will be punished or even killed.

I continually ask myself this question:

Can justice really prevail in Nigeria?

Once you have enough money in Nigeria, you can even kill and no one will question you.
Case, you say?
There wouldn't even have been a case in the first place.

Nigeria shall be great again.

Voltage7:
You don't have to be irresponsible in your comment to get noticed.

Look around you, are you happy with the things going on in your own state?

Stop this silly and childish act.

I hope the Seun and the moderators are taking notes of your crassness.

WorldRichest:
Tinubu is the master planner. No trap can hold him

sylve11:
In case you don't know, frustration is one of the things that pushes these drivers to take up the driving job.

Most of these drivers are not mentally stable. If you test them today, they could be all right and in the next minutes, some knots are off their thread.

If you think I am telling you lies, then take a look at their faces and how they talk to their passengers.

Journey well, to the departed souls.

Obi2saveNigeria:
Omotoya is just an envious yoraba man. He can't even hide his frustration that Ebonyi built such gigantic airport while non of the states in his region could build any decent airport.

What Ekiti built and called airport is not even fit to be used as GIG motor park 🤣🤣

Hateful and envious fools.

Opintiwa:
How does this change the fact that Bola Ahmed Tinubu is a cocaine sniffing vagabond

benzion72:
If I know how to make certain income I will be so busy making the money and not have time to teach others.
Most of this training is to reap people off of there hard earn money

Prowriter1:
If you've ever spend money to buy courses online, you'll know they're many scammers involved. Especially in Nigeria.

So I have concluded to never buy these courses again.

1. Affiliate marketing courses
2. Make money online courses
3. Crypto courses

What do you think?

Jones4190:
you will never the oba of Benin visiting anybody.
I love their tradition

Princeton92:
Yes??

Why is OBJ looking like he was dancing? 😅🤣😅🤣

Ooni:
Is the last one an airport?

Quality of leadership in our Southwest region should be seriously questioned.

Johans2023:
what has the Arabs ever contributed for the growth of Nigeria? The US and the UK gave us some money for our elections, they also contribute immensely during the Nigerian civil war, even the fight against Boko Haram get momentum when the super Tukano Jets arrived Nigeria and those jets were sold to us by the US.
Statistically,as it stand the US is the highest foreign investor we have. Now my question is what has the Arabs ever done to our country?
Talking about majority of Nigerians are Muslims, I don't where you get your information but I can argue that with facts available to me.

9jaRealist:
Exactly! Since Islam came to Nigeria without violence and ‘enslavement’…oh wait
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Johans2023:
must it be written in Arabic? What is the connection between Arab and Nigeria? Why not English or our local languages?

OloyeOfLagos:
That's not what the country needs at this time

And I think it's about time that the Arabic inscription on the army logo/symbol is removed

sucreblazing:
Ibo thugs set that place on fire, they want to claim the land to develop it....

Penguin2:
I’ve said it many times before and I will say it again.

Only fools will support Orji Uzor Kalu on the basis of zoning and religion; the 2 things he said didn’t matter during the presidential election. Why should they matter now?

I join those who are arguing that APC should zone everything to Northwest to appreciate their voters and cement their base.

In fact, I suggest that Tinubu should not appoint any Minister from Southeast. All southeastern slot should be used to give 2 ministers each to Northwestern States.

Again, all federal projects in the Southeast should be abandoned. And where possible, all the roads already constructed should be scrapped out.

Lastly, Tinubu should stop Federal allocation to all Southeast states let us survive on our hatred and bitterness. Who cares about constitutional provisions? Did they care when they stole the mandate?

My happiness is that the Igbo politicians who were busy rigging election for Tinubu in Southeast can now see how stupid and foolish they were.

No matter what the Igbo man does in this country, he will never be appreciated. The bar will always be raised high for Igbos. And the best thing is to stop trying to please anyone.

go4value:
Oga Avoid anything Honda for your own good except you have other cars..
My one cent oo

OLUWOLEYINKA:
139 million...... How much is his salary. Obviously he's a failed lawyer he never win any case.

Curious345:
Buhari was a failure , but Tinubu will be twice "worse'r" than him.. just pray ... Pray 🙏