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PoliticsRe: APC Panel Disqualifies Obaseki From APC Primary Election In Edo State by ngwababe(f): 3:52pm On Jun 12, 2020
Ghen ghen�
LiteratureRe: James Adichie Is Dead! Father Of Chimamanda Adichie Dies by ngwababe(f): 8:25am On Jun 12, 2020
[quote author=sassysure post=90562777]My best friends FIL died yesterday.
I wonder what's happening.

Hmm[/quote

Take heart, chai!
LiteratureRe: James Adichie Is Dead! Father Of Chimamanda Adichie Dies by ngwababe(f): 6:51pm On Jun 11, 2020
Men are just going overboard, what is happening?

Tonimas
Adaelu's son
Allen Nwachukwu
Pa James Adichie


We are chasing money, while those that have it are going down beyond. This life obviously, isn't fair.
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PoliticsRe: Allen Nwachukwu Is Dead by ngwababe(f): 11:04am On Jun 11, 2020
Jezzzzzzzzzzzzz
FamilyRe: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by ngwababe(f): 5:25pm On Jun 10, 2020
Nothing keeps the marriage. Na just decision of " I don marry be say I don marry, no going back" dey keep marriage.
Christianity EtcRe: Nigerian Lady Says She Is An Antichrist And A River Goddess by ngwababe(f): 10:27pm On Jun 09, 2020
africandictator:
I never knew the queen of the coast and her girls loved to drink Fanta. Wow this is really bad publicity for the Fanta.
Na there drink be that oo.
PoliticsRe: Edo: APC Enlists University Dons, Lawyers To Screen Obaseki, Ize-Iyamu, Others by ngwababe(f): 10:25pm On Jun 09, 2020
University Dons, lawyers etc, where were they when Buhari contested for presidency? You always hear about them mgbe achoro ịmegide ogbonye.

Mad people everywhere.
HealthRe: NNPC Is Constructing N21bn Hospital In Katsina – GMD by ngwababe(f): 1:29pm On Jun 07, 2020
Buhari, man wey sabi use power.
Goodluck, you fall hand seriously.

See retirement hospital, kudos Mr. President.
FamilyRe: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by ngwababe(f): 1:24pm On Jun 06, 2020
Open another account nne, no collect ATM again.
FamilyRe: Husband Bites His Wife’s Fingers In Port-Harcourt For Refusing Sex by ngwababe(f): 11:48am On Jun 06, 2020
iammolise:
An idle man in the house with his wife is a fvck boy. When a man has nothing to do in the calm of the day and he's eaten and his wife is around... What is next big capital FVCK--- ing grin

My advice to the woman, open that pussy let him fvck, while he's at it draw his ears and be talking sense into him... I bet u it'll sink in like water into ear... And one more thing, don't let him cum in u, tell him when he finds something to do he'll get full pleasure grin

Smart wives knows better to use pussy to talk to their husbands wink
Its easier said when you're not a woman. Sex can never be sweet without money, no matter how you want to pretend about it. A man with conscience will understand, but a lazy man will always see it as an insult.

How can a man be comfortable with sex, when there's no food at home?
FamilyRe: Husband Bites His Wife’s Fingers In Port-Harcourt For Refusing Sex by ngwababe(f): 11:43am On Jun 06, 2020
solmus:
cool


when oloshos are getting paid for cash to buy wig and iphone they can fvck 30 times a day without any problem they can even eat shit and fvck dogs, but let an unfurtunate man marries them and pay their bride price, they simply start manipulating the husband with sex and giving one flimsy excuse or the other,

what is hard in opening your bloody smelly laps and act dead for 10 to 15 minute and let him CUM and be going if you are not wet buy him a lubricant

This is why i advise Men to always have a side chick at all time instead of fustrating your self and turning a finger bitting vampire

.
And you think they just go to side chicks to have sex, without giving them money? Na side chicks dey torture them pass. No money, you don't come close.
RomanceRe: Sharon Godwin: "Ralph Dammy Is Owing Me After We Had Fun In Uganda" by ngwababe(f): 11:36am On Jun 06, 2020
Some people get mind shaaa.


Person go just stand up one day and decides to travel without money? OK. You still went ahead to eat expensive things on top another person head? Biko, ma nwanyị ma nwoke, if you have this kind of bad agwa, change, na ọ dịghị mma.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Enenche Celebrates His Birthday. Shares Food, Clothing Items To Orphanage by ngwababe(f): 5:17pm On Jun 05, 2020
People born in June are real givers. We give and forgive easily.

More souls to your winning Sir.
Happy Birthday Man of God.
PropertiesRe: Sending Money Back Home For A Project: What Has Been Your Experience? by ngwababe(f): 3:51pm On Jun 05, 2020
feldido:
grin

More like this
Very much true grin
BusinessRe: Why I Broke My WEMA Alat ATM Card And Stopped Going Cashless by ngwababe(f): 9:44am On Jun 05, 2020
Shoodboi:
Is their customer care reliable? I am very particular about this?
Its reliable, your money reverses immediately. But their transaction charges is much.
HealthRe: George Floyd Tested Positive For COVID-19 - Autopsy Shows by ngwababe(f): 5:53pm On Jun 04, 2020
Smartypant:
Ok

Autopsy result from the State is different from the one from the family hired medical examiner. Go figure, someone is lying.

I'm sure that this cannot happen in a "SANE COUNTRY ". grin grin grin grin
Sane country indeed grin cheesy grin cheesy
HealthRe: I Am AS And I Am Getting Married To AS by ngwababe(f): 5:43pm On Jun 04, 2020
You two are just wicked. undecided lipsrsealed
CrimeRe: Nigerians Commence #StopRapingWomen Protest Against Sexual Assaults by ngwababe(f): 5:35pm On Jun 01, 2020
LoveJesus87:
The only solution to this rape issue worldwide is INSTANT DEATH BY HANGING. Any other penalty apart from that is a mere Joke.
Bros, what of those that are being lied against? Remember, na the innocent full prison pass the guilty.
PoliticsRe: Hameed Ali Marries Zainab Abdullahi As New Wife (Photos) by ngwababe(f): 11:37pm On May 31, 2020
Why do rich people get old very fast?
RomanceRe: Lady Slaps Her Husband, Pours Soup On Him For Going Out With Side Chic by ngwababe(f): 7:44pm On May 29, 2020
GreenFarmsNG:
God bless you. My brother in law found my sister in the same position in the early years of their relationship in marriage. Thankfully he was patient. Lo and behold it was a client. She invited him to the meeting and he saw the professionalism in business ethics. It's being a decade, till today na she dey manage business decisions. I feel sorry for the society that thrives on negative information but the ones on the victims bandwagon and the others in the cheerleaders wagon
Patience is indeed, a virtue.
RomanceRe: Hijab Doesn't Stop Sexual Harrassment- Muslim Lady Cries Out by ngwababe(f): 5:03pm On May 29, 2020
ojun50:
So na the only tin ur brain fit think of
Do they have any other name? To all perverts, once you speak up, you are olosho.
CrimeRe: Man Stabs Brother To Death Over Soft Drink In Lagos by ngwababe(f): 4:59pm On May 29, 2020
donjazet:
You have a become a menace on this forum. angry
Why are you spamming all the threads seeking attention?

Every single thread on nairaland, you must show face typing rubbish!

It has become difficult to ignore your stupidity, abeg shift.
Menace kwa, how?
RomanceRe: Lady Slaps Her Husband, Pours Soup On Him For Going Out With Side Chic by ngwababe(f): 4:54pm On May 29, 2020
What if there's nothing attached to that outing?
FamilyRe: Seeing Dead Aunty In My Dreams Repeatedly. I Need Any Solutions Please by ngwababe(f): 7:10am On May 28, 2020
charlesELIKIBA:
HELLP NAIRALANDERS

I will be brief with my writeup as much as possible so I can explain my connection with this lady.

My single mom gave me away at a tender age of 5 to her elder brother (financial difficulties i assume), this ''aunty'' happens to be the wife of this my mother's elder brother.

Aready they had 4 children, all boys.

The home was a tough upbringing with strict rules about socialising, we weren't allowed to bring friends home or go to friends places. It was pretty strict and my uncles wife i would say was the mastermind of it all, she was strict and mean maybe because it was a house of 5 boys.

Growing up in my uncles home, I wouldn't say I was treated diffrently because I always got matching outfits with my uncle's children during christmas, gifts during christmas, same portions of food BUT IN ALL I was always scared of doing somethings my cousins would do. I didn't feel free growing up, i felt diffrent from them. In some cases they attended the best schools than I (but I never attended a govt. school or a bad private school).

It's like if their school fees was 1m naira per term, mine would be 150,000 per term.

I lived with them until I was about 16 or 17 and one morning I woke up and they said i was going back to my mother at 15 or 16 like any kid, you would start to develop conscience (sense), maybe breaking some rules and being stubborn just like their own kids. This I assume was why they wanted to send me back to my mother OTHERWISE I CAN THINK OF NOTHING ELSE I DID WRONG OR DIFFRENT.

In all of these years living with them, I saw my mother as a strange person. I had no motherly connection with her. My anty to me, was my real mother. Whenever we went visiting my mother in very rare occasions, it was always awkward.

Well long story short, I found myself back in my mother's arms, to a new environment i knew nothing about and starting to learn to live with a woman called my mother. I was naive, had no choice but to accept realities on ground. Do you know that feeling of living in a pouch house and wake up next morning in a 1 room surrounded by thick bushes. Yes that was the change.

I was enrolled into a school, my uncle was repeatedly forced to send/ pay my schoolfees until i was in ss3 and i called him to inform him about waec enrolment. He told me on the phone ''all the exams i have been writing, how many have i passed'' and that was it. He never sent a dime anymore meanwhile at this point his children, my cousins were already miles ahead of me suddenly in education. When i left the home, the eldest son went to canada to school, the second who is my agemate was already in a private uni in Nigeria and the 3rd who i am senior to with a year is preparing to go to ukraine for school and years later the last born who i spoonfed and chewed meat for attended uni in Ghana.

Well long story short, since my uncle had failed me. My mother said it was time i go to my father. My father was old retired pensioner. My mother took me to him, as expected awkward encounter. I have never known this man, no memory of him. Well he said he would find my enrolment money and he did, he later passed on a year or two later.

I enrolled waec and pased in one sitting, thanks to miracle centres.

PS: i must say i was never an intelligent student. i wasn't even average but i wasn't the poorest and neither of my uncles children were better. We were all poor educationally.

Long story short another uncle sprang up and paid for my university diploma which i later acquiried.


YEARS LATER my uncle and aunty decided to move back to our home town, please note the home my mother stayed in was this my uncles home. It was the boy quarters, the main house was not even in sight as at the time i was returned to my mother. We did series of bush clearing and snakes killing lol. well my uncle returned home town after retirement and setup the main structure ( a 5 bed room duplex) and thats were they lived while i and my mother lived in the BQ.

I WAS very angry with myself that i happened to still live with them AGAIN, i needed to get out of their sight, my condition was bad. i was a mere teacher to some rickety school. In all of this my uncle's wife always ensured she knew what i was upto and she derived satisfaction when she knew i wasn't doing better than her kids who were all abroad. i turned to their errand boy again after years of neglect. i was very angry with myself and needed to save to get out of the house.

Well i did manage to save up and leave the house and i promised myself never to return to that house. i felt neglected, i felt they sent me away because the goodthings were coming and they couldn't bear to see me share in them because to me they were my parents.


YEARS LATER, my aunty was sick with cancer
please note before i left the home, my uncle and aunty always sent me to travel journeys to get them medicines from a monastry. i attended such trips severally and ran other seperate errands but i never dared to drive their car talkless ask for the key. i always washed their car in the mornings, i would never also dare to see myself in the living room of the duplex with the remote in hand. when they moved back to the hometown, that fear in my childhood started again but this time i was mature enough to know i would never m amount to anything in life if i continued this again hence the reason i needed to move out.

So my aunty sickness grew worse, the husband flew her to india and back but the sickness grew worse. in all of this cancer times i never went back to the house to see her. I only heard of her conditions from my siblings (my half siblings, my mother was married to 3 men in diffrent years and she had only me for my father, another for another man and 3 for another man, i was the lastborn of all).

Then my aunty died. The day she died, i saw her in my dreams and she was crying saying ''she forgave me''. A day or two later i went to my sisters store and she told me of my aunty death, i went to my rented apartment and cried profusely. i later summouned courage and maybe sympathy and went to my uncles house and i cried before my uncle and told him to forgive me too for all abandoning them all this while.

NOW ABOUT MY AUNTY SAYING SHE FORGAVE ME IN THE DREAM: i did not do her any wrong neither did i wish death on her. All her life her greatest fear was maybe i would become greater than her children. She loved these comparisms, i was never wicked to her, i never cursed her, i was never rude to her unless i some instances when she sends me errands and i tell her i have other things to do.... Otherwise i never was negative to her instead she is the one nobody likes, by nobody i mean my uncles family. Nobody talks good of her, they say she controls my uncle and also squandered his money but in all of this i never spoke of my experiences living with them and somethings they did wrong that made me feel diffrent, i did not even tell you guys neither have i told my mother ever. i don't see them as anything that would stop my growth in life. i hate to talk about the bad in people.

WELL BACK TO REASON THE TOPIC WAS CREATED, why do i keep repeatedly seeing her in my dreams even after her death and its always on a negative role. its either in the dream she still plays mother, or she is gossip about me in the dream or she is against me in the dream, just think of anything negative in a dream and she will be the mastermind. This is really beginning to worry me. Why is she still attached to me in the dreams?

After she died, her husband, my uncle started his own sickness but has been sick for years now, he is bed ridden. The family has repeatedly asked him if there is anything he and his late wife did in the past to amount such sickness were he is living in pain but refused to die and he would not answer. One time they said, he said ''it was out of ignorance'' and thats all he ever said about anything.

It will also be good to note that of all my 4 cousin brothers and i today, i am the most successful by far.

i just finished my house (a 3bedroom, 2 bedroom, 1 bedrrom bungalow)
january this year i bought my 3rd car.
i travel round the world effortlessly.
YES I DID TURN OUT FAR BETTER THAN MY COUSINS WHO YOU KNOW HAD THE BEST EDUCATION.

I don't want to talk of their conditions, lets concentrate on me.


So this is my much writeup... I had to skip many things so you can bear to read but please be free to ask me questions.

Why do I repeatedly see my aunty in my dreams.... just before this writeup, i had just woken up from another dream she was present in, she was whispering to the ears of a very good friend of mine and then the friends turned to me and was like '' ah cahrles na so you be''?...and i was angry and was like '' how can you believe something someone you just met told you against i your best friends word'' and minutes later dream ended and i woke up.

At this point i am thinking of going spiritual to know why this is happening but this will be a first in my life. There are two popular places i have never being in my life until lately last year... One is a shrine and the other is a police station. Last year was my first time to be in a police station.
I was driving my unregistered car. That was my offence.
Don't go anywhere bro, just keep praying.

Pray and cancel it, it will stop. The shrine of a thing, it's a journey you might not know how to stop if started.

Don't even go to prayer houses, a mere fasting and praying can handle it inside one of your rooms. It's well with you.
CrimeRe: George Floyd: Minnesota Police Officers Fired After Death Of Unarmed Black Man by ngwababe(f): 6:54am On May 28, 2020
SweetCunt97:
A Brotherhood of white supremacists, believing they are the chosen ones and blacks ought to be slaves without any rights in d society... They started up in the southern part of America and spread. The kkk means klu klux klan or so.
OK. Thank you.
CrimeRe: George Floyd: Minnesota Police Officers Fired After Death Of Unarmed Black Man by ngwababe(f): 7:14am On May 27, 2020
SultanOfAbia:
Guy Forget oooooo
Nigeria is still better
Nothing pass freedom, even in a shithole
Blacks in America, any small thing them go lock you up for 10 yrs in Prison..
Any small thing Police Go Pull Trigger
Everybody carry gun, if police no kill you, your fellow black go shoot you..

At The End, America na all Hype!!!
For Those comparing Nigerian police as worse than American police..listen!!!
American police has solid ties with KKK
Nigerian police Las Las na bribe Dem want
American police want you either Dead or in PRISION!!
PRISION is a big business in USA which is privatized and it generate millions
As a black man, either you slaving for them in prison or they arrest and kill you.
Rasicts don't need your bribe or bail money, they want to see you burn in hell..
Nigerian police still better, I can settle my way with bail but USA before you say fim, you are already serving 6 years in a violent prison even if you're CLEARLY innocent. Just Look at the number of black males in prison.. And tell me if American PRISION is not the "Modern Day Slave Cotton Field" that's why the KKK poilce are hunting down blacks just like their europen slave masters..now instead of putting them in cotton field, Prison has replaced that....
More proof here
https://imdiversity.com/diversity-news/florida-town-stunned-news-police-kkk-ties/
What's KKK please?
BusinessRe: Which Business Can I Do With N300k As A School Teacher? by ngwababe(f): 8:37pm On May 22, 2020
OmoDavido:
Save more and start processing your Canada visa.

Jaapaa out of this country by all means.
Better advice.
Go out of this country. Or better still, learn a foreign language like Portugese, Arabic, Chinese etc, and you'll be hot cake.
PoliticsRe: Buhari Signs Bill On Financial Autonomy Of State Legislature, Judiciary by ngwababe(f): 8:22pm On May 22, 2020
Story.

That was what he said about Local Government, these Governors still dey chop our money.
FamilyRe: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by ngwababe(f):
StubbornGENIUS:
OP you tried very much.I can't believe I read this without skipping a word.But a good wife won't allow her hubby keep those rules.
You see this bad habit of us, its spiritual bro. We don't even know when we do it.
HealthRe: Why COVID-19 Patients Play, Dance In Isolation Centres — NCDC Reveals by ngwababe(f): 1:12pm On May 22, 2020
"Once America gbakere, within a week, Nigeria ga agbake" - my humble prediction. cheesy

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