₦airaland Forum

patorial:
You actually think it could be a female behind that moniker?

That means u are new here.

She has always been a misandrist and a terrible one at that.

Marry from ur tribe...e get why.

This one was lost since 1983.

The reason why many Nigerians are poor is because they don't read books and they also do not understand the working of money.

Forget what u read in the University,focus on investments books and many other ones alike.

They dont know the difference between hardwork and hard laboured work also known as "suffer man work"

They also do not know that most times that the 80/20 rule is mandatory in every walks of life.

The above principle is key to making it any financial related ventures.

I can't mention the name of the church so as to avoid being sued for defamation.

The church was formally at Rochas uncompleted plaza around Central area before he moved to his permanent site at Apo.

The man is a criminal pastor...there is absolutely nothing good about him. In fact,he preaches more about tithe than salvation,tithe than offerings.

He is a certified pulpit bandit.

He is from Jos Plateau state.

namiji2598:
So recently I moved in to abuja, and have been visiting this prophetic church for about 2 months

Our prophet performs miracle which seems to be true, but i never saw him heal a crippled man, but he performs wonders and have different branches and does alot of prophecies


They hardly teach abt salvation, as in for people to leave their evil ways and repent from evil doings

They talk much abt seeds, like 3 times every program, pastor must ask people to coms out and saw a seed stylishly.

Sometimes he uses his sweat on handkerchiefs and ask members to come out, he rubs it on u and you drop a seed, and many other examples

Female members dresses anyhow like a club, he once says u should dress sexy, even workers does tattoos, tint hair, men pierce ear, chains, nose chains, and many other drezz which i thinks shouldn't be in a church but to them is normal

So please does Christianity actually permit all these, are all these things fake? If all these aren't real, why do they keep getting members and each there aee people in that place for decades

I need ur view and experience

Eyinju112:
This thread has nothing to do with rape, stop being bitter towards men. It's not healthy baby girl.

That girl is a product of one parent.

Marrying her would be very dangerous to any known man.

She is simply a disgrace to womanhood for even being identified as a feminist.

Even Egypt a Muslim country...

It will cost u close a million naira to do such.

Reason is;most trucks use diesel and the cost of diesel no be here.

Why not sell some of them and carry others ones gradually.

It is just for ur own good.

Particularly those who play tribal politics.

visaclick:
Who building mater Help my friend go for cosmetics. How many people are building houses these days abi emilokan no reach yourself ?

I dey laugh u.

U think because u can't build a house,therefore no one is building.

Shallow thoughts.

Ireportlive:
Most populated is between Yoruba, Ibo and Arewa

However Arewa is Hausa, Fulani, Tiv, Gwari, KANURI

Ibos are roughly 40 million spanning NC , SE , SS

Yoruba are over 50 million spanning Nigeria , Togo, Benin , Brazil and Jamaica

They are talking about Nigeria this one dey talk outside the box.

U get sense at all?

It is very pitiful to carry ur insensitivity to a new year.

Pray for sense man.

Go for anything u want pls...but don't come back to regret it pls.

There is nothing spiritual about ur problem...but Habits.

I mean bad habit is what is killing u.

Namaster:
Forget marriage. Marriage is NEVER late for men.

If you have the money, LEAVE Nigeria. Don't even think twice.

There's no reason to stay in Nigeria unless you are part of the cabals.

Marriage is not late for men .

Says who?

Pls,stop saying this.

Let me assume u are consoling yourself.

Talldarkguy2024:
I got married 3 year ago.
I have been treating low sperm count without positive result .
The morphology, active sperm and speed is very good but the count is terrible.(3 million )
We have once attempted ivf, sadly my wife could not go through the process because her Vg is too small.
The pain was too much and the doctor suggested surrogacy.
my wife is really down.
I do not have fund for surrogacy at the moment.
My wife is now having heart ache/pain and always lost in taught due to this issue.
I am completely black out and confused.
Adoption is not working, I am still on awaiting list.
Is there any organisation that give fund for surrogacy.
I will pay back every penny spent.
I try to act like a man and to pretend that all is well.
But this is beginning to affect me .
I married as a Virgin and married my wife a Virgin.
It really hurt.
We have a perfect home but this issue is making our heart shattered.
We have prayed and fasted but no result.
A Confuse family is in need of help .

Mod, please push to front page...

I don't know what to say.

But I will like to be very blunt here.

Your wife's VG is small or too tight I need to be clear on this first.

Because that isn't a justification for not going through IVF. My wife's sister went through tear when she delivered her son last time,infact,her Vg was torn to allow the baby to come out and yet ur wife's own only pains her.

My advice is this:

Pregnancy is not a child's play...it is a journey of severe pains and angusih especially at delivery time. U guys need to rethink the IVF pls.

Victim of circumstances.

U copied ur friends and fail to also copy their secrets.

Now,u have married a woman bandit...see ur life.

Happy new year my brothers and sisters. This message is strictly for our men especially the married amongst us.

Going by the economic situation in the country,I wish to say here,that many families are going through hell on earth here in Nigeria and because of that,I want to let u know that giving birth to many children would cripple u and further diminish the happiness u may have had earlier.

I have personally witnessed where some women beg for food after delivery from other women who had babies like them,this is because things aren't what it used to be and yet,they have a new born even extreme poverty. But why?

Further more,when u hear ur wife saying harder,harder-pls use ur head not to pour inside irresponsibly,it will erode ur happiness and joy,it will devastate ur economic life especially if u don't have enough to cater for ur family,giving birth to unprepared child can drain ur time,happiness and capacity.

I was at Maitama hospital in the month of November 2023...and I saw first hand how bad the situation of this country has badly deteriorated such that able- bodied men could not afford hospital bills,baby wares and stuffs like that. It may also interest u to know that,cost of medicines have equally gone so high that many families may actually not be able to afford it too.

Lastly,let us all live a life we can afford and let us quit competing with friends,colleague,neighbours and brothers. In fact, there is a saying in igbo land that"we don't boast with children because no one knows what tomorrow would be" based on this,I can vividly say even if u give birth to 20children it's not a guarantee that they will become successful.

Therefore,let us live according to our incomes and not over stretch ourselves and further embarrassed our family members.

Thanks

UnfairLife7:
interesting


It's not easy coming from a poor family. I did all that while growing, i hawked all sorts of things, but nothing has come out of it. still living from hand to mouth.

It is well

One of the major things that broke that jinx was me,moving away from Lagos state and relocating to another state.
It was the best thing that ever happened to me.

Nigerian pastors.

Most of them are ordained thieves.

TheOldGods:
Who lives in abj?

I live in Abuja...

TheOldGods:
Finally, I've decided to do my Nysc. Hurray!!. I've been scheduled to camp at Nysc camp at kubwa and I plan to relocate and stay there hopefully for a while.

I base in Enugu, independence layout which the heart of Enugu, I also need a place that is in the heart of Abuja but with constant or at least 20hrs of electricity. But not too expensive too

Before you say I may no afford rent, I can, I don't want to go into details but, I can do 2.5m for 1bedroom depending on how clean or 2bedroom apartment for a year.

You can check my profile, I'm into tech and already work with a company in South Carolina.

Some people has said Gwarimpa, but do they have electricity?

Abeg help a corper

Move to kubwa arab road.

Enjoy constant light...

haphizz57:
Hi nairalanders, pls i need ur sincere advice on this. Should i build my first house in my Home Town or in the City. I have land in the both side. Which one should i start first. Pls be mature no insult

If u are an igbo man...pls build first in ur village.

That is very important.

I started building my house in Abuja...I had to stop and finish my house in the village.(cos anything can happen).

There is no economic thinking that can defy this advice I am giving u now...it is strictly for we igbos.

Life is like a seed when we water it very well.

Just like the story goes...I have personally sold soap and dried fish in Lagos state,in fact things were very bad for my parents in those days and I could also remember when my father was buoyant and financially capable. I sold fish at cele market called Odi eron and also sold dried fish around isolo area before God helped my parents to see me through my University education.

Today,I have ended their sufferings and subsequently brighten their face with the little I could offer and they are more than glad to move to into a new home for their retirements.

Finally,I want to urge u out there that is suffering today,that with determination and perseverance u can make it and turn the story of ur family around for the better. Just have that faith and see things turn around for good.

Good luck and make it a duty to make it and do not allow any distraction.

I really don't know what to say about America but sincerely speaking, Trump may defeat his Democratic rival.

Davidnilla:
For the second time in a roll, my blood pressure is 130/90

My common problems now are palpitations and arrythymia, when I lay down to sleep, I can feel my heart beating all over my body.

My heart beats faster when I stand up, even without doing anything.

Listen here, when this started newly, there's a medicine doctor gave me, when I took it first, it felt like everything is normal (it's medicine used to treat hypertension),

1 month later, Omo, seems like the medicine doesn't work anymore.

At times if I don't take it for 1 week, and take it again, it works perfectly that day I resume taking it, from next day, it goes back to not being effective.

What could be the problem? Medicine not working abi condition got worse to be controlled

Note - I'm seeing a doctor already, I just wanna hear from experienced fellas here

When I had this problem in 2021,my doctor gave me sleeping pill for one week and it disappeared till date.

Mine was 140/98. U might actually need good sleep like mine.

coputa:
How much did one invest and not savings.

Imagine if you have #100,000 in your account in January this year,by now the value would have dropped to #30,000.

Yes,there is devaluation of naira but not to this level now.

CapitalBank:
I know things are expensive due to economic trajectory of the country.

Can 25M build a contemporary 4 bedroom bungalow in today's economy in Nigeria with standard finishing?

It will,with little additional expenditures.

nairalandankrah:
It's been almost 24 hours since more than 113 people were brutally murdered in Plateau state by an armed militia with an ethnic cleansing agenda. Not a word from the President of the country.

The images are gory. And yet. The president of our country ignores.

Does he look like a president?

That is why I love President Jonathan,Obj and many alike.

U see Buhari and this one...they have nobody at heart.

Lamanii22:
How did you make the 31 million?

I buy and resell lands,lend money with my cooperative.

baba4thegehs:
Wow! That is awesome! Where did you secure the land at?

My village,Abuja.