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UnfairLife7:
I am a Yoruba and i will be sincere with my response

An average Yoruba lady got pregnant out of wedlock before marriage. An average Yoruba men do not pay their wives bride price and other maital rite. Most Yoruba married men do not pay their wives bride price Tell me how would those calibre of people value that union called marriage? They knew they'd definitely get another Yoruba lady cheaply and impregnate her. In Yoruba, once you impregnate their daughter, they automatically tag the man as "husband " they'd tell their daughter to bring her husband who got her pregnant

Yoruba men sleep with these girls recklessly, got them pregnant and move on. Only few do consider marrying her after pregnancy.

If you check very well there are more single mothers amongst the Yoruba girls than other tribes. I sincerely blame Yoruba men for these menace.

Igbos marriage aren't perfect but they are very much committed in making it work. Their men are very much responsible. They know it's wrong to get their women pregnant before marriage unlike Yoruba men.


If you're looking for cheap or giveaway wife as a guy, don't go too far, Yoruba girls tick that box

WhiteNRed:
Please, I want to ask a question.

Please, why is the issue of "Divorce" normal like a everyday story among the Yorubas?

Does the Yorubas not believe in commitment in marital affaires?

Just so curious over this sub-regional eternally accepted wrong among the Yorubas.

felong:
Flogging a human being is wrong. What if the child dies.

IconicR:
What a sad story.
Most times you just have to forgive these big heads.
😭 RIP to him

pandoragirigory:
Peter girigory Obi, the hypocrite didn't attend

immortalcrown:
Igbo people undeniably are good to people from other tribes.


Na who you wan use grammar confuse? Make we see the houses where dem dey stay. In the whole Nigeria, only rich or well-connected people can boast of having a home a way from home during NYSC. The rest stay in deplorable houses.

fineboynl:
maybe cheaper in the north but how you sure it’s this size?

Acidosis:
Possible. Abuja got yam in excess, and the city is closer to Benue.

AdeoyeAdefemi:
Good Morning All

I got my dream job in a financial institution, I will be resuming on Monday.

From your experience, kindly share the things I must and must not do in a professional setting.

NB: This is my first professional job hence the reason for the question.

I and my Fiance have known each other for three years now...so we decided to talk about us i asked him deep questions about himself that was when he told me that he once got a lady pregnant and she refused to abort the child so decide to have the baby. He said the child is with his mom in his village but promise it wont affect us or our marriage if we finally settle down and that i will be the one to decide if the child should stay with us or not. I asked him why he hid the secret from me since and he said he was scared of losing me and felt this is the right time to tell me... i felt bad and also had the feeling he is keeping other secret from me he assured me that he has no other secret.

I have never in my life imagine getting married to someone who already have a child, a Divorcee or a Second wife though i know this case is different but i have always wanted to start afresh with my man. I know we all make mistakes at one point in our lives......

Nairalanders please advise me thanks.

I decided to post this topic on this section because i am very sure of getting matured response.

MTNnews:
So that is what you igbos are now celebrating not the completion ?!

fineboynl:
If any family is compelling you to spend the money you do not have unnecessary for a marriage ceremony. And they tell you marriage is just for once just borrow to spend it once and for all do not obliged because it's a scam.

There is nothing like once and for all in any marriage, and for a family who wanted the ceremony as they so desired yet not making the provision from their pocket but compelling you to do so that's it's just once and for all.

I can assure you that It won't be long before you start noticing it's nothing but a scam. Marriage is a continues spending with everything attached to it and if you are not prepared it means you are not ready yet.

You will soon start shouldering that family responsibilities when your wife putting pressure on you to help her family here and there..

There are some family that when they heard about marriage thry believe you have arrived. After all na who get money de do marriage. And the bigger you make that ceremony look the more the expectations and attention you will end up drawing to yourself.

Puss360:
If they protest then they have a good cause...
Coz it's ethically wrong for someone who isn't an Indigene of Abuja or someone who isn't from any of the state that was cutout to make Abuja...

Minister of FCT is almost like governor of the state..

So now which reason do the president wants to give to justify the appointment of a southerner to head FCT?

Little gestures we make that might seem harmless can throw a full society into chaos....

The earlier we begin to recognise legitimate tribes in our society, the better for us....

We can't kill or wipe out an entire tribe , no matter how small, but we can accept a representative from them to make them feel included and among....

That's what democracy talks about

Puss360:
Loan is not bad... But our economy is very very unstable...
You might budget for this, only to receive loan, and next thing price goes up in the market...
Secondly, our interest rate is high... Doesn't favour people... Loan is meant to assist, but here on the long run, loan is a burden...
Thirdly, the means of collection is so strict that if you don't have strong mind, you might go into depression...
Value the little you have ..
If someone dash you 1k it's better than 10k loan...
Use what you have , capitalize on that, with time it will grow...
People thinks loan is free money... Until e finish, e go clear say na person money you chop...

Rest of mind is not bought with money...

Puss360:
Don't collect loan ...
Rent your normal 120 k....
Do the plumbing for water.... Down...
Charge your 120k...
Once they pay, you use it to buy tank and connect water.....
Next rent make it to be 150 max... Then you explain that "Because of the water running that's why the increment"...
In the event they refuse, then they pack out and you give the incoming tenant 180k...

Don't borrow loan for building or house renovation....

franchasofficia:
Take Lagos away, Southwest is just a waste land, no wonder all Yorubas from Ondo, Oyo, Ogun, Osun, Ekiti all claim to be Lagosians