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I guess you'd prefer ageneral response.

First you need to decide the kind of children (social level) to cater to and the objective (entertainment, religious, skill training etc). This will go a long way to help in the choice of location and facility.

Secondly, you need to decide if it's going to be sponsored, subsidised or paid. This will help you determine staff and input.

Finally, you need to decide duration and daily schedule/activity. Even if it's religious you should infuse some level of entertainment.

In conclusion; food/snacks, first aid, etc is essential. With a great idea, you could collaborate with those who have the money so that the children look forward to next summer.

I wish you the very best.

Enle o

If you look into her eyes and you fall in love afresh then you are still in love or obviously infatuated. It's your call.

baa wa

In another vein. terminating another man's pregnancy makes you as guilty as she is and in another vein could the pregnancy be yours?

Haven't you forgiven her? Then move on. Looking back is like repealing a verdict. Move on with the long rope you have given her. She owes you one but don't continue as if she must be eternally indebted to you. You probably weren't a virgin when you met her, getting pregnant doesn't take an extra effort just the same in and out. I really do't want to ask how she returned to her backdrop; the fact remains that after all was said and done you said I forgive you and I'm willing to continue with you.

Omoge, so wa

E ki le o. Angeli Oru rin losan, ire ni o

Cammax7,
Speak to Seun via his email. Refer him to this interaction so he'll know I asked you to get it from him. Before you mail me, ensure you have a focused idea of what you want and plan to name your price. It won't be free but I'll go with what you can afford especially if you are as young as your profile states. Also be prepared to answer some questions; if I see you don't have what it takes to pull it through; I'll suggest other ideas. Finally; I will only respond to your querries via the email address, you won't have a moral right to make the proposal or discussion a Nairaland issue. If you choose to use the Nairaland medium, don't ask for my email address, go ahead and state what you want and I'll give a general response free of charge via Nairaland.

All the best.

Ek'ile o. Alale ile yi a gbe wa o.

Ikomi, bo ba ti m'owo re lowo o di dandan ki onidodo ko f'eta si

Atunida ara galatia. Emi o pe ki o ma fi ede fo sugbon ni ile abinibi wa, akii p'ofo loju agablagba. Bi o ba ma so Yoruba ki o so Yoruba, amulumala tabi ede alatika ko fi han pe omoluabi ni iwo se.

Listen to me, if sex is the only reason why you are complaining about distance note that even if she's in Lagos she may say no to sex or may not see you frequently. If she abandons school to come and sit with you, can you cope?

I really don't know how to help break what I didn't help start but if you are looking for solution, first you have to stop seeing the phone bill as stressful afterall if she is within reach you will take her out, visit her and buy things for her every now and then which I'm sure you aren't doing now.

Make the phone calls meaningful; talk about important things that can move the relationship forward. Try writing letters to which she can respond; that way you can always look forward to reading from her. Always have stories from your daily life to share with her. Try not to schedule calls; calling her 5pm-5.30pm daily does not necessarily show you care. Verbalise things (I know men are visual) but you can derive similar satistaction from leading her to talk about what you would have loved to see.

Don't forget that except she intends to live all her life in her school location it's patience with a time frame. All the best.

T'Olu ni o, omo iya. Bawo ni?

E ma fi owo so ede abinibi yin. Ewo ni ti 'kazo', 'yahoozee', 'ketro', se Yoruba na ni yen abi isokuso. Bi oba ma fo ede omo ita abi ede egbe se gbe wa pe awon oni ti e wa si dari oro si odo won. Oruko apeje re si jo t'omoluwabi o,

Let's talk for the next one. I could put up a proposal or outline for you.

Diligence. Neat and relaxing Environment. Regular Power. Clean Convenience (for clients only). Tutoring. Closed Door Policy on Swindlers,

If there's a waiting room, you may consider selling snacks and running a phone service by the side

I'm touched by your act of love Tasiana. I'm sure God has brought another deserving man your way.

Si Ogboju Babalawo Richylaw,

Eyi wun mi o wun o ni o je ki omo iya ma jeun ninu awo kan na. Wiwo yara ti nsoni di orobo kii se oro so b'oju mu abi ko b'oju mu. Bi oko eni o ba ye wo iyewu awon tii se orobo, o kuku leto ki iyawo re ya di orobo, bi o ti le je pe oju re ko ni kuro n'ita, a dinku. Sugbon, ki awon t on pile di orobo mo wipe ati dekun si sanra ise ni o. Nigba to ba de di wipe oko nse sun-fun-mi sun-fun-mi l'ori ibusun ohun to di ola wa di iyonu bayi o.

Imoran t'emi ni wipe ki awon obinrin ti won f'owo sii kiiyesara ki ola won ma baa di iyonu.

Bawo de lo se je wipe a ko ni iru yara bee fun okunrin; dajudaju owon okunrin ti won gbe oru ti o wuwo ju won lo ni lo iru yara bayi.

Nipa oro ajo so wa. Mo si ngbiyanju lati ri pe mo de agbegbe yin kin to pada s'ile sugbon, bi mi o ba le wa pelu aburo mi, ma ran si yin ti o ba nbo. O ni ise ayewo kan ti mo ma fe ki e ba ni se. Ti o ba ti to asiko na, ma ran Oludari Ilu-owo ki o ba ni gba agoo yin kin le pe yin.

E kii le yi o, edumare a s'oro wa n'ire. Ase.

Ee ti mo pe oruko ni ro'ni. Asunu elepa kano ni obowunmi. Aso ni l'enu omo iran kiran. Palapala ni eleyi o. Bi isekuse ati iwokuwo ba ti di moliki mo e l'ara se o wa l'eto pe ko pon dandan e fun aradugbo.

Bi e ko ba yo awon wonyi lawujo o wa to asiko fun awa kan lati bu iyepe ori okun yi dani.

Unfortunately a number of people can't comprehend why one should go on vacation; it is classified as waste but I take a cue from Jesus who chose to rest a while.

Part of my agenda while on vacation is spiritual and physical renewal; spending quality time with God. I also use it as an opportinity to hang out with friends I haven't seen in a long while. Really sleeping (not with one eye open) and relaxing my mind is a big part of the agenda. Shopping is something I leave till the very last and often it is to get a souvenir or to give myself a treat. After all the life that does the labour deserves a treat.

Aliko has his lessons in humility mixed up. What is the essence of being the richest man whether in Nigeria or Africa if hundreds die everyday from want of a life line which may be as cheap as a plate of food.

I really wouldn't spend my time discussing his level of wealth. If you know the impact he has made in his immediate society let's discuss that; his position on the money ladder aint worth my time.

My candid opinion. You really can't love both guys on the same level. It's possible one has more money while the other has more brains. Or may be it's a case of the not-so-well-to-do one being caring and the well to do one being flashy.

You alone can sort out your feelings unless you are interested in bigamy. If sincerely you find it difficult to choose, go ahead and pray about them while you remain a good friend to each of them. While you wait you can get busy with moving up on the ladder of life; there'd always be a pool to choose from.

Angeli Oru rin l'osan, ire ni o.

Kin to dahun si oro ti Iyalaje gbe ka'le, ma fe ki awon ti won se iwuye. Nko mo pe oun rabata bayi ni o. Bi o ba si je pe e fi iwe ran 'mo si mi nko ba y'oju nitori mo wa nitosi bayi. O tie se se kin fe se kan de agbegbe Baale Richylaw. Bata a pe l'ese o, irukere a d'abere. E ku aseye.

Iyalaje, beni, aye apala ti nbe ni ilu oba. Ni oke okun ni mo ti gbo wipe awan omidan bii marun pe ile ounje araba Mcdonalds le'jo. Nje ki ni won ni won se? Won wipe won fi iran arekereke tan awon lati ra ounje to nmu ni sanra. Gege bi aforowanilenuwo, mo wa beere wipe nje nigba ti e ri pe e'nsanra, e se dawo rira ounje na duro. Para ti won ma dahun, won wipe awon gbiyanju lati je ounje ti awon lepa nje sugbon ko ni adidun to eyi ti n mu ni sanra. Ah! ni mo se.

Emi o lero wipe o dara ki enikeni fi ailekora eni nijanu ti e fi ni elomiram l'ara. Bi eniyan ba sanra asan ju, o leto ko sanwo eni meji tabi ko wo oko ti aye ara to san ti ma gba lai ni enikeni l'ara. Abi ki le ni wo wi? Nigbati iya nla tabi baba orobo ba wo oko, to san owo enikan sugban gba aye eni meta, se kondo ni ko f'aragba adanu?

Pkrix,

What is 'after much much'? Marriage is serious business and I assure you that her (or his) answer 'after much much' will be dependent on the moment and coated with 'much much'.

At 22, get your lazy behind working and get your bones strengthened to carry responsibilities like real men do.

However you say it, be sincere and willing to pull through even when the 'much much' level drops.

Unfortunately, my dictionary doesn't have this phrase 'irreconcilable differences'. If you haven't exhausted all possible options, I'd suggest you seek for solution instead of seperation. I'd be willing to help in that vein.

When you have an idea that can meet a need and you have the resources (technical, material, human, academic etc) to meet the need.

Passion for the idea will pull you through the grey days.

In response to the person who asked what indomie is; you definetely can find different brands of noodles in different parts of the word but the Nigerian indomie with sachet spice takes the amazing taste buds of Nigerians into consideration. In my travel across lands I've come to realise the spice tastes better.

Indomie can be cooked in a series of ways adding whatever could turn it into a real meal - plantain, beef, fish, veggies etc - instead of simply a snack.

So many things lead to cancer especially frozen and processed foods (what do you expect when hen can be grown to edible size in 3 days!) but the fear of losing markets will not make food processors, etc bring it out in the open. So eat more of fresh/organic food.

Oun amu sokun la ma fi ns'awada yi o. Mi o gbagbo rara. Haba! Omu re abi nkan mi. Omo ti ko ba ko lati mu iru omu bayi le ku iku amuju tabi amu pa l'ori. Ti omu ba ma tobi oye ki ara ba do'gba bi o ba je bakana ati e f'arajo. Eyi le ku o.

E gbo o, se Tomiwa fi Komputa ro omu yi ni abi bo ti ri le se fi han. Mo se bi ka ma fi ihoho han wa ninu ohun ti ofin ilu yi lodi si? T'olomu ba ti ni orun o wo ohun, ewo gaan ni ti gbonran mi d'eleru eyin ara ilu. E ja mi l'ori oro omu yi kaa mu nkan miran so.

Even the monkeys in Idanre now wear suits! Even men no longer look for liabilities. But on a serious note; you simply may be looking in the wrong places. Women who stand by their men abound.